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A good night on the Doors but should I have gave my number?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So was working the Doors last night in North East England got chatting to a gorgeous bbw lady she said it's typical I said why she said my mate always pulls guess cause she is good looking that's why I said honestly I think you are far better looking.

Then she said honestly if I tell you something don't say anything so I said ok and she says she has never been on a date I said I thought you would be fighting them of she said your having a laugh aren't you I reply with a no and say you are beautiful now she comes out four more times and talks to me.

At the end she says she is ugly so I say your not should I have asked for her number or not.

When I said she isn't ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit late to be wondering about that now

If we all say yes you don't have a time machine

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Don't worry about the "what might have been"s, just ask her next time. She knows where to find you.

Good luck

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bit late to be wondering about that now

If we all say yes you don't have a time machine "

Just thought I would ask as she could report me as if on duty it is breech of your position so if I get a women's opinion on it I will ask if I see her again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't worry about the "what might have been"s, just ask her next time. She knows where to find you.

Good luck

Mr ddc"

I move venues often zero hour contract you see lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've answered your own question, if it's a breach of rules while your on duty then stay clear. What do you prefer, having the job, or a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit late to be wondering about that now

If we all say yes you don't have a time machine

Just thought I would ask as she could report me as if on duty it is breech of your position so if I get a women's opinion on it I will ask if I see her again."
even on duty on the door your still human

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If she kept coming out to talk to you she was definitely interested, unless she just wanted a ciggie lol

If you see her again definitely ask for her number. She was probably hoping you would this time.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Working the doors in Stockton!!!

You need every perk you can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You snooze you lose. You lost.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she kept coming out to talk to you she was definitely interested, unless she just wanted a ciggie lol

If you see her again definitely ask for her number. She was probably hoping you would this time."

Cheers she had a ciggie once and asked if I had a light second time when I knew she had one and I don't smoke.

But twice more she came out and was chatting to me once it was raining but honestly I have no idea if someone likes me I can tell if anyone likes someone else but not myself lol.

She could have taken a pic with me gave me her number I would still be asking advice haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit late to be wondering about that now

If we all say yes you don't have a time machine

Just thought I would ask as she could report me as if on duty it is breech of your position so if I get a women's opinion on it I will ask if I see her again."

Really??? When I worked the doors it was never discouraged unless it effected your duty.

Cherry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she kept coming out to talk to you she was definitely interested, unless she just wanted a ciggie lol

If you see her again definitely ask for her number. She was probably hoping you would this time.

Cheers she had a ciggie once and asked if I had a light second time when I knew she had one and I don't smoke.

But twice more she came out and was chatting to me once it was raining but honestly I have no idea if someone likes me I can tell if anyone likes someone else but not myself lol.

She could have taken a pic with me gave me her number I would still be asking advice haha.

"

he who hesitates is lost...

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate


"Don't worry about the "what might have been"s, just ask her next time. She knows where to find you.

Good luck

Mr ddc"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If it's not protocol to ask for a number next time you find yourself in this position say "I'm not allowed to ask for your number but you're at liberty to ask for mine" or "there's nothing to stop you giving it to me without asking" might sound cheesy but if it does the job.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Learning from your mistakes is one of the best ways that we improve our lives.

Decide you'll do it differently next tome and follow through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Learning from your mistakes is one of the best ways that we improve our lives.

Decide you'll do it differently next tome and follow through "

following working protocols is hardly a mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite clear that this young lady was sending signals,,'I never get chatted up,,I must be ugly' (that was your cue to compliment her),,, 'I never had a date',,,,'do you have a light?' if you'd lit her cigarette,I bet she'd have leaned in close and grasped your hand as if to steady the flame.

Maybe sometimes those signals are hard to read but 'nothing ventured nothing gained',,,'faint heart never won fair maiden' and all that.

Next time this happens,be bold,ask for her number,,,what can you possibly lose?

Apparently some think you may be struck off from the Doormans Guild for a breach of professional ethics or some thing but,frankly,,,I doubt that.

I hope you see her again,,young love blossoming in Stockton,gives us all hope.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Working the doors in Stockton!!!

You need every perk you can get "
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I've never been to Stockton in my life..... Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey OP - you need to work on your ability to read signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I worked at a pub there was never any rules on this...and the door men well biggest flirts ever and numbers/ stags after work always happened xx.. but they did there jobs when working x

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