FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Meet cancellations (heard or given)

Jump to newest
 

By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

So we all have been stood up and stood up people. But what has been the lamest excuse you've heard for someone to cancel on you and what excuse have you used and why

Recieved; a couple didn't want me to take cab to their address but said they only meet people who drive. I asked why said didn't want cabbies coming onto there road

Given; Said I was with the lads they just came round with beers and cards lol. And did it because a hotter girl on fab responded to my ad LOL

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My FWB said he was in his Office all week so could not meet, he doesn't have one

I haven't given any that weren't true.

Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the one where his wifey came home from work early. at least he was honest.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 4 cancel last minute. Mostly for socials. But 1 in particular female said her, a family member was very ill, less the 2 hours later get's a verify for a last minute fuck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One said that she had to go and have her piles pushed back in as her attempts had failed and they were protruding somewhat.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I've had 4 cancel last minute. Mostly for socials. But 1 in particular female said her, a family member was very ill, less the 2 hours later get's a verify for a last minute fuck "

Isnt that the worst. I've had that happen to me before. Then when she saw my last veri asked to meet up I said nah I'm okay. And wanted to make such a big deal out o me rejecting her

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had 4 cancel last minute. Mostly for socials. But 1 in particular female said her, a family member was very ill, less the 2 hours later get's a verify for a last minute fuck "

I had a guy say that.. was all OK in the morning.. then stopped talking though fine I text a few times asking still OK to meet nothing..

then he text saying sorry he been in hospital with his son as was ill and his phone dyed so couldnt text me or meet now....

he had been on here 40 mins befor that text and had a verification 3 hours later.. hmmm I don't think his son was ill..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite a cancellation but did have someone say they had to get home to run the kids about. I later learned they met up with someone else for some 'fun'. Charming!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Received : I can't meet you tonight I've just found out my man died, then a few hours later remessages me to ask of I'm still free as he was feeling like he needed some company (while on his status was naming and shaming another user for standing him up) so I told him I was interested in being his back up plan especially since I'd already lined up another meet that I absolutely enjoyed

Given : last minute childcare issues or as of today a surprise visit from Mother Nature but those are true excuses when I give them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Received : I can't meet you tonight I've just found out my man died, then a few hours later remessages me to ask of I'm still free as he was feeling like he needed some company (while on his status was naming and shaming another user for standing him up) so I told him I was interested in being his back up plan especially since I'd already lined up another meet that I absolutely enjoyed

Given : last minute childcare issues or as of today a surprise visit from Mother Nature but those are true excuses when I give them "

Wow that's pretty low to use that excuse about pops dying.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never been stood up and we've certainly never stood anyone up. We've had to put up with cancellations though, but all have had the courtesy to tell us, and all were men we'd met before. I don't know why this is treated as the norm. We would never cancel anyone.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crashed his car on the way and damaged his phone in the process managed to get on fab to block me though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've never been stood up and we've certainly never stood anyone up. We've had to put up with cancellations though, but all have had the courtesy to tell us, and all were men we'd met before. I don't know why this is treated as the norm. We would never cancel anyone."

neither would i.

only time i cancelled on a guy was because i'd already told someone else first i would meet them and forgot about that, but i let the guy know about that i had forgotten i said i'd meet someone else.

he has a grudge against me now and tells my veris that i'm a dog and asks them if i'm a good fuck, why's he care about that if i'm a dog to him anyway?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

My mother died and I'm the best man - gotta dash - byeeeeeeeeeeee!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've never been stood up and we've certainly never stood anyone up. We've had to put up with cancellations though, but all have had the courtesy to tell us, and all were men we'd met before. I don't know why this is treated as the norm. We would never cancel anyone.

neither would i.

only time i cancelled on a guy was because i'd already told someone else first i would meet them and forgot about that, but i let the guy know about that i had forgotten i said i'd meet someone else.

he has a grudge against me now and tells my veris that i'm a dog and asks them if i'm a good fuck, why's he care about that if i'm a dog to him anyway?"

Actually, i remember. I did cancel once. One of my guys and I arranged 2 weeks ahead for him to visit me at home during the day. Normally I'm totally anal with my diary, but for some reason I had forgotten to put that it was the kids sports day that day. Had it been an evening meet I wouldn't have made that mistake, but I don't normally do day time meets. I cancelled with 1 full weeks notice and he could tell how embarrassed I was that I had got disorganised with my diary.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did have a cancellation once from one of our regulars because his church friends, of all people, wanted to go for a bite and a movie ! Terrified that they would discover his double life, he felt he had to say yes to them even though he'd been with them all afternoon and we'd had our arrangement in the diary for about a month.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

One messages that he'd broken his arm then posted a verification then next day. Makes you laugh really.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We had arranged to play with a guy who cancelled because he had got really d*unk at a wake and was scared that he wouldn't be able to perform!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ever cancel and never stand anyone up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My reasons not to follow through on a meet are all true but could be considered lame. I've said no because I couldn't be arsed to tidy my house, said that I was not in a good mood, said I wanted to have an Indian over my friends instead. They're all valid and truthful though!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

One guy had been pestering us for a meet for weeks so we eventually relented and said ok. We'd exchanged face pics and everything was set to go ahead then 1 hour before the meet he messaged to say he had sunburn. He never asked to reschedule and neither did we so I guess he just changed his mind.

On the upside, at least he messaged so no time was wasted.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some guy went to get something out his fridge and fell in and got trapped all night had to be rescued the next day

One of the funniest things ive ever read on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I've only cancelled genuinely and because of kids usually, day meets tend to be the hardest, chicken pox and d&v whereby they have been kept off school. Yes it's last minute but can't be helped when you're a single mum x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"My reasons not to follow through on a meet are all true but could be considered lame. I've said no because I couldn't be arsed to tidy my house, said that I was not in a good mood, said I wanted to have an Indian over my friends instead. They're all valid and truthful though! "

I've turned down meets I can't be arsed with tidying up!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had all the usual one's

If I believed every guy who had a family member took ill on the day they arranged to meet me I'd leave fab for health and safty issues

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had all the usual one's

If I believed every guy who had a family member took ill on the day they arranged to meet me I'd leave fab for health and safty issues "

Yup there's a hell of a lot of sickness on the swing scene. Occupational hazard?!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never received an excuse just block.

Also never have given an excuse myself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to cancel once due to a flood at work which happened just as I was about to leave. The couple I was meeting got really arsey about it and for weeks I had messages off them calling me all names under the sun. I blocked them and then started getting messages from their friends, they were also messaging the people on my friends list and those that had verified me. Almost made me quit the site.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 19/08/16 20:45:56]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to cancel once due to a flood at work which happened just as I was about to leave. The couple I was meeting got really arsey about it and for weeks I had messages off them calling me all names under the sun. I blocked them and then started getting messages from their friends, they were also messaging the people on my friends list and those that had verified me. Almost made me quit the site. "

I had to cancel a meet once because my daughter had fell in the back garden and took a big chunk out of her leg, I text him straight away telling him, I was then bombarded with text asking me which hospital we was going to and he would sit and have a chat in the waiting room when I said no he asked what I had to hid, if I was being honest I'd have no problem telling him where I was going and just meeting for a chat while I was waiting for the doctor to see my daugher when I refused he got very nasty and kept sending me time waster messages, I ended up changing my number to get rid of him and never gave my number out again to anybody

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I had to cancel once due to a flood at work which happened just as I was about to leave. The couple I was meeting got really arsey about it and for weeks I had messages off them calling me all names under the sun. I blocked them and then started getting messages from their friends, they were also messaging the people on my friends list and those that had verified me. Almost made me quit the site.

I had to cancel a meet once because my daughter had fell in the back garden and took a big chunk out of her leg, I text him straight away telling him, I was then bombarded with text asking me which hospital we was going to and he would sit and have a chat in the waiting room when I said no he asked what I had to hid, if I was being honest I'd have no problem telling him where I was going and just meeting for a chat while I was waiting for the doctor to see my daugher when I refused he got very nasty and kept sending me time waster messages, I ended up changing my number to get rid of him and never gave my number out again to anybody "

Can't believe he said that Why would you want a stranger from a swinging site to sit with your daughter in a&e? Idiot

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to cancel once due to a flood at work which happened just as I was about to leave. The couple I was meeting got really arsey about it and for weeks I had messages off them calling me all names under the sun. I blocked them and then started getting messages from their friends, they were also messaging the people on my friends list and those that had verified me. Almost made me quit the site.

I had to cancel a meet once because my daughter had fell in the back garden and took a big chunk out of her leg, I text him straight away telling him, I was then bombarded with text asking me which hospital we was going to and he would sit and have a chat in the waiting room when I said no he asked what I had to hid, if I was being honest I'd have no problem telling him where I was going and just meeting for a chat while I was waiting for the doctor to see my daugher when I refused he got very nasty and kept sending me time waster messages, I ended up changing my number to get rid of him and never gave my number out again to anybody

Can't believe he said that Why would you want a stranger from a swinging site to sit with your daughter in a&e? Idiot "

To be honest I just simply think he didn't believe me and was trying to catch me out

I suppose if you have enough people cancel on you you start doubting everybody

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I had to cancel once due to a flood at work which happened just as I was about to leave. The couple I was meeting got really arsey about it and for weeks I had messages off them calling me all names under the sun. I blocked them and then started getting messages from their friends, they were also messaging the people on my friends list and those that had verified me. Almost made me quit the site.

I had to cancel a meet once because my daughter had fell in the back garden and took a big chunk out of her leg, I text him straight away telling him, I was then bombarded with text asking me which hospital we was going to and he would sit and have a chat in the waiting room when I said no he asked what I had to hid, if I was being honest I'd have no problem telling him where I was going and just meeting for a chat while I was waiting for the doctor to see my daugher when I refused he got very nasty and kept sending me time waster messages, I ended up changing my number to get rid of him and never gave my number out again to anybody

Can't believe he said that Why would you want a stranger from a swinging site to sit with your daughter in a&e? Idiot

To be honest I just simply think he didn't believe me and was trying to catch me out

I suppose if you have enough people cancel on you you start doubting everybody "

Most likely however he should have realised how awkward it would be for him to just turn up there in an attempt to call your bluff

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My reasons not to follow through on a meet are all true but could be considered lame. I've said no because I couldn't be arsed to tidy my house, said that I was not in a good mood, said I wanted to have an Indian over my friends instead. They're all valid and truthful though!

I've turned down meets I can't be arsed with tidying up!"
shocking!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top