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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi peeps, I just want to know if this site is actually any good for a single bloke? I was on it before part as a couple, and we were flooded with messages from single men and other couples, I know you have more to offer as a couple, but since re-joining as a single man don't get fuck all on here. I class myself average looking, not exactly Tom Hardy but better than Mr Bean! I mean is it me? Is it that most women on here are just attention seeking? Or is it just being a single man profile and not worth a toss being on here?

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only women get all the attention, whether as part of a couple, or single. Us single men just have to be lucky to be in the right place, at the right time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi peeps, I just want to know if this site is actually any good for a single bloke? I was on it before part as a couple, and we were flooded with messages from single men and other couples, I know you have more to offer as a couple, but since re-joining as a single man don't get fuck all on here. I class myself average looking, not exactly Tom Hardy but better than Mr Bean! I mean is it me? Is it that most women on here are just attention seeking? Or is it just being a single man profile and not worth a toss being on here?

Thanks. "

Numbers buddy. For every woman whose profile your compatible with there are 20 other men who also are.

You need to work hard here like it or not, because you can be damn sure the other 19 guys will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your right it can get you down sometimes but hang in there man and stay positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only women get all the attention, whether as part of a couple, or single. Us single men just have to be lucky to be in the right place, at the right time "

Meh, even couples are getting pushed aside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to do what is right for you and your situation...

But I sure as hell wouldn't be on here if I were a single guy

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi peeps, I just want to know if this site is actually any good for a single bloke? I was on it before part as a couple, and we were flooded with messages from single men and other couples, I know you have more to offer as a couple, but since re-joining as a single man don't get fuck all on here. I class myself average

looking, not exactly Tom Hardy but better than Mr Bean! I mean is it me? Is it that most women on here are just attention seeking? Or is it just being a single man profile and not worth a toss being on here?

Thanks. "

I feel your pain my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had similar experience as OP so I don't pin much hope on meeting others on here. Best bet at clubs, socials, spas etc where you can meet in person. More fun that way to chat to and see real people.

Many on here use fake pics, time wasters, scammers men often tending to be women asking to see cock pics. Or fake party hosts verified by fake members asking for money in advance then profike mysteriously closes no doubt after they scammed people silly enough to send money up front first! Or another scam they send dirty texts and photos (claiming to be them) ask you to send some and then say you were talking to their 14 year old daughter and they will report you to the police unless you pay £100!

It's easier for women. I know some on here and other sites who never browse profiles and send out messages like single men have to. They just see who contacts them. They get over 20 a day and if away for a week or more soon adds up to 100s of unread messages. So they can pick and choose!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I am more Oliver Hardy than Tom

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

I am more laurel & Hardy

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By *eachyfunCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Well, we've only met with single men and they've been great.So many though are illiterate, too cock sure or too many cock shots!

Up your game guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women get hundreds of messages a day that they have to trawl through.. not a lot of them meet according to previous posts.... that with luck and hoping one of them opens your message and sees something that intrerests them at that moment from your message or profile....I'd say chances are slim x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's worth it for you single guys if you're committed to the lifestyle and effort involved. I think it's better if you actually combine it with clubs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have to do what is right for you and your situation...

But I sure as hell wouldn't be on here if I were a single guy

-Courtney "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had similar experience as OP so I don't pin much hope on meeting others on here. Best bet at clubs, socials, spas etc where you can meet in person. More fun that way to chat to and see real people.

Many on here use fake pics, time wasters, scammers men often tending to be women asking to see cock pics. Or fake party hosts verified by fake members asking for money in advance then profike mysteriously closes no doubt after they scammed people silly enough to send money up front first! Or another scam they send dirty texts and photos (claiming to be them) ask you to send some and then say you were talking to their 14 year old daughter and they will report you to the police unless you pay £100!

It's easier for women. I know some on here and other sites who never browse profiles and send out messages like single men have to. They just see who contacts them. They get over 20 a day and if away for a week or more soon adds up to 100s of unread messages. So they can pick and choose!"

Fuck didn't think things were that bad, that people bribe you, what a joke.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Well I'm a single guy and this place works for me, even if it is frustrating at times.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Hi.

Obviously based on your post it looked at your profile.

As a single there were things I noticed.

Smoker

No pictures for me to see

Limited availability. Only days or weekend

*walks on by to the next message /profile *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly just use it for the forum now, it is comedy gold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet single guys so some do get meets

It's supply and demand

More guys looking than people looking for them

It's nothing personal its just as simple as that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi.

Obviously based on your post it looked at your profile.

As a single there were things I noticed.

Smoker

No pictures for me to see

Limited availability. Only days or weekend

*walks on by to the next message /profile *"

Thanks for the tips, but surely I'm not going to lie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attending socials and clubs benefit men massively, gets them known and verified.

I will look for men nearby and message them, but only if they have a face pic so I know they're someone I'd like to meet. So the site works for some, but not for others, all depends on the approach to it.

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By *agentaWoman
over a year ago

Bicester

It's hard work for single guys I feel for them. I only meet single guys whom I'm attracted to by their pics, often enough if there's no pics I'm moving on or ignoring if messages are received. The smoking or meet limitations would not bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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