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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have to have a rant.

Been trying to arrange for three black guys to fuck Jane this Saturday. Have had so far one guy say he and his mates would be up for it. I asked him to confirm when he had spoken to his mates to confirm whether or not they were interested. When I hadn't heard anything five days later, I assumed that they weren't interested so dropped a few on our friends list details of what we were looking for. Once three had said they were interested I hoped that the meet was sorted.

Since then, one has gone unlos after I asked for confirmation he was still ok for Saturday. Another has said he can't make it (thanks for telling us once he realised!) and we haven't heard back from the third.

Seriously, how difficult could it be????

Very close to giving up. It is too much like hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have lives outside of fab you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People have lives outside of fab you know

Indeed. I do too. Don't like people saying they want to meet, then not having the courtesy to say something has cropped up. Don't think I'm being unreasonable to ask for someone to say sorry, can't make it once they know they won't be able to make it.

Or are you saying they shouldn't bother to let us know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People have lives outside of fab you know

Or are you saying they shouldn't bother to let us know? "
im not saying nothing, i dont really care to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People have lives outside of fab you know

Or are you saying they shouldn't bother to let us know? im not saying nothing, i dont really care to be honest"

Thanks. Still not sure what your original post was supposed to mean but there we go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People love the chase, then when it comes to turning up, their bottle goes, it's happened to the Mrs and myself when we arrange for a guy to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had so many friends on the couples account - all wanting to meet - when we were free very rare many were - same the other way round too - we get asked and we couldnt - take last weekend we could have been at 3 private parties and a couple of other friends asked if we were free - we werent - just the way it is

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Hahaha maybe it's just karma

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

As a single woman I've had this as well - its so frustrating when you're sitting waiting for them and they don't message to say they can't make it. Xx

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I'm mostly times free to meet but I always get turned down

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

Five failed meets in a row off Fab.

Last cost me an hour and a half train ride, 2 taxis, club membership and club entry.

All for a no show from a very well known couple on here.

I honestly don't belive I'm likely to get a meet off this site - but I keep on trying!

Anyone reading this in the same position get in touch lol x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have just watched a video where 3 black guys take turns in fucking a babe up the arse if that's any good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People have lives outside of fab you know

They do but if they had agreed to, for example, to look at a car for sale, meet a guy for a drink in a pub, play football for the local team, have a chat to a pal in distress, etc. they would contact the people if they were not going.

On Fab the timewasters take pride, like internet trolls, in making arrangements and then dumping the meet without a word.

Don't make appointments you do not intend to keep is the simply answer.

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By *lueEyedGuyMEMan
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

Wish i had the chance of an actual meet! Lol id always turn up but if something did happen to come up id always message to say otherwise. Even just a quick short text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head to a BMFC, simple

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"People have lives outside of fab you know

Hiw dare they

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im free now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of people talk the talk, couples,guys and fems.

Fact is probably a high percentage of people on here won't ever get a meet either through choice or lack of interest.

We only ever arrange meets with verified people now, sorry if this seems unfair but it seems to be the only way to guarantee genuine people.

As suggested get to a club on bmfc night and go from there.

Try looking at it from a different angle, most of the black guy's probably get fed up with being used as a notch on the bedpost and probably have to deal with as many fantasist as alot of the women do.

Not saying that is the case with you guys, but you see my point.

Good luck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

You may have put people off as they thought you were the type to rant on a public forum about meets.

I am not being sarcastic, I would have zero dealing with people who rush declaring their upset for all to see.. It is disappointing being let down, I appreciate that but dignity for Christ sake. It's a shag, not being let down for a donor kidney

Good luck

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

Ive had a few meets and always turned up. .dont understand the guys that dont!

I fear a lot of use fake pics, as well as some just losing their bottle.

After 2 mins of talking to someone i know if they are timewasters.

Never had a failed meet if arranged!

Choose people more wisely i say !

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Have to have a rant.

Seriously, how difficult could it be????

Very close to giving up. It is too much like hard work

No gender or demographic has it easy on here,

.. from the single guys who have no response through couples finding suitable playmates to single ladies who are swamped with messages..

I've said it before if this no longer provided the fun I was seeking I'd be gone.

Op....If your selection process isn't working change it.... To do the same things over and over again and expect a different result is a definition of insanity.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My FWB has arranged to meet a bloke for FMM in a pub car park and go to his. The bloke was there but he legged it, didn't like the look of me I think! Lol

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off topic but there is a couple on the local updates asking for a meet with a male in return for a mobile top up voucher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Off topic but there is a couple on the local updates asking for a meet with a male in return for a mobile top up voucher

Off topic again but who needs tie tuesday when you can have work-gear Wednesday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well finally got there - but was way more difficult than it really ought to be. Come Saturday, we were still waiting on a couple of guys to confirm they were coming. One finally messaged two hours after the meet had finished - to say he couldn't make it as he was full of cold!

Then asked for a meet the following day....

Seriously??

Thanks to the guys who did show, however. We all had a good time.

Final note, for the guys, above, who seem to think this is somehow our fault, think about this: every guy who gives couples and women the run around makes it that much more difficult for you yourselves to meet. Certainly we would have more meets but it is always such hard work, being let down and waiting on people who, ultimately, have no intention of meeting. I used to play as a single man and would never have treated any of the women or couples I met this way. Why promise to meet when you know you won't? Can't understand that. We're not inhuman - and I understand that meets can be daunting for guys (from personal experience). The least we expect is that guys have the courtesy to let us know if they can't make a meet as soon as they are aware they won't be doing so. I would let them know immediately if the roles were reversed. Surely that's not too much to ask, is it?

Rant over

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Your target audience probably won't see this.

Glad you had fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to have a rant.

Seriously, how difficult could it be????

Very close to giving up. It is too much like hard work

I wouldn't be taking half measures when it comes to the wife,you should have no problem finding candidates but don't rush the selection process,set it up for a months time and chat to the candidates until you have 3 you are happy with. If you can't get it right you might be better leaving it as a fantasy

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