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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

It's a no brainier that majority of women go for/fine tall muscular men attractive. But what about us slim tonned men. Let me know if any women like that. Or do you go for stocky men or even a larger gentlemen. Women I want to know what type you seek on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women think we spend too much time in the gym lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like big built guys

Not fat or muscular more power lifter/strong men type build, big but firm

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"I like big built guys

Not fat or muscular more power lifter/strong men type build, big but firm "

I'm the same. Rugby player build. With facial hair

MrsSB

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I like all shapes and sizes however super muscular chaps or really fit ones would just make me feel fatter than I already do.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I don't go for slim men.

Being a bit of a porker I'm afraid I may accidentally break him

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Some women think we spend too much time in the gym lol "

Looks like you do mate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some women think we spend too much time in the gym lol

Looks like you do mate lol"
Ty pal and that is right, it is my 2nd home lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like big built guys

Not fat or muscular more power lifter/strong men type build, big but firm "

Defo my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a no brainier that majority of women go for/fine tall muscular men attractive. But what about us slim tonned men. Let me know if any women like that. Or do you go for stocky men or even a larger gentlemen. Women I want to know what type you seek on fab?"

Most woman dont want men slimmer than themselves . I really dont like it.

I find slim guy hard to ride hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the skinny men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woman- do any of you find slim guys harder to ride ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer slim/athletic guys. I don't usually go for the muscular look or bigger guys -although I have done in the past on occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think us thinner blokes are put into an unnecessary minority ?

Like we have less to offer ?

We eat less food

We use less loo roll

We take up less space

We are more adapted for tight spaces

We don't get worn out as quick

And the chances are we are going to live longer with the risk of heart attacks being halfed ?

I'm wondering if a lot don't infact feel intimidated by us ?

Wow what a head Fuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman- do any of you find slim guys harder to ride ? "

Once they reassure me that there's enough give in the mattress that I'm not going to crush them to death, it seems to be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When blokes put weight on it never goes on his knob!...not fair

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Muscle don't do much for me so a built guy physically "fit" guy is personally pass by, I was the same when I was thinner and attracted those type of guys more frequently. I much prefer a averagely slim/athletic guy always have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman- do any of you find slim guys harder to ride ? "

Seriously I find shagging on top a lot harder with slim guys, I prefer guys who fill the gap between my legs without me having to ride down to low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman- do any of you find slim guys harder to ride ?

Once they reassure me that there's enough give in the mattress that I'm not going to crush them to death, it seems to be ok"

Hahah This made me chuckle. Next time ill ask them to do a risk assessment prior to my visit. Lol x

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Woman- do any of you find slim guys harder to ride ? "

Find it Easier personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When blokes put weight on it never goes on his knob!...not fair "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't go for slim men.

Being a bit of a porker I'm afraid I may accidentally break him "

Break me, Break me, lolz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all types of men. I like a hot face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think us thinner blokes are put into an unnecessary minority ?

Like we have less to offer ?

We eat less food

We use less loo roll

We take up less space

We are more adapted for tight spaces

We don't get worn out as quick

And the chances are we are going to live longer with the risk of heart attacks being halfed ?

I'm wondering if a lot don't infact feel intimidated by us ?

Wow what a head Fuk "

No it's more about attraction for me rather than intimidation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman- do any of you find slim guys harder to ride ?

Seriously I find shagging on top a lot harder with slim guys, I prefer guys who fill the gap between my legs without me having to ride down to low "

Youv literally took the word out of my mouth. If that constant deep squat... but if they fill that gap.. its easy non cramp riding lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman- do any of you find slim guys harder to ride ?

Once they reassure me that there's enough give in the mattress that I'm not going to crush them to death, it seems to be ok"

Memory foam is awesome...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman- do any of you find slim guys harder to ride ?

Once they reassure me that there's enough give in the mattress that I'm not going to crush them to death, it seems to be ok

Memory foam is awesome...lol"

I actually don't really like having sex on foam mattresses - you sink in a bit and it makes it all harder work.

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I like all types of men. I like a hot face. "
interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like skinny but then I don't like body builder or large or ample lol

Gosh I'm fussy lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Slim and toned is fine by me, I like some muscle but stocky or fat is a turnoff for me even though I get a bit porky myself at times lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a person who is able to question there own beliefs is a massive deal breaker for me, I meen in the past there's been more than one woman I have met with even had sex with for them to right out say, my friends wouldn't approve of me dating/seeing you as your to thin, wow thanks for that, I'm glad to see someone that could decide to never speak to you again has such a massive influence in your happiness.

But hey I still want to meet and Fuk you.

It's at these points I say

Adios in my Mexican impression wearing nothing but my batman suit and then fly off into the night

Looking for that Star

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Woman- do any of you find slim guys harder to ride ? "

I worry I'll squish them. Doesn't stop me climbing on though; I figure if they don't want me to they'll tell me.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Also, sturdy chairs, benches and pouffes are ideal. Means you can have your feet on the floor and take some of the load off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a guy who can throw me around and make me feel feminine and petite. Simple as that.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ? "

It is thought and sensitivity. The size of the man underneath me is immaterial; I have no preference when it comes to male sizes. I am weighty so I worry regardless in some positions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ? "

When I'm concerned about squashing someone, it's because I'm thinking about myself as a heavy, fat bastard not the man as feeble or weak. Nothing harsh, shallow or insensitive there at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ?

When I'm concerned about squashing someone, it's because I'm thinking about myself as a heavy, fat bastard not the man as feeble or weak. Nothing harsh, shallow or insensitive there at all. "

You ain't a thin man, are you 110% certain that your choice of words don't come across to a thin bloke as being harsh or shallow ?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I like slim men my husbands slim and i have met lots of other slim men on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ?

When I'm concerned about squashing someone, it's because I'm thinking about myself as a heavy, fat bastard not the man as feeble or weak. Nothing harsh, shallow or insensitive there at all.

You ain't a thin man, are you 110% certain that your choice of words don't come across to a thin bloke as being harsh or shallow ? "

I can only go off what I mean by my words. Other people will interpret them as they wish. If a man interprets them that way, it's because he has an insecurity to begin with.

It's only the same as a man saying they like a petite woman who they can throw around, which I will interpret as "not one of you giant heifers", even if that's not what he means. But that's my problem, not his, and I wouldn't presume to tell someone what they should or shouldn't say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ? "

I just don't fancy slim or skinny guys. Lots of people don't fancy me. It's cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ?

When I'm concerned about squashing someone, it's because I'm thinking about myself as a heavy, fat bastard not the man as feeble or weak. Nothing harsh, shallow or insensitive there at all.

You ain't a thin man, are you 110% certain that your choice of words don't come across to a thin bloke as being harsh or shallow ?

I can only go off what I mean by my words. Other people will interpret them as they wish. If a man interprets them that way, it's because he has an insecurity to begin with.

It's only the same as a man saying they like a petite woman who they can throw around, which I will interpret as "not one of you giant heifers", even if that's not what he means. But that's my problem, not his, and I wouldn't presume to tell someone what they should or shouldn't say. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ?

When I'm concerned about squashing someone, it's because I'm thinking about myself as a heavy, fat bastard not the man as feeble or weak. Nothing harsh, shallow or insensitive there at all.

You ain't a thin man, are you 110% certain that your choice of words don't come across to a thin bloke as being harsh or shallow ?

I can only go off what I mean by my words. Other people will interpret them as they wish. If a man interprets them that way, it's because he has an insecurity to begin with.

It's only the same as a man saying they like a petite woman who they can throw around, which I will interpret as "not one of you giant heifers", even if that's not what he means. But that's my problem, not his, and I wouldn't presume to tell someone what they should or shouldn't say. "

I would not find throwing you around as you put it an issue.

Strength is not determined on size, the same way sexual pleasure is not determined on size either ruby

I have no insecuritys regarding my size and frame, I'm quite strong for a thinner bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ?

When I'm concerned about squashing someone, it's because I'm thinking about myself as a heavy, fat bastard not the man as feeble or weak. Nothing harsh, shallow or insensitive there at all.

You ain't a thin man, are you 110% certain that your choice of words don't come across to a thin bloke as being harsh or shallow ?

I can only go off what I mean by my words. Other people will interpret them as they wish. If a man interprets them that way, it's because he has an insecurity to begin with.

It's only the same as a man saying they like a petite woman who they can throw around, which I will interpret as "not one of you giant heifers", even if that's not what he means. But that's my problem, not his, and I wouldn't presume to tell someone what they should or shouldn't say.

I would not find throwing you around as you put it an issue.

Strength is not determined on size, the same way sexual pleasure is not determined on size either ruby

I have no insecuritys regarding my size and frame, I'm quite strong for a thinner bloke "

I never said strength or sexual pleasure were determined by size. And anyway, I've fancied and met plenty of slim men so you're preaching to the converted. But I weigh upwards of 15 stone, so short of meeting Geoff Capes, no one is going to be throwing me around whether they're thin or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if I'm to be entirely honest with you ruby I have looked at your pics on your profile and you look amazing perfect as far as your body goes

I don't know if my choice of words has came across the way I intended, I guess what I'm trying to maybe say is, don't judge a book by its cover

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" it's because I'm thinking about myself as a heavy, fat bastard "

I'd still take the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average bloke can lift 2 4 stone sacks of potatoes in both hands 2x4=8

8x2=16

16-1=Ruby's weight, at 6ft1 and around 11-12 stone I would in no way find throwing you around a bedroom a problem I could not accomplish

You are hot Ruby

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago


"It's a no brainier that majority of women go for/fine tall muscular men attractive."

Being honest I reckon its a no brainer that all sorts of females go for all sorts of males.

No doubt some people have been programmed by advertising/media to believe they must look a certain way, behave a certain way and consume/spend in a certain way to achieve it. After all whatever the advertising/media tell us is the only look/image the opposite sex goes for isn't it

Persona's that fall foul to any of that can certainly kill natural attractiveness.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It's a no brainier that majority of women go for/fine tall muscular men attractive.

Being honest I reckon its a no brainer that all sorts of females go for all sorts of males."

I like tall, lean, naturally fit men as opposed to overly muscled gym guys

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By *ojos party boyMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I like a guy who can throw me around and make me feel feminine and petite. Simple as that."

Well thats me hitting the gym or the next 6 months....i knew i needed some encouragement! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering, can the size of a mans dick make a women feel petite ?

If so I'm told there is a Mexican guy who has more than just a Swiss roll

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't particularly find slimmer guys less attractive I just tend to be drawn towards the more heavy built ones. Whether that be muscular or a bit of a dad bod

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By *unjamesMan
over a year ago

Banbury


"I like all types of men. I like a hot face. "

This is so true! And completely overlooked in this thread.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"I like a guy who can throw me around and make me feel feminine and petite. Simple as that.

Well thats me hitting the gym or the next 6 months....i knew i needed some encouragement! Lol "

From my experience (and just that not a fact) guys who spend half their life at a gym, dont have much talk/game as it were.

All show and no substance.

Off putting for sure !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again minority's that are unnessesary, to be a dad and have a dad bod you must be inactive physically to the point your a heart attack waiting to happen ?

There are physically active dads out there....... Jesus

Oh shit this Mexican Jesus guy who lives in the bat cave has a lot to answer for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read all this and giggled.

Op I have a question in response to your original question...

If every one on here said they wanted guys built like, lets say the rock. Would you try and change how you look for the sake of fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my pics in my private section I do infact have a 70's Mexican porn tash, I wonder if I might end up nailed to a cross and folk spread bullshit about me for the next 2000 years ?

Just for shits and giggles

And that all fine

Until someone giggles and shits

Hey who watched that movie last night ? No idea what it was called but lasso sneezed and sprayed shit all up laddos bathroom wall ?

Way to extreme haha

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I am laughing my way around the shops to this.

Personally- if they can make me laugh, turn me on and pin me up against a wall...they'll do nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read all this and giggled.

Op I have a question in response to your original question...

If every one on here said they wanted guys built like, lets say the rock. Would you try and change how you look for the sake of fab? "

Not the op but..... Not a chance

I love the person I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've yet to be squashed by a women i suppose there is still time

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Also..i know guys who are stacking and not packing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read all this and giggled.

Op I have a question in response to your original question...

If every one on here said they wanted guys built like, lets say the rock. Would you try and change how you look for the sake of fab?

Not the op but..... Not a chance

I love the person I am

"

Good answer!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Again minority's that are unnessesary, to be a dad and have a dad bod you must be inactive physically to the point your a heart attack waiting to happen ?

There are physically active dads out there....... Jesus

Oh shit this Mexican Jesus guy who lives in the bat cave has a lot to answer for "

Visceral fat (the unviable fat around your organs) puts your at risk of an heart attack subcutaneous fat (the physical fat you can see aka the dad bid) doesn't. You can have subcutaneous fat and healthy visceral fat levels so be healthy, in the same way you can have little subcutaneous fat but lots of visceral fat so be slim yet at an higher risk of heart attack, slim doesn't always equal healthy. It is a common misconception that looking fat automatically equals heart attack.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I've yet to be squashed by a women i suppose there is still time"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Again minority's that are unnessesary, to be a dad and have a dad bod you must be inactive physically to the point your a heart attack waiting to happen ?

There are physically active dads out there....... Jesus

Oh shit this Mexican Jesus guy who lives in the bat cave has a lot to answer for

Visceral fat (the unviable fat around your organs) puts your at risk of an heart attack subcutaneous fat (the physical fat you can see aka the dad bid) doesn't. You can have subcutaneous fat and healthy visceral fat levels so be healthy, in the same way you can have little subcutaneous fat but lots of visceral fat so be slim yet at an higher risk of heart attack, slim doesn't always equal healthy. It is a common misconception that looking fat automatically equals heart attack. "

*invisible boy unviable

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I've yet to be squashed by a women i suppose there is still time"

Be careful what you wish for. If you'd ever seen someone my size getting out of a beanbag imagine you're in place of said beanbag. Not pretty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to be squashed by a women i suppose there is still time"

Goes to subscribe to the local birmingham paper and awaits the head line "local lad found squished in a hotel bed"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to be squashed by a women i suppose there is still time

Be careful what you wish for. If you'd ever seen someone my size getting out of a beanbag imagine you're in place of said beanbag. Not pretty."

Someone of your size? you look great to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again minority's that are unnessesary, to be a dad and have a dad bod you must be inactive physically to the point your a heart attack waiting to happen ?

There are physically active dads out there....... Jesus

Oh shit this Mexican Jesus guy who lives in the bat cave has a lot to answer for

Visceral fat (the unviable fat around your organs) puts your at risk of an heart attack subcutaneous fat (the physical fat you can see aka the dad bid) doesn't. You can have subcutaneous fat and healthy visceral fat levels so be healthy, in the same way you can have little subcutaneous fat but lots of visceral fat so be slim yet at an higher risk of heart attack, slim doesn't always equal healthy. It is a common misconception that looking fat automatically equals heart attack. "

Being overweight be it fat of what ever description or muscle increases a persons risk of heart attack ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to be squashed by a women i suppose there is still time

Goes to subscribe to the local birmingham paper and awaits the head line "local lad found squished in a hotel bed" "

It's called the Birmingham mail, can you believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to be squashed by a women i suppose there is still time

Goes to subscribe to the local birmingham paper and awaits the head line "local lad found squished in a hotel bed"

It's called the Birmingham mail, can you believe it"

They're imaginative.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"It's a no brainier that majority of women go for/fine tall muscular men attractive... "

I'm shocked.

I've staked my whole approach to Fab on the basis that women are more likely to go for a man with a well-made lemon drizzle cake.

Shucks

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to be squashed by a women i suppose there is still time

Goes to subscribe to the local birmingham paper and awaits the head line "local lad found squished in a hotel bed"

It's called the Birmingham mail, can you believe it

They're imaginative. "

You've got to give it to them

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By *ot so innocent nowCouple
over a year ago

Chorley


"I think us thinner blokes are put into an unnecessary minority ?

Like we have less to offer ?

We eat less food

We use less loo roll

We take up less space

We are more adapted for tight spaces

We don't get worn out as quick

And the chances are we are going to live longer with the risk of heart attacks being halfed ?

I'm wondering if a lot don't infact feel intimidated by us ?

Wow what a head Fuk "

Eat less food?!!! Hahahahaha. Pull the other one. My man is slim, toned and strong but I swear with the amount he eats, somewhere inside there's a 30 stone man trying to get out.

I love a slim figure, though I'm also a fan of stocky, some muscle definition is nice but it isn't the be all and end all. I definitely have a wide variety of taste in Men (and women).

Yes, he's slimmer than me, but due to his gender he is predisposed to have less body fat anyway, so does it bother me that he is slimmer than me, not in the slightest.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Again minority's that are unnessesary, to be a dad and have a dad bod you must be inactive physically to the point your a heart attack waiting to happen ?

There are physically active dads out there....... Jesus

Oh shit this Mexican Jesus guy who lives in the bat cave has a lot to answer for

Visceral fat (the unviable fat around your organs) puts your at risk of an heart attack subcutaneous fat (the physical fat you can see aka the dad bid) doesn't. You can have subcutaneous fat and healthy visceral fat levels so be healthy, in the same way you can have little subcutaneous fat but lots of visceral fat so be slim yet at an higher risk of heart attack, slim doesn't always equal healthy. It is a common misconception that looking fat automatically equals heart attack.

Being overweight be it fat of what ever description or muscle increases a persons risk of heart attack ?

"

If they have high visceral fat yet yes. I'm part of a current study my visceral fat is healthy yet physically I'm over weight I'm not currently medically more at a risk of an heart attack, shocking hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Again minority's that are unnessesary, to be a dad and have a dad bod you must be inactive physically to the point your a heart attack waiting to happen ?

There are physically active dads out there....... Jesus

Oh shit this Mexican Jesus guy who lives in the bat cave has a lot to answer for

Visceral fat (the unviable fat around your organs) puts your at risk of an heart attack subcutaneous fat (the physical fat you can see aka the dad bid) doesn't. You can have subcutaneous fat and healthy visceral fat levels so be healthy, in the same way you can have little subcutaneous fat but lots of visceral fat so be slim yet at an higher risk of heart attack, slim doesn't always equal healthy. It is a common misconception that looking fat automatically equals heart attack.

*invisible boy unviable "

I'm only invisible if I turn sideways or put my invisibility glasses on, and unfortunately my glasses have had to go back to speck savers as sometimes I'm even invisible to myself, very very odd

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I think the point we are trying to get to here is

Would any of us ladies fuck OP...

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I'm 5" foot 8 inches tall 43 inch chest 32 inch waist strong big thighs firm arse due to my profession .

I think I have a build similar to a scrum half in rugby I've been told I'm to slim to fat to short to tall the lust goes on the moral of the story is women like what they like you ether fit what there looking for or you don't piontless worrying about it just be happy with the way you are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all men are ghastly creatures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the hardest things for any person to do is positively question there own beliefs,

Beliefs that are enforced by pier pressure or a need to fit in.

Love yourself I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come to realise on here that it's not really about the body so much as the face and conversation that I find attractive. Although I can't say I find very muscular men attractive and seem to gloss over them when I'm reading my messages. If I had to choose think it would be slender-ish with muscle definition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come to realise on here that it's not really about the body so much as the face and conversation that I find attractive. Although I can't say I find very muscular men attractive and seem to gloss over them when I'm reading my messages. If I had to choose think it would be slender-ish with muscle definition. "

......... Hi

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I read all this and giggled.

Op I have a question in response to your original question...

If every one on here said they wanted guys built like, lets say the rock. Would you try and change how you look for the sake of fab? "

I am quite happy with way I am. Yes I do feel I would like to be a bit bigger only because I have a slim athletic toned body but have a baby face suited for a 19yr old. I am 28 in two months exactly. A lot of women find it off putting to go on dates with me due to size and young face. In other words only seem to pull young women aged 22 and younger or 40+. I will always be slim framed nothing I can do about it

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"I like all types of men. I like a hot face. "

You'd love me then, this time of year....phew

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I think the point we are trying to get to here is

Would any of us ladies fuck OP..."

That's for another thread honey

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's a no brainier that majority of women go for/fine tall muscular men attractive. But what about us slim tonned men. Let me know if any women like that. Or do you go for stocky men or even a larger gentlemen. Women I want to know what type you seek on fab?"

Is it a no brainier? Do you honestly think that 'women' are a collective without the same preferences and attractions that men have?

None of the men I've had sex with look anything like each other and what I think I find particularly attractive accounts for about 1% of the men I've got naked with.

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It's a no brainier that majority of women go for/fine tall muscular men attractive. But what about us slim tonned men. Let me know if any women like that. Or do you go for stocky men or even a larger gentlemen. Women I want to know what type you seek on fab?

Is it a no brainier? Do you honestly think that 'women' are a collective without the same preferences and attractions that men have?

None of the men I've had sex with look anything like each other and what I think I find particularly attractive accounts for about 1% of the men I've got naked with."

I understand the point your making but even in this thread it is proven Majority of women find it attractive. You may but I you did a survey on fab. I'm sure muscular men would come on top

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I think the point we are trying to get to here is

Would any of us ladies fuck OP...

That's for another thread honey "

Hahahaha

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I think the point we are trying to get to here is

Would any of us ladies fuck OP...

That's for another thread honey

Hahahaha"

Or what I should do is put do you think miss honey99 and mrhandsome make a good fuckbuddy couple

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's a no brainier that majority of women go for/fine tall muscular men attractive. But what about us slim tonned men. Let me know if any women like that. Or do you go for stocky men or even a larger gentlemen. Women I want to know what type you seek on fab?

Is it a no brainier? Do you honestly think that 'women' are a collective without the same preferences and attractions that men have?

None of the men I've had sex with look anything like each other and what I think I find particularly attractive accounts for about 1% of the men I've got naked with.

I understand the point your making but even in this thread it is proven Majority of women find it attractive. You may but I you did a survey on fab. I'm sure muscular men would come on top "

Actually, it doesn't. I've just gone back through the thread and the majority of posters are men. The women that have posted have mostly stated that it isn't an issue for them.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I think the point we are trying to get to here is

Would any of us ladies fuck OP...

That's for another thread honey

Hahahaha

Or what I should do is put do you think miss honey99 and mrhandsome make a good fuckbuddy couple "

I'm having nothing to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder what the statistics on fab are thin vs stocky ? Anyone know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway I have 1 question.........

Does my bum look big in this ?

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I think the point we are trying to get to here is

Would any of us ladies fuck OP...

That's for another thread honey

Hahahaha

Or what I should do is put do you think miss honey99 and mrhandsome make a good fuckbuddy couple

I'm having nothing to do with it "

So if we do get the votes. Do I have the right to have a date with you?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I think the point we are trying to get to here is

Would any of us ladies fuck OP...

That's for another thread honey

Hahahaha

Or what I should do is put do you think miss honey99 and mrhandsome make a good fuckbuddy couple

I'm having nothing to do with it

So if we do get the votes. Do I have the right to have a date with you?"

You can have the right...like I reserve the right to turn up.

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By *asy247888Man
over a year ago

Kent


"I like all shapes and sizes however super muscular chaps or really fit ones would just make me feel fatter than I already do."

You have a lovely figure

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I think the point we are trying to get to here is

Would any of us ladies fuck OP...

That's for another thread honey

Hahahaha

Or what I should do is put do you think miss honey99 and mrhandsome make a good fuckbuddy couple

I'm having nothing to do with it

So if we do get the votes. Do I have the right to have a date with you?

You can have the right...like I reserve the right to turn up. "

Aww so you would really stand me up honey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally with you on that lol gotta balance it out xx

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By *asy247888Man
over a year ago

Kent

I've been turned down down a few times for being too slim and too short lol We all have our tastes I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has the right to a thing I think, I have and always will class any women taking the time to chat/meet or Fuk me as a privilege as she chose me out of thousands upon thousands of other hungry dogs

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Could we maybe perhaps refrain from putting thin men into an unnessesary minority, bones are quite strong designs designed to withstand quite a bit of force, making us feel less a man incase we get broken or crushed can infact come across as a bit harsh and shallow

I'm not having a go but maybe just a little bit of thought and sensitivity wouldn't go a miss ?

When I'm concerned about squashing someone, it's because I'm thinking about myself as a heavy, fat bastard not the man as feeble or weak. Nothing harsh, shallow or insensitive there at all.

You ain't a thin man, are you 110% certain that your choice of words don't come across to a thin bloke as being harsh or shallow ?

I can only go off what I mean by my words. Other people will interpret them as they wish. If a man interprets them that way, it's because he has an insecurity to begin with.

It's only the same as a man saying they like a petite woman who they can throw around, which I will interpret as "not one of you giant heifers", even if that's not what he means. But that's my problem, not his, and I wouldn't presume to tell someone what they should or shouldn't say.

I would not find throwing you around as you put it an issue.

Strength is not determined on size, the same way sexual pleasure is not determined on size either ruby

I have no insecuritys regarding my size and frame, I'm quite strong for a thinner bloke

I never said strength or sexual pleasure were determined by size. And anyway, I've fancied and met plenty of slim men so you're preaching to the converted. But I weigh upwards of 15 stone, so short of meeting Geoff Capes, no one is going to be throwing me around whether they're thin or not. "

Bravo bravo totally with you here my dear!!! Gents ladies of a certain size do have to take all these things into mind. It's only like the very same fact that I get contacted by black guys or VWE because of my size because the feel a petite lady would not be able to manage.

Stop over thinking things enjoy the sex and encounters you have

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"One of the hardest things for any person to do is positively question there own beliefs,

Beliefs that are enforced by pier pressure or a need to fit in.

Love yourself I say "

We're not talking about beliefs though, we're discussing attraction.

We're attracted to whom and what we're attracted to. It's not usually possible to explain why. We just like what we like.

Nobody is saying being slim is a bad thing. Some women are just not attracted to slim men. That's the same for any attribute or feature; some will like it and some won't.

You will never appeal to everyone but you seem to be taking that personally. None of us will be attractive to everyone. Fortunately, different people like different things.

I'm sure you have your own preferences and you wouldn't want to have sex with absolutely anybody.

On the point of some men liking to throw women round the bedroom, you may well be strong, I don't doubt it, but if you were to try to lift and support a 15 stone+ woman against a wall, to have sex with her, you would understand why guys who like that prefer smaller women! 15 stone is 95kg, which is a hell of a lot for most guys to lift, particularly when the weight is shaped and distributed as it is in a person.

I think safe lifting and handling guidelines state that anything over 15-20kg should be lifted by 2 people.

When I order cat litter, it comes in 13kg bags. If I order 2, and they are packed together, the delivery driver usually clearly struggles with it.

You claim to be able to easily lift and carry a bulky 50kg (2×4 stone) weight in each hand? Sorry, I don't believe you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a no brainier that majority of women go for/fine tall muscular men attractive. But what about us slim tonned men. Let me know if any women like that. Or do you go for stocky men or even a larger gentlemen. Women I want to know what type you seek on fab?"

why do you want to know? are you building a dossier or something? as with most things in life some women like one type and some women like another...certain women like all types but most don't...

there! simples

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I get turned down or over-looked often for being too fat, too old or for various other reasons.

A foot fetishist told me my feet are too big, for example.

We all have to accept we'll appeal to some people and not others. On a site where most people are looking for casual, NSA sex, physical attributes and looks are likely to play a bigger part in deciding whom to meet than if a relationship was being sought.

Focus on the people who do want to meet you and don't waste your energy worrying about the ones that don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a Mexican with a dodgy 70's porn tash ?

What women are attracted by that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a Mexican with a dodgy 70's porn tash ?

What women are attracted by that ?"

sounds like an extra from a spaghetti western

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a Mexican with a dodgy 70's porn tash ?

What women are attracted by that ?

sounds like an extra from a spaghetti western "

Oh it's a beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a Mexican with a dodgy 70's porn tash ?

What women are attracted by that ?

sounds like an extra from a spaghetti western

Oh it's a beauty "

I meant the whole look...not just the 'tache

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone for a short and slightly tubby bloke?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I think the point we are trying to get to here is

Would any of us ladies fuck OP...

That's for another thread honey

Hahahaha

Or what I should do is put do you think miss honey99 and mrhandsome make a good fuckbuddy couple

I'm having nothing to do with it

So if we do get the votes. Do I have the right to have a date with you?

You can have the right...like I reserve the right to turn up.

Aww so you would really stand me up honey lol"

I'd watch you cry for a little while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim is awesome....just saying

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think us thinner blokes are put into an unnecessary minority ?

Like we have less to offer ?

We eat less food

We use less loo roll

We take up less space

We are more adapted for tight spaces

We don't get worn out as quick

And the chances are we are going to live longer with the risk of heart attacks being halfed ?

I'm wondering if a lot don't infact feel intimidated by us ?

Wow what a head Fuk "

Ha yeah gd point were the alpas now lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Eat less food?!!! Hahahahaha. Pull the other one. My man is slim, toned and strong but I swear with the amount he eats, somewhere inside there's a 30 stone man trying to get out."

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I had a friend for a while who was 6'3" and like a beanpole. He could pick me up

Men's strength is not always relevant to their body mass.

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