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" 34 is young. Visit clubs. Sex isn't guaranteed just because you join a swingers site. x" This And also, no pain no gain! Nothing in life is easy to attain Get yourself to a few socials. May not even be your thing but at least you're meeting people. It may or may not lead to something in the future. Get down to a club as Harlot suggested and get networking Hang in there | |||
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"Are we? " I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened. | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? " 34 is not old Try going to a club. There are so many single guys here. As Shag would say ' patience is the key' | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? " Haha. | |||
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" 34 is young. Visit clubs. Sex isn't guaranteed just because you join a swingers site. x" Thanks, I might try that out. Need to find one close to me | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? " Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? " And the younger men think all the older men get the attention, the dad bod men think the ripped men do, the over 50s think the under 50s are in demand... The truth is that man outnumber women and all but a few find it difficult | |||
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" 34 is young. Visit clubs. Sex isn't guaranteed just because you join a swingers site. x Thanks, I might try that out. Need to find one close to me " I'm a nice helpful person sometimes.... http://connect4fun.co.uk/swingers-clubs/utopia-swingers-club.htm | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? " Ha Ha! Oh to be 34 again If you feel rejected now, there's no hope | |||
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"Are we? I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened. " Mate, you look like a pretty fit guy to me to be honest so I wouldn't worry about that. Stay positive, learn to handle rejection and use it to better yourself and to understand where you may be going wrong. Ok, so a few women on here may opt to go for that 6 pack but it's not always the case. Keep telling yourself that and check out my tips above. | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? " You need to man up... nobody likes a whinger! | |||
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"Perhaps there are more ladies like myself that like guys my own age group or older, it's a bit presumptuous to think every woman on here is looking for a young guy with a six pack " I don't say that this is the case for the op at all but I think lots of men have entirely the wrong idea of fab and think it's going to be very easy to find women to have sex with. When it turns out not to be they blame it on the women wanting something that they aren't. | |||
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"Perhaps there are more ladies like myself that like guys my own age group or older, it's a bit presumptuous to think every woman on here is looking for a young guy with a six pack I don't say that this is the case for the op at all but I think lots of men have entirely the wrong idea of fab and think it's going to be very easy to find women to have sex with. When it turns out not to be they blame it on the women wanting something that they aren't." | |||
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"Are we? I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened. " This may be the case with some women. But oddly enough, we are not all the same. You are the lower end of my age range and I don't like 6packs. Stereotyping rarely works. | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus " And you are very tasty! | |||
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"There is possibly 100 men to every woman, what makes you stand out from the other 99 men. As I understand it a lot of the guys on here seem to think because it's a sex site they don't have to try. Even on a sex site women are less shallow than men, they want a guy with personality, obviously a 6 pack doesn't hurt chances either" Hahahahahahahahaahahaha | |||
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"I've got a 6 pack... ...in the fridge " I've got a wine pack... | |||
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"I've got a 6 pack... ...in the fridge I've got a wine pack..." | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! " I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus " You are yummmmmy | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now " | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! " As are you young lady | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now " Na I don't think so. OP if you search the forums for posts about can't get meets you will find profile advice, a thousand times over. X | |||
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"Everyone is entitled to a moan every now and then,lot's do it on here there's no difference so you're in good company! I would hate to be a guy on here,us women have it pretty good " | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now " Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment " Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy | |||
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"The guys do have to compete though if you think about it As i am sure some of the ladies who have been on longer have there favourites on here ..... and dont like change ..." That is true. But the more we worry about the competition and the less focus we put into ourselves...the less chance we'd have to get a meet. | |||
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"Dam I can feel the burn lol Many points taken, many thanks everyone x Much love " I've posted a local club plus messaged you. | |||
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"BORING! Then don't post in here. Happy Friday." I'll post where i please. | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy" I'm hearing you | |||
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"BORING! Then don't post in here. Happy Friday. I'll post where i please. " Fair enough | |||
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"BORING! Then don't post in here. Happy Friday. I'll post where i please. " And be boring with it. | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy I'm hearing you " Im not even meeting so i should keep my bloody nose out really | |||
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"BORING! Then don't post in here. Happy Friday. I'll post where i please. And be boring with it. " If my comment was boring, then you're equally as boring with that comment! | |||
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"Are we? I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened. " Not all women like six packs, i personally find them repulsive, every woman has different likes and dislikes. Just keep looking Emma x | |||
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"BORING! Then don't post in here. Happy Friday. I'll post where i please. " Ahhhhhhhhh lads..... | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy I'm hearing you Im not even meeting so i should keep my bloody nose out really " Oops in that case me too. | |||
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" Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus And you are very tasty! I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy I'm hearing you Im not even meeting so i should keep my bloody nose out really " Well like I said we all like a moan every now and then don't we . I would get incredibly disheartened if most of my messages were ignored,thankfully I don't send that many so I just get the odd one or two ignored and that's bad enough | |||
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"Are we? I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened. Not all women like six packs, i personally find them repulsive, every woman has different likes and dislikes. Just keep looking Emma x" Love your profile pic. Wish that we me x | |||
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"I,m feeling rejected too, it's not just guys who find the sites hard sometimes XXX" Niçe tits | |||
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"Perhaps there are more ladies like myself that like guys my own age group or older, it's a bit presumptuous to think every woman on here is looking for a young guy with a six pack I don't say that this is the case for the op at all but I think lots of men have entirely the wrong idea of fab and think it's going to be very easy to find women to have sex with. When it turns out not to be they blame it on the women wanting something that they aren't." Yes this. But I have to admit the OP's current status would ensure I hit delete immediately regardless of age or six pack. | |||
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"Sounds like another dreamer that thinks chicks will flock to him when it's actually the opposite..no offence " I think some guys think so highly of themselves that its an 'injustice' when they dont have a queue of women all begging to bounce up and down of their manhood. I doubt the OP has tried hard at all, and id love to see his messages. . Probably goes as follows. "Hey, come shag now?" | |||
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"Sounds like another dreamer that thinks chicks will flock to him when it's actually the opposite..no offence I think some guys think so highly of themselves that its an 'injustice' when they dont have a queue of women all begging to bounce up and down of their manhood. I doubt the OP has tried hard at all, and id love to see his messages. . Probably goes as follows. "Hey, come shag now?" " Really? I don't think highly of myself. I'm not the one with a top trumps card as a profile pic :P In fact a message from me usually is very complimentary and I take the time to read a persons profile and will make genuine compliments. I try and take care of my appearance and I'm no minger, but I don't think I'm anything special and I hilight that in my original post. I just find it a bit frustrating if I send a few messages, send a few winks or put myself on a meet today that I only get messages from guys. That is literally my only point and frustration. I can't imagine I'm alone on this one, and dont get me wrong,I'm not thinking women should flock to me. I just find it a bit disheartening sometimes. | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? " what you talkin' about man? 34 is old, I'm older and I do OK on here | |||
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"Sounds like another dreamer that thinks chicks will flock to him when it's actually the opposite..no offence I think some guys think so highly of themselves that its an 'injustice' when they dont have a queue of women all begging to bounce up and down of their manhood. I doubt the OP has tried hard at all, and id love to see his messages. . Probably goes as follows. "Hey, come shag now?" Really? I don't think highly of myself. I'm not the one with a top trumps card as a profile pic :P In fact a message from me usually is very complimentary and I take the time to read a persons profile and will make genuine compliments. I try and take care of my appearance and I'm no minger, but I don't think I'm anything special and I hilight that in my original post. I just find it a bit frustrating if I send a few messages, send a few winks or put myself on a meet today that I only get messages from guys. That is literally my only point and frustration. I can't imagine I'm alone on this one, and dont get me wrong,I'm not thinking women should flock to me. I just find it a bit disheartening sometimes. " Yea, he is a minger. | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? what you talkin' about man? 34 is old, I'm older and I do OK on here" I'm 43!! Come on you oldies!! Ha ha no six pack can make up for experience.... | |||
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"I,m feeling rejected too, it's not just guys who find the sites hard sometimes XXX Niçe tits " Hi thank you x | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? what you talkin' about man? 34 is old, I'm older and I do OK on here I'm 43!! Come on you oldies!! Ha ha no six pack can make up for experience...." I,m not into 6 packs XXX | |||
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"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol. I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls. I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention? what you talkin' about man? 34 is old, I'm older and I do OK on here I'm 43!! Come on you oldies!! Ha ha no six pack can make up for experience...." To be fair, you have a solid profile. Might be able.to pick up a few pointers from there. In fairness I have had 33 views today and a few messages since so not all bad. Just need to get involved more I think.;) | |||
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"34 is a great age to be. I personally prefer men over 30 at least. I had a little look at your profile; you should think about adding more public photos as only 1 doesn't give enough information (my personal opinion obviously). As others have said, clubs can be great to meet people too. You'll be grand xx" Thanks, you are probably right. I had a load of pics then went all shy when my mates recognised my profile so took them off. By the way, nice ass x | |||
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