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"To realy sort the real people out I think that any one who Can't or dare say won't verify there accnt with atleast a phone call after 4 months is either 1: wasting there time and every one elses 2: Not genuinely what they say they are 3: Photo collector most people can get a phone call verification withing the first week if they want to show thye genuine, i mean giving 4 months is well long enough I think. Example spoke to a girl who has been on for 10 months not one verification asked why she said "not seen any one to standard I want " what a load of hairy testies. Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. " That's about 90% of the single blokes gone in one shot then. | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! " As another interesting note... I pay no heed to verifications from other people. I only have one showing because its lovely and it makes me smile and we look for people to play with together sometimes! The rest are hidden and will always remain that way. What other people think of other people is of no concern to me and it's not my business. I have no desire to know who's shagging who. I have a mind of my own, can make it up by myself and don't require input from other people as to who I should or shouldn't have sex with. Whether they're wasting time or not, it's my time to do with as I please and I'll happily take my own risks on people as and when I see fit. | |||
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"People are all on here for different reasons some are dipping their toes in, some are just chatting to friends and some are here for actual meets. If you dont want to meet newbies then use your filters." Have to agree with Shaz...if you dont want to meet unverified peeps...just dont...use the filters...not in favour of this idea...peeps need a chance..not a strict time limmit...time wasters..pic collectors and fakes are blooming easy to spot and to avoid. | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. " Does it need to match my purse? | |||
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"To realy sort the real people out I think that any one who Can't or dare say won't verify there accnt with atleast a phone call after 4 months is either 1: wasting there time and every one elses 2: Not genuinely what they say they are 3: Photo collector most people can get a phone call verification withing the first week if they want to show thye genuine, i mean giving 4 months is well long enough I think. Example spoke to a girl who has been on for 10 months not one verification asked why she said "not seen any one to standard I want " what a load of hairy testies. Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. " Feel free to start blocking them.... you have the function. | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! " Then you should meet us all Who are we to put a time limit on getting verified? All you will do is promote fake people verifying other fake people just so they can stay on the site Put your filter on to only receive messages from those who have been verified and let the others go about their business as they wish | |||
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"I do think that people make it harder on themselves here. I try and go with the flow so to speak and try and not worry about what others have or dont have. If you meet someone and they "float" your boat then that great. Regardless of veris We all have to start somewhere dont we. Come on, join in on the forums, have a laugh , dont take it all too seriously and chill peeps " we agree | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. " how did you get round that one | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! Then you should meet us all Who are we to put a time limit on getting verified? All you will do is promote fake people verifying other fake people just so they can stay on the site Put your filter on to only receive messages from those who have been verified and let the others go about their business as they wish " Here here...and fully agree | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! " Exactly. We post on the forums, some go in chat, we have a laugh and meet at clubs. that's why we're verified I guess. We're not a clique, we just join in.. | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! Exactly. We post on the forums, some go in chat, we have a laugh and meet at clubs. that's why we're verified I guess. We're not a clique, we just join in.. " Slaps his ass..... Cuz im in that kinda mood | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! As another interesting note... I pay no heed to verifications from other people. I only have one showing because its lovely and it makes me smile and we look for people to play with together sometimes! The rest are hidden and will always remain that way. What other people think of other people is of no concern to me and it's not my business. I have no desire to know who's shagging who. I have a mind of my own, can make it up by myself and don't require input from other people as to who I should or shouldn't have sex with. Whether they're wasting time or not, it's my time to do with as I please and I'll happily take my own risks on people as and when I see fit. " *Nods in agreement* | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. how did you get round that one " It's in private Pith helmets are the new black. | |||
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"you can't post on here unless verified or photo verified " Are you serious?! Wow! That almost wants to make me come out with some sort of petition for the non-verifieds! Apart from anything else, I think that whole photo verification thing is utterly ridiculous and there's not a chance in hell that I'm going to stand up with some piece of paper with "DirtyGirl" written on it! I feel like no-one should be made to do that. As for the verifications... we all had to start somewhere, who verified the first person and so on... it's a bit like the chicken and the egg thing! | |||
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"I vote to let everyone decide what they want to do on the site...and don't contact the people who you are not likely to want to meet just to tell them they can't be real as they havn't been verified. " Ooooh radical!!! Ruggers, you rebel you! | |||
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"I vote to let everyone decide what they want to do on the site...and don't contact the people who you are not likely to want to meet just to tell them they can't be real as they havn't been verified. Ooooh radical!!! Ruggers, you rebel you! " I had some jelly beans, I think it is the E numbers | |||
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"you can't post on here unless verified or photo verified Are you serious?! Wow! That almost wants to make me come out with some sort of petition for the non-verifieds! Apart from anything else, I think that whole photo verification thing is utterly ridiculous and there's not a chance in hell that I'm going to stand up with some piece of paper with "DirtyGirl" written on it! I feel like no-one should be made to do that. As for the verifications... we all had to start somewhere, who verified the first person and so on... it's a bit like the chicken and the egg thing! " The answer to that last one is egg. | |||
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"I vote to let everyone decide what they want to do on the site...and don't contact the people who you are not likely to want to meet just to tell them they can't be real as they havn't been verified. Ooooh radical!!! Ruggers, you rebel you! come on then girl dish em out I had some jelly beans, I think it is the E numbers " | |||
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"I vote to let everyone decide what they want to do on the site...and don't contact the people who you are not likely to want to meet just to tell them they can't be real as they havn't been verified. Ooooh radical!!! Ruggers, you rebel you! come on then girl dish em out I had some jelly beans, I think it is the E numbers " No chance, it will make all of you loopy if I share !! | |||
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"I vote to let everyone decide what they want to do on the site...and don't contact the people who you are not likely to want to meet just to tell them they can't be real as they havn't been verified. Ooooh radical!!! Ruggers, you rebel you! come on then girl dish em out I had some jelly beans, I think it is the E numbers No chance, it will make all of you loopy if I share !! " sshhh keep this to yourself but I think it's to late we're all loopy already | |||
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" The answer to that last one is egg." Can you prove it? | |||
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" The answer to that last one is egg. Can you prove it? " Yes | |||
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" The answer to that last one is egg. Can you prove it? " Yup, but I`m not going to. | |||
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"To realy sort the real people out I think that any one who Can't or dare say won't verify there accnt with atleast a phone call after 4 months is either 1: wasting there time and every one elses 2: Not genuinely what they say they are 3: Photo collector most people can get a phone call verification withing the first week if they want to show thye genuine, i mean giving 4 months is well long enough I think. Example spoke to a girl who has been on for 10 months not one verification asked why she said "not seen any one to standard I want " what a load of hairy testies. Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. " Have spoken to a few folk on here but I wouldn't expect them to give me a verification from that. Consequently as yet I am still not verified, doesn't make me I timewaster. I'm not here to try and shag anything that moves and if that suits me and the discerning people I eventually meet up with, as and when circumstances allow, what difference does it make to you??? give a newbie a chance sometime then you can verify them yourself and start their ball rolling. Everybody starts somewhere and its hard enough without another hurdle in the shape of a four month rule. In my opinion! | |||
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" The answer to that last one is egg. Can you prove it? Yes " With a photo and some witnesses?! | |||
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" The answer to that last one is egg. Can you prove it? Yes With a photo and some witnesses?! " Does the Natural History Museum count? | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. " Does my helmet pic count??? | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. Does my helmet pic count??? " Of course it do... oh, THAT helmet.. No. I want to see a fedora or a top hat by the end of the week or you off!! | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. Does my helmet pic count??? Of course it do... oh, THAT helmet.. No. I want to see a fedora or a top hat by the end of the week or you off!! " U haven't looked have you??? Fedora I can do but don't posess a topper! | |||
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"I vote to let everyone decide what they want to do on the site...and don't contact the people who you are not likely to want to meet just to tell them they can't be real as they havn't been verified. Ooooh radical!!! Ruggers, you rebel you! come on then girl dish em out I had some jelly beans, I think it is the E numbers No chance, it will make all of you loopy if I share !! sshhh keep this to yourself but I think it's to late we're all loopy already " Talk for yourself matey! | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. Does my helmet pic count??? Of course it do... oh, THAT helmet.. No. I want to see a fedora or a top hat by the end of the week or you off!! U haven't looked have you??? Fedora I can do but don't posess a topper! " I have now okay your in even though you forced me to look | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. Does my helmet pic count??? Of course it do... oh, THAT helmet.. No. I want to see a fedora or a top hat by the end of the week or you off!! U haven't looked have you??? Fedora I can do but don't posess a topper! I have now okay your in even though you forced me to look " Cheers! I do think there is insufficient use of props though....... Looking for some suitable royal wedding memorabilia with which to mark the big day! | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. Does my helmet pic count??? Of course it do... oh, THAT helmet.. No. I want to see a fedora or a top hat by the end of the week or you off!! U haven't looked have you??? Fedora I can do but don't posess a topper! I have now okay your in even though you forced me to look " And another thing I just checked yours and there's no hat to be seen! Not even a trilby! | |||
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" The answer to that last one is egg. Can you prove it? Yes With a photo and some witnesses?! Does the Natural History Museum count?" Possibly... but has anyone else been there before? I couldn't possibly go on my own without knowing that. | |||
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"To realy sort the real people out I think that any one who Can't or dare say won't verify there accnt with atleast a phone call after 4 months is either 1: wasting there time and every one elses 2: Not genuinely what they say they are 3: Photo collector most people can get a phone call verification withing the first week if they want to show thye genuine, i mean giving 4 months is well long enough I think. Example spoke to a girl who has been on for 10 months not one verification asked why she said "not seen any one to standard I want " what a load of hairy testies. Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. " Think I've heard it all now | |||
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"Spit it out Granny" yup....... she is building up to it... she is gonna blow......... | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! " Thats because no-one who's not verified can post on the forums.!!!!! | |||
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"Spit it out Granny yup....... she is building up to it... she is gonna blow........." She has given up | |||
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"Spit it out Granny yup....... she is building up to it... she is gonna blow......... She has given up " or spontaineously combusted.... | |||
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"Spit it out Granny yup....... she is building up to it... she is gonna blow......... She has given up " nah..... it's Granny... there will be a gem acoming | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! Thats because no-one who's not verified can post on the forums.!!!!!" I'm not!!!! | |||
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"You are , by PV " ah yeah but that doesn't really count does it??? Not like in the flesh as it were! | |||
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"You are , by PV ah yeah but that doesn't really count does it??? Not like in the flesh as it were! " It counts as being verified to be able to post in the forums yes To be honest, it is a good way of letting people know you are who you say you are too if you have no other veri's | |||
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" .... why should I set aside time for someone who cant be bothered proving some genuine aspects to them,...." I dunno... who said you need to? | |||
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" .... why should I set aside time for someone who cant be bothered proving some genuine aspects to them,.... I dunno... who said you need to?" If I'm intending on meeting someone I want to know they are genuine, so of course I'm going to spend time making sure I hope to be safe with whoever I'm planning on meeting be it a public meet or to their house and vice versa. | |||
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"Makes a difference for both sides to have the veri. Took me a while to get phone veried , (thanks to a contributor on this thread) but it's made my profile a little more visible I feel. Either that or because i am frequenting forums more than chat where its manic!!" Well hello there sexy | |||
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" .... why should I set aside time for someone who cant be bothered proving some genuine aspects to them,.... I dunno... who said you need to? If I'm intending on meeting someone I want to know they are genuine, so of course I'm going to spend time making sure I hope to be safe with whoever I'm planning on meeting be it a public meet or to their house and vice versa." Yeahhhhhhhh... I get that bit. But why do you feel you have to set aside time for people you think can't be bothered proving they are genuine? | |||
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" .... why should I set aside time for someone who cant be bothered proving some genuine aspects to them,.... I dunno... who said you need to? " Well I normally assume people would be bothered to give authenticity to themselves lol | |||
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"People are all on here for different reasons some are dipping their toes in, some are just chatting to friends and some are here for actual meets. If you dont want to meet newbies then use your filters." lol hown lng do u dip your toe before making your mind up and its a swingers site not chat site lol | |||
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"If ya dunna want ta meet peeps with no verifications then don't Simples xx " Yup agree with that | |||
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"i met someone who had been on here 8 months with no verifictions and he wasnt a timewaister. its hard especially for the guys on here" whats so hard about one phone call to be honest | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! " yes you would think they get fed up of % of pic collectors and time wasters | |||
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"Each to their own, we've had a few meets but don't see the necessity to show how many knotches on bedposts. Eventually we may list verifications. " same here dont kiss and tell however you dont have to show ur full info on who or how you were verified nor your freinds list | |||
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"Each to their own, we've had a few meets but don't see the necessity to show how many knotches on bedposts. Eventually we may list verifications. " Small not how can u say that out of intrest u have been on for 2 weeks and not verifed but thats ok for now thats my point | |||
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"I think anyone who has not got a suitable hat pic on their profile within 4 weeks should be banned. " 4 weeks is a bit short 4 months | |||
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"People are all on here for different reasons some are dipping their toes in, some are just chatting to friends and some are here for actual meets. If you dont want to meet newbies then use your filters. Have to agree with Shaz...if you dont want to meet unverified peeps...just dont...use the filters...not in favour of this idea...peeps need a chance..not a strict time limmit...time wasters..pic collectors and fakes are blooming easy to spot and to avoid." as say sugestion not order but dont you think 4 months is long enough | |||
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"Each to their own, we've had a few meets but don't see the necessity to show how many knotches on bedposts. Eventually we may list verifications. Small not how can u say that out of intrest u have been on for 2 weeks and not verifed but thats ok for now thats my point" LOL BUSTED!!!! Green tick would show even if you have chosen not to show verifications.... | |||
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"People are all on here for different reasons some are dipping their toes in, some are just chatting to friends and some are here for actual meets. If you dont want to meet newbies then use your filters. lol hown lng do u dip your toe before making your mind up and its a swingers site not chat site lol" Actually not all of us use the site for meets I have actually only met two people off this or any other swinging site by use of emails I generally meet at socials or through friends that have met people also house parties I personally use the site to keep in touch with people i have met this way So for me personally this is a chat site xx | |||
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"Cumon then OP, why don't you block unverifieds in your message filters ?? It's a simple enough question, why no answer ??" Too easy to do that | |||
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"Considering the enormous amount of adult photo sites there are on the internet the 'pic collectors' argument is a bit lame.... " Arrh but Jane my pics arnt on any sleazy websites is why xx | |||
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"Considering the enormous amount of adult photo sites there are on the internet the 'pic collectors' argument is a bit lame.... Arrh but Jane my pics arnt on any sleazy websites is why xx" Fair comment.....yours are real collectors items!! | |||
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"Considering the enormous amount of adult photo sites there are on the internet the 'pic collectors' argument is a bit lame.... Arrh but Jane my pics arnt on any sleazy websites is why xx Fair comment.....yours are real collectors items!!" Yeah my psychiatrist thinks so too xx | |||
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"Considering the enormous amount of adult photo sites there are on the internet the 'pic collectors' argument is a bit lame.... Arrh but Jane my pics arnt on any sleazy websites is why xx Fair comment.....yours are real collectors items!!" I saw em on dickinsons real deal earlier | |||
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"Cumon then OP, why don't you block unverifieds in your message filters ?? It's a simple enough question, why no answer ?? Too easy to do that " It would seem that way, it's funny how folks seem to have arguments for everything but they ignore what's staring them right in the face ... It's a funny old world | |||
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"People are all on here for different reasons some are dipping their toes in, some are just chatting to friends and some are here for actual meets. If you dont want to meet newbies then use your filters. Have to agree with Shaz...if you dont want to meet unverified peeps...just dont...use the filters...not in favour of this idea...peeps need a chance..not a strict time limmit...time wasters..pic collectors and fakes are blooming easy to spot and to avoid. as say sugestion not order but dont you think 4 months is long enough" I can see your train of thought...as in no veri after a length of time say 2mnths...4 mnths...6 mnths..maybe being a possible indicator of a timewaster.. Swinging is not an exact science...and peeps lead the lifesyle in many different ways... Some peeps want to meet a stranger on meet today...others develop relationships and meet others after days ..weeks or months of chatting...swinging is all about choice..I personally am not in favour of any time limmit on verifications...and fakes are very easy to spot...and to be brutally honest...the more desparate peeps are for a meet the more likely they are to interact with fakes and ignore alarm bells to get a potential shag... | |||
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"You are , by PV ah yeah but that doesn't really count does it??? Not like in the flesh as it were! It counts as being verified to be able to post in the forums yes To be honest, it is a good way of letting people know you are who you say you are too if you have no other veri's " Then feel free to give me a call some time | |||
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"Each to their own, we've had a few meets but don't see the necessity to show how many knotches on bedposts. Eventually we may list verifications. Small not how can u say that out of intrest u have been on for 2 weeks and not verifed but thats ok for now thats my point LOL BUSTED!!!! Green tick would show even if you have chosen not to show verifications...." Yes green tick shows even if veris are hidden. Also there's a section that you can manage veris, where you have to accept them to show on profile. We have a couple but not added them to profile. We are both very real as those who have phoned us and met us can testify which brings us back to veris. We (for now) choose not to have them on profile. As we mentioned before we prefer not to look like its notches on the bedpost. | |||
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"To realy sort the real people out I think that any one who Can't or dare say won't verify there accnt with atleast a phone call after 4 months is either 1: wasting there time and every one elses 2: Not genuinely what they say they are 3: Photo collector most people can get a phone call verification withing the first week if they want to show thye genuine, i mean giving 4 months is well long enough I think. Example spoke to a girl who has been on for 10 months not one verification asked why she said "not seen any one to standard I want " what a load of hairy testies. Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. " what a pile of shit i am fussy and have standards i wont meet anyone who doesnt match my criteria | |||
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"Just an interesting note, every person that has posted a response on this is verified !!!! yes you would think they get fed up of % of pic collectors and time wasters " i also block people who add you to friends list ( well try to) without a message | |||
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"To realy sort the real people out I think that any one who Can't or dare say won't verify there accnt with atleast a phone call after 4 months is either 1: wasting there time and every one elses 2: Not genuinely what they say they are 3: Photo collector most people can get a phone call verification withing the first week if they want to show thye genuine, i mean giving 4 months is well long enough I think. Example spoke to a girl who has been on for 10 months not one verification asked why she said "not seen any one to standard I want " what a load of hairy testies. Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. " Petetion implies this is a democracy yet you want to dictate how other people use their account? hmmmmm | |||
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"To realy sort the real people out I think that any one who Can't or dare say won't verify there accnt with atleast a phone call after 4 months is either 1: wasting there time and every one elses 2: Not genuinely what they say they are 3: Photo collector most people can get a phone call verification withing the first week if they want to show thye genuine, i mean giving 4 months is well long enough I think. Example spoke to a girl who has been on for 10 months not one verification asked why she said "not seen any one to standard I want " what a load of hairy testies. Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. Petetion implies this is a democracy yet you want to dictate how other people use their account? hmmmmm " they will be saying next that adding ro friends list blind will be allowed | |||
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"How do you think it's been twisted ? The OP wants a way to avoid non verified members and there is a simple way to do that which has already been explained - message filters, blocks unverifieds, problem solved. But the OP gives the impression that this 4 month mullarky should be site wide and honestly speaking, why should it ? If some are happy to meet unverifieds then so be it, but for those who don't, the site provides the option to deal with it" the poster said petition,when someone comes to your door with one they dont demand that ou sign it!-so this post has been twisted to the point that most of the replies are suggesting that the posters are wrong to complain about "people" who are wasting their time or falsifying their status on the site.Even I dont think the veifications mean that much however I do like to know that I'm not sitting wasting my time trying to engage(ok lets say shag lol) a person who really has no intention in providing details about themselves.I've been on the end of the silly behaviour and posted about it before, and I'm rarely a complainer when it comes to swinging but its really not much to ask recieving SOME sort of verification. | |||
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"i dont it is a suggestion if thye not gona meet why even waste evry ones time as say its a suggestion" So this site is only for people who want to meet? Not for those who are just enjoying the forums or chat. Or for those who just want to keep in touch with friends? How prescriptive. | |||
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"lol hown lng do u dip your toe before making your mind up and its a swingers site not chat site lol" As long as you damn well want to - I can't stand it when people try to tell others what swinging is and make up rules as to how the site should be used. It's a community for people to participate how they wish. If you don't like one person's choices, move on stop being so know it all and condescending to others. | |||
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"I hate this kind of thread - too many rules takes the freedom of spirit away. Why do people insist they know the one and only way of swinging? And worst of all, that everyone else should follow it..." Thanks Bright, Couldn't have put it better ourselves x. | |||
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"lol hown lng do u dip your toe before making your mind up and its a swingers site not chat site lol As long as you damn well want to - I can't stand it when people try to tell others what swinging is and make up rules as to how the site should be used. It's a community for people to participate how they wish. If you don't like one person's choices, move on stop being so know it all and condescending to others. " You need some chocolate | |||
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"Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. " Sorry, no signature from me. I meet unverified peeps (as long as they pass my own PERSONAL vetting checks), and in 3 years, I've never had a meet fail to turn up. As said above, the site already has facilites for anyone to exclude unverified peeps, if that's their preference. Don't try to impose it on all of us! | |||
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"lol hown lng do u dip your toe before making your mind up and its a swingers site not chat site lol As long as you damn well want to - I can't stand it when people try to tell others what swinging is and make up rules as to how the site should be used. It's a community for people to participate how they wish. If you don't like one person's choices, move on stop being so know it all and condescending to others. " Absolutely spot on! | |||
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"Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. Sorry, no signature from me. I meet unverified peeps (as long as they pass my own PERSONAL vetting checks), and in 3 years, I've never had a meet fail to turn up. As said above, the site already has facilites for anyone to exclude unverified peeps, if that's their preference. Don't try to impose it on all of us!" Indeed! In four years I've not had a no show either. Most of my playmates didn't have verifications as neither they or I cared: what total strangers think about someone I'm going to invite into my home and body have no bearing on my decision. I'm sure those that have been messed about have been with verified people: so what does that prove?!! Some people just attract timewasters: look to yourself to find out what part you play instead of trying to change something that works just fine for a number of people! | |||
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"To realy sort the real people out I think that any one who Can't or dare say won't verify there accnt with atleast a phone call after 4 months is either 1: wasting there time and every one elses 2: Not genuinely what they say they are 3: Photo collector most people can get a phone call verification withing the first week if they want to show thye genuine, i mean giving 4 months is well long enough I think. Example spoke to a girl who has been on for 10 months not one verification asked why she said "not seen any one to standard I want " what a load of hairy testies. Please lets sort the real people out/ Petition to block any one with over 4 months and not verified. " i have met some 1 n the last month an the user refuse 2 verified this is not down to me its down to her an you cant force any 1 to verified you its really there choice | |||
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"some people dont seem to understand that when u get verified you dont need to show on ur proifle the feed back. Your profile just shows you are verified you dont have to show the verification " you dont know other members circumstances, so a block after 4 months if they aint verified? What if no one takes their fancy? What if they dont want to phone someone? I dont see how you can come to the conclusion that you have in your OP | |||
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"personally i still think this original post is a crock of shit " personally I think many of the responses have been crocks of shit themselves! | |||
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"toilet paper anyone? " Only if its recycled, or that rough cheap tracing paper stuff!!!! x | |||
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"toilet paper anyone? Only if its recycled, or that rough cheap tracing paper stuff!!!! x" kinky fecker! | |||
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"toilet paper anyone? Only if its recycled, or that rough cheap tracing paper stuff!!!! xkinky fecker! " lol scratch my bumhole with yer tracy-paper x | |||
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"toilet paper anyone? Only if its recycled, or that rough cheap tracing paper stuff!!!! xkinky fecker! lol scratch my bumhole with yer tracy-paper x" who the fuck is tracey? lol | |||
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"toilet paper anyone? Only if its recycled, or that rough cheap tracing paper stuff!!!! xkinky fecker! lol scratch my bumhole with yer tracy-paper xwho the fuck is tracey? lol " | |||
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"200 posts yet " surprisingly not ... only 150 at this point lol | |||
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"some people dont seem to understand that when u get verified you dont need to show on ur proifle the feed back. Your profile just shows you are verified you dont have to show the verification " If it is a meet verification you are wanting to see but can't because they are hiden, you can use the advance search button , it shows up verified by meets. | |||
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"personally i still think this original post is a crock of shit " Hahaha - that made me LOL literally... which spooked my cat who was asleep at my feet at the time. | |||
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