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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

what do people think, in the heat of the moment... is it acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What toys do you have?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What toys do you have?"

In general I was referring to dildos, bullets etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh right. do you swop them?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Oh right. do you swop them?"

I dont.. for reason of hygiene but was wondering what other people thought ...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can help you wash them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 12/07/09 21:52:21]"

do you use toys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what do people think, in the heat of the moment... is it acceptable?"

i think as long as the toys are washed a few times after use them sharing is ok. you can buy special cleaning stuff for toys.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"what do people think, in the heat of the moment... is it acceptable?"

what does the heat of the moment have to do with anything?

If a guy went bareback in the heat of the moment would that be acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what do people think, in the heat of the moment... is it acceptable?

what does the heat of the moment have to do with anything?

If a guy went bareback in the heat of the moment would that be acceptable?

"

never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 12/07/09 21:52:21]

do you use toys?"

Yes

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"what do people think, in the heat of the moment... is it acceptable?

what does the heat of the moment have to do with anything?

If a guy went bareback in the heat of the moment would that be acceptable?

never "

I agree with you there and I would not... but was curious re public opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what do people think, in the heat of the moment... is it acceptable?

what does the heat of the moment have to do with anything?

If a guy went bareback in the heat of the moment would that be acceptable?

sharing toys once cleaned after each person is ok but bareback is a no no

never

I agree with you there and I would not... but was curious re public opinion "

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"

I agree with you there and I would not... but was curious re public opinion "

sorry - did I come across as a bit strident there ?

Toys are great for playing but I stick to disposable ones that come in sealed packets when swinging - as a single guy I dont really see any other choice - I can just imagine the reception I'd get if I pulled a well used vibe from a drawer when I get a visit from a couple or lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few guys saying they have a drawer/bag/wide range of toys...

Yuck, not appealing....

Just my opinion of course

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I do share my toys with 'special' people - of course they are very clean - I wouldn't use them myself if they weren't! With people that are invited into our home to play, they know that they can trust us to be nothing but scrupulously clean - it's great fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms fit over toys too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite happy to share my toys - don't see a problem tbh

So if anyone would like to play with my train set just drop me a line

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm quite happy to share my toys - don't see a problem tbh

So if anyone would like to play with my train set just drop me a line "

I've got a Scalextric

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is clean and dirty like in most things. You wouldn’t be keen on being touched by someone with dirty hands and the same with toys. It also depends how well you know someone. I would share with one of my close friends but only her, the idea of using someone I have just met really doesn’t appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine a fun night with some of you guys lol....

Would be like germ warfare in a clinic... Theres being safe and there is being safe lol...

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

when you play do you lot also get up between playing to quickly wash hands, rince mouth between swapping about too?

If the toys are clean then why not, agree with above, there is safebut it has it's limmits..

We play and always use a condom if full sex, but find it kinda funny tbh, when you think about how much hand or oral play just happened normaly (thats why we get tested regularly)

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"when you play do you lot also get up between playing to quickly wash hands, rince mouth between swapping about too?

If the toys are clean then why not, agree with above, there is safebut it has it's limmits..

We play and always use a condom if full sex, but find it kinda funny tbh, when you think about how much hand or oral play just happened normaly (thats why we get tested regularly)"

Actually that's a really good point, i would be a bit put off if the mouth wash was out every few minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you share toys just rembered a story bout a guy who lent his m8 a blow up doll any way turns out he got a sdi from it so if you do lend toys ect please clean then you should be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey... I promise If I ever have loan of a Blow Up Doll i'll be sure as anything to jet wash the dirty mare thorough now...

You see... you don't get this info on the box do ya..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope but a good and way to clean toys after use put them in dish washer with out dishes obvisusly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope but a good and way to clean toys after use put them in dish washer with out dishes obvisusly "

What about the blow up though...

Will she fit??

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"nope but a good and way to clean toys after use put them in dish washer with out dishes obvisusly

What about the blow up though...

Will she fit??"

Or did he buy her off of Delboy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nope but a good and way to clean toys after use put them in dish washer with out dishes obvisusly

What about the blow up though...

Will she fit??

Or did he buy her off of Delboy? "

I'd still never have thought of Jet washing the bitch till now...

Jeeze... sex is just sooo risky eh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were ok.. were redecorating soon.. so may have a sheep dip put in to reduce risks...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Were ok.. were redecorating soon.. so may have a sheep dip put in to reduce risks... "

Good idea Notts.........or you could become a monk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres a few mad cows about not shure bout sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were ok.. were redecorating soon.. so may have a sheep dip put in to reduce risks...

Good idea Notts.........or you could become a monk "

I am a Monk.... I keep praying anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (scarlet) have quite a lot of toys and I do take them out to play on meets but I always sterilise them before i go and again after they have been used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a mate who found her hubbys blow up doll in the garage and went and threw it in the river

with the cold etc, it started to inflate it and police were chasing it down the river thinking it was a body face down. hahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a mate who found her hubbys blow up doll in the garage and went and threw it in the river

with the cold etc, it started to inflate it and police were chasing it down the river thinking it was a body face down. hahahahahaha "

Sounds like an episode from Fools and Horses

Serious face: If someone says they're sterilised I think I'd want to know what they're idea of sterilising is. It could be from scrubbing them down, and an hour in boiling water, to a five minute spin cycle in the washing machine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always use condoms on a very clean vibe.

well that was when i had one.

i dont possess one now, had this strange feeling that , That would be the first thing anyone found if they had to clean me house out. lmao

if i was in hospital or dead !

so now i aint got one. just in case.

pmsl

sad aint i.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking to reduce risks even further..

We should all have Holistic Sex... Or safer still just pack it all in lol..

I'm not sure we can be that clinical with people we trust guys.. there is risks and there is risks...

If your not sure about who your sharing with to a degree maybe you shouldn't be sharing at all... What about the damp patch?? What about drinking from cups.. the wine glass lol.. Kissing, oral.. giving the lovely foo foo a good ole taste??

Each to their own.. each to their own..

I'm just off to check were still alive lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a slight difference between that, and a toy thats been thrown uncleaned into a draw for three weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh i never throw anything into my drawers thats unclean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind if I have a rummage round in them to check?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is ya hands clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I'm thinking to reduce risks even further..

We should all have Holistic Sex... Or safer still just pack it all in lol..

I'm not sure we can be that clinical with people we trust guys.. there is risks and there is risks...

If your not sure about who your sharing with to a degree maybe you shouldn't be sharing at all... What about the damp patch?? What about drinking from cups.. the wine glass lol.. Kissing, oral.. giving the lovely foo foo a good ole taste??

Each to their own.. each to their own..

I'm just off to check were still alive lol...

"

Ill happily give you both mouth to mouth if you're dead.....ill bring my toy box as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your ready Hun... i'll give myself a quick wipe down with the dishcloth then lol....

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm thinking to reduce risks even further..

We should all have Holistic Sex... Or safer still just pack it all in lol..

I'm not sure we can be that clinical with people we trust guys.. there is risks and there is risks...

If your not sure about who your sharing with to a degree maybe you shouldn't be sharing at all... What about the damp patch?? What about drinking from cups.. the wine glass lol.. Kissing, oral.. giving the lovely foo foo a good ole taste??

Each to their own.. each to their own..

I'm just off to check were still alive lol...

Ill happily give you both mouth to mouth if you're dead.....ill bring my toy box as well"

My goodness, tlaking about placing a topic and ahving it hijacked the moment you are not watching it... omg...lol... Any more helpful hints? What do people think of the cleanliness of sybians... and other fuck machines (for hire...;-)

The next one to hijack this one will be personally put on one of those... by me !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"When your ready Hun... i'll give myself a quick wipe down with the dishcloth then lol.... "

Good im glad you're gonna do that I can't abide a filthy man........eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Blimey... I promise If I ever have loan of a Blow Up Doll i'll be sure as anything to jet wash the dirty mare thorough now...

You see... you don't get this info on the box do ya..

"

Do you "jet wash" all dirty mares...???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey... I promise If I ever have loan of a Blow Up Doll i'll be sure as anything to jet wash the dirty mare thorough now...

You see... you don't get this info on the box do ya..

Do you "jet wash" all dirty mares...???"

Depends on just how dirty (Winks)...

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"i had a mate who found her hubbys blow up doll in the garage and went and threw it in the river

with the cold etc, it started to inflate it and police were chasing it down the river thinking it was a body face down. hahahahahaha

Sounds like an episode from Fools and Horses

Serious face: If someone says they're sterilised I think I'd want to know what they're idea of sterilising is. It could be from scrubbing them down, and an hour in boiling water, to a five minute spin cycle in the washing machine."

I always take my dilo's out for a spin.....;-)

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Blimey... I promise If I ever have loan of a Blow Up Doll i'll be sure as anything to jet wash the dirty mare thorough now...

You see... you don't get this info on the box do ya..

Do you "jet wash" all dirty mares...???

Depends on just how dirty (Winks)... "

Are known to have a massaging effect... the jet washes...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" It could be from scrubbing them down, and an hour in boiling water, to a five minute spin cycle in the washing machine.

I always take my dilo's out for a spin.....;-)"

*puts on his plumbers outfit*

I'm here to sort your washing machine love. Ah, I see t'problem, the big ends jammed.

Bowchickawowwow

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Blimey... I promise If I ever have loan of a Blow Up Doll i'll be sure as anything to jet wash the dirty mare thorough now...

You see... you don't get this info on the box do ya..

Do you "jet wash" all dirty mares...???

Depends on just how dirty (Winks)... "

Ooooooooooooh very dirty - needs to "feel the force" !!!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


" It could be from scrubbing them down, and an hour in boiling water, to a five minute spin cycle in the washing machine.

I always take my dilo's out for a spin.....;-)

*puts on his plumbers outfit*

I'm here to sort your washing machine love. Ah, I see t'problem, the big ends jammed.

Bowchickawowwow "

No "jammin" going on around here without MY say so Sir!!!!!

Kneel......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*kneels and takes his punishment*

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"*kneels and takes his punishment*

"

oooooooooooooooh goodie!!!

Dom Debz can have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ermmmmm whats a sybian ???

or am i just fick ?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"ermmmmm whats a sybian ???

or am i just fick ? "

google it... it is an amazing fuck machine... there are videos etc to illustrate... PD knows all about them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ermmmmm whats a sybian ???

or am i just fick ? "

Google it. Its the one reason I'd give five years of my life up, just to spend an hour as a woman on one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"ermmmmm whats a sybian ???

or am i just fick ? "

Its a machine that you sit astride and it makes you come loads....bloody expensive though

have a look on google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"google it... "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*kneels and takes his punishment*

oooooooooooooooh goodie!!!

Dom Debz can have some fun "

Up a tree, or in a dungeon. Either way I'm happy

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"google it...

Snap "

even better buy one , sit on it and THEN go on google....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhhhhhhhh ill google it then

ta all x

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"google it...

Snap

even better buy one , sit on it and THEN go on google...."

phwar - think last thing on mind once upon one of those is looking at Google!!!!

HmmmmMMMMmmmmmmmmm

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"google it...

Snap

even better buy one , sit on it and THEN go on google....

phwar - think last thing on mind once upon one of those is looking at Google!!!!

HmmmmMMMMmmmmmmmmm"

You have tried them, I take it...

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"google it...

Snap

even better buy one , sit on it and THEN go on google....

phwar - think last thing on mind once upon one of those is looking at Google!!!!

HmmmmMMMMmmmmmmmmm

You have tried them, I take it..."

not tried- seen the videos - and WANNA!!!

BIG TIME!!!

Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhhh

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

hmmmm, now i am thinkng about those again!!!!!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you share toys just rembered a story bout a guy who lent his m8 a blow up doll any way turns out he got a sdi from it so if you do lend toys ect please clean then you should be fine"
thought my blow up doll had got swine flu runny nose etc.but then realised it was full up

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