FabSwingers.com forum: Rejection

By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Okay we've all been rejected by someone. But how have you been rejected (one memorable rejection only)

I was once rejected had a late night meet with a Bulgarian girl. I asked for another meet with her and she said doesn't want to meet up as I was too vanilla LOL. I ended up buying whips and sex toys after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were chatting to a guy once. When we exchanged face pictures he deleted our message and put up a status asking for someone to restore his faith in fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were chatting to a guy once. When we exchanged face pictures he deleted our message and put up a status asking for someone to restore his faith in fab

, I'm dying over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were chatting to a guy once. When we exchanged face pictures he deleted our message and put up a status asking for someone to restore his faith in fab

We have a winner!!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I only meet for a coffee first time and one guy told me he "didn't have time to date", he just wants sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swapped photos with a guy on another site and he actually said "you're looking at bit old"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am yet to get rejected...today.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Because I wasn't fat enough for them. My pics are apparently deceiving on that front, don't see how I'm definitely a fat fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatted for a while to a couple, we'd arranged a social. Friends Invite sent they then said they didn't want to meet as I was wearing pink boxers in one of my pics and they only want to meet straight guys

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"We were chatting to a guy once. When we exchanged face pictures he deleted our message and put up a status asking for someone to restore his faith in fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were chatting to a guy once. When we exchanged face pictures he deleted our message and put up a status asking for someone to restore his faith in fab

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I was told I was too old....I'm 37

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a nice chat on here with a couple who seemed very interested in me. After I sent pictures, I was told I reminded them too much of Harry Hill ffs. Ive been told I look like Gregg Wallace and Ade Edmondson... but Harry Hill? Fml. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a nice chat on here with a couple who seemed very interested in me. After I sent pictures, I was told I reminded them too much of Harry Hill ffs. Ive been told I look like Gregg Wallace and Ade Edmondson... but Harry Hill? Fml. Lol."

Do you also wear shirts with ridiculously large collars?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet for a coffee first time and one guy told me he "didn't have time to date", he just wants sex

There are services for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told by someone his wife thought he was up to no good so couldn't meet me..only to put up a meet request shortly after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was told I was too old....I'm 37

Well, 37 is the new 70! Did you not know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well which do you look like? Is it Gregg Wallace or Harry Hill? Only one way to decide...........:FIGHT!!!!

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I was told by someone his wife thought he was up to no good so couldn't meet me..only to put up a meet request shortly after.

What??!!!

should have gone specsavers. Your eyes are Devine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh the way some on here expect David and Victoria beckham when they look like little and large ??

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By *zbedMan
over a year ago

wakefield

Sometimes I feel rejected before I've even got to the end of reading a profile....

The most annoying ones are searching for women, who are looking for a man of my age within a certain distance range. You see it's a big profile, spend a few minutes reading and looking at it, and then you click the send message button. Then this....."this person has blocked everybody of your sex" ....

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you also wear shirts with ridiculously large collars?"

Nope... but hell, maybe I should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtw every single one of u on this thread is fab X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I feel rejected before I've even got to the end of reading a profile....

Haha "

Yes... that happens a lot. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well which do you look like? Is it Gregg Wallace or Harry Hill? Only one way to decide...........:FIGHT!!!!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I feel rejected before I've even got to the end of reading a profile....

Haha "

Just look at the looking for part first - if it says Not looking for single guys, you can't message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got rejected off a well known swip site today, she actually said

' I think I've made a terrible mistake. Sorry'

Good job i've got a thick skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh that's a pisser ! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being told they weren't attracted to me in any way, in the slightest, when I hadn't made any move on them. Not even looked at their profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told I look too young by a guy who wanted to meet an older woman.

Another said I was the spitting image of his ex who he loathed...he then spent the next week looking at my profile constantly so I guess he didn't hate her that much!

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By *asy247888Man
over a year ago

Kent

Well I was chatting away to a woman on here, all sounded positive, same sexual interests, I sent a face pic and was instantly blocked! Good job I'm not sensitive lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being told they weren't attracted to me in any way, in the slightest, when I hadn't made any move on them. Not even looked at their profile!"

Some strange creatures on here, obviously blind as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got rejected off a well known swip site today, she actually said

' I think I've made a terrible mistake. Sorry'

Good job i've got a thick skin"

Lol well at least you got a match! I went on it yesterday and not a dickie bird yet!

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By *asy247888Man
over a year ago

Kent

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"We were chatting to a guy once. When we exchanged face pictures he deleted our message and put up a status asking for someone to restore his faith in fab

He obviously thought he was playing way out of his league as you are a remarkably attractive couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being told they weren't attracted to me in any way, in the slightest, when I hadn't made any move on them. Not even looked at their profile!

Some strange creatures on here, obviously blind as well

Awww, shucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I was chatting away to a woman on here, all sounded positive, same sexual interests, I sent a face pic and was instantly blocked! Good job I'm not sensitive lol"

Haha, I've had this too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's not unmatched me yet though?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've had my card rejected.

Not today though as I've spent my time reading your highly amusing threads and spent not much money at all!

I have lost my car though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to have to come back and post when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's not unmatched me yet though?"

Lol the wonderful world of Tin...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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But I have had someone jib out on me here. I keep him on my friends list to taunt him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After being called middle of night for a booty call. She puts up flattering verification of sexual gratification.

Arranged too meet that night. Blocks me after an hour. Lol

Still had the night before

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm going to have to come back and post when it happens."

I'm still waiting for our tango and fight Lib

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had my card rejected.

Not today though as I've spent my time reading your highly amusing threads and spent not much money at all!

I have lost my car though

How do you lose your car?

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By *asy247888Man
over a year ago

Kent

"Well I was chatting away to a woman on here, all sounded positive, same sexual interests, I sent a face pic and was instantly blocked! Good job I'm not sensitive lol

Haha, I've had this too!! "

I would love to say it's only happened on that one occasion but unfortunately it's happened a couple of times. I must of hit a few branches on the ugly tree lol

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London

Upon the exchange of face pictures:

"Haha didn't realise you were ginger, not for me sorry."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Upon the exchange of face pictures:

"Haha didn't realise you were ginger, not for me sorry."

Lol i'd have thought the username would be a slight hint to you being ginger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been rejected

, we are what some would call rejectees

. Get it up ya fab

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London

"Upon the exchange of face pictures:

"Haha didn't realise you were ginger, not for me sorry."

Lol i'd have thought the username would be a slight hint to you being ginger.

That's what I thought, too

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've had my card rejected.

Not today though as I've spent my time reading your highly amusing threads and spent not much money at all!

I have lost my car though

How do you lose your car?

Forgot which level I parked on...I've explored 6

Found it now; on level 3 looking lonely and rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had my card rejected.

Not today though as I've spent my time reading your highly amusing threads and spent not much money at all!

I have lost my car though

How do you lose your car?

Forgot which level I parked on...I've explored 6

Found it now; on level 3 looking lonely and rejected.

Haha, good effort

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I got rejected because I didn't log in for a few hours! A meet was arranged and everything. I'm not supposed to have a life outside of here apparently

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Chatting to a "couple".. but we had our suspicions, so asked for a face pic.

They said "you first", so we did, only to have them say, "sorry, not for us".

I sent our usual "Ok, thanks anyway" message, only to get back "Look, fuck off you are fucking ugly, stop pestering us".

Brutal... but "they" got outed as a fake about a month later lol!

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"I was told I was too old....I'm 37

Well, 37 is the new 70! Did you not know

I reckon it must be!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chatting to a "couple".. but we had our suspicions, so asked for a face pic.

They said "you first", so we did, only to have them say, "sorry, not for us".

I sent our usual "Ok, thanks anyway" message, only to get back "Look, fuck off you are fucking ugly, stop pestering us".

Brutal... but "they" got outed as a fake about a month later lol!

That is a bit brutal

Glad they were outed in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well which do you look like? Is it Gregg Wallace or Harry Hill? Only one way to decide...........:FIGHT!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told (by different people) that I am:

too short;

too fat (I was heavier than I am now);

too thin (I was heavier than I am now, too);

their ideal woman but I party too much.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Had a meet, arranged to meet again the following week, got home and went to verify him and he had deleted his profile... I obviously have that effect on people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet for a coffee first time and one guy told me he "didn't have time to date", he just wants sex

Yep, we've had variations on that answer. 'we're here for fun, not tea parties etc'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chatting to a "couple".. but we had our suspicions, so asked for a face pic.

They said "you first", so we did, only to have them say, "sorry, not for us".

I sent our usual "Ok, thanks anyway" message, only to get back "Look, fuck off you are fucking ugly, stop pestering us".

Brutal... but "they" got outed as a fake about a month later lol!

WOW, that's heinous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet for a coffee first time and one guy told me he "didn't have time to date", he just wants sex

Yep, we've had variations on that answer. 'we're here for fun, not tea parties etc' "

Haha, I quite like the thought of a Tea Party!!

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I have been told (by different people) that I am:

too short;

too fat (I was heavier than I am now);

too thin (I was heavier than I am now, too);

their ideal woman but I party too much.

I love your arse. Hope you don't reject me ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been ghosted again on Tind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me laugh the way some on here expect David and Victoria beckham when they look like little and large ??"

why would they want a pair of fugly gits like the Beckhams?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been ghosted again on Tind

Lol at least you're getting a bite! I've not even a match with a fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet for a coffee first time and one guy told me he "didn't have time to date", he just wants sex

Yep, we've had variations on that answer. 'we're here for fun, not tea parties etc'

Haha, I quite like the thought of a Tea Party!!

Yep, we saw on here some people organising a party based on the mad hatters tea party. Brilliant idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been ghosted again on Tind

Lol at least you're getting a bite! I've not even a match with a fake!

It's even worse than here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been chatting over text and phone for ages...went for a date...she walked out cos my head was shaved then :-0...grr after all that elongated chats and pic exchanges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been ghosted again on Tind

Lol at least you're getting a bite! I've not even a match with a fake!

It's even worse than here lol"

Not sure i'd agree. At least i get a bit of chat on Fab. I've had zip on tind....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet for a coffee first time and one guy told me he "didn't have time to date", he just wants sex

Yep, we've had variations on that answer. 'we're here for fun, not tea parties etc'

Haha, I quite like the thought of a Tea Party!!

Yep, we saw on here some people organising a party based on the mad hatters tea party. Brilliant idea. "

I like it!! I'll have to search this out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic sent ,sorry we know you , then call me the wrong name FFS ! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet for a coffee first time and one guy told me he "didn't have time to date", he just wants sex

It's quite sad really some peoples idea of dating

I pity the poor girl he does date if his idea of a date is deciding if he wants to fuck her over a cuppa

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I got rejected because he thought I was going to be too demanding (

) I tried to message him to ask what he meant but he'd already hit the block button (

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

After two meets, one where the guy had fun, the other where we'd been at it for most of an hour, they both declined to meet again as I'm trans. I'm fairly open and put it down to stupidity and their horniness/guilt kicking in.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I pity the poor girl he does date if his idea of a date is deciding if he wants to fuck her over a cuppa

He could always add some cream to her coffee though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After exchanging face pics I had a "you're just too cute for me" reject message. Really, what does that even mean ?!?!

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By *agentaWoman
over a year ago

Bicester

Not happened yet, thankfully. But I always make sure I'm sure before I meet.

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I presume he looked like a model. No?? Didn't think so. I'd luv half of these people's confidence.

As a straight female even I can c ur an attractive woman x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Well I'm not saying it was our fault but there was a nice lady who had MF,ff,mm on her profile wants.

Had a chat exchanged some pics & now she's ff,mm,m,f only NO COUPLES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm not saying it was our fault but there was a nice lady who had MF,ff,mm on her profile wants.

Had a chat exchanged some pics & now she's ff,mm,m,f only NO COUPLES

Lol, that happens a lot.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I pity the poor girl he does date if his idea of a date is deciding if he wants to fuck her over a cuppa

He could always add some cream to her coffee though

Be better off with one of those no spill kids flasks, least he'd still get to drink it after

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

I've had a rejection today. Weirdest haha. Love my pics and inital message. Talking for one day. Then in the morning said were two different people and doesn't think it will work out. I asked why and I thought you was looking NSA sex. Made excuses that she's young immature doesn't take people who like banter seriously. Thinks I'm too old but I'm in her age range. She's 22 and I'm 27 lol. So we end up unfriending each other next day she checks my profile I ask hmm how comes. Tells me to delete her number and I got blocked on fab ha

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Odd and hilarious at the same time. Too bad because she's a hottie

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