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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with you, I get really pissed off trying to say no thanks in a polite way that I end up getting all ranty and then I have to block them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies."

Seriously though, what crisps do you like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies."

This one used to bug me too.

Now, if I reply, I just say thanks for the message but I'm not interested in chatting or meeting and wish them happy fabbing.

That covers all bases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies.

Seriously though, what crisps do you like?"

Salt & vinegar all the way

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?"

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

That's why i don't reply and just delete messages.

I just don't want the hassle of people questioning why or being abusive just because i said no thanks. It's easier to ignore them first time around.

I think it's rude to have to do this but in my opinion i really don't have a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you could just be a 'orrible cunt'??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies.

This one used to bug me too.

Now, if I reply, I just say thanks for the message but I'm not interested in chatting or meeting and wish them happy fabbing.

That covers all bases."

That's a good approach. It doesn't bug me, obviously they're just trying to initiate a conversation, I was just never sure how to respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the filters up then....you've answered your own question x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies.

This one used to bug me too.

Now, if I reply, I just say thanks for the message but I'm not interested in chatting or meeting and wish them happy fabbing.

That covers all bases."

I'm going to try that...sounds like a good solution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've taken to reading and deleting if it's a no from me for exactly this reason. But you still get some replies saying - how rude, why didn't you just reply and say no etc or worse. On the odd occasion I will reply to one of these pointing out as gently as I can that I actually didn't solicit a message from them in the first place so I am not actually beholden to replying at all, I owe nothing and that also it's awkward to say no I don't like the look or read of you as to me that feels a far more rude, albeit honest, thing to do. It's hard work, eh?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

"

I agree.

I now just delete any replies to no thanks messages, and block if they won't give up.

Not that I have to worry about it with my filters on and profile hidden. It's blissfully quiet in my mailbox right now.

I love the new pic! Totally stalker chic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you! "

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them."

Nutters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?"

Yes some guys are that petty

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies."

You can reply with that. It cuts any potential conversation short, whilst letting them know that you've read their message and not just ignored them.

I get a lot of incredibly crap messages. I do the same as teabags in replying with a "thanks, but no thanks" style message. Those who reply back along the lines of "aw why?" I just delete outright. I've made myself clear, so there's no point in engaging with them any further. If they keep persisting, the block button is there.

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

Yes some guys are that petty "

Unfortunately it's not just guys!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?"

Some of them are and send messages asking why they have been deleted or send abuse or send the same message again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its bit different for most Men as they don't get messages in the same volume as most Women, So I will reply to a few messages even if I don't fancy them,

I have found the easiest way to end them is with your last message being a dead ended message,

I leaned that from most of the messages I have received

That or the simple thank you or xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies."

Always about the crisps with you isn't it? Welcome back btw.

I get a lot of messages asking me how I am. I know I'm well but I don't want to tell everybody because as you say it makes them feel like that's a green light for a convo. And sometimes it ain't

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies.

This one used to bug me too.

Now, if I reply, I just say thanks for the message but I'm not interested in chatting or meeting and wish them happy fabbing.

That covers all bases.

That's a good approach. It doesn't bug me, obviously they're just trying to initiate a conversation, I was just never sure how to respond. "

Yep, I mean not knowing how to respond bugged me, not messages trying to start a conversation.

That tends to work, in my experience. It's not ignoring them but it's clear and it means I can delete further messages without feeling bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok - i like the cheese n onion and plain - so will you meet me so i can give you the salt n vinegar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be terrible....i can only imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get a "no" reply I always reply "no worries. Happy fabbing" am I to understand this Pisses you ladies/ couples off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've added a line to my profile saying don't expect a reply so I feel less guilty about doing a block delete of unsuitable messages.

The messaging system on here will always be a bit of a vicious circle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must be terrible....i can only imagine."

Oh it is.... pass me the wine

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"ok - i like the cheese n onion and plain - so will you meet me so i can give you the salt n vinegar "

This is not a fair exchange at all. It's like North Korea saying they'll give South Korea a handshake in exchange for the return of defectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I get a "no" reply I always reply "no worries. Happy fabbing" am I to understand this Pisses you ladies/ couples off?"

Don't change what you do based off of the opinions of people on the forum, you'd never get anything done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?"

You are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok - i like the cheese n onion and plain - so will you meet me so i can give you the salt n vinegar

This is not a fair exchange at all. It's like North Korea saying they'll give South Korea a handshake in exchange for the return of defectors."

sheesh im delivering them - i might take wine too but hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must be terrible....i can only imagine.

Oh it is.... pass me the wine "

Now you know I'll share anything but my wine...as I've found an untried gin tonight, I'll let you have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I get a "no" reply I always reply "no worries. Happy fabbing" am I to understand this Pisses you ladies/ couples off?"

not me...and I doubt for anyone else..

its the ones that cant take rejection that are the problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

I agree.

I now just delete any replies to no thanks messages, and block if they won't give up.

Not that I have to worry about it with my filters on and profile hidden. It's blissfully quiet in my mailbox right now.

I love the new pic! Totally stalker chic! "

I need to get a sledge hammer and have some guy strapped up in my bed!

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"ok - i like the cheese n onion and plain - so will you meet me so i can give you the salt n vinegar

This is not a fair exchange at all. It's like North Korea saying they'll give South Korea a handshake in exchange for the return of defectors.

sheesh im delivering them - i might take wine too but hey "

You're delivering the devil's own flavour in exchange for the One True Seasoning...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok - i like the cheese n onion and plain - so will you meet me so i can give you the salt n vinegar

This is not a fair exchange at all. It's like North Korea saying they'll give South Korea a handshake in exchange for the return of defectors.

sheesh im delivering them - i might take wine too but hey

You're delivering the devil's own flavour in exchange for the One True Seasoning..."

ruby likes salt n vinegar - thats what i will deliver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok - i like the cheese n onion and plain - so will you meet me so i can give you the salt n vinegar

This is not a fair exchange at all. It's like North Korea saying they'll give South Korea a handshake in exchange for the return of defectors.

sheesh im delivering them - i might take wine too but hey

You're delivering the devil's own flavour in exchange for the One True Seasoning...

ruby likes salt n vinegar - thats what i will deliver "

Seabrook crinkle cut, if you have any

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"When I get a "no" reply I always reply "no worries. Happy fabbing" am I to understand this Pisses you ladies/ couples off?"

It doesn't piss me off, but at times when my mailbox is busy, it's another message shoving other messages off the bottom of the page, which I have to read and delete.

One isn't a big deal but if you're dealing with a hundred messages, and sending a lot of 'no thanks' messages, it can be a bit disheartening when as fast as you deal with one, two more arrive.

Bear in mind that when we're online dealing with messages, we show on the "online now" page, which encourages more guys to message us.

It can feel a bit overwhelming at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok - i like the cheese n onion and plain - so will you meet me so i can give you the salt n vinegar

This is not a fair exchange at all. It's like North Korea saying they'll give South Korea a handshake in exchange for the return of defectors.

sheesh im delivering them - i might take wine too but hey

You're delivering the devil's own flavour in exchange for the One True Seasoning...

ruby likes salt n vinegar - thats what i will deliver

Seabrook crinkle cut, if you have any "

whatever you like

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"ok - i like the cheese n onion and plain - so will you meet me so i can give you the salt n vinegar

This is not a fair exchange at all. It's like North Korea saying they'll give South Korea a handshake in exchange for the return of defectors.

sheesh im delivering them - i might take wine too but hey

You're delivering the devil's own flavour in exchange for the One True Seasoning...

ruby likes salt n vinegar - thats what i will deliver "

Ruby... Ruby, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies.

Always about the crisps with you isn't it? Welcome back btw.

I get a lot of messages asking me how I am. I know I'm well but I don't want to tell everybody because as you say it makes them feel like that's a green light for a convo. And sometimes it ain't "

I know, I'm in a munchy mood, I've got crisps on the brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh gawd i need crisps now -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok - i like the cheese n onion and plain - so will you meet me so i can give you the salt n vinegar

This is not a fair exchange at all. It's like North Korea saying they'll give South Korea a handshake in exchange for the return of defectors.

sheesh im delivering them - i might take wine too but hey

You're delivering the devil's own flavour in exchange for the One True Seasoning...

ruby likes salt n vinegar - thats what i will deliver

Ruby... Ruby, no "

Salt & vinegar are king

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

In the short time we've been on here, I think we've only had one or two follow up messages that query why we've either said a polite no thanks, or just deleted - mercifully we've never had anything particularly abusive either.

We tend to take the approach that short "hi wanna meet" type messages get straight deleted, any that a bit of effort has been made (that we're not interested in oursuing) we respond with a "Thanks but we're not interested in taking things further" closed ended response that usually nips things in the bud.

Mr G

P.S. Walkers Cheddar & Bacon for me

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

"
totally why i have all my filters on..i have no desire to get stressed and this situation does stress me out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile clearly says couples only but we still had single men asking to meet. First time in all my fab years I've now had to use filters. Some just wouldn't take no for an answer.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"When I get a "no" reply I always reply "no worries. Happy fabbing" am I to understand this Pisses you ladies/ couples off?"

It does a bit

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

Just delete them. Most guys on here won't mind that and will take it as a 'thanks but no thanks'

And those that don't are the ones you wanna block anyway

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I have crisps in the kitchen.

They fell into my basket accidentally in the supermarket the other day.

The alarming thing is, with all this talk of crisps, I don't want them.

I'm normally a crisp addict too.

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"I have crisps in the kitchen.

They fell into my basket accidentally in the supermarket the other day.

The alarming thing is, with all this talk of crisps, I don't want them.

I'm normally a crisp addict too."

What flavour are they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to block as I organise socials and I want to give everyone a chance to attend after all its not just me that may want to meet but I do find it differcult.

I try to answer every message with at least a thank you but with so many to get thro sometimes it's best to block delete once a week. I find peeps who really want to meet or chat always message again. As for abuse thankfully I dont often get it and if I do it's usually quite a funny message. Good old fab. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just delete them. Most guys on here won't mind that and will take it as a 'thanks but no thanks'

And those that don't are the ones you wanna block anyway"

I've only recently started using the notes, I always make a note when someone doesn't reply/deletes the message

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By *isalovezTV/TS
over a year ago

Paris

It boils down to sheer numbers men are like 100x more on here.

I had a good mate she joined up, and was top Fabbed for her time on here few months back and didn't even take her top off and coped but once she did 6K hits in one day 2K messages --- how can anyone cope with that.??

She's now on POF and says its 100% better can cope with and deal with it unlike this.

Kittyjam love you still. xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know what's got to be done. I just don't like the coldness of deleting a message without a response, I don't know how many deleted messages that guy has had that day and mine might be the one that makes the geezer feel bad and I ain't about that.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have crisps in the kitchen.

They fell into my basket accidentally in the supermarket the other day.

The alarming thing is, with all this talk of crisps, I don't want them.

I'm normally a crisp addict too.

What flavour are they?"

Um, something odd. Duck and hoisin sauce, I think.

I also have some ultimate cheeseburger Doritos.

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"I have crisps in the kitchen.

They fell into my basket accidentally in the supermarket the other day.

The alarming thing is, with all this talk of crisps, I don't want them.

I'm normally a crisp addict too.

What flavour are they?

Um, something odd. Duck and hoisin sauce, I think.

I also have some ultimate cheeseburger Doritos."

Where on earth did you get those from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own "

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have crisps in the kitchen.

They fell into my basket accidentally in the supermarket the other day.

The alarming thing is, with all this talk of crisps, I don't want them.

I'm normally a crisp addict too.

What flavour are they?

Um, something odd. Duck and hoisin sauce, I think.

I also have some ultimate cheeseburger Doritos."

I'm never sure about meat flavoured crisps, with the exception of Roysters T Bone steak, so I'm not sure they'd tempt me even in a crispy mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon. "

She's the ultimate connoisseur

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have crisps in the kitchen.

They fell into my basket accidentally in the supermarket the other day.

The alarming thing is, with all this talk of crisps, I don't want them.

I'm normally a crisp addict too.

What flavour are they?

Um, something odd. Duck and hoisin sauce, I think.

I also have some ultimate cheeseburger Doritos.

Where on earth did you get those from? "

They're a Kettle Chip-alike sort. They came from the local supermarket. I can't remember what brand they are though.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I've added a line to my profile saying don't expect a reply so I feel less guilty about doing a block delete of unsuitable messages.

The messaging system on here will always be a bit of a vicious circle."

I did the same. I still feel a little guilty though. I like Dee's solution though. It's not as if every message is a straight up meet attempt so I always struggled how to say 'I'm not interested' before they'd even asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm never sure about meat flavoured crisps, with the exception of Roysters T Bone steak"

Bubbly classics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frazzles are my faourite

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have crisps in the kitchen.

They fell into my basket accidentally in the supermarket the other day.

The alarming thing is, with all this talk of crisps, I don't want them.

I'm normally a crisp addict too.

What flavour are they?

Um, something odd. Duck and hoisin sauce, I think.

I also have some ultimate cheeseburger Doritos.

I'm never sure about meat flavoured crisps, with the exception of Roysters T Bone steak, so I'm not sure they'd tempt me even in a crispy mood."

Where do you stand on Cheese Moments?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have crisps in the kitchen.

They fell into my basket accidentally in the supermarket the other day.

The alarming thing is, with all this talk of crisps, I don't want them.

I'm normally a crisp addict too.

What flavour are they?

Um, something odd. Duck and hoisin sauce, I think.

I also have some ultimate cheeseburger Doritos.

I'm never sure about meat flavoured crisps, with the exception of Roysters T Bone steak, so I'm not sure they'd tempt me even in a crispy mood."

Some rotter on here told me Kettle Chips are making a Bacon and Maple Syrup flavour now.

That did for my diet and I haven't climbed back on the wagon yet.

They were nice but not outstanding and I wouldn't say they tasted of bacon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am i meant to feel guilty about not responding to messages or even liking certain flavour crisps?? ffs...i knew i was out if synch but jeez, it's worse than i thought

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them."

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

She's the ultimate connoisseur "

Alas,she probably wouldn't want to bother sizing my common cock!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon. "

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm never sure about meat flavoured crisps, with the exception of Roysters T Bone steak

Bubbly classics "
they are delish.

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"I have crisps in the kitchen.

They fell into my basket accidentally in the supermarket the other day.

The alarming thing is, with all this talk of crisps, I don't want them.

I'm normally a crisp addict too.

What flavour are they?

Um, something odd. Duck and hoisin sauce, I think.

I also have some ultimate cheeseburger Doritos.

I'm never sure about meat flavoured crisps, with the exception of Roysters T Bone steak, so I'm not sure they'd tempt me even in a crispy mood."

Not even Walkers' Smokey Bacon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies."

I tell them I'm not here to chat and they aren't what I'm looking for. I do use filters because,on here,you have to or you have a job replying. I also block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am laughing out loud here - such a wonderful discussion about crisps - gotta love the forums

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion "

I do too, but only if they're Monster Munch!

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion

I do too, but only if they're Monster Munch!"

Absolutely. Monster Munch pickled onion are the quintessential pickled onion flavour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyway changing the subject

I must say the op has utterly fabulous boobs

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion

I do too, but only if they're Monster Munch!

Absolutely. Monster Munch pickled onion are the quintessential pickled onion flavour."

Space Raiders aren't bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what's got to be done. I just don't like the coldness of deleting a message without a response, I don't know how many deleted messages that guy has had that day and mine might be the one that makes the geezer feel bad and I ain't about that. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't get the crisps question anymore cos I've listed my favourite in my profile, and how I take my tea.

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion

I do too, but only if they're Monster Munch!

Absolutely. Monster Munch pickled onion are the quintessential pickled onion flavour.

Space Raiders aren't bad."

They aren't bad, but they aren't Monster Munch. MM just have this tangy more-ishness to them.

Did anyone watch the "How It's Made" episode on crisps on the BBC recently? They went to the Monster Munch factory.

... shit I've outed myself as a crispy slut, haven't I.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I don't get the crisps question anymore cos I've listed my favourite in my profile, and how I take my tea. "

Does it mention giant scotch eggs at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been fighting with my daughter over a bag of Doritos cool and a cheese/onion dip all evening. She won. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion

I do too, but only if they're Monster Munch!

Absolutely. Monster Munch pickled onion are the quintessential pickled onion flavour.

Space Raiders aren't bad.

They aren't bad, but they aren't Monster Munch. MM just have this tangy more-ishness to them.

Did anyone watch the "How It's Made" episode on crisps on the BBC recently? They went to the Monster Munch factory.

... shit I've outed myself as a crispy slut, haven't I."

No didnt watch it but i also love monster munch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion

I do too, but only if they're Monster Munch!

Absolutely. Monster Munch pickled onion are the quintessential pickled onion flavour.

Space Raiders aren't bad.

They aren't bad, but they aren't Monster Munch. MM just have this tangy more-ishness to them.

Did anyone watch the "How It's Made" episode on crisps on the BBC recently? They went to the Monster Munch factory.

... shit I've outed myself as a crispy slut, haven't I.

No didnt watch it but i also love monster munch "

I suck them. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have a penchant for the Scampi n Lemon Nik Naks...

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies.

Seriously though, what crisps do you like?

Salt & vinegar all the way "

Cheese and onion. Only real crisp worth eating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"anyway changing the subject

I must say the op has utterly fabulous boobs "

Thanks doll, I have a chicken fillet bikini top on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyway changing the subject

I must say the op has utterly fabulous boobs

Thanks doll, I have a chicken fillet bikini top on! "

a the old chicken fillet trick

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By *edRapscallionMan
over a year ago

London


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion

I do too, but only if they're Monster Munch!

Absolutely. Monster Munch pickled onion are the quintessential pickled onion flavour.

Space Raiders aren't bad.

They aren't bad, but they aren't Monster Munch. MM just have this tangy more-ishness to them.

Did anyone watch the "How It's Made" episode on crisps on the BBC recently? They went to the Monster Munch factory.

... shit I've outed myself as a crispy slut, haven't I.

No didnt watch it but i also love monster munch "

They removed the part of the machine that cuts the monster munch to size and let the mixture flow out of the mould. I need to fan myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches. "

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must be terrible....i can only imagine.

Oh it is.... pass me the wine

Now you know I'll share anything but my wine...as I've found an untried gin tonight, I'll let you have it "

Thanks lovely, enjoy the gin

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion

I do too, but only if they're Monster Munch!"

The only acceptable option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put on my profile that if I'm not interested I'm not going to take up my time or theirs replying. Athough most of the 1s I don't reply to clearly haven't read it anyway

If a guy has made an effort to not just say hi/how's you/how you finding fab then I'll answer but reiterate that I'm not currently meeting and then will just be at clubs. The 1s I'm not interested in I also block, saves them messaging again in a few weeks.

I've got filters on so only 30ish new messages a day, would be less but there's no separate age filter for gender, I like women my age but men older so filters open 8yrs younger than I prefer blokes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time "

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

"

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be a real headache to get so many messages lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

"

Not at all cuntish,dinnae be silly now!

I'm at the pinnacle of my time on fab tonight,a sizing and a compliment from fabs sexiest,no nonsense cock connoisseur!.....I'm gonna pinch myself in case it's a dream......on the cock!

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over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise! "

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok "

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

Cheers "

She wasn't far away......I've just measured the circumference n it's just over 5 inches!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?

A lot, yes.

Thankfully not all of them.

Very much so...it's frustrating

And I like pickled onion

I do too, but only if they're Monster Munch!

Absolutely. Monster Munch pickled onion are the quintessential pickled onion flavour.

Space Raiders aren't bad.

They aren't bad, but they aren't Monster Munch. MM just have this tangy more-ishness to them.

Did anyone watch the "How It's Made" episode on crisps on the BBC recently? They went to the Monster Munch factory.

... shit I've outed myself as a crispy slut, haven't I."

Omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boervors.......flavoured ......lays

Only available in South Africa

Awesome.

Better than the hedgehog ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why i don't reply and just delete messages.

I just don't want the hassle of people questioning why or being abusive just because i said no thanks. It's easier to ignore them first time around.

I think it's rude to have to do this but in my opinion i really don't have a choice."

This

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

Cheers

She wasn't far away......I've just measured the circumference n it's just over 5 inches! "

Just above average then....which is what anyone could have predicted from your pics. Teabags was very generous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

Cheers

She wasn't far away......I've just measured the circumference n it's just over 5 inches!

Just above average then....which is what anyone could have predicted from your pics. Teabags was very generous "

That's fine with me,I don't swan about here claiming to be anything special in the cock department!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

Cheers

She wasn't far away......I've just measured the circumference n it's just over 5 inches!

Just above average then....which is what anyone could have predicted from your pics. Teabags was very generous

That's fine with me,I don't swan about here claiming to be anything special in the cock department! "

I'm not bothered either way....i was just making an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

Cheers

She wasn't far away......I've just measured the circumference n it's just over 5 inches!

Just above average then....which is what anyone could have predicted from your pics. Teabags was very generous

That's fine with me,I don't swan about here claiming to be anything special in the cock department!

I'm not bothered either way....i was just making an observation"

Cool cool,you can put the magnifying glass away now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find using my filter works well and anyone I say no thank you to just block.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Someone whose read my profile and sent a decent message get a message back complimenting them on the message but a no thanks.

Other messages are just ignored unless there worthy of a sarcastic reply.

I block which ever mesaages deserve a block. Thats it easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It boils down to sheer numbers men are like 100x more on here.

I had a good mate she joined up, and was top Fabbed for her time on here few months back and didn't even take her top off and coped but once she did 6K hits in one day 2K messages --- how can anyone cope with that.??

She's now on POF and says its 100% better can cope with and deal with it unlike this.

Kittyjam love you still. xx"

I think I know who you're talking about. I've added her to my hotlist but never got the courage to message her. Once she hit the top of hot pics I knew it was game over

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

You could be like us, change your profile to just looking for bi ladies, block all single men, problem solved, no hassles from single men and no interest from the people you're actually looking for. No messages, no worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've tried replying to most messages when filters age off and agree, it just causes more to reply and create more messages.

Plus everytime you reply to someone it makes filters less and less effective once they are back on

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

"

your a highly attractive girl miss teabags I've read your profile before I've corresponded with you privately about another forum post of yours.

I feel the only answer I can give you is this hide your profile your highly attractive guys are going to message you even those who don't meet the criteria of what your looking for call them optimist what ever its a fact your very attractive guys are going to try there luck with you .

with your profile hidden you are free from feeling ( a commendable attitude I might add ) like you need to reply to the guys messaging you and the time you are using on this task you can now put into becoming pro-active by that I mean searching through male profiles and only messaging guys who on the face of it fit the criteria of what your looking for and you will also have more time to explore the possibilities with said guys .

this approach does work yes your still going to your time wasted from time to time and theres no guarantees they will become mr regularly but at least you have some control over your site time .

I can assure you this approach does work most of the FWB arrangements I've enjoyed came about through a woman contacting me first not the other way around .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why i don't reply and just delete messages.

I just don't want the hassle of people questioning why or being abusive just because i said no thanks. It's easier to ignore them first time around.

I think it's rude to have to do this but in my opinion i really don't have a choice."

I do the same now, if I am not interested in meeting or chatting to see if we want to meet I just delete and block. Yes it feels rude but there's not enough hours in the day to reply to all and I have stated in my profile that I am looking in Bridgwater only and don't host, a lot of mail is from miles away. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

"

That is one risky move in your pic of you squatting, the left weight on the Olympic bar is not hard against the collar, looks like it has slid right down the sleeve of the bar

anyone else agree with this on OP's pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined Fab a few weeks ago, I felt like I had to answer every message, even just to politely offer a 'no thanks'. I swiftly learned that there was no way I could answer them all, even if I got a PA.

So now, if I read and don't answer or just delete I feel guilty as all hell, but I only have time to talk to the dozen or so peeps I really get on with. It takes a heck of a first message to get through to me.

I don't want to turn on my filters, as I've met some great people through random messages! So I'll just have to come to terms with being an utter bitch.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Well true hae same message back politely every time message another person back other persons keep replying that why I got my filter on for only vertify ones get hardly now. Love it this way.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"When I first joined Fab a few weeks ago, I felt like I had to answer every message, even just to politely offer a 'no thanks'. I swiftly learned that there was no way I could answer them all, even if I got a PA.

So now, if I read and don't answer or just delete I feel guilty as all hell, but I only have time to talk to the dozen or so peeps I really get on with. It takes a heck of a first message to get through to me.

I don't want to turn on my filters, as I've met some great people through random messages! So I'll just have to come to terms with being an utter bitch. "

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I just think youse lot are too up yourselves

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I really can't understand why some guys seem to want their inbox flooded with loads of "Thanks but no thanks" messages.

And I still maintain that "cheese and onion" are the only real crisps worth eating. As for Monster Munch... WTF, you people can not be being serious, surly.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

That is one risky move in your pic of you squatting, the left weight on the Olympic bar is not hard against the collar, looks like it has slid right down the sleeve of the bar

anyone else agree with this on OP's pic"

Can't really tell, looks like an oversized collar, dunno!

Anyway, teabags, we used to be like that, replying, justifying and always coming across as positive on our message exchanges but it came to a point where we now delete if the profile doesn't interest, almost without regard unless we can clearly see someone has made a real effort then we reply politely, but just the once. Harsh we know but necessary we feel, gives us enough time to enjoy the site as we'd like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really can't understand why some guys seem to want their inbox flooded with loads of "Thanks but no thanks" messages.

And I still maintain that "cheese and onion" are the only real crisps worth eating. As for Monster Munch... WTF, you people can not be being serious, surly."

you ever kissed a girl after she eats cheese & onion crisps, smell of breath makes you boak

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I really can't understand why some guys seem to want their inbox flooded with loads of "Thanks but no thanks" messages.

And I still maintain that "cheese and onion" are the only real crisps worth eating. As for Monster Munch... WTF, you people can not be being serious, surly.

"

Nothing wrong with pickled onion monster munch pal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

That is one risky move in your pic of you squatting, the left weight on the Olympic bar is not hard against the collar, looks like it has slid right down the sleeve of the bar

anyone else agree with this on OP's pic

Can't really tell, looks like an oversized collar, dunno!

Anyway, teabags, we used to be like that, replying, justifying and always coming across as positive on our message exchanges but it came to a point where we now delete if the profile doesn't interest, almost without regard unless we can clearly see someone has made a real effort then we reply politely, but just the once. Harsh we know but necessary we feel, gives us enough time to enjoy the site as we'd like. "

nice clean home you have, says a lot!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

Cheers

She wasn't far away......I've just measured the circumference n it's just over 5 inches! "

Damn she's good.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I really can't understand why some guys seem to want their inbox flooded with loads of "Thanks but no thanks" messages.

And I still maintain that "cheese and onion" are the only real crisps worth eating. As for Monster Munch... WTF, you people can not be being serious, surly.

you ever kissed a girl after she eats cheese & onion crisps, smell of breath makes you boak"

Not if you eat some yourself also.

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I really can't understand why some guys seem to want their inbox flooded with loads of "Thanks but no thanks" messages.

And I still maintain that "cheese and onion" are the only real crisps worth eating. As for Monster Munch... WTF, you people can not be being serious, surly.

Nothing wrong with pickled onion monster munch pal!"

You've clearly totally inexperienced in these matters and require the gentle but firm guidance of a more experienced person to set you on the correct path to real crisp eating pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

That is one risky move in your pic of you squatting, the left weight on the Olympic bar is not hard against the collar, looks like it has slid right down the sleeve of the bar

anyone else agree with this on OP's pic"

Shit only just noticed that

Never use clips with a warm up set, just chuck them straight on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is, you have been here long enough to Just. Know. Better.

Use your filters instead of sitting there like a spider waiting for flies on your Web. Go out hunting.

Rather than post endless attention- seeking threads about it.

It's getting dull!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The messages I struggle with replying to are the ones that aren't outright asking for a meet but you still don't really want to get into a conversation because you know you're not interested from reading their profile. So you can't reply with like "sorry, you're not what I'm looking for" because they've only asked you what crisps you like. But if you answer that question then there's more and more replies.

You can reply with that. It cuts any potential conversation short, whilst letting them know that you've read their message and not just ignored them.

I get a lot of incredibly crap messages. I do the same as teabags in replying with a "thanks, but no thanks" style message. Those who reply back along the lines of "aw why?" I just delete outright. I've made myself clear, so there's no point in engaging with them any further. If they keep persisting, the block button is there."

I always reply to first messages. Polite no thank you then if they reply I just delete. No need for conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The thing is, you have been here long enough to Just. Know. Better.

Use your filters instead of sitting there like a spider waiting for flies on your Web. Go out hunting.

Rather than post endless attention- seeking threads about it.

It's getting dull!"

Umm endless attention seeking threads about this, what the fuck? I'm sure my green arrow confirms that I do not start endless threads about this subject.

I know I can use my filters but think about, why should I have to? Less than 20% of guys on here are what is go for so putting my filters on decreases my chances again. I only search within 20 miles, what if some stunning guy lives 21 miles away from me, I wouldn't find him and he couldn't message me, chance blown.

This thread was simply highlighting how being polite and answering every message just creates more work for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly why do you bother? If i message a women and she deletes it, it isn't that bad.... are guys that petty?"

I don't know if it's petty, but it gets said over and over again by single guys that it's rude not to reply. 'Manners cost nothing' a lot say. So if the guy had written a nice personalised message we do feel we are expected to reply, and we don't want to be branded as rude. But it is tiresome. We joined Fab for fun, not to do admin. Manners do cost, they cost time. We're starting to reply to less and less now. And I get put off replying because most will saying thank you for the reply, so that extends the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I get a "no" reply I always reply "no worries. Happy fabbing" am I to understand this Pisses you ladies/ couples off?

Don't change what you do based off of the opinions of people on the forum, you'd never get anything done"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what's got to be done. I just don't like the coldness of deleting a message without a response, I don't know how many deleted messages that guy has had that day and mine might be the one that makes the geezer feel bad and I ain't about that. "

You come across as a caring person, in spite of what some jealous spiteful women say.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Just don't reply .... Simple! That way they don't get into 'conversation' with you. Works for us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its so hard to be nice when some guys just wont take no for an answer

the worst are the guys that have im not pushy on there profile then keep pushing that you have to block them

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over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

"

You're young and still have time to waste. That said, I remember being your age, only seems like yesterday but it can't be as my eldest is your age.

Seriously, first world problems: why stress yourself over answering men on a sex site you have no interest in? Doesn't that seem ridiculous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a message with a face pic if ignored I block and move on ! Only want to see potential meets.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Put the filters up then....you've answered your own question x"

Far too easy and drama free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters are the dogs bollix though.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" It's hard work, eh? "

You choose to make it so.

When visible my profile states I'll not respond to anyone outwith my specific criteria...and I don't. Result? Seven years of angst free bliss on site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else."

where'd that come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else."

Stand back ladies, this one's a charmer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else.

where'd that come from? "

Can see it through the bubbles, circumference of 4.2 inches and tip to belly button distance suggests 6" at a push.

Its fine I understand it, it comes from not fitting a preference, I get snappy and feel like my nose is out of joint when I see all the guys saying they prefer natural boobs over fake ones.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else."

Wowzer

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else.

where'd that come from? "

Presumably the recipient of a no thanks

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Why worry

You will never ever get it right for the masses.

Choose a way forward that suits you, not others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why worry

You will never ever get it right for the masses.

Choose a way forward that suits you, not others

"

started typing out a long winded response to the op's question but this says it better.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else."

She turned you down then?

That comment above, asking if some guys are really that petty? You just demonstrated it perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else.

She turned you down then?

That comment above, asking if some guys are really that petty? You just demonstrated it perfectly."
no not yet possibly blown my chances now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else.

where'd that come from?

Can see it through the bubbles, circumference of 4.2 inches and tip to belly button distance suggests 6" at a push.

Its fine I understand it, it comes from not fitting a preference, I get snappy and feel like my nose is out of joint when I see all the guys saying they prefer natural boobs over fake ones. "

I've been told otherwise (they could just be ego flattering of course) but have managed to resist getting the tape measure out this far in my life

I must have missed the fake boobs bit on here though

Still, everyone can want what they want (or don't want) on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

Cheers

She wasn't far away......I've just measured the circumference n it's just over 5 inches!

Damn she's good. "

She sure is! n as I had the tape handy n was hard I thought I might as well measure the length lol......

2 mm short of 7 inches.......n yes I measured from the top looking down,from the base at the pelvic bone to the tip of my boner.

I phoned the Guinness world record place to ask if they'd send Cheryl Baker to verify the legitimacy of my measurement......but they hung up on me!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Enjoy the attention cause I doubt you get much any where else.

where'd that come from?

Can see it through the bubbles, circumference of 4.2 inches and tip to belly button distance suggests 6" at a push.

Its fine I understand it, it comes from not fitting a preference, I get snappy and feel like my nose is out of joint when I see all the guys saying they prefer natural boobs over fake ones.

I've been told otherwise (they could just be ego flattering of course) but have managed to resist getting the tape measure out this far in my life

I must have missed the fake boobs bit on here though

Still, everyone can want what they want (or don't want) on here "

Oh there have been some "lovely" comments about enhanced boobs on here in the past!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why people have to be so nasty about everything.

If I see a profile that makes me recoil for any reason, I just block and move on. That's whether I am compatible or not.

Obviously the women get more choice, but we still get to choose who we'd like to meet?

We all have a preferences, and my preference is to meet someone who doesn't want me to jump through hoops like a performing seal.

I'm sure there is plenty of men out there that will, and that's the point.

If that is what the op wants, then I have no doubt she'll get it somewhere, just not from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see why people have to be so nasty about everything.

If I see a profile that makes me recoil for any reason, I just block and move on. That's whether I am compatible or not.

Obviously the women get more choice, but we still get to choose who we'd like to meet?

We all have a preferences, and my preference is to meet someone who doesn't want me to jump through hoops like a performing seal.

I'm sure there is plenty of men out there that will, and that's the point.

If that is what the op wants, then I have no doubt she'll get it somewhere, just not from me.

"

I don't want guys to jump through hoops I'm just set in my ways on what guys I find attractive. When I find one I treat him like a king, cut his toe nails and let him use my foot spa, bath him, cuddle him make drinks and snacks for him, face packs, massages, even hold his willy whilst he pees!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"

I don't want guys to jump through hoops I'm just set in my ways on what guys I find attractive. When I find one I treat him like a king, cut his toe nails and let him use my foot spa, bath him, cuddle him make drinks and snacks for him, face packs, massages, even hold his willy whilst he pees! "

And, unbelievably, all this even when he forgets the Scotch egg!

Mr ddc

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes if I were to "just chat" (as they always seem to suggest) to every guy I politely turned down, I'd never had a life away from fab, be able to sleep or have time to meet anyone because I'd be chatting constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why i don't reply and just delete messages.

I just don't want the hassle of people questioning why or being abusive just because i said no thanks. It's easier to ignore them first time around.

I think it's rude to have to do this but in my opinion i really don't have a choice."

It's not rude at all. Site rules says deleted messages should be taken as not interested. People know this or should know that. If they proceed to message someone who they clearly don't suit, then rejection is their own fault. No need for guys to reply back with abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why people have to be so nasty about everything.

If I see a profile that makes me recoil for any reason, I just block and move on. That's whether I am compatible or not.

Obviously the women get more choice, but we still get to choose who we'd like to meet?

We all have a preferences, and my preference is to meet someone who doesn't want me to jump through hoops like a performing seal.

I'm sure there is plenty of men out there that will, and that's the point.

If that is what the op wants, then I have no doubt she'll get it somewhere, just not from me.

I don't want guys to jump through hoops I'm just set in my ways on what guys I find attractive. When I find one I treat him like a king, cut his toe nails and let him use my foot spa, bath him, cuddle him make drinks and snacks for him, face packs, massages, even hold his willy whilst he pees! "

I have absolutely no doubt about that. Until I meet someone or chat to them for a while though, it's just words and photos.

All I can take from a person's profile is first impressions. We all do that.

Your profile made me think you were full of yourself. You're now coming across as a nicer human being than I first imagined.

You have very specific preferences and why shouldn't you. I'm not looking to change people, I just want to be myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

Cheers

She wasn't far away......I've just measured the circumference n it's just over 5 inches!

Damn she's good.

She sure is! n as I had the tape handy n was hard I thought I might as well measure the length lol......

2 mm short of 7 inches.......n yes I measured from the top looking down,from the base at the pelvic bone to the tip of my boner.

I phoned the Guinness world record place to ask if they'd send Cheryl Baker to verify the legitimacy of my measurement......but they hung up on me! "

I thought if lacking a sky remote or lynx can, the trick was to measure length from the underside, starting at your arsehole?!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

That is one risky move in your pic of you squatting, the left weight on the Olympic bar is not hard against the collar, looks like it has slid right down the sleeve of the bar

anyone else agree with this on OP's pic

Can't really tell, looks like an oversized collar, dunno!

Anyway, teabags, we used to be like that, replying, justifying and always coming across as positive on our message exchanges but it came to a point where we now delete if the profile doesn't interest, almost without regard unless we can clearly see someone has made a real effort then we reply politely, but just the once. Harsh we know but necessary we feel, gives us enough time to enjoy the site as we'd like.

nice clean home you have, says a lot!!!! "

Why, thank you If only our holiday reps thought a like regarding our accommodation. Having a great time nevertheless.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"I know this subject has been done to death but women on here just can't be nice. I've tried the last few weeks to politely answer EVERY message I get. I do it in the kindest way possible but it just invites more messages, now this ain't just one or two it's practically everyone. You work through 200 odd messages with still loads to get through but then it's doubled again with responses from the people you say no to and then asking questions and trying to get into conversation and shit.

I'm not exaggerating or trying to be all look at me with my loads of messages, fuck 'em I hate 100's of messages from unsuitable guys it's no boost, it makes me want to put my filters on but I shouldn't have to, I'm quite specific in what I want with regards to being exclusive so I want messages from the people that have read that and messaged anyway.

Right let's get one thing clear, it's not polite to message someone back after they've said thanks but no thanks, it's more polite to just accept what that person has said and leave it there, being told no doesn't need a response.

"

Lol oh know woe is you with your perfect boobs!

Having too many messages of interest, what a liberty!

My heart bleeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just size my cock n I'll stop,nae need for a forum thread about my persistent harassment of you!

get yourself a sky remote and size your own

But I've chucked out my mini can of lynx,n can't find any mini sky remotes!

A sizing from Teabags would be a lot more honest all round I reckon.

You have no idea how many of these requests I get a day as well, teabags teabags how big is my dick, it's like it's your dick mate I give clear instructions how to take an accurate measurement.

Right well I can't see where yours begins cos there's a box of bastard milk tray in the way. Circumference would be around 5.7 inches.

Haha fair dos,I can live with that.The box of bastard milk tray is hiding about another inch of shaft,but I wont bother asking you to factor that into your calculations as you've clearly had it up to here with all the cock sizing requests!

Cheers Teabags n thanks for your cock circumference calculating time

See! That response confirms that I sound like a cunt. Your penis looks lovely, that picture captures two things I hold dear to my heart!

I now want him to measure the circumference. 5.7 was very precise!

I'll go n get my tape measure out my tool bag from the car n get back to you ok

Cheers

She wasn't far away......I've just measured the circumference n it's just over 5 inches!

Damn she's good.

She sure is! n as I had the tape handy n was hard I thought I might as well measure the length lol......

2 mm short of 7 inches.......n yes I measured from the top looking down,from the base at the pelvic bone to the tip of my boner.

I phoned the Guinness world record place to ask if they'd send Cheryl Baker to verify the legitimacy of my measurement......but they hung up on me!

I thought if lacking a sky remote or lynx can, the trick was to measure length from the underside, starting at your arsehole?! "

In that case then it's 12-13 inches! Haha!

Puts me in mind of a scene in the film adapted from the Irvine Welsh book 'Filth'.

The police are having their christmas do n the main character suggets a game.....the guys take turns photocopying their tackle n bring the results through for the ladies to try n match the cocks to their owners.

However when it's the main characters turn he hits the enlarge button on the photocopier!

One of the ladies likes the look of his enlarged cock n he ends up taking her into a cupboard for a shag.

The look of confusion then disappointment on her face as he enters her from behind is a belter!

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