FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging Friend Zone

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You know that thing that happens with some people where you end up in the friend zone instead of being seen as a romantic partner? I think I do it here. People would rather be my friend than my shag.

Any one else being friend zoned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough, I was just thinking this a few minutes ago.

I get friendzoned a lot in the real world...and it seems as though it's no different on here too

Ah well. Still having a blast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. I like it though. Friends on here are harder to come by than shags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you been reading my biography?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

All the fucking time

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yeah. I like it though. Friends on here are harder to come by than shags. "

I have the opposite experience.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Funnily enough, I was just thinking this a few minutes ago.

I get friendzoned a lot in the real world...and it seems as though it's no different on here too

Ah well. Still having a blast

Don't get me wrong, I have great enjoyment chatting with the friends. It's just that a few of them are very fanciable too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea but that's ok.. Its nice to have friends.. That's what i tell myself anyway

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Have you been reading my biography?"

Every line.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"All the fucking time

Without the fucking.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yea but that's ok.. Its nice to have friends.. That's what i tell myself anyway

Me too.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"All the fucking time

Without the fucking.

You said it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Dont know i have two types of friends. Friends i shag and friends i dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know that thing that happens with some people where you end up in the friend zone instead of being seen as a romantic partner? I think I do it here. People would rather be my friend than my shag.

Any one else being friend zoned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funnily enough, I was just thinking this a few minutes ago.

I get friendzoned a lot in the real world...and it seems as though it's no different on here too

Ah well. Still having a blast

Don't get me wrong, I have great enjoyment chatting with the friends. It's just that a few of them are very fanciable too.

I know what you mean.

There's a couple of lovely women on here that I fancy, but feel as though they've established a boundary, which is slightly annoying truth be told.

Meh. I'll keep on trucking

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Any one else being friend zoned?

It's a nice friendly atmosphere here in the friend zone. Don't be too sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think so?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I don't think so?"

Test it out and report back.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Dont know i have two types of friends. Friends i shag and friends i dont"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the fucking time

Lol ....

Well here's two people who never do the friends thing . It doesn't even register for us .

Fab is a place we use for sex , not friendship .

Far prefer it this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think so?

Test it out and report back."

Ah, I have identified my problem.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Any one else being friend zoned?

Nah, I'm that mad biatch that nobody wants to shag or be friends with

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"All the fucking time

Lol ....

Well here's two people who never do the friends thing . It doesn't even register for us .

Fab is a place we use for sex , not friendship .

Far prefer it this way

Oh trust you to turn up now. Told ya 1 day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's very easy to friend zone men I chat to on the forums.

Most I've started off fancying but the more I've chatted to them, the less I'm physically attracted to them and they become more like friends.

That doesn't seem to happen with men I chat to on here who don't use the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the fucking time

Without the fucking.

You said it

Fancy a fuck?

Can't say it wasn't offered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's very easy to friend zone men I chat to on the forums.

Most I've started off fancying but the more I've chatted to them, the less I'm physically attracted to them and they become more like friends.

That doesn't seem to happen with men I chat to on here who don't use the forums."

Interesting!

Maybe I should disappear from the forums for a while

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Any one else being friend zoned?

Nah, I'm that mad biatch that nobody wants to shag or be friends with

Damn! You mean I might not even be in the friend zone? I'm a virago after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been friendzoned by a few I'd have otherwise maybe have been interested in, I'very also made it clear that I'm not interested in more than friends a couple of times. That's life.x

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think it's very easy to friend zone men I chat to on the forums.

Most I've started off fancying but the more I've chatted to them, the less I'm physically attracted to them and they become more like friends.

That doesn't seem to happen with men I chat to on here who don't use the forums."

I end up doing it (or not, as it were) with those who never come near the forum too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean on the forum or offline?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"All the fucking time

Without the fucking.

You said it

Fancy a fuck?

Can't say it wasn't offered!

Good God what happened to romance. I'm not a machine you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the fucking time

Without the fucking.

You said it

Fancy a fuck?

Can't say it wasn't offered!

Good God what happened to romance. I'm not a machine you know

Oh OK OK steak and a bj?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Any one else being friend zoned?

Nah, I'm that mad biatch that nobody wants to shag or be friends with

Damn! You mean I might not even be in the friend zone? I'm a virago after all.

I think I'm in a category all of my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One can never have enough jolly chums

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Last week I was telling a male friend of ours that when a woman says she loves you like a brother , theres very little chance of a shag .

Kinda cute the way he still trys though .

Jo x

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham

Friends is cool

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Do you mean on the forum or offline? "

Forum and Fab in general.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"All the fucking time

Without the fucking.

You said it

Fancy a fuck?

Can't say it wasn't offered!

Good God what happened to romance. I'm not a machine you know

Oh OK OK steak and a bj?

God damn it is can't say no to a steak

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Last week I was telling a male friend of ours that when a woman says she loves you like a brother , theres very little chance of a shag .

Kinda cute the way he still trys though .

Jo x"

His idea of brotherly love is not the same as hers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the fucking time

Without the fucking.

You said it

Fancy a fuck?

Can't say it wasn't offered!

Good God what happened to romance. I'm not a machine you know

Oh OK OK steak and a bj?

God damn it is can't say no to a steak

ohhh you're such a charmer. I'd throw my knickers at you if I was wearing any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure it's called the friends zone but some friends seem to end up in the "it ain't going happen for XYZ reason" zone..... :-/

Don't think I've been friend zoned, I've been in blocked zone ~ does that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think someone addressed me as bro on here the other day

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm not sure it's called the friends zone but some friends seem to end up in the "it ain't going happen for XYZ reason" zone..... :-/

Don't think I've been friend zoned, I've been in blocked zone ~ does that count

The blocked zone is whole different place. I have a shortcut route there - I send the first message and include a face picture.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Think someone addressed me as bro on here the other day

Male or female?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Think someone addressed me as bro on here the other day

Really, bro?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we don't fuck we won't be friends forever. I get bored and I'm not the chatty type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think someone addressed me as bro on here the other day

Really, bro?"

That's it...

[Jumps off a bridge]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think someone addressed me as bro on here the other day

Male or female?"

Female

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"If we don't fuck we won't be friends forever. I get bored and I'm not the chatty type. "

That's it; I'm too chatty.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Think someone addressed me as bro on here the other day

Male or female?

Female"

I have no clue. It's not a term I use.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"All the fucking time

Without the fucking.

You said it

Fancy a fuck?

Can't say it wasn't offered!

Good God what happened to romance. I'm not a machine you know

Oh OK OK steak and a bj?

God damn it is can't say no to a steak

ohhh you're such a charmer. I'd throw my knickers at you if I was wearing any."

Normal day then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the fucking time

Without the fucking.

You said it

Fancy a fuck?

Can't say it wasn't offered!

Good God what happened to romance. I'm not a machine you know

Oh OK OK steak and a bj?

God damn it is can't say no to a steak

ohhh you're such a charmer. I'd throw my knickers at you if I was wearing any.

Normal day then

Nah, most days I wear them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it can be true...however take the chance and kiss that friend after you have looked deeply into their eyes over that coffee.....and then walk away with a smile and see what happens.."you may be surprised"

Mwah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you mean on the forum or offline?

Forum and Fab in general.

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I see, on fab I have lots of friends, but in the real world, it is just one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

It can be awkward but surely it's a good sign if you are friends first and then become romantic? I know the feeling though,you get on so well that you don't want to ruin the friendship so do you make a move or don't you? I always think they are likely to be feeling the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If we don't fuck we won't be friends forever. I get bored and I'm not the chatty type.

That's it; I'm too chatty.

If someone holds my attention for months,without us fucking he's either seriously attractive to me or has very interesting conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm friendless

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont recall being friendzoned by someone i wanted to shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

All the time ....And then they enquire about fucking my hot mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people we met have become both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't there be more room in the friends-with-benefitszone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but I couldn't be happier

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I have friend zoned a couple of people - I even put one there for months and then got him out again in spectacular fashion!

There's always a certain frisson with male friends though and I love it! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fuck friends. I find it really weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

I'm usually the kind, understanding man, and they want to fuck my bad boy friends. (Who really ain't that bad.)

I'm also so polite I often miss out when people actually want to fuck me and think they're being friendly, oh what a joy it is to be me sometimes!

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Any one else being friend zoned?

All the time ....And then they enquire about fucking my hot mates"

I would love to fuck you.

MrsSB

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Straight women keep friend zoning me.

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm friendless

Me too.

I don't fuck forumites though. For obvious reasons!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

By many I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

All the time ....And then they enquire about fucking my hot mates

I would love to fuck you.

MrsSB

We were so near and yet so far Mrs SB!! You and your broken ankle. Don't worry Hanky kept me entertained lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't fuck friends. I find it really weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be upfront with people from the get go with my intentions. Which has often avoided the whole "friend zone" thing.

That way we can either agree we have different ideas or the same.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Yes a few times as either I'm not their type or there's no sexual Chemistry But we get on well, have a laugh and I like their company when I see them at clubs and parties.

I'd much rather not have sex with someone for the right reasons than them sleep with me for the wrong reasons and regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've (female half), met quite a few who are friends xx

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Any one else being friend zoned?

I never really had any friends until I came on Fab. And it took me coming on here to really understand what true friendship was. I think in "real life" I tend to be that guy who women see as friend material rather than anything else anyway, so I'm used to that (but then I am crap at reading womens intentions anyway so I wouldn't know).

A shag is just a shag. Fun but fleeting. A friendship is much more meaningful. I'm more than happy to make friends.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Any one else being friend zoned?

A shag is just a shag. Fun but fleeting. A friendship is much more meaningful. I'm more than happy to make friends."

I'm glad the swinging friend zone has been good for you. I wonder if it will lead to you making friends away from here too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

"
I am really bad at doing this to other people lol x

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

Any one else being friend zoned?

i met a girl on here a couple of years ago and she has wound up as one of my best friends......we do lots of social things together and the sex thing is the least important.........days by the sea....theatre.....pub.....so nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made some great life long friends on here if I left I think I would miss them more than the sex

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Any one else being friend zoned?

I am really bad at doing this to other people lol x

I think we probably all do it to some extent. I haven't really had to as I get friend zoned first.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Yeah. I like it though. Friends on here are harder to come by than shags.

I have the opposite experience.

Me too, I've made some real friends on here, though we don't tend to have have sex

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly."

Me too, I never expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly."

I'm like this in real life, but on here I find it much clearer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get friend zoned in real life a lot and have been on here now as well

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I do have sex with some of them though and it's better with someone you know quite well and like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, here's a question. Are friends in the friend zone of you both only ever wanted to be friends OR are you only in the friend zone if you wanted sex at some point and got friendship instead?

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

I hope not.ive been talking to a charm my, witty funny person for a while now,-he makes me smile and laugh everyday and we seen on the right leave length I'd. Be disapoointed if the future hit no pootling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope not.ive been talking to a charm my, witty funny person for a while now,-he makes me smile and laugh everyday and we seen on the right leave length I'd. Be disapoointed if the future hit no pootling"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Ok, here's a question. Are friends in the friend zone of you both only ever wanted to be friends OR are you only in the friend zone if you wanted sex at some point and got friendship instead?"

That's too technical for me at this time of night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly.

I'm like this in real life, but on here I find it much clearer."

I don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, here's a question. Are friends in the friend zone of you both only ever wanted to be friends OR are you only in the friend zone if you wanted sex at some point and got friendship instead?"

I think its the latter, wanting sex or more than friendship in the real world and end up being friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly.

I'm like this in real life, but on here I find it much clearer.

I don't!

Some of the message content leaves no doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...i get guys opening up to me about all kindsa stuff..then i feel odd sleeping with em :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm friendless

Me too.

I don't fuck forumites though. For obvious reasons!"

i do - cos some i cant resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly.

I'm like this in real life, but on here I find it much clearer.

I don't!

Some of the message content leaves no doubt

Huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly.

I'm like this in real life, but on here I find it much clearer.

I don't!

Some of the message content leaves no doubt

Huh? "

Some messages leave no doubt as to what they want. Sometimes it's grim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh

But & it's a but if it's all NSA wouldn't it be a case of oh well plenty more fish in the sea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly."

Why not ask them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking about it now I do have a few in the friends zone.

Some are there through mutual consent, some because I like a lot but don't fancy & some, well I wasn't too sure & that's what led to the block zone.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I do have sex with some of them though and it's better with someone you know quite well and like

I am friends with many I have sex with but that's not the same. That makes them friends with benefits or something. The friend zone is devoid of sex.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Anyone need a friend ha ha

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ok, here's a question. Are friends in the friend zone of you both only ever wanted to be friends OR are you only in the friend zone if you wanted sex at some point and got friendship instead?"

I am defining the zoning as someone you would quite like to have sex with only wanting to be platonic and friendly.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly.

Why not ask them? "

I would if I had an immediate fancy for them. Some people grow on you though and by then it's too late.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Anyone need a friend ha ha

No. Could use a good funky though

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Anyone need a friend ha ha

No. Could use a good funky though

Blasted phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone need a friend ha ha

No. Could use a good funky though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather be someones friend though.. but then again im not after sex at this moment in time..

If i was though,, think id need a guy to just say 'i fancy you rotten' cos im crap at reading folk and until im certain they 'like' me then i do just go down the friend zone route

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly.

Why not ask them?

I would if I had an immediate fancy for them. Some people grow on you though and by then it's too late.

Fair enough.

Ask them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

Nah, I'm that mad biatch that nobody wants to shag or be friends with

Oi, I class you as my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly.

I'm like this in real life, but on here I find it much clearer.

I don't!

Some of the message content leaves no doubt

Huh?

Some messages leave no doubt as to what they want. Sometimes it's grim."

Yeah, but I meant I'm never sure. Sometimes it's polite chat, sometimes straight to the point. I prefer straight to the point, then polite, as I'm a bit "nice but dim"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would really love to develop some long-term friends, any sex, just someone I can talk to about my alternative lifestyle. My vanilla girlfriends know nothing about my secret life and sometimes it would be lovely to just talk sex! I know it's a sex site, and my god I am having some fun, especially lately but I only really have a few friends that actually message to say, hi, how you doing! Not... when can we fuck! So anyone local, please do come round for a natter, if you would like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would really love to develop some long-term friends, any sex, just someone I can talk to about my alternative lifestyle. My vanilla girlfriends know nothing about my secret life and sometimes it would be lovely to just talk sex! I know it's a sex site, and my god I am having some fun, especially lately but I only really have a few friends that actually message to say, hi, how you doing! Not... when can we fuck! So anyone local, please do come round for a natter, if you would like

I'm not local, but can chat for England, sometimes I even make sense...

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

That's where organised socials come into their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's where organised socials come into their own.

Thanks, I'll keep my eyes and ears open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! Me too. Everyone I talk to lives so far away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! Me too. Everyone I talk to lives so far away..."

Like 250 miles away or some thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! Me too. Everyone I talk to lives so far away...

Like 250 miles away or some thing.

What am I like 25 miles? Too far for you to bring me a ripple it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh! Me too. Everyone I talk to lives so far away...

Like 250 miles away or some thing.

Rub it in!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I think so.

But I'm so rubbish at taking the hint I may have missed some shags

I wonder if this is happening with me too. I never know if men fancy me unless they state it clearly."

I can relate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have over the years made a few friends from here I can have a natter with off site & it's great to have that release. To talk & laugh about stuff that you know they'll get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have over the years made a few friends from here I can have a natter with off site & it's great to have that release. To talk & laugh about stuff that you know they'll get

I'll keep chatting in here then and hopefully someone might think I'm worthy

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

It should remain a swinging community!

Laughs, friends, support and sex

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have over the years made a few friends from here I can have a natter with off site & it's great to have that release. To talk & laugh about stuff that you know they'll get

I'll keep chatting in here then and hopefully someone might think I'm worthy

Mine came from chatting on here and then meeting up at a social.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It should remain a swinging community!

Laughs, friends, support and sex

I'd better delete my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should remain a swinging community!

Laughs, friends, support and sex

I'd better delete my profile.

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's where organised socials come into their own.

Definitely! I made some good friends after meeting them at your birthday party!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

That's where organised socials come into their own.

Definitely! I made some good friends after meeting them at your birthday party!"

Fateful night that was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's where organised socials come into their own.

Definitely! I made some good friends after meeting them at your birthday party!

Fateful night that was

Lol. Oh yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

Yes a few time it has happened

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"If we don't fuck we won't be friends forever. I get bored and I'm not the chatty type.

That's it; I'm too chatty.

If someone holds my attention for months,without us fucking he's either seriously attractive to me or has very interesting conversation. "

This im having some great conversions with a certain person who makes me laugh and smile every day. He knows I'm attracted to him and look forward to neeting him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say that I am yes. I should probably stop offering people tea. People seem to think I'm nice, which I'm happy with but it does seem that people just want to drink tea with me, not fuck me.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'd say that I am yes. I should probably stop offering people tea. People seem to think I'm nice, which I'm happy with but it does seem that people just want to drink tea with me, not fuck me. "

You need to sell them the idea that tea is an aphrodisiac.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

What's the level below friend zone?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Any one else being friend zoned?

What's the level below friend zone? "

Acquaintance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

What's the level below friend zone?

Acquaintance.

Hmmm I'm probably below that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

I get bitch zoned.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Any one else being friend zoned?

Yes. Happens to us quite a bit.

I think it's partly because we're often too laid back and not forward enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say that I am yes. I should probably stop offering people tea. People seem to think I'm nice, which I'm happy with but it does seem that people just want to drink tea with me, not fuck me.

You need to sell them the idea that tea is an aphrodisiac.

Not a bad idea, might be a tough sell though.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'd say that I am yes. I should probably stop offering people tea. People seem to think I'm nice, which I'm happy with but it does seem that people just want to drink tea with me, not fuck me.

You need to sell them the idea that tea is an aphrodisiac.

Not a bad idea, might be a tough sell though. "

That's where the cake comes into play.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Any one else being friend zoned?

What's the level below friend zone?

Acquaintance.

Hmmm I'm probably below that "

"That bloke. You know the one..." zoned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this has happened to us, twice

The Mrs has at least now got a good female friend out of it, especially some one she can discuss sex and swinging with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one else being friend zoned?

What's the level below friend zone?

Acquaintance.

Hmmm I'm probably below that

"That bloke. You know the one..." zoned?

Yep, that's it.

I had to remind someone (who I'd met) on here who I was... So ladies, you want a forgettable time? I'm your man

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over a year ago

"I'd say that I am yes. I should probably stop offering people tea. People seem to think I'm nice, which I'm happy with but it does seem that people just want to drink tea with me, not fuck me.

You need to sell them the idea that tea is an aphrodisiac.

Not a bad idea, might be a tough sell though.

That's where the cake comes into play.

Do you want to be my wingwoman?

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

Not all bad. Zombiegivesbrain, put me in the friends zone but yet she sends me more nudes than ever to anyone. We got a good friendship and flirt all the time. I have actually made a cool mate on here. And my inital plan was to shag her guts out.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'd say that I am yes. I should probably stop offering people tea. People seem to think I'm nice, which I'm happy with but it does seem that people just want to drink tea with me, not fuck me.

You need to sell them the idea that tea is an aphrodisiac.

Not a bad idea, might be a tough sell though.

That's where the cake comes into play.

Do you want to be my wingwoman? "

Any time, Hatter. If I were younger and you fancied me...

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