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Have you ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

........fallen In love with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep years ago tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Oh yes, but absolutely no regrets as I learned so much from it.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Yes......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah, whoever hasn't fallen in love with a lying douchebag just got lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...she made feel like dirt and I was hurt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes "

'Tis better to have loved and lost,than to have never loved at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends what you mean by shouldn't have fallen in love with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

'Tis better to have loved and lost,than to have never loved at all. "

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By *vie RuthWoman
over a year ago

Just where the rainbow end.s . .

Think we all have at least once in our lives No regrets Never look back when you hAve so much to look forward to

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

No

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

'Tis better to have loved and lost,than to have never loved at all. "

Perhaps

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"...she made feel like dirt and I was hurt!"

That Rosie is well known for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...she made feel like dirt and I was hurt!"

Awww that's a shit feeling.x

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"Oh yes, but absolutely no regrets as I learned so much from it.

"

You are welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course.

It's the rich tapestry of life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose we all have to a greater or lesser degree?

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Now when you say shouldn't have,how do you mean? Someone else's partner or someone who turned out to be a twat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yes I have, 'twas a right ole mess but have no regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but I don't regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a hobby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab yes... And I don't think it was a good idea fun tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.

So yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now when you say shouldn't have,how do you mean? Someone else's partner or someone who turned out to be a twat?"

You have answered you own question! The outcome is immaterial but have you ever fallen in love you shouldn't have fallen in love with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On fab yes... And I don't think it was a good idea fun tho"

Was she a cuckold's wife?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Thats a song innit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a hobby! "
Not one I would pursue!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thats a song innit? "
Is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yes, but I don't regret it."

Yes, and I'm afraid I do!!

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Looking back I dont think falling in love with any of my exes was a good thing now. Although at the time it felt right and there was no reason not to. i have no regrets but its taught me alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Thats a song innit? Is it?"

Yep..can't remember who by but I can sing it lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but the whole thing was built on lies. which by the time I found out it was too late and I was in deep!

Never mind, it's something I have definitely learned from and I don't regret it at all.

In fact I thank him as it has made me stronger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.

So yes "

Oh goodness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thats a song innit? Is it?

Yep..can't remember who by but I can sing it lol x"

The, aptly named (for this site) Buzzcocks

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Thats a song innit? "

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=irebRU5t80A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.

So yes

Oh goodness"

Yes goodness that's an awful predicament

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, but I don't regret it.

Yes, and I'm afraid I do!! "

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Once....now I try and resist the urge to run him over

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think so."

Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once....now I try and resist the urge to run him over "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once....now I try and resist the urge to run him over "
......would that be a woman's scorn per chance?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Once....now I try and resist the urge to run him over ......would that be a woman's scorn per chance?"

He did me a favour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.

So yes

Oh goodness

Yes goodness that's an awful predicament"

He's been accused of a horrible crime. I (obviously) don't believe he did it. But whether he did or not, the jury could send him away for a really long time.

Heartbroken is an understatement.

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

occasionally...too often /

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.

So yes

Oh goodness

Yes goodness that's an awful predicament

He's been accused of a horrible crime. I (obviously) don't believe he did it. But whether he did or not, the jury could send him away for a really long time.

Heartbroken is an understatement. "

If he is found guilty will your love diminish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gawd yes, yes, yes. It can be wretched, glorious, sweet, painful heartache -- and the feels can be overwhelmingly addictive.

I love and hate falling in love with someone I shouldn't.

And in lust too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think so.

Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart."

You keep quoting song lyrics

sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think so.

Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.

You keep quoting song lyrics

sorry

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I know.................irony !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.

So yes

Oh goodness

Yes goodness that's an awful predicament

He's been accused of a horrible crime. I (obviously) don't believe he did it. But whether he did or not, the jury could send him away for a really long time.

Heartbroken is an understatement.

If he is found guilty will your love diminish?"

I can't imagine it will. I think the only thing that could change how I feel about him would be if he was actually guilty. Then I'd feel pretty ill. But I really genuinely don't believe he did it. I'd never have gone near him if i did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh gawd yes, yes, yes. It can be wretched, glorious, sweet, painful heartache -- and the feels can be overwhelmingly addictive.

I love and hate falling in love with someone I shouldn't.

And in lust too. "
Lust is easy to get over. I fall in lust 10 times a day............lust and love are easily separated by a broken heart?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Currently in love with someone who not only doesn't love me back, but who is also facing life in prison.

So yes

Oh goodness

Yes goodness that's an awful predicament

He's been accused of a horrible crime. I (obviously) don't believe he did it. But whether he did or not, the jury could send him away for a really long time.

Heartbroken is an understatement.

If he is found guilty will your love diminish?

I can't imagine it will. I think the only thing that could change how I feel about him would be if he was actually guilty. Then I'd feel pretty ill. But I really genuinely don't believe he did it. I'd never have gone near him if i did. "

I truly hope that it works out for you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd yes, yes, yes. It can be wretched, glorious, sweet, painful heartache -- and the feels can be overwhelmingly addictive.

I love and hate falling in love with someone I shouldn't.

And in lust too. Lust is easy to get over. I fall in lust 10 times a day............lust and love are easily separated by a broken heart?"

This is true. I do all the falling.

Clumsy bint.

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By *xx1Man
over a year ago

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Every time I log into the Lounge

X.

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By *ete and HerCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I certainly have, it still hurts and always will !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh gawd yes, yes, yes. It can be wretched, glorious, sweet, painful heartache -- and the feels can be overwhelmingly addictive.

I love and hate falling in love with someone I shouldn't.

And in lust too. Lust is easy to get over. I fall in lust 10 times a day............lust and love are easily separated by a broken heart?

This is true. I do all the falling.

Clumsy bint. "

I think you are being harsh on yourself!

As the bard puts it in a sonnet

Let me not to the marriage of true minds

Admit impediments. Love is not love

Which alters when it alteration finds,

Or bends with the remover to remove:

O no; it is an ever-fixed mark,

That looks on tempests, and is never shaken;

It is the star to every wandering bark,

Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.

Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks

Within his bending sickle's compass come;

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,

But bears it out even to the edge of doom.

If this be error and upon me proved, I never writ, nor no (wo)man ever loved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I certainly have, it still hurts and always will !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwwww

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its weird. Not loved but ive met some twats in my life with the first guy i lived with being king twat.

But if i hadnt met any of them i wouldnt appreciate the guys in my later life and i might also have taken jay for granted and not appreciate wnat ive got.

So im going to hail or twats you helped make me the person i am today

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Yes, but I don't regret it."

Neither do I regret, have two great sons now.....and he has been dead for 17 years now anyway...life throws things at you at times to make you stronger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and the fact we speak daily makes it harder but the thought of not speaking to him...... xxx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't think so.

Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No

I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think so.

Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No

I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.

"
Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!

Try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't think so.

Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No

I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.

Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!

Try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4"

Noooo! When the violin's start it reminds me of someone.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Yes and the fact we speak daily makes it harder but the thought of not speaking to him...... xxx"

It's putting off the inevitable. Trust me, the healing starts when you cut the ties. Then it's safe to return to friendship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think so.

Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No

I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.

Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!

Try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4

Noooo! When the violin's start it reminds me of someone. "

Maybe this then!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWOTdt9Bovk

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

These days I'd rather go for self preservation

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't think so.

Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No

I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.

Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!

Try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4

Noooo! When the violin's start it reminds me of someone.

Maybe this then!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWOTdt9Bovk"

Choon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think so.

Believe me you would know as only love can tear you apart.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuuObGsB0No

I think you might be happier if you change your playlist, OP.

Nooooooooooo Saturday of maudlin mayhem!

Try this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UgAFcvIw8J4

Noooo! When the violin's start it reminds me of someone.

Maybe this then!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWOTdt9Bovk

Choon! "

Of the highest quality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and the fact we speak daily makes it harder but the thought of not speaking to him...... xxx

It's putting off the inevitable. Trust me, the healing starts when you cut the ties. Then it's safe to return to friendship.

"

I'm not ready to yet but I know that time will come. Xxx

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