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Unusual 'Safe' Words?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's your 'Safe' Word? Anyone got anything a bit out of the ordinary?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Steve, you're awesome!"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Seriously, it's like 'bloody fucking stop it' I don't do anything that necessitates a safe word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha mine was PEACHES

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Steve, you're awesome!" "

Take it you play safe then?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red , (stop) Amber (slow down, getting close) or tap out

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Creasent for ease off

Avenue for stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My safe word is 'red' I've never had to use it though. Mr NbN knows my limits.

Mrs NbN

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"haha mine was PEACHES

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To me 'Peaches' just sounds too inviting and juicy?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My safe word is 'red' I've never had to use it though. Mr NbN knows my limits.

Mrs NbN "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


""Steve, you're awesome!"

Take it you play safe then?! "
yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Creasent for ease off

Avenue for stop"

That's quite different.. I like that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We were thinking flowers:

I thought 'Rose' for stop,

'Daisy' for ease off and (wait for it)

'Pansy' for do it harder!!!

I do think it is important in a new relationship to use safe words as you may not know your own limits, so you need to be able to convey your thoughts and feeling safely and efficiently if you're not managing ..providing you're not gagged of course!!!

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Pansy i like it lol

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By *omliteMan
over a year ago

Waterside

I use mercy. That way she can get into the role and scream stop or dont etc. When she says mercy i can stop and she hasnt had to say anything too silly like bananas lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pansy i like it lol"

I think I may get into trouble if I shouted 'Pansy' Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use mercy. That way she can get into the role and scream stop or dont etc. When she says mercy i can stop and she hasnt had to say anything too silly like bananas lol

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Ooo.. I like 'Mercy' that sounds quite hot!

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By *omliteMan
over a year ago

Waterside


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Ooo.. I like 'Mercy' that sounds quite hot! "

Dont know about you but i find ladies like to get into a role and lose themselves so something fitting but unusual works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is Toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cake"

Surely if you shout 'Cake' you expect it to be eaten?! ...or is that just me?!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

PINEAPPLES!

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Met a guy who said his wife and he used Salt and Pepper instead of Amber and Red

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I just tend to shout ' ow ya fucker' lol

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By *lice_in_BlunderlandWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

You fucker

Or Marmite,

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

[Removed by poster at 18/08/16 21:48:49]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kitten"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Armageddon & unicorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"[Removed by poster at 18/08/16 21:48:49]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haggis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Tap out....what is this??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fluggaenkoecchicebolsen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haggis "

Haggis??? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haggis

Haggis??? Haha "

Yes hubby is a Scotsman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More."

Masochist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about Ouch? would that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banana....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

creosote

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Mine is spatula

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Ours is ' theirs no way your going up that one you dirty git and get off you take to long to cum.

It always works for my wife.

No really.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


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Tap out....what is this??"

Safe words aren't much use if you are gagged. Tap out is a non verbal alternative.

If I'm with a new person, my safe word is balloon. I tend not to use safe words though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is strawberry's

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

No safe words just a rub behind the ear means end,stop,no more..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My safe word is 'red' I've never had to use it though. Mr NbN knows my limits.

Mrs NbN "

traffic light system always works and never changes. Red always means danger or warning as a universal colour. In the BDSM community 90% of people I know use this. I've never ever used my safe word though got close but he took notice of my body language and eased off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Tap out....what is this??

Safe words aren't much use if you are gagged. Tap out is a non verbal alternative.

If I'm with a new person, my safe word is balloon. I tend not to use safe words though."

Tap out is when your unable to verbally communicate. There are other ways also. But the person giving should be experienced enough to look at you and take your body language etc into consideration also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Tap out....what is this??"

When you can't verbally communicate

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By *eff007Man
over a year ago

Ashton

Badgers!

Best

Safe word

Ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I had to choose one I'd say..

"MUM!"

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By *kpartystartersCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Fluggaenkoecchicebolsen"

Ha ha!!

I click my fingers, because I'm often gagged (but have an alarmingly loud click 'for a girl' ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is with safe words they are ok if your just 1-1 but if your swinging or doing any other type of group couple sex their needs to be a universal safe word otherwise you forget , so if your in a group setting etc pushing boundaries 'strawberries or mum' just dosent mean anything whereas RED AMBER(universal for stop slow down) is well known

It's ok for soft play in the bedroom but if your doing bdsm edge play or pushing boundaries it's not a thing to take lightly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is with safe words they are ok if your just 1-1 but if your swinging or doing any other type of group couple sex their needs to be a universal safe word otherwise you forget , so if your in a group setting etc pushing boundaries 'strawberries or mum' just dosent mean anything whereas RED AMBER(universal for stop slow down) is well known

It's ok for soft play in the bedroom but if your doing bdsm edge play or pushing boundaries it's not a thing to take lightly "

The person who is giving should also be aware of body language etc,

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By *kpartystartersCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"The thing is with safe words they are ok if your just 1-1 but if your swinging or doing any other type of group couple sex their needs to be a universal safe word otherwise you forget , so if your in a group setting etc pushing boundaries 'strawberries or mum' just dosent mean anything whereas RED AMBER(universal for stop slow down) is well known

It's ok for soft play in the bedroom but if your doing bdsm edge play or pushing boundaries it's not a thing to take lightly

The person who is giving should also be aware of body language etc, "

That's where clicking my fingers works brilliantly. Hubby will often say 'she'll click her fingers', but, if he forgets, the protagonist will pretty much always stop anyway, because it's such a weird thing to do during a sexual situation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is with safe words they are ok if your just 1-1 but if your swinging or doing any other type of group couple sex their needs to be a universal safe word otherwise you forget , so if your in a group setting etc pushing boundaries 'strawberries or mum' just dosent mean anything whereas RED AMBER(universal for stop slow down) is well known

It's ok for soft play in the bedroom but if your doing bdsm edge play or pushing boundaries it's not a thing to take lightly

The person who is giving should also be aware of body language etc,

That's where clicking my fingers works brilliantly. Hubby will often say 'she'll click her fingers', but, if he forgets, the protagonist will pretty much always stop anyway, because it's such a weird thing to do during a sexual situation!"

Yes to that , it's all about awerness and tuning into how your sub bottom little etc is behaving. Anyone with experience will know to look for body language , not just a safe word x

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!

I've been made to use "I'll eat my cum!" Before, and I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been made to use "I'll eat my cum!" Before, and I did "

Really clever and safe,

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By *igwilly2kMan
over a year ago

The Land of Kink!


"I've been made to use "I'll eat my cum!" Before, and I did

Really clever and safe, "

And humiliating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is with safe words they are ok if your just 1-1 but if your swinging or doing any other type of group couple sex their needs to be a universal safe word otherwise you forget , so if your in a group setting etc pushing boundaries 'strawberries or mum' just dosent mean anything whereas RED AMBER(universal for stop slow down) is well known

It's ok for soft play in the bedroom but if your doing bdsm edge play or pushing boundaries it's not a thing to take lightly

The person who is giving should also be aware of body language etc,

That's where clicking my fingers works brilliantly. Hubby will often say 'she'll click her fingers', but, if he forgets, the protagonist will pretty much always stop anyway, because it's such a weird thing to do during a sexual situation!"

he understands you and your body language sometimes safe words fale if they are silly but ultimately should never be used. I've only ever used Amber before but it wasn't vocally it was by a tap and eye contact he knew to ease off. It's had for others to understand if they can't comprehend , but things can go wrong have gone wrong unless the person in control understands and is aware of his/her sub and sorrroundings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is with safe words they are ok if your just 1-1 but if your swinging or doing any other type of group couple sex their needs to be a universal safe word otherwise you forget , so if your in a group setting etc pushing boundaries 'strawberries or mum' just dosent mean anything whereas RED AMBER(universal for stop slow down) is well known

It's ok for soft play in the bedroom but if your doing bdsm edge play or pushing boundaries it's not a thing to take lightly

The person who is giving should also be aware of body language etc,

That's where clicking my fingers works brilliantly. Hubby will often say 'she'll click her fingers', but, if he forgets, the protagonist will pretty much always stop anyway, because it's such a weird thing to do during a sexual situation!

he understands you and your body language sometimes safe words fale if they are silly but ultimately should never be used. I've only ever used Amber before but it wasn't vocally it was by a tap and eye contact he knew to ease off. It's had for others to understand if they can't comprehend , but things can go wrong have gone wrong unless the person in control understands and is aware of his/her sub and sorrroundings "

*hard

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Please stop now, ouch it's starting to hurt a little bit" is a signal for them to carry on. I need a new release word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do that again and your getting tit punched usually works x

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

With my ex it was "for fuck sakes, lilmans awake"

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

It used to be supercalifragilisticexpealidotious, but could never get the word out quick enough.

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By *ike 1978Man
over a year ago

kettering / Enfield

Always the name of the last guy they fucked

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By *xx1Man
over a year ago

.


"creosote "
.....

I like it!!! x

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I use red & amber but I have never used them yet.....it is easier when you play in a group if everyone uses the same words and we find BDSM very often do and others have random words or none

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It used to be supercalifragilisticexpealidotious, but could never get the word out quick enough."

Super.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine used to be STELLA

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Mine is purple........or marry me.....that makes them stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ours is strawberry's "

I do love 'Strawberry'.. But I'm not sure I could associate it 'Stop'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine is purple........or marry me.....that makes them stop "

'Marry Me'!!!! Haha, that could make them stop - forever!!!

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

I click my fingers if im gagged

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"My safe word is 'red' I've never had to use it though. Mr NbN knows my limits.

Mrs NbN

traffic light system always works and never changes. Red always means danger or warning as a universal colour. In the BDSM community 90% of people I know use this. I've never ever used my safe word though got close but he took notice of my body language and eased off "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girl I used to see had "childbirth"!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Sexit = expresses one's emphatic desire to be out of this union even if one is only marginally decided so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Banana.

We have limited experience but the traffic light system seems to be the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Girl I used to see had "childbirth"! "

Yep... That'll make you stop!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ring +44 08900 467 853 ext 543

press 1 for 'ooh that's nice'

2 for 'would you mind slowing down a bit'

3 for 'ok that's enough'

4 for 'do that again and I'll scream the place down'

Thank you for calling the Safe Word company.Your call is important to us.

(calls charged at $1.50 a second)

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Mine is purple........or marry me.....that makes them stop

'Marry Me'!!!! Haha, that could make them stop - forever!!! "

with some that was the intention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine is purple........or marry me.....that makes them stop

'Marry Me'!!!! Haha, that could make them stop - forever!!!

with some that was the intention "

Oh dear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad wolf = slow down

Big bad wolf = stop

Bad wolf is 2 syllables, and big bad wolf is 3, they are easily represented by ah ah, and ah ah ah, when ball gagged, plus I like Dr who OK!

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