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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34 is young.

Visit clubs.

Sex isn't guaranteed just because you join a swingers site.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

34 is young.

Visit clubs.

Sex isn't guaranteed just because you join a swingers site.

x"

This

And also, no pain no gain!

Nothing in life is easy to attain

Get yourself to a few socials. May not even be your thing but at least you're meeting people. It may or may not lead to something in the future.

Get down to a club as Harlot suggested and get networking

Hang in there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are we? "

I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

"

34 is not old

Try going to a club.

There are so many single guys here.

As Shag would say ' patience is the key'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

"

Haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

34 is young.

Visit clubs.

Sex isn't guaranteed just because you join a swingers site.

x"

Thanks, I might try that out. Need to find one close to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

"

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

"

And the younger men think all the older men get the attention, the dad bod men think the ripped men do, the over 50s think the under 50s are in demand...

The truth is that man outnumber women and all but a few find it difficult

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Perhaps there are more ladies like myself that like guys my own age group or older, it's a bit presumptuous to think every woman on here is looking for a young guy with a six pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

34 is young.

Visit clubs.

Sex isn't guaranteed just because you join a swingers site.

x

Thanks, I might try that out. Need to find one close to me "

I'm a nice helpful person sometimes....

http://connect4fun.co.uk/swingers-clubs/utopia-swingers-club.htm

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By *i1971Man
over a year ago

Cornwall


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

"

Ha Ha! Oh to be 34 again If you feel rejected now, there's no hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is possibly 100 men to every woman, what makes you stand out from the other 99 men.

As I understand it a lot of the guys on here seem to think because it's a sex site they don't have to try.

Even on a sex site women are less shallow than men, they want a guy with personality, obviously a 6 pack doesn't hurt chances either

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its good to blame your age op as its one of the few things you cant change. Therefore it givea you perfect oportunity to complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't rely just on Fabs, it provides the tools not the women.

Use the forums / chat rooms / attend a social / party / club ~ lots of different ways to get yourself noticed.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Not accommodating may be a hindrance for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time and patience is the key, along with honesty, humour, kindness,manners and discretion.... and read the profiles--for the most part they contain as much as you need to know (some don't though)

This is pretty much a sweet shop for the ladies and couples, they essentially can take their pick (assuming they pick the right guy's as there are still a shit load of guy's who are either arses or timewasters or both)

Don't pester and if they say ' no thanks ' then be nice, thank them for their time and move on.

In essence - just be decent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we?

I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened. "

Mate, you look like a pretty fit guy to me to be honest so I wouldn't worry about that.

Stay positive, learn to handle rejection and use it to better yourself and to understand where you may be going wrong.

Ok, so a few women on here may opt to go for that 6 pack but it's not always the case.

Keep telling yourself that and check out my tips above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

"

You need to man up... nobody likes a whinger!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Perhaps there are more ladies like myself that like guys my own age group or older, it's a bit presumptuous to think every woman on here is looking for a young guy with a six pack "

I don't say that this is the case for the op at all but I think lots of men have entirely the wrong idea of fab and think it's going to be very easy to find women to have sex with. When it turns out not to be they blame it on the women wanting something that they aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps there are more ladies like myself that like guys my own age group or older, it's a bit presumptuous to think every woman on here is looking for a young guy with a six pack

I don't say that this is the case for the op at all but I think lots of men have entirely the wrong idea of fab and think it's going to be very easy to find women to have sex with. When it turns out not to be they blame it on the women wanting something that they aren't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like another dreamer that thinks chicks will flock to him when it's actually the opposite..no offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we?

I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened. "

This may be the case with some women. But oddly enough, we are not all the same. You are the lower end of my age range and I don't like 6packs. Stereotyping rarely works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus "

And you are very tasty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is possibly 100 men to every woman, what makes you stand out from the other 99 men.

As I understand it a lot of the guys on here seem to think because it's a sex site they don't have to try.

Even on a sex site women are less shallow than men, they want a guy with personality, obviously a 6 pack doesn't hurt chances either"

Hahahahahahahahaahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a 6 pack...

...in the fridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a 6 pack...

...in the fridge "

I've got a wine pack...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got a 6 pack...

...in the fridge

I've got a wine pack..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty! "

I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Everyone is entitled to a moan every now and then,lot's do it on here there's no difference so you're in good company! I would hate to be a guy on here,us women have it pretty good

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus "

You are yummmmmy

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty!

I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty! "

As are you young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty!

I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now "

Na I don't think so. OP if you search the forums for posts about can't get meets you will find profile advice, a thousand times over. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone is entitled to a moan every now and then,lot's do it on here there's no difference so you're in good company! I would hate to be a guy on here,us women have it pretty good "

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty!

I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now "

Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys do have to compete though if you think about it

As i am sure some of the ladies who have been on longer have there favourites on here ..... and dont like change ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BORING!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty!

I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now

Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment "

Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dam I can feel the burn lol

Many points taken, many thanks everyone x

Much love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guys do have to compete though if you think about it

As i am sure some of the ladies who have been on longer have there favourites on here ..... and dont like change ..."

That is true. But the more we worry about the competition and the less focus we put into ourselves...the less chance we'd have to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tighten up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dam I can feel the burn lol

Many points taken, many thanks everyone x

Much love "

I've posted a local club plus messaged you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BORING! "

Then don't post in here.

Happy Friday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BORING!

Then don't post in here.

Happy Friday."

I'll post where i please.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty!

I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now

Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment

Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy"

I'm hearing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BORING!

Then don't post in here.

Happy Friday.

I'll post where i please. "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BORING!

Then don't post in here.

Happy Friday.

I'll post where i please. "

And be boring with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty!

I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now

Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment

Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy

I'm hearing you "

Im not even meeting so i should keep my bloody nose out really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BORING!

Then don't post in here.

Happy Friday.

I'll post where i please.

And be boring with it. "

If my comment was boring, then you're equally as boring with that comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we?

I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened. "

Not all women like six packs, i personally find them repulsive, every woman has different likes and dislikes. Just keep looking

Emma x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BORING!

Then don't post in here.

Happy Friday.

I'll post where i please. "

Ahhhhhhhhh lads.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty!

I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now

Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment

Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy

I'm hearing you

Im not even meeting so i should keep my bloody nose out really "

Oops in that case me too.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I prefer men in their 40's. I meet and fuck...lol. Maybe it's difficult because you don't accomodate.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"

Im 52 you are younger!! Stop whining and put more effort in instead of begging for messages on a forum...jeeeeeeezus

And you are very tasty!

I was a bit tough on the young lad there my apologies to you sir,iv woke up now

Yes I did find it amusing one guy whining about another guy's whiney comment

Haha i know,but iv heard it all before and it bugs me a bit,i blame my age for being grumpy

I'm hearing you

Im not even meeting so i should keep my bloody nose out really "

Well like I said we all like a moan every now and then don't we . I would get incredibly disheartened if most of my messages were ignored,thankfully I don't send that many so I just get the odd one or two ignored and that's bad enough

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By *verready32Man
over a year ago

omagh

Your not old, I'm almost 45, if a woman likes you I doubt age only plays a small part in it, I know I don't mind older ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are we?

I am to be fair, these young pups take Instagram pics of their six pack and upload them on here. A girl opens up her inbox and sees that pic or mine and his message gets read. Mine doesn't get opened.

Not all women like six packs, i personally find them repulsive, every woman has different likes and dislikes. Just keep looking

Emma x"

Love your profile pic. Wish that we me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m feeling rejected too, it's not just guys who find the sites hard sometimes XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m feeling rejected too, it's not just guys who find the sites hard sometimes XXX"

Niçe tits

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Perhaps there are more ladies like myself that like guys my own age group or older, it's a bit presumptuous to think every woman on here is looking for a young guy with a six pack

I don't say that this is the case for the op at all but I think lots of men have entirely the wrong idea of fab and think it's going to be very easy to find women to have sex with. When it turns out not to be they blame it on the women wanting something that they aren't."

Yes this. But I have to admit the OP's current status would ensure I hit delete immediately regardless of age or six pack.

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

Just as hard for couples too, think we are all to picky lol o well next lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us over 50's have staying power lol

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"Sounds like another dreamer that thinks chicks will flock to him when it's actually the opposite..no offence "

I think some guys think so highly of themselves that its an 'injustice' when they dont have a queue of women all begging to bounce up and down of their manhood.

I doubt the OP has tried hard at all, and id love to see his messages. . Probably goes as follows.

"Hey, come shag now?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like another dreamer that thinks chicks will flock to him when it's actually the opposite..no offence

I think some guys think so highly of themselves that its an 'injustice' when they dont have a queue of women all begging to bounce up and down of their manhood.

I doubt the OP has tried hard at all, and id love to see his messages. . Probably goes as follows.

"Hey, come shag now?"

"

Really? I don't think highly of myself. I'm not the one with a top trumps card as a profile pic :P

In fact a message from me usually is very complimentary and I take the time to read a persons profile and will make genuine compliments.

I try and take care of my appearance and I'm no minger, but I don't think I'm anything special and I hilight that in my original post.

I just find it a bit frustrating if I send a few messages, send a few winks or put myself on a meet today that I only get messages from guys.

That is literally my only point and frustration.

I can't imagine I'm alone on this one, and dont get me wrong,I'm not thinking women should flock to me.

I just find it a bit disheartening sometimes.

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By *olden tongue40Man
over a year ago

antrim

Dry ur eyes try harder

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

"

what you talkin' about man? 34 is old, I'm older and I do OK on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before I'll say it again....get a job as a bouncer in a cool bar or club in a busy city

You don't need Tinder pof or here haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few more pics on your profile would be lovely lol xx

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

would definitely agree with most on here visit a club, always a good to socialise and make connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get rejected all the time !! I'm sure people think I'm a nutter lol

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row


"Sounds like another dreamer that thinks chicks will flock to him when it's actually the opposite..no offence

I think some guys think so highly of themselves that its an 'injustice' when they dont have a queue of women all begging to bounce up and down of their manhood.

I doubt the OP has tried hard at all, and id love to see his messages. . Probably goes as follows.

"Hey, come shag now?"

Really? I don't think highly of myself. I'm not the one with a top trumps card as a profile pic :P

In fact a message from me usually is very complimentary and I take the time to read a persons profile and will make genuine compliments.

I try and take care of my appearance and I'm no minger, but I don't think I'm anything special and I hilight that in my original post.

I just find it a bit frustrating if I send a few messages, send a few winks or put myself on a meet today that I only get messages from guys.

That is literally my only point and frustration.

I can't imagine I'm alone on this one, and dont get me wrong,I'm not thinking women should flock to me.

I just find it a bit disheartening sometimes.

"

Yea, he is a minger.

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By *oredbusinessmanMan
over a year ago

Kings Lynn


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

what you talkin' about man? 34 is old, I'm older and I do OK on here"

I'm 43!! Come on you oldies!! Ha ha no six pack can make up for experience....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m feeling rejected too, it's not just guys who find the sites hard sometimes XXX

Niçe tits "

Hi thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

what you talkin' about man? 34 is old, I'm older and I do OK on here

I'm 43!! Come on you oldies!! Ha ha no six pack can make up for experience...."

I,m not into 6 packs XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34 is a great age to be. I personally prefer men over 30 at least. I had a little look at your profile; you should think about adding more public photos as only 1 doesn't give enough information (my personal opinion obviously).

As others have said, clubs can be great to meet people too. You'll be grand xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a really upbeat kind of guy, and I know you ladies get loads of messages, but sometimes it's really hard work on here lol.

I tend to get loads of messages..... from guys, but would love to get a message from you girls.

I think now I'm 34 these younger guys are getting all the attention?

what you talkin' about man? 34 is old, I'm older and I do OK on here

I'm 43!! Come on you oldies!! Ha ha no six pack can make up for experience...."

To be fair, you have a solid profile. Might be able.to pick up a few pointers from there. In fairness I have had 33 views today and a few messages since so not all bad. Just need to get involved more I think.;)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"34 is a great age to be. I personally prefer men over 30 at least. I had a little look at your profile; you should think about adding more public photos as only 1 doesn't give enough information (my personal opinion obviously).

As others have said, clubs can be great to meet people too. You'll be grand xx"

Thanks, you are probably right. I had a load of pics then went all shy when my mates recognised my profile so took them off.

By the way, nice ass x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Do not fear chaps. You too can get meets.

Since hanging up his sword and shield over six

months ago The Spartan 300 can help you achieve your wet dreams from only £19.99 per month (minimum three months).

For this bargain price you will get

Bronze membership £19.99

Advice on profile writing.

Guide to taking appealing photographs.

How to initiate your first message.

The secret art of remaining interesting and aloof.

How to casually/subtly pop the question.

How to get your potential meets to buy into you.

Planning your first meet.

Silver membership £34.99

All of the above plus

Personal styling tips.

How to get to second stage after a social meet.

How to initiate sex without embarrassment.

Target profile analysing and acquisition.

Profile and photos assessment.

Gold membership. £49.99

All of the above plus

Personalised profile writing

Professional photoshoot

Step by step guide to messages with realtime chat so you can initiate and respond correctly to your messages with your very own dedicated consultant.

In addition to gold membership we offer a platinum service for when meet is arranged. For £49.99 per meet we will

Arrange a select venue.

Provide you with an pre meet briefing with your consultant to prepare you for meeting the woman of your dreams.

Provide you with a two way covert communications to your consultant who can give you advice should you start to falter.

If you've got to the end of your tether with the unanswered and ignored messages. There is still hope you too can be whipped into shape and become the next Cyrano de Bergerac or Don Juan.

Message now at signmeup@getmelaid.com

For those panicking it's a joke.

"

Class! This took some.time and effort. Take a bow

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