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By *lave2desire OP   Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

how big an age gap is ok for a fuck buddy/fwb?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Depends on both your preferences

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As long as both are legal and able to consent the gap they're comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't matter should it? As long as you are both happy and its legal I can't see a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will be ok with an age gap....some will find it borderline peodo....we are all different....for me personally I like people my own age x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 42 when I met my first buddy. He was 22 and we started having sex when he was 23. It lasted two years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's entirely down to your own moral compass, I've refused to play with a 23 and 24 year old this week.

At 40 I really don't want to play with women barely older than my son

Even though my age minimum is 27, they would have to be a very mature 27. Normally as a rule of thumb I tend to stick to people around my own age, but hey? Each to their own and as long as they're having fun I certainly don't judge or dictate to people their preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're comfortable with it and they're comfortable with it (as well as the obvious need to fall within the law) all is well surely and not really anyone else's concern.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"If you're comfortable with it and they're comfortable with it (as well as the obvious need to fall within the law) all is well surely and not really anyone else's concern. "

This

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By *lave2desire OP   Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

thanks all - have met a much younger woman (yes it's legal and totally consenting - god I would not go there) and we click - get on in and out of the pleasure zone. She's smart fun and dead hot and very sexual. An older head on young shoulders. Definitely a bit of sub dom going on - in tne conventional arrangement though I do like to switch. Anyway looking forward to some fun times while it lasts - Where it goes an the pace of it is completely down to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people will be ok with an age gap....some will find it borderline peodo....we are all different....for me personally I like people my own age x"

What do you mean borderline peodo? There is no such thing. A peodo is interested in children under 16. Age for these sites is 18, 56 + 18+ does not = paedo. Be careful what you call consenting adults.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks all - have met a much younger woman (yes it's legal and totally consenting - god I would not go there) and we click - get on in and out of the pleasure zone. She's smart fun and dead hot and very sexual. An older head on young shoulders. Definitely a bit of sub dom going on - in tne conventional arrangement though I do like to switch. Anyway looking forward to some fun times while it lasts - Where it goes an the pace of it is completely down to her."

Awesome, enjoy the good times buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people will be ok with an age gap....some will find it borderline peodo....we are all different....for me personally I like people my own age x

What do you mean borderline peodo? There is no such thing. A peodo is interested in children under 16. Age for these sites is 18, 56 + 18+ does not = paedo. Be careful what you call consenting adults.x"

I know what a peodo is and I never called anyone one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people will be ok with an age gap....some will find it borderline peodo....we are all different....for me personally I like people my own age x

What do you mean borderline peodo? There is no such thing. A peodo is interested in children under 16. Age for these sites is 18, 56 + 18+ does not = paedo. Be careful what you call consenting adults.x"

They wasn't calling anyone anything, they're referring to a certain way of thinking about age gap differences. For example I wouldn't ever play with someone that's closer to my son's age no matter how much they wanted to, just because my moral compass wouldn't allow it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people will be ok with an age gap....some will find it borderline peodo....we are all different....for me personally I like people my own age x

What do you mean borderline peodo? There is no such thing. A peodo is interested in children under 16. Age for these sites is 18, 56 + 18+ does not = paedo. Be careful what you call consenting adults.x

They wasn't calling anyone anything, they're referring to a certain way of thinking about age gap differences. For example I wouldn't ever play with someone that's closer to my son's age no matter how much they wanted to, just because my moral compass wouldn't allow it. "

Thank you x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people are uncomfortable with big age gaps especially when the younger partner is a woman, they often cite undue influence, coercion or manipulation as the reason. I think coercion etc can occur between two people regardless of age difference or gender though.

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

I think its fairly normal for a man to look for younger women even if its only a few years younger. My last FB was 23 years younger and before that 12.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it doesnt bother the two of you it doesnt matter what age you are -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't matter.

Doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks all - have met a much younger woman (yes it's legal and totally consenting - god I would not go there) and we click - get on in and out of the pleasure zone. She's smart fun and dead hot and very sexual. An older head on young shoulders. Definitely a bit of sub dom going on - in tne conventional arrangement though I do like to switch. Anyway looking forward to some fun times while it lasts - Where it goes an the pace of it is completely down to her."

She's an adult. It would only be morally wrong if she had the brain of a child and wasn't capable of making decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are uncomfortable with big age gaps especially when the younger partner is a woman, they often cite undue influence, coercion or manipulation as the reason. I think coercion etc can occur between two people regardless of age difference or gender though."

Yes I think your last sentence is spot on.

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

#DaddyIssues lol

But as long as it's legal, and consenting, it's "okay to play".

Just other peoples judgements should it be seen...

IMHO

Flames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughters dad is 17 yrs older. His new gf is 2 yrs younger tHan me. some folk judge, most mind their own business. The judgemental idiots like to claim it's daddy issues etc, got feck all to do with that, I just find older men attractive and not so much my own age, never younger.

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

Theres a gap between me and hubs but it never bothers me, I love him for who he is, could of been living in a tent and skint and would still of fancied him when we met, just living on the breadline lol 8 years later still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sleeping with a woman 20 years my senior for a while. No issues with age for me, clearly

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"thanks all - have met a much younger woman (yes it's legal and totally consenting - god I would not go there) and we click - get on in and out of the pleasure zone. She's smart fun and dead hot and very sexual. An older head on young shoulders. Definitely a bit of sub dom going on - in tne conventional arrangement though I do like to switch. Anyway looking forward to some fun times while it lasts - Where it goes an the pace of it is completely down to her."
is this thread more a case of look at me ive pulled a young women. Your already seeing her so what difference does it make what others think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27 years 11 months and 12 days.

That's the maximum age gap for me. A little bit more than twice my age.

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