FabSwingers.com forum: Marking your territory

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Recently started chatting to a guy who is single and looking for meets. But his fb puts me off.

Every time they meet she leaves a veri that sounds more and more "hands off he is mine".

He has veried her once that I can see and she had veried him 2 or 3 times a week since June.

Now he publishes them but my question is would this put u off meeting someone? I get the feeling that psycho possibly isn't too far under the surface.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your meet with him will be totally different than the meets he has with his fb,take no notice and if you like him ,meet him and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, that would put me off big style.

Warning lights would be flashing for sure, had a bad experience with someone fb who caused me no end of grief so I'd certainly be keeping away.

Always go with your gut feeling

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Hes the one chosing to show them. He could just show one oe two

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would ignore her and meet him regardless

No one would dictate my fun

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

no it wouldnt put me off, maybe she just likes leaving people verifications and he likes showing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would ignore her and meet him regardless

No one would dictate my fun"

You can dictate my fun any time you like.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both."
yes thats my thoughts. She might just be getting carried away in postcoital bliss each time

Hes the one chosing to show them

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I would ignore her and meet him regardless

No one would dictate my fun

You can dictate my fun any time you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't bother me either. he's not taken himself off this site so she can't be being serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it would make me more inclined to want to fuck him and piss her off.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No, it would make me more inclined to want to fuck him and piss her off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first sign of any kind of problems then we walk away, Plenty more lovely folk to talk to and meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both."

Yes, exactly this. 2 to 3 verifications a week from the same person is a bit weird to my eyes...

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both.

This

I dont understand, why does it matter if hes publishing them though. I met someone three times and we both left each other verifications each time, it didnt mean anything. I didnt think he was only going to meet just me.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

she does it, he allows it.if you are reading his veris, it bugs you..so you have to ask yourself why it bugs you..

right now i guess hes enjoying you both giving him the attention...so ask yourself if its worth it...

several times this type of thing has happened on here..i learnt the lesson that i was just another fuck and the person was (apparently blind)to the goings on of the 'established other' I extricated myself, before drama ensued. they didn't care and so i got my head round that and decided they weren't worth the agro...hugs OP x

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"No, it would make me more inclined to want to fuck him and piss her off.

I love this woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she have veries off any other guys? If not then chances are shes quite attached to this guy if they've been meeting 2 or 3 times a week for sex for the last 3 months. She'll either try and make him not want to meet you, or he could meet you but ask you not to verify or I dunno maybe it'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to meet him go ahead. She is not your problem. You don't have to veri him so he can splash you on his profile. Crack on with what you're ok with and have fun.

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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago

Stokeish...

It would put me off to be honest, just as I dislike drama.

I have someone I see weekly, I verified him once after a few months just as he hadn't any recent ones and it was very generic, I am very cautious about not appearing to "cock my leg" , however he would display them if I did repeated ones, as I think he just wouldn't think like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get my knickers in a twist over what people I'm meeting get up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's meeting this other girl 2-3 times a week I'd be surprised if he has time meet someone new!

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

2-3 veris a week is a bit OTT, also if the tone of her veris is she is smitten then I would avoid. Hassle guaranteed if she is bunny boiler material.

He may well be flattered by the veris, he may also not be aware how off-putting 2-3 a week from the same woman may be. He may just be thinking the more veris he has the more likely he will get more meets.

(Left field option, he might have set up her profile himself in order to write lots of dodgy veris for himself....far fetched but hey I have had some right loony peeps message me with really crazy stuff so nothing would surprise me any more).

Good luck if you do choose to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both.

This

That's different, she said she verifys him a few times a week for a few months, sounds attached! Had a bad experience before so I'd choose to look onto the next profile. Plus I've had FBs from here and only verified them the once, don't see why you'd need to keep verifying? That's just me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to meet a guy that's had his balls emptied 3 times a week. Once I've found a guy that I want to have sex with he has to refrain from wanking at least 3 days before we have sex. I want big full balls please.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I wouldn't want to meet a guy that's had his balls emptied 3 times a week. Once I've found a guy that I want to have sex with he has to refrain from wanking at least 3 days before we have sex. I want big full balls please. "

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

To be honest it would me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how much I liked him. If I liked him I'd meet him. It does sound dodgy but might be worth it.

I would only leave a vague social veri though.

I don't like drama or indiscreet people. If he was discreet it would be fine.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Just meet him but don't leave a verification, they aren't obligatory and it sounds like the other lady leaves enough for everyone as it is

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It would put me off.

I don't need drama when I'm looking for NSA sex.

He'd have to be amazing for me to even contemplate it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mmmm I've decided not to meet him. I dislike drama and her veris are escalating to the point of hands off he is mine. She isn't meaning anyone and her profile states she isn't meeting (but clearing meeting this guy).

When I mentioned it to him he couldn't see why it would put people off and stated that he was only seeing his fb as he hadn't managed to meet anyone else yet but he wanted to broaden his fab experiences.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Hes saying hes single. He has lots of verifications from the same woman on display so not hiding. Id probably think oh shes left a lot of verifications have a noisy at her profile and carry on it wouldnt play a part in whether i met him or not. Id either meet him or not but whiever else he has sex with is none of my business

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Mmmm I've decided not to meet him. I dislike drama and her veris are escalating to the point of hands off he is mine. She isn't meaning anyone and her profile states she isn't meeting (but clearing meeting this guy).

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well there you go simple explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He might have trouble broadening his fab experiences with those kind of veris.

Let's hope he's told her about his plans!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He might have trouble broadening his fab experiences with those kind of veris.

Let's hope he's told her about his plans!"

That's my thoughts. It reads that she thinks they are exclusive and he thinks they arent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it would make me more inclined to want to fuck him and piss her off.

(does Dick Emery voice) :

Ooh you are awful, but I like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, it would make me more inclined to want to fuck him and piss her off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently started chatting to a guy who is single and looking for meets. But his fb puts me off.

Every time they meet she leaves a veri that sounds more and more "hands off he is mine".

He has veried her once that I can see and she had veried him 2 or 3 times a week since June.

Now he publishes them but my question is would this put u off meeting someone? I get the feeling that psycho possibly isn't too far under the surface."

Yes, it would put me off.

As would territory marking in the forum.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Recently started chatting to a guy who is single and looking for meets. But his fb puts me off.

Every time they meet she leaves a veri that sounds more and more "hands off he is mine".

He has veried her once that I can see and she had veried him 2 or 3 times a week since June.

Now he publishes them but my question is would this put u off meeting someone? I get the feeling that psycho possibly isn't too far under the surface.

Yes, it would put me off.

As would territory marking in the forum.

This happens? I just love everyone

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It probably wouldn't put me off as I know that my meets will be totally different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently started chatting to a guy who is single and looking for meets. But his fb puts me off.

Every time they meet she leaves a veri that sounds more and more "hands off he is mine".

He has veried her once that I can see and she had veried him 2 or 3 times a week since June.

Now he publishes them but my question is would this put u off meeting someone? I get the feeling that psycho possibly isn't too far under the surface.

Yes, it would put me off.

As would territory marking in the forum.

This happens? I just love everyone "

Oh yeah!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"It would put me off, not because she's sending those kind of verifications but because he's publishing them. I'd steer clear if them both."

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