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"I hoot with derision at those with Sydney Uni warnings (or similar) "When we first joined we saw a lot of them so just went with the flow lol | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone who says someone has too many verifications. I wouldn't meet someone who says they won't meet anyone who has had sex with bi men. I wouldn't meet anyone who says they don't meet women who have sex with non-white men. I wouldn't meet anyone who looks down on others' way of conducting their sex lives. " Preach! All of these points. The bi men point in particular strikes a chord with me | |||
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"I just flip a coin. It's worked so far. Fingers crossed X" | |||
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"I just flip a coin. It's worked so far. Fingers crossed X" She's got a double-sided coin, the filthy harlot. | |||
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"I just flip a coin. It's worked so far. Fingers crossed X She's got a double-sided coin, the filthy harlot." I base it on how much they make me laugh  | |||
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"I hoot with derision at those with Sydney Uni warnings (or similar)
When we first joined we saw a lot of them so just went with the flow lol"Never go with the flow  | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ???" Lots of veris can be from meeting people socially in clubs and couples don't usually use protection with each other so I wouldn't dismiss people on that alone. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Lots of veris can be from meeting people socially in clubs and couples don't usually use protection with each other so I wouldn't dismiss people on that alone." See this is my problem I to thought exactly that am I being to harsh in the way I select people lol | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ???" Very very carefully with caution on here...If they've more than 20 different veris then I walk by. A potential meet is _iewed to be a regular or no meet happens. Yes I'm picky very picky but it works for me. | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone who says someone has too many verifications. I wouldn't meet someone who says they won't meet anyone who has had sex with bi men. I wouldn't meet anyone who says they don't meet women who have sex with non-white men. I wouldn't meet anyone who looks down on others' way of conducting their sex lives. Preach! All of these points. The bi men point in particular strikes a chord with me" Someone said it to me as he was dropping me home after fucking. He should have asked first,fucked later. | |||
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"I just flip a coin. It's worked so far. Fingers crossed X" Heads or Tails? Hang on, either ends a winner!  | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone who says someone has too many verifications. I wouldn't meet someone who says they won't meet anyone who has had sex with bi men. I wouldn't meet anyone who says they don't meet women who have sex with non-white men. I wouldn't meet anyone who looks down on others' way of conducting their sex lives. " 
And we will meet whoever we find attractive when we have the free time to do so. | |||
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"I just flip a coin. It's worked so far. Fingers crossed X Heads or Tails? Hang on, either ends a winner! " | |||
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"I just flip a coin. It's worked so far. Fingers crossed X Heads or Tails? Hang on, either ends a winner! "I have actually done that - put a meet on the toss of a coin but I was making a point | |||
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Also another couple asked if the Male could physically put my cock into his wife, Not my thing so I said no
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab" So where does that leave "us"?  | |||
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"The non protection pics do put me off, Oh and a couple I was talking about meeting put pictures up of a FMMMM meet a few days before I was thinking about meeting them, she had everyone of them unprotected and the last pic was legs open with the words every ones spunk
Also another couple asked if the Male could physically put my cock into his wife, Not my thing so I said no
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"? "Get Hatter to make you some tea instead  | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Lots of veris can be from meeting people socially in clubs and couples don't usually use protection with each other so I wouldn't dismiss people on that alone. See this is my problem I to thought exactly that am I being to harsh in the way I select people lol" If it's what suits you why question it? Do you ask people who only have a few verifications how many people they have had sex with in total? | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"? "Joe......Its time we showed the pictures..... all this pretending is just teasing, its time we came clean...or filthy, either way..... | |||
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"As i rarely meet the guy has got to have that something that makes me go oh yes i want to meet him can be his looks banter or personality" | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"?
Joe......Its time we showed the pictures..... all this pretending is just teasing, its time we came clean...or filthy, either way....."*bottom lip trembles and tears well in eyes* But... but... You told me you loved me?  | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"?
Joe......Its time we showed the pictures..... all this pretending is just teasing, its time we came clean...or filthy, either way....."Show them pics. | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"?
Joe......Its time we showed the pictures..... all this pretending is just teasing, its time we came clean...or filthy, either way.....
*bottom lip trembles and tears well in eyes*
But... but... You told me you loved me?
"Thats it, out me in the forums as a heart breaker; your shield maidens will be along in a minute.... 12 minutes to UNLOS........(  ) | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"?
Joe......Its time we showed the pictures..... all this pretending is just teasing, its time we came clean...or filthy, either way.....
*bottom lip trembles and tears well in eyes*
But... but... You told me you loved me?
Thats it, out me in the forums as a heart breaker; your shield maidens will be along in a minute....
12 minutes to UNLOS........()" | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ???" But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"?
Joe......Its time we showed the pictures..... all this pretending is just teasing, its time we came clean...or filthy, either way.....
*bottom lip trembles and tears well in eyes*
But... but... You told me you loved me?
Thats it, out me in the forums as a heart breaker; your shield maidens will be along in a minute....
12 minutes to UNLOS........()"*opens one eye carefully, making sure no-one's looking sniggers before falling back to the ground thinking, My work here is done*  | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Lots of veris can be from meeting people socially in clubs and couples don't usually use protection with each other so I wouldn't dismiss people on that alone. See this is my problem I to thought exactly that am I being to harsh in the way I select people lol" Personally I just use my own judgement. I don't assume that every guy that can't accomodate is married, but I can read the signs. The only thing I check with veris are if they are cam or meets. Anyone that obviously hasn't bothered to read my profile before messaging is out. Guys that want to talk sex tend to be just after wank material. I only give face pics, it deters the pic hunters. Just listen to your gut feeling and have fun | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"?
Joe......Its time we showed the pictures..... all this pretending is just teasing, its time we came clean...or filthy, either way.....
*bottom lip trembles and tears well in eyes*
But... but... You told me you loved me?
Thats it, out me in the forums as a heart breaker; your shield maidens will be along in a minute....
12 minutes to UNLOS........()
*opens one eye carefully, making sure no-one's looking sniggers before falling back to the ground thinking, My work here is done*
"Want me to show the pic where I was teaching you how to plough a straight furrow? eh? eh? You may have won this time, but my next profile (female, 6ft, blonde; gravity defying tits and only slightly bearded ) will DESTROY you | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications?" In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"?
Joe......Its time we showed the pictures..... all this pretending is just teasing, its time we came clean...or filthy, either way.....
*bottom lip trembles and tears well in eyes*
But... but... You told me you loved me?
Thats it, out me in the forums as a heart breaker; your shield maidens will be along in a minute....
12 minutes to UNLOS........()
*opens one eye carefully, making sure no-one's looking sniggers before falling back to the ground thinking, My work here is done*
Want me to show the pic where I was teaching you how to plough a straight furrow? eh? eh?
You may have won this time, but my next profile (female, 6ft, blonde; gravity defying tits and only slightly bearded ) will DESTROY you"Yeah, yeah, your arse got ploughed... Send my cheque to the usual place | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy" sleeps with "anything" | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone I wouldn't sit in a coffee shop with.... Basic rule of fab So where does that leave "us"?
Joe......Its time we showed the pictures..... all this pretending is just teasing, its time we came clean...or filthy, either way.....
*bottom lip trembles and tears well in eyes*
But... but... You told me you loved me?
Thats it, out me in the forums as a heart breaker; your shield maidens will be along in a minute....
12 minutes to UNLOS........()
*opens one eye carefully, making sure no-one's looking sniggers before falling back to the ground thinking, My work here is done*
Want me to show the pic where I was teaching you how to plough a straight furrow? eh? eh?
You may have won this time, but my next profile (female, 6ft, blonde; gravity defying tits and only slightly bearded ) will DESTROY you
Yeah, yeah, your arse got ploughed... Send my cheque to the usual place "You took green shield stamps last time..... | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ???" We play with people we like, who we'd like to be friends with. If they have loads of veries.... well, good for them... just shows they are popular, and they don't mess people around, after all, this is a swinging site last time I checked lol! | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy" Someone one day will define what an "anything" is.... because I am sorry to say OP that term annoys me immensely, people use the term "anything" without defining it..... I guess people's "anythings" are all different? | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything" " sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point"I do get your point to an extent but have you considered that people might only have three verifications on here but be out at the weekend having sex with lots of different people? In the end you should choose who to meet based on what you feel suits you...that's what we do | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Very very carefully with caution on here...If they've more than 20 different veris then I walk by. A potential meet is _iewed to be a regular or no meet happens. Yes I'm picky very picky but it works for me." Well you have 16 verifications from 11 different women in 4 months. Depending on whether you achieve finding a 'regular', it could be entirely realistic that you reach your 'walk by' limit within a year. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
I do get your point to an extent but have you considered that people might only have three verifications on here but be out at the weekend having sex with lots of different people?
In the end you should choose who to meet based on what you feel suits you...that's what we do "I know it is in a way my hang up with the way I look at profiles and people I have turned down people that we have got al9ng with really well it's just been a gut feel8ng that something isn't right | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
I do get your point to an extent but have you considered that people might only have three verifications on here but be out at the weekend having sex with lots of different people?
In the end you should choose who to meet based on what you feel suits you...that's what we do
I know it is in a way my hang up with the way I look at profiles and people I have turned down people that we have got al9ng with really well it's just been a gut feel8ng that something isn't right"Then I think you should carry on doing that, its no good choosing people the way others do it wont work for you. We go on gut feeling too. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy" Nothing wrong in being fussy. It's you whom you're protecting and it's your choice and your filters. | |||
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"Thanks for all the input guys answered a few queries I had "I am sorry if you found my "anything" post a little aggressive; its just one of those "words".... I should probably calm down | |||
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"Nope. You like what you like. You have preferences, be true to them. We've always found if we ignore or gut instincts it inevitably goes wrong " Couldn't agree more. Gut instinct is the best way. If someone seems perfect but something at the back of yourself mind is even the slightest bit unsure, don't do it. And the opposite is true. If your gut says yes but your brain can't figure out why, just relax and go for it. | |||
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"Thanks for all the input guys answered a few queries I had
I am sorry if you found my "anything" post a little aggressive; its just one of those "words".... I should probably calm down "No not at all honesty is the best policy it's a shame there are a lot of fakes and pretend people on here lol | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point"We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Very very carefully with caution on here...If they've more than 20 different veris then I walk by. A potential meet is _iewed to be a regular or no meet happens. Yes I'm picky very picky but it works for me. Well you have 16 verifications from 11 different women in 4 months. Depending on whether you achieve finding a 'regular', it could be entirely realistic that you reach your 'walk by' limit within a year." I could indeed good job I'm not meeting myself As you so rightly pointed out 11 women....so I'm just over half way if i last a year on here......I have a few regulars and would need to be very special to change that atm. | |||
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"I wouldn't meet anyone who says someone has too many verifications. I wouldn't meet someone who says they won't meet anyone who has had sex with bi men. I wouldn't meet anyone who says they don't meet women who have sex with non-white men. I wouldn't meet anyone who looks down on others' way of conducting their sex lives. Preach! All of these points. The bi men point in particular strikes a chord with me" For those who are blood donors this is a valid point. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon."Sorry no offence intended just trying to get different point of _iews regarding this even though we have been on fab for a few years now we are still learning as we go again no offence intended | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
I do get your point to an extent but have you considered that people might only have three verifications on here but be out at the weekend having sex with lots of different people?
In the end you should choose who to meet based on what you feel suits you...that's what we do
I know it is in a way my hang up with the way I look at profiles and people I have turned down people that we have got al9ng with really well it's just been a gut feel8ng that something isn't right
Then I think you should carry on doing that, its no good choosing people the way others do it wont work for you. We go on gut feeling too. "100% this | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Very very carefully with caution on here...If they've more than 20 different veris then I walk by. A potential meet is _iewed to be a regular or no meet happens. Yes I'm picky very picky but it works for me. Well you have 16 verifications from 11 different women in 4 months. Depending on whether you achieve finding a 'regular', it could be entirely realistic that you reach your 'walk by' limit within a year. I could indeed good job I'm not meeting myself As you so rightly pointed out 11 women....so I'm just over half way if i last a year on here......I have a few regulars and would need to be very special to change that atm. "Yes but some people stay on here for years, so verifications build up. And regulars come and go. I only have one regular left from this time last year, so the others have needed replacing. A year from now, who knows? I can't help it if my regulars leave the swing scene, get girls friends etc. I'll be damned if I'm gonna be judged for having too many verifications! | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon."I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Very very carefully with caution on here...If they've more than 20 different veris then I walk by. A potential meet is _iewed to be a regular or no meet happens. Yes I'm picky very picky but it works for me. Well you have 16 verifications from 11 different women in 4 months. Depending on whether you achieve finding a 'regular', it could be entirely realistic that you reach your 'walk by' limit within a year. I could indeed good job I'm not meeting myself As you so rightly pointed out 11 women....so I'm just over half way if i last a year on here......I have a few regulars and would need to be very special to change that atm.
Yes but some people stay on here for years, so verifications build up. And regulars come and go. I only have one regular left from this time last year, so the others have needed replacing. A year from now, who knows? I can't help it if my regulars leave the swing scene, get girls friends etc. I'll be damned if I'm gonna be judged for having too many verifications!"It's just the way the cookie crumbles...There are many who will not meet unverified people or those who have no public photos or those who will only meet for coffee first etc. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
Sorry no offence intended just trying to get different point of _iews regarding this even though we have been on fab for a few years now we are still learning as we go again no offence intended"No I know it wasn't meant personally at us, but it does bother me that there are people who would choose not to meet us simply because our numbers of verifications mean we are too promiscuous. I guess we could hide our summery and most of the veris, then nobody would know. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Very very carefully with caution on here...If they've more than 20 different veris then I walk by. A potential meet is _iewed to be a regular or no meet happens. Yes I'm picky very picky but it works for me. Well you have 16 verifications from 11 different women in 4 months. Depending on whether you achieve finding a 'regular', it could be entirely realistic that you reach your 'walk by' limit within a year. I could indeed good job I'm not meeting myself As you so rightly pointed out 11 women....so I'm just over half way if i last a year on here......I have a few regulars and would need to be very special to change that atm.
Yes but some people stay on here for years, so verifications build up. And regulars come and go. I only have one regular left from this time last year, so the others have needed replacing. A year from now, who knows? I can't help it if my regulars leave the swing scene, get girls friends etc. I'll be damned if I'm gonna be judged for having too many verifications!
It's just the way the cookie crumbles...There are many who will not meet unverified people or those who have no public photos or those who will only meet for coffee first etc. "So will you change your rule when you reach over twenty meets? | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter."I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
Sorry no offence intended just trying to get different point of _iews regarding this even though we have been on fab for a few years now we are still learning as we go again no offence intended
No I know it wasn't meant personally at us, but it does bother me that there are people who would choose not to meet us simply because our numbers of verifications mean we are too promiscuous. I guess we could hide our summery and most of the veris, then nobody would know." yes you could. There are those who skip over those who hide their verifications too. I know someone here who hid the fact they met with groups and MM and thought they might get away with meeting me...some nice person warned me knowing I filter those people out. You can'tthink that you can and have a right to anyone on here. It takes all types...some are happy with bareback and will only do bareback...not everyone here will gladly meet with them, but others will. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter."If you find a physical attribute unattractive, then that's personal preference. But why would someone need to use numbers of verifications as a filter? Is it promiscuity that you find a turn off? | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Very very carefully with caution on here...If they've more than 20 different veris then I walk by. A potential meet is _iewed to be a regular or no meet happens. Yes I'm picky very picky but it works for me. Well you have 16 verifications from 11 different women in 4 months. Depending on whether you achieve finding a 'regular', it could be entirely realistic that you reach your 'walk by' limit within a year. I could indeed good job I'm not meeting myself As you so rightly pointed out 11 women....so I'm just over half way if i last a year on here......I have a few regulars and would need to be very special to change that atm.
Yes but some people stay on here for years, so verifications build up. And regulars come and go. I only have one regular left from this time last year, so the others have needed replacing. A year from now, who knows? I can't help it if my regulars leave the swing scene, get girls friends etc. I'll be damned if I'm gonna be judged for having too many verifications!
It's just the way the cookie crumbles...There are many who will not meet unverified people or those who have no public photos or those who will only meet for coffee first etc.
So will you change your rule when you reach over twenty meets?"I rather doubt I'll reach twenty....we'll I've no intention of meeting that many. My meets are not one offs....not looking or needing any new meets for forseable future. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc "I disagree to an extent you say most who look at it l8ke that don't play and like the idea etc and attention totally get where your coming from but we do look at it like that and do play yes we are more in depth as to how we pick people and yes it may be not a tangible way of doing it hence I asked the question originally to get different points of _iew I don't think there is a right or wrong answer regarding this | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc "They can take it however they like but it's tangible both to me and certainly to those I look to meet with too. I guess we think differently to those with loads of veris. Most of those I have met have felt the same way and I guess they also looked for someone regular and who didn't have many veris. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
Sorry no offence intended just trying to get different point of _iews regarding this even though we have been on fab for a few years now we are still learning as we go again no offence intended
No I know it wasn't meant personally at us, but it does bother me that there are people who would choose not to meet us simply because our numbers of verifications mean we are too promiscuous. I guess we could hide our summery and most of the veris, then nobody would know.
yes you could. There are those who skip over those who hide their verifications too. I know someone here who hid the fact they met with groups and MM and thought they might get away with meeting me...some nice person warned me knowing I filter those people out. You can'tthink that you can and have a right to anyone on here. It takes all types...some are happy with bareback and will only do bareback...not everyone here will gladly meet with them, but others will."I don't think I have a right to anyone on here. But if someone thinks I'm too promiscuous for their filters, I would question whether that's a bit hypocritical. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc
They can take it however they like but it's tangible both to me and certainly to those I look to meet with too. I guess we think differently to those with loads of veris. Most of those I have met have felt the same way and I guess they also looked for someone regular and who didn't have many veris."tangible in what way?  | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc
They can take it however they like but it's tangible both to me and certainly to those I look to meet with too. I guess we think differently to those with loads of veris. Most of those I have met have felt the same way and I guess they also looked for someone regular and who didn't have many veris.
tangible in what way? "I guess we'll not understand each other's _iew....just see it as others think differently and have different ways of filtering. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc
They can take it however they like but it's tangible both to me and certainly to those I look to meet with too. I guess we think differently to those with loads of veris. Most of those I have met have felt the same way and I guess they also looked for someone regular and who didn't have many veris.
tangible in what way? "There's a couple we know who attend parties once or twice a month, but don't play, and they are known not to play. They have well over fifty verifications, and only one of them represents a play meet. They are very picky. Numbers of verifications don't mean anything. Likewise there are people who hide their verifications who play all the times. Numbers of verifications seems to be a very unreliable filter. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc
They can take it however they like but it's tangible both to me and certainly to those I look to meet with too. I guess we think differently to those with loads of veris. Most of those I have met have felt the same way and I guess they also looked for someone regular and who didn't have many veris.
tangible in what way?
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc
They can take it however they like but it's tangible both to me and certainly to those I look to meet with too. I guess we think differently to those with loads of veris. Most of those I have met have felt the same way and I guess they also looked for someone regular and who didn't have many veris.
tangible in what way?
There's a couple we know who attend parties once or twice a month, but don't play, and they are known not to play. They have well over fifty verifications, and only one of them represents a play meet. They are very picky. Numbers of verifications don't mean anything. Likewise there are people who hide their verifications who play all the times. Numbers of verifications seems to be a very unreliable filter."The same as in the real world then. If you meet someone, you don't usually ask how many people they've slept with before deciding to play. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc
They can take it however they like but it's tangible both to me and certainly to those I look to meet with too. I guess we think differently to those with loads of veris. Most of those I have met have felt the same way and I guess they also looked for someone regular and who didn't have many veris.
tangible in what way?
I guess we'll not understand each other's _iew....just see it as others think differently and have different ways of filtering.
But what exactly are you trying to filter out by putting a cap on verification number? "Maybe it's people who don't want to play regularly with a few regular partners....as it seems most of their meets are then socials. I do my socialising in other ways but not through fab. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc
They can take it however they like but it's tangible both to me and certainly to those I look to meet with too. I guess we think differently to those with loads of veris. Most of those I have met have felt the same way and I guess they also looked for someone regular and who didn't have many veris.
tangible in what way?
I guess we'll not understand each other's _iew....just see it as others think differently and have different ways of filtering.
But what exactly are you trying to filter out by putting a cap on verification number?
Maybe it's people who don't want to play regularly with a few regular partners....as it seems most of their meets are then socials. I do my socialising in other ways but not through fab."I don't meet couples so it's purely hypothetical anyways in this case. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Lots of veris can be from meeting people socially in clubs and couples don't usually use protection with each other so I wouldn't dismiss people on that alone. See this is my problem I to thought exactly that am I being to harsh in the way I select people lol" I dont think you are, i completely agree that most couples bareback together and there can be allot of socials to boost someones veris At the end of the day its your body and your meeting a stranger for sex your head will keep you safe dont get into the habbit of ignoring your gut instinct no matter what people say | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I think most people with multiple verifications would take it as being judged as its not a preference based on anything tangible, some people don't like small boobs, white guys etc etc that's tangible, choosing not to play with people as they have lots of verifications has nothing tangible about it, seems many with this opinion don't actually play, however they like the idea of swinging, love the attention, socials etc
They can take it however they like but it's tangible both to me and certainly to those I look to meet with too. I guess we think differently to those with loads of veris. Most of those I have met have felt the same way and I guess they also looked for someone regular and who didn't have many veris.
tangible in what way?
I guess we'll not understand each other's _iew....just see it as others think differently and have different ways of filtering.
But what exactly are you trying to filter out by putting a cap on verification number?
Maybe it's people who don't want to play regularly with a few regular partners....as it seems most of their meets are then socials. I do my socialising in other ways but not through fab."Yes I think I get what you mean. Myself as a 'swinger', and more specifically someone who attends sex parties with my husband, and has made a whole social lifestyle within that, would not be a suitable match for a single man who wants a few regular single female partners. However our verifications don't reflect numbers of meets (have actually only met 7 men privately from a Fab, the rest are party meets), nor do they reflect numbers of partners. But they do reflect a lifestyle, and everybody we know within the party scene also has verifications reflecting that lifestyle. I usually deliberately find my regular lovers from within our lifestyle too, because they understand me better. I do get twitchy though if people use verifications as a measure of promiscuity, because that is totally inaccurate, and my husband and I are both very particular about who we play we. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? Lots of veris can be from meeting people socially in clubs and couples don't usually use protection with each other so I wouldn't dismiss people on that alone. See this is my problem I to thought exactly that am I being to harsh in the way I select people lol" I don't think anything is too harsh. I'll turn people down for very petty reasons, known only to me. It's supposed to be fun. I have fun. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ???" A good barometer for me is knowing what I dont like - I can't say everything I like because I haven't tried everything…… but I am clear on what I dont like, this allows making some choices a bit easier. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ???" Be picky. It's your prerogative. Choose who you would want to meet. | |||
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter."
I don't understand why people get so huffy when anyone says they wouldn't want to meet them. Verifications mean nothing because they could be hidden or social or a drop in the ocean of thousands of meets off the site. However it's still a valid reason for someone to have as their preference. Whether they want to meet someone with less than 10 or more than 50.
If someone doesn't want to meet me because of my size, verifications, age, whatever, I respect that.
Seems some people have guilt complexes and need to transfer their guilt to the people that turn them down, to make themselves feel better. | |||
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"The non protection pics do put me off, Oh and a couple I was talking about meeting put pictures up of a FMMMM meet a few days before I was thinking about meeting them, she had everyone of them unprotected and the last pic was legs open with the words every ones spunk
Also another couple asked if the Male could physically put my cock into his wife, Not my thing so I said no
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"Hi all getting a bit addicted to these forums now lol How do people decide to meet who they meet aside from the obvious things like chat etc I find things that put me off our little things like if a person/ couple have 50 plus veris then I wouldn't even carry on chatting or say in there pics you see a lot of penetrative pics that clearly show no protection am I to picky is it just me ??? But what's wrong with more than 50 plus verifications? In my eyes and this is just my opinion just how I look at it loads of veris would say to me the person just sleeps with anything admittedly if a lot of them were social or club based that's a different story as I said that's just my opinion I am not saying g it is right or wrong hence the original post am I being to fussy sleeps with "anything"
sorry wrong choice of words but you get my point
We have 58 verifications from 41 people. I personally have had full blown sex with 14 men since we started swinging 3 years ago. My husband has had full blown sex with 6 women in that time. We have both had various soft play experiences too. As swingers we attend a party approxamately once a month, and we will usually play, and most times will come away with a verification. We do not, by any stretch of the imagination 'sleep with anything'. I've no doubt I would be considered a complete slag in the vanilla world, but I'd rather like to think that in the swing scene, sexual liberation is to be celebrated, not judged or frowned upon.
I don't take it as being judged or frowned up. It's just a personal choice/preference or filtering system....no different from someone saying they won't meet anyone under 6ft or not interested in bbw or small boobs or big boobs or if they can't kiss or some won't kiss. It's no judgement it's just a filter.
I don't understand why people get so huffy when anyone says they wouldn't want to meet them. Verifications mean nothing because they could be hidden or social or a drop in the ocean of thousands of meets off the site. However it's still a valid reason for someone to have as their preference. Whether they want to meet someone with less than 10 or more than 50.
If someone doesn't want to meet me because of my size, verifications, age, whatever, I respect that.
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"With regards to veris...i understand where you're coming from completely and if there were 2 guys i was interested in and one had 10 veris but all from random types (fat,thin,ugly,pretty etc) and the other had 40 but seemed to be selective i'd go for the one with 40 veris. I know that my comment will offend some but that's not intended as i know some don't have a type as such...i just mean i personally prefer to meet someone who seems more..lets say..FUSSY. Just my preference and i think that's all any of us can go off...what suits us and what we're looking for. Thats not to say we are judging others...we like what we like...SIMPLES "So the man who meets 'random' ones as you say is less fussy? What if he's fussy because those seemily random ons have real personality and character and being a Sapiophile it's their mind that has connected with him and he is less concerned about the physical attributes than with the mind. The 'more fussy' as you put it with more veries may only like women with big tits. How would someone with a great mind, great personality and A cup tits feel with those veries? I think your comment about selection on veris may be a bit of a shortfall in its method. | |||
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"We get them to fill in a 50 page questionnaire. If we like the majority of their answers, they move on to the next round.
Lol "That's actually not far off alot of what is expected here on fab tbh. | |||
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"As a single man, it's simple: Meet any woman who asks! You can't afford to be picky!!" At least you're honest. | |||
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"As a single man, it's simple: Meet any woman who asks! You can't afford to be picky!!" You mean you would fuck ANY woman, and it doesn't matter if you are attracted to her or even like her? You can't be THAT desperate for sex, surely! | |||
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"As a single man, it's simple: Meet any woman who asks! You can't afford to be picky!!" That's a pretty sad outlook to have! I'd rather go without sex then have it with someone I don't fancy. | |||
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"As a single man, it's simple: Meet any woman who asks! You can't afford to be picky!!" For many it's just a fuck I guess. | |||
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"As a single man, it's simple: Meet any woman who asks! You can't afford to be picky!! That's a pretty sad outlook to have! I'd rather go without sex then have it with someone I don't fancy." ...and they can be few and far between if one doesn't look for regulars | |||
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