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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'd think he can meet at his house or a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No unless specifically invited to stay the night. Meet someone once stayed the night then her ex turned up nxt morning after nightout with his mates. & yes somehow still had house key lol oh boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us, we'd always wait for the overnight invitation and never assume it was a given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if you wanted to stay the night yeah can accomodate but the choice is up to you if you wanted to stay i wouldn't say no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night"

No, not at all. Always interpreted as can host a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope unless it is a very late night meet I woudnt want to stay or expect to stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.......if someone wanted me to stay the night i'd assume they'd ask.

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border


"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night"

No.... It's a totally different level of trust.

Come to mine to play and then leave fine...

Come to mine and I'll fall asleep and let a (possible) stranger have the run of my house, valuables, car keys, etc, and then let themselves out at 4am never to be seen again.... rather different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No certainly not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, there's a pattern here.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i just had a message from someone saying they where intetested in meeting but then went on to apologise that they would have to leave early in the morning so when i asked what he was on about he said id said i accomadate. Never entered my head someone would think that

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border


"Well i just had a message from someone saying they where intetested in meeting but then went on to apologise that they would have to leave early in the morning so when i asked what he was on about he said id said i accomadate. Never entered my head someone would think that"

Sounds massively presumptuous of them!!

Even talking about the "accommodation" arrangements before you've definitely said you're up for meeting sounds like someone is either inexperienced or making rather big assumptions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i just had a message from someone saying they where intetested in meeting but then went on to apologise that they would have to leave early in the morning so when i asked what he was on about he said id said i accomadate. Never entered my head someone would think that"

It's a cheap night out! I wonder if I could go on holiday like that? Reminds me of the film "the swimmer".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see fab's 'accommodate' as accommodating purely for the purposes and durarion of a meet. Others see it as accommodation! Which it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't expect somewhere to kip even if we didn't finish playing until 6am

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Well i just had a message from someone saying they where intetested in meeting but then went on to apologise that they would have to leave early in the morning so when i asked what he was on about he said id said i accomadate. Never entered my head someone would think that

It's a cheap night out! I wonder if I could go on holiday like that? Reminds me of the film "the swimmer".

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i might just message guys that live at seaside resorts get myself a holiday(oh i already do that)

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No not at all

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night"

No it means you can entertain with out the use of a hotel it doesn't mean someone will be staying over night unless its agreed on before hand .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't presume anything until confirmed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night

No it means you can entertain with out the use of a hotel it doesn't mean someone will be staying over night unless its agreed on before hand ."

unless it's already agreed then no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I'd think he can meet at his house or a hotel."

Does it? I thought it just meant at my house but an hotel?, does everybody know that? If so going to alter profile, ladies please take note

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly off topic...should woman pay for hotels ?

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Slightly off topic...should woman pay for hotels ? "
why shouldnt they

Id assume everyone goes halves

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"No, I'd think he can meet at his house or a hotel."
hotel

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Never assume anything, can accommodate could mean home or something else. We wait for the overnight invite but very rarely accept as we are early risers regardless of how late the night was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slightly off topic...should woman pay for hotels ? why shouldnt they

Id assume everyone goes halves"

I had a guy who wanted to meet at a hotel. However i dont have enough time for hotel meets. I can only ever spare 2hours at most. So i never really feel its worth it. I dont state accommodation. If he does that mean he pays or should i always offer to go halfs?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I expect to be waited on and fed too, and I may even bring some laundry for them to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

I expect to be waited on and fed too, and I may even bring some laundry for them to do."

Respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accommodate.......overnight is an option....often taken up as I do a really good breakfast lol!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

On one occasion, "can accommodate" turned out to mean we could shag in the back of his van

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

No.

To me can accom means you go round for a fuck, bit of polite chitchat then fuck off home.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Slightly off topic...should woman pay for hotels ? why shouldnt they

Id assume everyone goes halves

I had a guy who wanted to meet at a hotel. However i dont have enough time for hotel meets. I can only ever spare 2hours at most. So i never really feel its worth it. I dont state accommodation. If he does that mean he pays or should i always offer to go halfs? "
i accomadate so i wouldnt be paying half. But if on a whim i wanted to meet in a hotel id pay half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would assume he has his own shag pad that's all.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night"

I wouldn't expect it to mean a stopover but depending on distance it maybe a nice gesture, though once play stops, separate rooms for privicy. Unless it's been agreed before hand that the bed is shared.

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By *avewestcumbriaMan
over a year ago

Whitehaven


"On one occasion, "can accommodate" turned out to mean we could shag in the back of his van "

Lmao. There should be 3 options.

Can accommodate.

Can't accommodate.

Have a shagging wagon.

Hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you automatically think this means you can stay the night"

Some people do think so, I had this during the week.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Absolutely not!

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