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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been asked many times to go to someones house ,when there partner is away or at work,that is so disrespectful,how could they invite someone into the home they live in with their family.Would be interested to know others views on this please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been asked many times to go to someones house ,when there partner is away or at work,that is so disrespectful,how could they invite someone into the home they live in with their family.Would be interested to know others views on this please."

For me, it's about whether the partner knows. If they do, fine. If not...no, that's taking it too far. Get some cash out and pay for a flipping hotel. It's a total turnoff. And I'm fine with sleeping with cheaters!

I'd feel I was being disrespectful - I'd want to leave her a note to burn the sheets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think is is vile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Imagine if i was a nutter,went to a mans house where he lives with his wife,had fun in her bed,then i went and reported that i had been abused there or something,next minute he's arrested and he's lost everything,of course if his partner didnt know what he's up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not news that many people have no respect for their partners.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense..."

I'd guess you and the O.P. are coming at it ( no pun ) from different angles.

Marc knows.

She means cheaters who invite you over to fuck in their beds whilst their partners believe they are in a monogamous relationship.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Imagine if i was a nutter,went to a mans house where he lives with his wife,had fun in her bed,then i went and reported that i had been abused there or something,next minute he's arrested and he's lost everything,of course if his partner didnt know what he's up to."

Imagine if cadbury creme eggs fell from the sky and one shot up my vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

I'd guess you and the O.P. are coming at it ( no pun ) from different angles.

Marc knows.

She means cheaters who invite you over to fuck in their beds whilst their partners believe they are in a monogamous relationship.

I was joking. But never mind.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'd feel I was being disrespectful - I'd want to leave her a note to burn the sheets."

I always think about the sheets..... She hops out and off to work .... you slide in .... YAK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Imagine if cadbury creme eggs fell from the sky and one shot up my vagina. "
Well it could happen

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

I'd guess you and the O.P. are coming at it ( no pun ) from different angles.

Marc knows.

She means cheaters who invite you over to fuck in their beds whilst their partners believe they are in a monogamous relationship.

I was joking. But never mind.

I do mind. I do mind. Say it again Courtney ... gwan ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

I'd guess you and the O.P. are coming at it ( no pun ) from different angles.

Marc knows.

She means cheaters who invite you over to fuck in their beds whilst their partners believe they are in a monogamous relationship.Exactly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine if cadbury creme eggs fell from the sky and one shot up my vagina. "

Strangely turned on at the thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So there i am sat in the wife's house having a coffee or a shag,in walks the wife ,oh its ok I'm the Avon lady lol.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Imagine if cadbury creme eggs fell from the sky and one shot up my vagina.

Strangely turned on at the thought.

Takes Allsorts?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"So there i am sat in the wife's house having a coffee or a shag,in walks the wife ,oh its ok I'm the Avon lady lol.

You'd have to take a big make up bag with you to carry that off.... and a catalogue.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Imagine if cadbury creme eggs fell from the sky and one shot up my vagina.

Strangely turned on at the thought.

Takes Allsorts?

No allsorts.... the coconut plays havoc up a faj......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Joking aside its nots right really,well i wouldn't do that anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

I'd guess you and the O.P. are coming at it ( no pun ) from different angles.

Marc knows.

She means cheaters who invite you over to fuck in their beds whilst their partners believe they are in a monogamous relationship.

Exactly. Hence the why? You clearly weren't doing anything wrong before so why change just because someone doesn't think like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

I'd guess you and the O.P. are coming at it ( no pun ) from different angles.

Marc knows.

She means cheaters who invite you over to fuck in their beds whilst their partners believe they are in a monogamous relationship.

Exactly. Hence the why? You clearly weren't doing anything wrong before so why change just because someone doesn't think like you.

Holy Jesus. I was joking. It was a joke. I don't actually invite people over when Marc goes to work and ask them to take their used condom with them. Personally I think most people would find what the OP is talking about abhorrent, hence my trying to joke about it. Obviously I failed. Eek.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Holy Mary Mother of God.....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It has to be the ultimate in lack of respect. I might forgive someone cheating on me but id never forgive that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pray for us sinners

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I still can't figure out why you don't ask them to take their used condoms with them.

cheeses, dairy, and loafers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It has to be the ultimate in lack of respect. I might forgive someone cheating on me but id never forgive that"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I still can't figure out why you don't ask them to take their used condoms with them.

cheeses, dairy, and loafers. "
The lady was joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still can't figure out why you don't ask them to take their used condoms with them.

cheeses, dairy, and loafers. "

Because I save them for my collection. Obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense..."

Your first post might have been a joke Courtney. This one seems like its pandering to the OP. It doesn't read as a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

Your first post might have been a joke Courtney. This one seems like its pandering to the OP. It doesn't read as a joke.

Ok. You win. I was serious. Don't tell Marc.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

Your first post might have been a joke Courtney. This one seems like its pandering to the OP. It doesn't read as a joke.

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oh behave

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I still can't figure out why you don't ask them to take their used condoms with them.

cheeses, dairy, and loafers.

Because I save them for my collection. Obviously."

Any swaps ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

Your first post might have been a joke Courtney. This one seems like its pandering to the OP. It doesn't read as a joke.

Ok. You win. I was serious. Don't tell Marc."

chortle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What i mean is if my husband which i havent got was at work,then it wouldn't be right to invite another man into my house and bed which i share with him and he hasn't a clue I'm a swinger.

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Shagged a girl in her livingroom when the cleaner was due and could have walked in at anytime. I found that quite exciting and the girl and her partner were swingers and her other half knew. Dont see whats wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More fool them if they get caught. It's playing Russian roulette in a way. Just like sex without a condom. Massive risk.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense..."

Wouldn't need to remind me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Shagged a girl in her livingroom when the cleaner was due and could have walked in at anytime. I found that quite exciting and the girl and her partner were swingers and her other half knew. Dont see whats wrong with that."

No. Neither does anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think this is the lowest of the low. Cheaters cheat for whatever reason, but to invade someone's marital home show's a total different level of selfishness and contempt for a relationship.

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over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What i mean is if my husband which i havent got was at work,then it wouldn't be right to invite another man into my house and bed which i share with him and he hasn't a clue I'm a swinger."

How come your husband doesn't know you are a swinger ? And if you haven't got one - Where does he work ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah coz it would be cheating. Obviously??

But some people, as stated, play in their homes with partners away under consentual conditions, which aint cheating. There's a difference. Fuck this I'm out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i mean is if my husband which i havent got was at work,then it wouldn't be right to invite another man into my house and bed which i share with him and he hasn't a clue I'm a swinger."

But shagging them in a hotel room makes it OK?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I think this is the lowest of the low. Cheaters cheat for whatever reason, but to invade someone's marital home show's a total different level of selfishness and contempt for a relationship. "
Hallelujah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well sometimes where would you play.. people can afford loads of hotel s

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What i mean is if my husband which i havent got was at work,then it wouldn't be right to invite another man into my house and bed which i share with him and he hasn't a clue I'm a swinger.

How come your husband doesn't know you are a swinger ? And if you haven't got one - Where does he work ?"
Lol i havent got a husband.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"What i mean is if my husband which i havent got was at work,then it wouldn't be right to invite another man into my house and bed which i share with him and he hasn't a clue I'm a swinger.

But shagging them in a hotel room makes it OK?"
you cant see the difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fully agree with your views on this. I have been asked several times myself. It's usually men whose wife's, gf are not aware of their sexual activities. It's disrespectful to both their partner and the person they are asking. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stay for dinner lol.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

Your first post might have been a joke Courtney. This one seems like its pandering to the OP. It doesn't read as a joke.

Ok. You win. I was serious. Don't tell Marc.

chortle"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"What i mean is if my husband which i havent got was at work,then it wouldn't be right to invite another man into my house and bed which i share with him and he hasn't a clue I'm a swinger.

But shagging them in a hotel room makes it OK?"

Better more than ok for me.

I don't give a toss who shags who , we are all adults and make our own choices. But if you are going to shag behind a partners back I think is is the lowest of the low to do it in your home while your OH is out.

Many moons ago we got offered this on another site while his wife was at bingo.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"What i mean is if my husband which i havent got was at work,then it wouldn't be right to invite another man into my house and bed which i share with him and he hasn't a clue I'm a swinger.

But shagging them in a hotel room makes it OK?

Better more than ok for me.

Many moons ago we got offered this on another site while his wife was at bingo.

* better would be the word more than OK for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have my FWB in my house for sex, my 2 son's live her and this is there home.I feel that people locally think I am cheating in some way on my late husband also, like how dare I shag other blokes.x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

I'd guess you and the O.P. are coming at it ( no pun ) from different angles.

Marc knows.

She means cheaters who invite you over to fuck in their beds whilst their partners believe they are in a monogamous relationship.

Exactly. Hence the why? You clearly weren't doing anything wrong before so why change just because someone doesn't think like you.

I got it

Miss

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"It's not news that many people have no respect for their partners."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why cheating in your own home is worse than cheating elsewhere.

So is it ok for me to drink pissed abroad? But not ok here? How does that lessen the original act?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've been asked to do this a couple of times. It put me right off. At least one of them I might have met otherwise.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

That's nothing to do with the thread though

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"It's not news that many people have no respect for their partners.

yep..

equally and that for some irony is something to do with a hot electrical thingy..

and socks..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Well!! I'll have to rethink my approach!

Why?

Well, if I had known that inviting people to my home while Marc is at work was a turn off then I would have chosen a different approach.

It's not like I ask for much. Just that they take the used condom with them so Marc doesn't find it in the trash bin. I thought that was just common sense...

Your first post might have been a joke Courtney. This one seems like its pandering to the OP. It doesn't read as a joke.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I don't see why cheating in your own home is worse than cheating elsewhere.

So is it ok for me to drink pissed abroad? But not ok here? How does that lessen the original act?

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ok, i dont know how id react if someone cheated on me but i know how id react if they had been doing it in my bed

Theres kicking someone and then kicking them, putting the knife in and twisting it

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I don't see why cheating in your own home is worse than cheating elsewhere.

So is it ok for me to drink pissed abroad? But not ok here? How does that lessen the original act?

ok, i dont know how id react if someone cheated on me but i know how id react if they had been doing it in my bed

Theres kicking someone and then kicking them, putting the knife in and twisting it"

There are different levels of being disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For you maybe.

I felt no difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't see why cheating in your own home is worse than cheating elsewhere.

So is it ok for me to drink pissed abroad? But not ok here? How does that lessen the original act?

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...So your wife dosent know youre a swinger,and you would invite another woman into your marital bed you share with your wife and have sex ? Dont shyte on your own doorstep i say.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"For you maybe.

I felt no difference.

How many partners that you lived with have you had that have cheated on you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One. I couldn't give a fuck where it was. The fact she did it instead of having the guts to tell me she was seeing someone else before she fucked him was enough.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For you maybe.

I felt no difference.

How many partners that you lived with have you had that have cheated on you?

And you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ads and I stayed at my exes house with all the kids to look after his kittens one weekend, even though ads and I have been together over 8 months at that point...we couldn't perform in my old bed that I once shared with my husband (and let's face it, sleeping in his bed is weird enough!), just felt disrespectful to him (even though if he is a dickface but that's another story!)

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

We and hubby don't even swap in our bed, I don't like the thought of him fucking another woman in OUR bed, and I have zero interest in fucking another man there.

But to do so behind a partners back is one of the lowest forms of disrespect in my eyes. Cheating is one thing, doing it in their home, their bed is beyond nasty.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"For you maybe.

I felt no difference.

How many partners that you lived with have you had that have cheated on you?

And you? "

I'm not the one comparing how it feels to have a partner cheat in the bed you share to how it feels to have a partner cheat but not in the bed you share.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"One. I couldn't give a fuck where it was. The fact she did it instead of having the guts to tell me she was seeing someone else before she fucked him was enough.

Then you don't know if you felt a difference because you haven't experienced both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We and hubby don't even swap in our bed, I don't like the thought of him fucking another woman in OUR bed, and I have zero interest in fucking another man there.

But to do so behind a partners back is one of the lowest forms of disrespect in my eyes. Cheating is one thing, doing it in their home, their bed is beyond nasty."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I am,

because I'm speaking from experience. Others seem to be speculating on how they would feel given a hypothetical situation.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yeah it's pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One. I couldn't give a fuck where it was. The fact she did it instead of having the guts to tell me she was seeing someone else before she fucked him was enough.

Then you don't know if you felt a difference because you haven't experienced both."

I'm pretty sure those on here saying its worse for someone to cheat in their own bed haven't experienced it either but they've given their opinion.

He is giving his opinion from his personal experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think is is vile"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine if cadbury creme eggs fell from the sky and one shot up my vagina. "

I imagine you'd get plenty of offers to eat it out.

My view of this OP is the offender has no respect for their partner.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"One. I couldn't give a fuck where it was. The fact she did it instead of having the guts to tell me she was seeing someone else before she fucked him was enough.

Then you don't know if you felt a difference because you haven't experienced both.

I'm pretty sure those on here saying its worse for someone to cheat in their own bed haven't experienced it either but they've given their opinion.

He is giving his opinion from his personal experience."

He's not though. He said it didn't make any difference to him. That's not an opinion, it's stated as a fact.

'I think one is worse than the other' or 'I wouldn't care' are opinions. 'I didn't care' isn't an opinion.

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over a year ago

"One. I couldn't give a fuck where it was. The fact she did it instead of having the guts to tell me she was seeing someone else before she fucked him was enough.

Then you don't know if you felt a difference because you haven't experienced both.

I'm pretty sure those on here saying its worse for someone to cheat in their own bed haven't experienced it either but they've given their opinion.

He is giving his opinion from his personal experience."

Cheers. Thats exactly it. No I can't be sure if it happened in my bed but it didn't make me want to go OJ on them any less.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"One. I couldn't give a fuck where it was. The fact she did it instead of having the guts to tell me she was seeing someone else before she fucked him was enough.

Then you don't know if you felt a difference because you haven't experienced both.

I'm pretty sure those on here saying its worse for someone to cheat in their own bed haven't experienced it either but they've given their opinion.

He is giving his opinion from his personal experience."
ive had to help someone pick up the pieces and all she kept saying but why our bed. I think if it had been anywhere else they may have been able to sort it out. As for me i dont really care how others feel but if someone wants to betray me that way they would have to deal with the consequences which would be me not being in their life anymore

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"One. I couldn't give a fuck where it was. The fact she did it instead of having the guts to tell me she was seeing someone else before she fucked him was enough.

Then you don't know if you felt a difference because you haven't experienced both.

I'm pretty sure those on here saying its worse for someone to cheat in their own bed haven't experienced it either but they've given their opinion.

He is giving his opinion from his personal experience.

Cheers. Thats exactly it. No I can't be sure if it happened in my bed but it didn't make me want to go OJ on them any less. "

But if you'd known it happened in your bed you may have want to even more.

You said it didn't make any difference but you can't know it didn't.

You were furious, sure, but you could have been more furious if you'd known it happened in your bed.

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over a year ago

'I think one is worse than the other' or 'I wouldn't care' are opinions. 'I didn't care' isn't an opinion."

Sorry but WTF??? Seriously.

No 'I didn't care' was not an opinion. It was a FACT.

'I wouldn't care' is an opinion based on speculation

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

'I think one is worse than the other' or 'I wouldn't care' are opinions. 'I didn't care' isn't an opinion.

Sorry but WTF??? Seriously.

No 'I didn't care' was not an opinion. It was a FACT.

'I wouldn't care' is an opinion based on speculation

That's my point if you read my comment more carefully.

You stated a fact based on your feelings about two different situations, which you haven't experienced.

Soneone said you're just giving your opinion, which you aren't.

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over a year ago

Imagine if cadbury creme eggs fell from the sky and one shot up my vagina.

I imagine you'd get plenty of offers to eat it out.

My view of this OP is the offender has no respect for their partner. "
Very true x

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over a year ago

"One. I couldn't give a fuck where it was. The fact she did it instead of having the guts to tell me she was seeing someone else before she fucked him was enough.

Then you don't know if you felt a difference because you haven't experienced both.

I'm pretty sure those on here saying its worse for someone to cheat in their own bed haven't experienced it either but they've given their opinion.

He is giving his opinion from his personal experience.

Cheers. Thats exactly it. No I can't be sure if it happened in my bed but it didn't make me want to go OJ on them any less.

But if you'd known it happened in your bed you may have want to even more.

You said it didn't make any difference but you can't know it didn't.

You were furious, sure, but you could have been more furious if you'd known it happened in your bed. "

No I couldn't but if you say I could then you must be right love as you seem to be a psychic as well as knowing me better than I know myself.

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over a year ago

The fact that a husband and wife live in the martial home they have made together with their family and its home,then the wife goes to work and its,oh come round to mine for a shag in our martial bed,no thanks ,that's the lowest of the low,couldn't do it never in a million years.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Not my way of going about my play.

My guess three things are possibly going through the guys minds .

To tight to pay for a hotel so let's use my family home .

Revenge a way of getting back at the other half fantasy finds the risk involved in going about ones business in that way super exciting .

What ever the motives are there's no way if I was a woman would i entertain fucking a married man in his family home its just a step to far in my opinion and that's coming from a guy who is playing away from home .

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over a year ago

'I think one is worse than the other' or 'I wouldn't care' are opinions. 'I didn't care' isn't an opinion.

Sorry but WTF??? Seriously.

No 'I didn't care' was not an opinion. It was a FACT.

'I wouldn't care' is an opinion based on speculation

That's my point if you read my comment more carefully.

You stated a fact based on your feelings about two different situations, which you haven't experienced.

Soneone said you're just giving your opinion, which you aren't."

Why aren't you having a go at those giving an opinion on how they'd feel over something they've never experienced? How do they know they'd feel worse finding out their partner had cheated in their bed rather than a hotel bed?

Is it because he's a man and the others are women?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"One. I couldn't give a fuck where it was. The fact she did it instead of having the guts to tell me she was seeing someone else before she fucked him was enough.

Then you don't know if you felt a difference because you haven't experienced both.

I'm pretty sure those on here saying its worse for someone to cheat in their own bed haven't experienced it either but they've given their opinion.

He is giving his opinion from his personal experience.

Cheers. Thats exactly it. No I can't be sure if it happened in my bed but it didn't make me want to go OJ on them any less.

But if you'd known it happened in your bed you may have want to even more.

You said it didn't make any difference but you can't know it didn't.

You were furious, sure, but you could have been more furious if you'd known it happened in your bed.

No I couldn't but if you say I could then you must be right love as you seem to be a psychic as well as knowing me better than I know myself.

Of course you could.

You could actually have gone "OJ".

You don't know how you'd have felt if you'd known she used your bed.

I don't either but I'm not the one stating as fact that it wouldn't have felt any different.

Nobody knows the limit of their fury, only the extent to which they've so far experienced it. Unless you are actually the psychic one and know how you'll feel throughout the rest of your life.

You can say being cheated on made me furious and I doubt knowing she'd done it in my bed would have made it worse but you can't state, as a fact, it didn't because you don't know.

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over a year ago

"I don't see why cheating in your own home is worse than cheating elsewhere.

So is it ok for me to drink pissed abroad? But not ok here? How does that lessen the original act?

No, nothing to do with you as the cheater obviously. You're cheating, you're cheating. Simple.

It's *me* as the party to your cheating. In a hotel room, it's a shared, fun experience and yet it's more clinical. However to do it in the home you shared with your unsuspecting wife, in between the sheets you make love to her in, washing yourself up in the bathroom that she cleans. That's not something I'm willing to do.

You can deal with your relationship in any way you want, it's not going to bother me as people cheat for many, many reasons. But I would be being disrespectful should I partake in the woman's own home, her sanctuary. She has to carry on living there afterwards. It's her territory, and to abuse it in that way would be wrong.

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over a year ago

Its disrespectful to the lady of the house ,its her domain not some quick shags and inviting a complete stranger into your home is madness.

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over a year ago

"I don't see why cheating in your own home is worse than cheating elsewhere.

So is it ok for me to drink pissed abroad? But not ok here? How does that lessen the original act?

No, nothing to do with you as the cheater obviously. You're cheating, you're cheating. Simple.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

'I think one is worse than the other' or 'I wouldn't care' are opinions. 'I didn't care' isn't an opinion.

Sorry but WTF??? Seriously.

No 'I didn't care' was not an opinion. It was a FACT.

'I wouldn't care' is an opinion based on speculation

That's my point if you read my comment more carefully.

You stated a fact based on your feelings about two different situations, which you haven't experienced.

Soneone said you're just giving your opinion, which you aren't.

Is it because he's a man and the others are women?"

Don't put words in my mouth, thanks.

I'm not having a go. I'm pointing out he can't state as a fact how he'd feel about something he hasn't experienced.

Opinions are just that. People are saying how they think they'd feel, not claiming it as fact.

I'm only continuing to respond because he's debating it with me and I'm trying to explain my point, which he clearly doesn't understand.

As an example, if someone asked which hurts worst, a bee sting or a wasp sting, and I said I found them the same, but it then transpired I'd only had a bee sting, and it bloody hurt to the point I couldn't imagine a wasp sting being more painful, then my statement that they are the same is meaningless and definitely not fact.

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over a year ago

'I think one is worse than the other' or 'I wouldn't care' are opinions. 'I didn't care' isn't an opinion.

Sorry but WTF??? Seriously.

No 'I didn't care' was not an opinion. It was a FACT.

'I wouldn't care' is an opinion based on speculation

That's my point if you read my comment more carefully.

You stated a fact based on your feelings about two different situations, which you haven't experienced.

Soneone said you're just giving your opinion, which you aren't.

Is it because he's a man and the others are women? "

Probably. Its the status quo unfortunately. Lucky I've got broad shoulders and big bollocks

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Correction:

I'm pointing out he can't state as a fact how he felt about something he hasn't experienced.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

'I think one is worse than the other' or 'I wouldn't care' are opinions. 'I didn't care' isn't an opinion.

Sorry but WTF??? Seriously.

No 'I didn't care' was not an opinion. It was a FACT.

'I wouldn't care' is an opinion based on speculation

That's my point if you read my comment more carefully.

You stated a fact based on your feelings about two different situations, which you haven't experienced.

Soneone said you're just giving your opinion, which you aren't.

Is it because he's a man and the others are women?

Probably. Its the status quo unfortunately. Lucky I've got broad shoulders and big bollocks

Rubbish. It's because you stated how you felt about something that didn't happen.

I'd make the same point regardless of who posted it.

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over a year ago

Cool, and I'd still treat it with the contempt it deserves so lets leave it at that.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Cool, and I'd still treat it with the contempt it deserves so lets leave it at that."

Funny, I feel the same level of regard for your "fact".

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