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"Why do people do this ? What's the benefits ? Do you hide ? Why? .can't get my head round this one " Perhaps stopping worrying about what others do and concentrate on what you're doing is called for?  | |||
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"When i don't want contact from those i don't know because i might be taking a break. " This  | |||
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"Usually peeps hid there pro if something in the real world needs them or if they ain't meeting atm. It's better then deleting and losing thier veris. Xxx" They're needed in the real world? Ssssshhhhhh don't mention the real world and the portal back!!  | |||
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"Why do people do this ? What's the benefits ? Do you hide ? Why? .can't get my head round this one " I do it for 2 reasons. When i cant be arsed to message ppl. And just want to nosie, or come on the threads. When iv got someone watching how often im online. As most people dont realise if thier on your hotlist your still time stampes lol x | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " Because people will still message you and it's a waste of your time and theirs. Because you don't want them to read your profile and think you're available to meet. Why not hide? That's what the feature is there for. | |||
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"Loads of reasons to hide a profile. Taking a break, wanting to browse and not be bothered, getting through messages without getting more, just using the forums, the list goes on" All the above. It is after all MY profile However I am interested to understand OP why you are so concerned / annoyed by this | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " But people don't know you're taking a break then do they,why waste someone's time in messaging you. You could have it plastered all over your profile don't message as I'm having a break,no-one takes any notice. | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " Some women could get upward of 50 messages a day. I'll let you do the maths if they're taking a 2 week break for a holiday!! | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide But people don't know you're taking a break then do they,why waste someone's time in messaging you. You could have it plastered all over your profile don't message as I'm having a break,no-one takes any notice. " What was that? Oh, yeah..... I love road trips to the beach | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " How exactly does it affect you OP? Not missing any point. I don't want messages i hide. When i decide to log on again i don't have to delete a backlog of messages. | |||
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"I sometimes don't want to receive messages or not meeting having a break." Truce ? Lol | |||
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"When i decide to log on again i don't have to delete a backlog of messages. " You and me both Ms SS, just tell Clem to stop sending me fancy a fuck messages   | |||
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"I sometimes don't want to receive messages or not meeting having a break. Truce ? Lol" Yeah we'll just ignore each other shall we,saves getting yet another ban... | |||
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"I sometimes don't want to receive messages or not meeting having a break. Truce ? Lol Yeah we'll just ignore each other shall we,saves getting yet another ban..." Well i never like to ignore anyone so i guess we can just be civil. Im sure we are both nice people  | |||
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"I sometimes don't want to receive messages or not meeting having a break. Truce ? Lol Yeah we'll just ignore each other shall we,saves getting yet another ban... Well i never like to ignore anyone so i guess we can just be civil. Im sure we are both nice people " | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide But people don't know you're taking a break then do they,why waste someone's time in messaging you. You could have it plastered all over your profile don't message as I'm having a break,no-one takes any notice. What was that? Oh, yeah..... I love road trips to the beach "Which beach is that then?  | |||
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"Which beach is that then? "Echo? www.youtube.com/watch?v=QEQkIEkxm7k | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide But people don't know you're taking a break then do they,why waste someone's time in messaging you. You could have it plastered all over your profile don't message as I'm having a break,no-one takes any notice. What was that? Oh, yeah..... I love road trips to the beach
Which beach is that then? "There are many i go to. Ireland north and south has some of the most beautiful beaches on the planet. I'll show you sometime | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide But people don't know you're taking a break then do they,why waste someone's time in messaging you. You could have it plastered all over your profile don't message as I'm having a break,no-one takes any notice. What was that? Oh, yeah..... I love road trips to the beach
Which beach is that then?
There are many i go to. Ireland north and south has some of the most beautiful beaches on the planet. I'll show you sometime "That sounds like heaven! | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " I think your the one missing the point. It's a option to use. People use it for many different reasons. Plus, I don't think it's anyone else's business how others use there profile. If you happen to click one that's hidden then just move on. | |||
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"When i don't want contact from those i don't know because i might be taking a break. " This | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide But people don't know you're taking a break then do they,why waste someone's time in messaging you. You could have it plastered all over your profile don't message as I'm having a break,no-one takes any notice. What was that? Oh, yeah..... I love road trips to the beach
Which beach is that then?
There are many i go to. Ireland north and south has some of the most beautiful beaches on the planet. I'll show you sometime
That sounds like heaven!"Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better | |||
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" Oh, yeah..... I love road trips to the beach
Which beach is that then?
There are many i go to. Ireland north and south has some of the most beautiful beaches on the planet. I'll show you sometime
That sounds like heaven!
Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better "See you in a few hour's | |||
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" Perhaps stopping worrying about what others do and concentrate on what you're doing is called for? " Some people's life is spent Sherlocking everyone elses. Online, offline, swinging or not swinging. Usually unable to live their own life or do their own thing as too busy tediously anal'ising everyone elses Sad as. | |||
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"Why do people do this ? What's the benefits ? Do you hide ? Why? .can't get my head round this one Perhaps stopping worrying about what others do and concentrate on what you're doing is called for? "Why do people always bitch about anyone that asks questions? If we don't ask, we don't learn. The forums would be full of mindless idiots spouting the same fucking shit all the time. Oh wait. | |||
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" Oh, yeah..... I love road trips to the beach
Which beach is that then?
There are many i go to. Ireland north and south has some of the most beautiful beaches on the planet. I'll show you sometime
That sounds like heaven!
Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better
See you in a few hour's "That would be awesome, i'm off tomorrow too | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " Just because I'm not fucking strangers doesn't mean I can't still use the forums, keep in touch with friends. Hiding my profile means I don't get people mailing me, wasting their time and mine by getting in contact. Fab gives me the facility to hide so I use it. | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " Because you don't want to come back to a mountain of winks and messages. Hiding your profile prevents others from wasting their time or thinking you rejected them... | |||
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"The site provides the functionality, I use it. My reason: cause I feel like it "This right here. | |||
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"The forums would be full of mindless idiots spouting the same fucking shit all the time. Oh wait. " I'm a mindless idiot, so less of the dissing missus thank you very much!  | |||
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" Oh, yeah..... I love road trips to the beach
Which beach is that then?
There are many i go to. Ireland north and south has some of the most beautiful beaches on the planet. I'll show you sometime
That sounds like heaven!
Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better
See you in a few hour's
That would be awesome, i'm off tomorrow too "So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you... | |||
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"The forums would be full of mindless idiots spouting the same fucking shit all the time. Oh wait. I'm a mindless idiot, so less of the dissing missus thank you very much! "I'm including myself in this. I post too. | |||
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" Oh, yeah..... I love road trips to the beach
Which beach is that then?
There are many i go to. Ireland north and south has some of the most beautiful beaches on the planet. I'll show you sometime
That sounds like heaven!
Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better
See you in a few hour's
That would be awesome, i'm off tomorrow too
So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you..."You just let me know when your flight arrives and i will have the chariot ready and waiting | |||
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" Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better
See you in a few hour's
That would be awesome, i'm off tomorrow too
So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you...
You just let me know when your flight arrives and i will have the chariot ready and waiting "That's your donkey isn't it  | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " People still send messages when you're logged off. You still appear in searches etc. | |||
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" Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better
See you in a few hour's
That would be awesome, i'm off tomorrow too
So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you...
You just let me know when your flight arrives and i will have the chariot ready and waiting
That's your donkey isn't it "It is a traditional form of transport over in our wee part of the world
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"So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you..." I have a Stetson some cheap sunglasses and a turquoise goatee if that's any good | |||
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" Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better
See you in a few hour's
That would be awesome, i'm off tomorrow too
So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you...
You just let me know when your flight arrives and i will have the chariot ready and waiting
That's your donkey isn't it
It is a traditional form of transport over in our wee part of the world
You can straddle the Stallion later "Be there in an hour | |||
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"So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you... I have a Stetson some cheap sunglasses and a turquoise goatee if that's any good "Bloody hidden-profile-name-changer! | |||
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"Usually peeps hid there pro if something in the real world needs them or if they ain't meeting atm. It's better then deleting and losing thier veris. Xxx They're needed in the real world? Ssssshhhhhh don't mention the real world and the portal back!! "What portal?  xxx | |||
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"Usually peeps hid there pro if something in the real world needs them or if they ain't meeting atm. It's better then deleting and losing thier veris. Xxx" Exactly | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " Cos they may still want to chat in the forums. xxx | |||
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" Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better
See you in a few hour's
That would be awesome, i'm off tomorrow too
So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you...
You just let me know when your flight arrives and i will have the chariot ready and waiting
That's your donkey isn't it
It is a traditional form of transport over in our wee part of the world
You can straddle the Stallion later
Be there in an hour "I'll have Dora my donkey ready. | |||
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"Usually peeps hid there pro if something in the real world needs them or if they ain't meeting atm. It's better then deleting and losing thier veris. Xxx They're needed in the real world? Ssssshhhhhh don't mention the real world and the portal back!!
What portal? xxx" sssssshhhhh | |||
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"Yes, cos I'm currently bleeding like Niagara falls so don't feel like putting up with bullshit, inane messages. Next question? " best answer yet  | |||
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" Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better
See you in a few hour's
That would be awesome, i'm off tomorrow too
So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you...
You just let me know when your flight arrives and i will have the chariot ready and waiting
That's your donkey isn't it
It is a traditional form of transport over in our wee part of the world
You can straddle the Stallion later
Be there in an hour
I'll have Dora my donkey ready. "Carrots already in my pocket! | |||
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" Lol hopefully not but it is awesome. One hot wee thing could make it better
See you in a few hour's
That would be awesome, i'm off tomorrow too
So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you...
You just let me know when your flight arrives and i will have the chariot ready and waiting
That's your donkey isn't it
It is a traditional form of transport over in our wee part of the world
You can straddle the Stallion later
Be there in an hour
I'll have Dora my donkey ready.
Carrots already in my pocket! "Awesome. She'll appreciate that. You'll have a friend for life. She's big on first impressions. | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " Login off doesn't stop mail. Hiding profile does.  | |||
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"So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you... I have a Stetson some cheap sunglasses and a turquoise goatee if that's any good
Bloody hidden-profile-name-changer!"You must have me mistaken for somebody else I'm afraid m'dear | |||
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"So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you... I have a Stetson some cheap sunglasses and a turquoise goatee if that's any good
Bloody hidden-profile-name-changer!
You must have me mistaken for somebody else I'm afraid m'dear "How many goatees are there on Fab? | |||
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"Why do people do this ? What's the benefits ? Do you hide ? Why? .can't get my head round this one " I'm not meeting at the moment and I don't want messages from people looking for meets. Hiding my profile means I don't show up in results of searches people do. | |||
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"So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you... I have a Stetson some cheap sunglasses and a turquoise goatee if that's any good
Bloody hidden-profile-name-changer!
You must have me mistaken for somebody else I'm afraid m'dear
How many goatees are there on Fab?"There's only one! | |||
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"Cos they may still want to chat in the forums. xxx"I just chat shit anyway cos I can | |||
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"Your all actuallymissing the point If your taking a break then just log off Why hide " Some of us want to carry on chatting on here whilst we take a break from meeting. Plus, as already pointed out, we still show up in searches when logged off and we still get messages. | |||
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"So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you... I have a Stetson some cheap sunglasses and a turquoise goatee if that's any good
Bloody hidden-profile-name-changer!
You must have me mistaken for somebody else I'm afraid m'dear
How many goatees are there on Fab?
There's only one!"Not so! | |||
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"How many goatees are there on Fab?" Ah shit, does that mean I'm sussed | |||
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"So I'm looking for a guy with a cap,sunglasses and beard,ok I'll find you... I have a Stetson some cheap sunglasses and a turquoise goatee if that's any good
Bloody hidden-profile-name-changer!
You must have me mistaken for somebody else I'm afraid m'dear
How many goatees are there on Fab?
There's only one!
Not so! "Ooh what colour is your's? | |||
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