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Cannot Accommodate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do others presume I'm attached, because I cannot accommodate. There are reasons why but it's not that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why let it bother you?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Shortage of bike sheds down there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably as they can't themselves and ASSUME you will just because you're single.

It's your choice anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why is it hard for single men who cannot accommodate but on the other hand easier for couples who too cannot accommodate it seem unfair i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant due to my tenants.last time i had swingers round they heard everything from my room lol. Hence i dont have meets at home only at christmas/new years when no one is at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it hard for single men who cannot accommodate but on the other hand easier for couples who too cannot accommodate it seem unfair i think"

Everyone thinks you're married when you can not accommodate well i not married i all put work before getting married not i lost that chances but their can be other reasons it could also be the cost of living going up to..

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Generally some people generalise or assume thins before even speaking to someone.

Cant change that... just got to accept it for what it is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys

Look its just practicality at the end of the day... I cannot accommodate and I am not married, but that doesn't mean that everyone that doesn't want to meet me believe that I am married, it can be one of a hundred reasons below, please feel free to add:

1. They don't find you attractive... (shock horror!)

2. They find it difficult explaining to neighbours why so many random single men show up at there house

3. They have family at home and prefer to play away

4. They have been "burnt" by the lying man before (ever had a telephone conversation with someones partner after they have been found out?, I have = NOT NICE)

5. Some couples do not wish to share their marital bed - the psychology of it is disconcerting to them.

So as a single guy (of which there are literally hundreds on this site), people choose people that are low-risk based on a number of details that YOU (or I) put in our profiles. The challenge of swinging in the internet age is avoiding drama, the obsessives, possessives, nutters, users, abusers, etc. etc.

Fabswingers has a number of filters and profile elements that allow people to make informed choices; every person/couple has a different level of "acceptable risk" which they use to make these choices... to avoid the drama.

The fact that some users of the site seen "single" and "unable to accommodate" as a sign of being in a relationship/married and thus avoid such people is a way of mitigating drama for them; respect this and find people that have a higher risk threshold, it will make your time here less stressful....

In short, let people be people, let choice for you equal choice for them, be happy, control the elements you can control and accept those you cannot.....

what the OP has gone UNLOS... what a waste of 5 minutes that was....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys

Look its just practicality at the end of the day... I cannot accommodate and I am not married, but that doesn't mean that everyone that doesn't want to meet me believe that I am married, it can be one of a hundred reasons below, please feel free to add:

1. They don't find you attractive... (shock horror!)

2. They find it difficult explaining to neighbours why so many random single men show up at there house

3. They have family at home and prefer to play away

4. They have been "burnt" by the lying man before (ever had a telephone conversation with someones partner after they have been found out?, I have = NOT NICE)

5. Some couples do not wish to share their marital bed - the psychology of it is disconcerting to them.

So as a single guy (of which there are literally hundreds on this site), people choose people that are low-risk based on a number of details that YOU (or I) put in our profiles. The challenge of swinging in the internet age is avoiding drama, the obsessives, possessives, nutters, users, abusers, etc. etc.

Fabswingers has a number of filters and profile elements that allow people to make informed choices; every person/couple has a different level of "acceptable risk" which they use to make these choices... to avoid the drama.

The fact that some users of the site seen "single" and "unable to accommodate" as a sign of being in a relationship/married and thus avoid such people is a way of mitigating drama for them; respect this and find people that have a higher risk threshold, it will make your time here less stressful....

In short, let people be people, let choice for you equal choice for them, be happy, control the elements you can control and accept those you cannot.....

what the OP has gone UNLOS... what a waste of 5 minutes that was...."

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

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