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Address and day given! What's etiquette ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I have been give my and address and told that my friend on here is free today to meet.

What's the etiquette on showing up? Usually I have a number or time that I call and know to go round at?

What would you do.

I got the address and told that she is free today. Do I just rock up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would make sure I have all the necessary details before I even think about going.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Errmm, send them a message on here and ask what time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any normal woman would want an ETA so she knows the house is tidy and that she's tidy and ready for guests.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys already replied she is sporadic in being online. She is verified as genuine.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't just rock up and I'd be slightly dubious if someone just gave an address and said I'm free all day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I understand what oh are all saying.

The only reason I'm considering is that we have been chatting for ages and she is verified....but I get your point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications don't necessarily prove someone is genuine.

Can you message and ask for a time? It's unusual to say, any time will do. In my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've been chatting ages just ask her what time you should go there. If she doesn't say a time say alright I'll be there at 10am, when she doesn't reply saying it's ok to go there at 10am, go there anyway and see that it isn't her house. Sounds a bit fishy to me, or that she's one of those people that has an immaculate house all the time or that her house is a tip and doesn't care.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree. Messaged and waiting.

Thanks for the confirmation all! If any of you fancy meeting or socialising I'm very open to chatting privately X

Get in touch!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah I understand what oh are all saying.

The only reason I'm considering is that we have been chatting for ages and she is verified....but I get your point!"

Go if you want to but my strong advice is to confirm first.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I hope I'm wrong fella.. and you go around and have loads of fun.. gotta say if lynx did a deodorant called iffyness.. this is pured iffy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. Messaged and waiting.

Thanks for the confirmation all! If any of you fancy meeting or socialising I'm very open to chatting privately X

Get in touch!"

Was this a giant ruse? if so well played

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. Messaged and waiting.

Thanks for the confirmation all! If any of you fancy meeting or socialising I'm very open to chatting privately X

Get in touch!

Was this a giant ruse? if so well played "

Have to admit it made me think the same thing, but perhaps I am Elvis.

Op, if it's a genuine query, without confirmation on the day, or a between time (10-6) no way would I just turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope I'm wrong fella.. and you go around and have loads of fun.. gotta say if lynx did a deodorant called iffyness.. this is pured iffy... "

They should do one called stiffyness for all the cock photos with a can of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like some poor woman will get an unexpected visit from a total stranger today. Or a gang of men armed with bricks will have some fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gosh no! Far from it. I need not to perform such acts!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like some poor woman will get an unexpected visit from a total stranger today. Or a gang of men armed with bricks will have some fun. "

I'll sit tight and wait for a response.

I like my tackle usable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gosh no! Far from it. I need not to perform such acts!"

How do you know it's her actual address?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like some poor woman will get an unexpected visit from a total stranger today. Or a gang of men armed with bricks will have some fun.

I'll sit tight and wait for a response.

I like my tackle usable"

Trust your gut. I think the fact that you're asking means you're wary. Good luck. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers and this is not a ruse.

I wouldn't be so crass.

Thanks for the advice. I'll sit tight and wait for confirmation of a time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I'm far too trusting.

In the years I have been here I haven't had any issues with anyone and all have been very genuine people.

I guess I'm working on that basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ALWAYS confirm a time and location, and always be exactly on time even if it means you have to sit around for 5 or 10 mins before hand.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm far too trusting.

In the years I have been here I haven't had any issues with anyone and all have been very genuine people.

I guess I'm working on that basis."

It sounds like you've done the same thing before with no issues. You're not 'too trusting', you trusted yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few single women (though not verified) on sites like this who did a similar thing.

Once I got a time and date for the arrival, along with an adress, but did not have their number and found that they had lied to me and directed me to a strangers house. Funny how I never got to meet them.

I'd say always have someones phone number to confirm that they are real - I often exchange a few texts before. Plus it helps if you get held up or there's a problem finding them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I have been give my and address and told that my friend on here is free today to meet.

What's the etiquette on showing up? Usually I have a number or time that I call and know to go round at?

What would you do.

I got the address and told that she is free today. Do I just rock up?"

Sounds weird to me, would suspect some kind of setup

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I hope I'm wrong fella.. and you go around and have loads of fun.. gotta say if lynx did a deodorant called iffyness.. this is pured iffy...

They should do one called stiffyness for all the cock photos with a can of it. "

Erection problems a can of starch..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened OP?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Talk on phone first. Sound like you being set up to me.

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