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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? " Not for me. I'm a genuine single women and if one man isn't interested in a quick social drink first, then I delete and talk to another guy on here that does meet socially first. Plenty of guys on fab after all. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat" What if they hide a £500 note under the board when dishing out the Monopoly money? | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat What if they hide a £500 note under the board when dishing out the Monopoly money? " marriage cheating is fine but that my friend is to far, all trust is lost especially, should the said player also be incharge of the bank | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat What if they hide a £500 note under the board when dishing out the Monopoly money? marriage cheating is fine but that my friend is to far, all trust is lost especially, should the said player also be in charge of the bank " Good to establish boundaries and hard limits  | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? " Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide?" | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide?" l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. " You would hate me then, cos that's what I insist on  . My Fab dates/meets have included, not only dining out but even the opera, nerrrr  | |||
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"Could be a dummy profile what someone has set up to harass the guy in the pic and stir up shit? Or maybe he's naive about being on sites like this, or is really confident he won't get found out? Maybe he only shows it for a little bit while looking for a fuck then hides it after? I'd make a good detective me. I wouldn't meet someone married either." Or maybe he/she wants to get caught? | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. " So, do what you prefer and let others do what they prefer! | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. So, do what you prefer and let others do what they prefer! " Why wouldn't l? | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. You would hate me then, cos that's what I insist on . My Fab dates/meets have included, not only dining out but even the opera, nerrrr "l wouldn't hate you for that lol. lt's just not what l'm after. l came to fab to try and get rid of that. lt's really easy to get a date. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? " But how on earth does having a social stop it from being NSA? Secondly my experience of married guys is that they are more into having a social first, and getting to know someone before having sex. Don't know why some show their face publically. Haven't come across a married guy that does that. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. You would hate me then, cos that's what I insist on . My Fab dates/meets have included, not only dining out but even the opera, nerrrr
l wouldn't hate you for that lol. lt's just not what l'm after. l came to fab to try and get rid of that. lt's really easy to get a date."So would few hours in the pub over a bottle of wine, flirting and building up the tension, followed by a few hours of hot uncomplicated sex just be not worth it to you? | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. You would hate me then, cos that's what I insist on . My Fab dates/meets have included, not only dining out but even the opera, nerrrr
l wouldn't hate you for that lol. lt's just not what l'm after. l came to fab to try and get rid of that. lt's really easy to get a date.
So would few hours in the pub over a bottle of wine, flirting and building up the tension, followed by a few hours of hot uncomplicated sex just be not worth it to you? "Well l've only been here a few week so l've not been on a 'date' yet. lt seems you are after the whole scenario of the meet and want it to seem more organic and not just the sex. l think that's not what l'm after but you never know. l'm not really a 'going out' kind of guy to begin with. | |||
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"Surely it's upto the individual concerned married or not if they wish to upload their face picture into public pics on a sex website. I've seen loads of threads started about people being spotted / approached / bribed & guess what they as have public face pics." This just reiterates how happy l am to be single and have no kids yet. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. " Social and date are two very different words. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. " The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example." The difference for me is if I went on a date it would be to see if we wanted to see each other again for another date and to see if we wanted a relationship together, a social meet on here would just be to see if we wanted to have sex with each other on a nsa basis. Both could be having a drink in a pub to start with. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. The difference for me is if I went on a date it would be to see if we wanted to see each other again for another date and to see if we wanted a relationship together, a social meet on here would just be to see if we wanted to have sex with each other on a nsa basis. Both could be having a drink in a pub to start with." Yep this | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example." Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Not for me. I'm a genuine single women and if one man isn't interested in a quick social drink first, then I delete and talk to another guy on here that does meet socially first. Plenty of guys on fab after all. " | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. You would hate me then, cos that's what I insist on . My Fab dates/meets have included, not only dining out but even the opera, nerrrr
l wouldn't hate you for that lol. lt's just not what l'm after. l came to fab to try and get rid of that. lt's really easy to get a date.
So would few hours in the pub over a bottle of wine, flirting and building up the tension, followed by a few hours of hot uncomplicated sex just be not worth it to you? "I'm married, but would generally insist on a "social" before anything else. IMO, sex is so much better with some kind of sexual tension and connection. Shock / horror, I've even been known to walk away from an offer of sex at a social! | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about." As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example." Yeah I think you're right with this observation. To me a date would possibly be the start of something romantic, a social meet can be a means to an end ~ to check the person looks like their pics & if there's a spark that's worth exploring further. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. The difference for me is if I went on a date it would be to see if we wanted to see each other again for another date and to see if we wanted a relationship together, a social meet on here would just be to see if we wanted to have sex with each other on a nsa basis. Both could be having a drink in a pub to start with." Yes I think this is the difference. Dating is two people (with us it's usually three, unless we play alone). And dating tends to be more exclusive, and there would be a requirement to see that persons again in a timely manner. Dating also doesn't necesarily include sex. If it's an NSA meet, then there could be 6 months and several more partners before the next meet. But the social/date (or whatever you wish to call it) could well have the same format as with vanilla dating. As one of the other posters says, swinging has traditionally been social as well as sexual. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think." Well there are some women and couples that like the 'fuck and go' approach, but there will be queues of men for them. A man who's not willing to be flexible with what he can offer is certainly fishing in a smaller fishpond and is less likely to get a catch. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think. Well there are some women and couples that like the 'fuck and go' approach, but there will be queues of men for them. A man who's not willing to be flexible with what he can offer is certainly fishing in a smaller fishpond and is less likely to get a catch." l'm open to meet women first, just not a 'date like' meet. l know you made what you considered the distinction between the two but still too 'datey' for me x | |||
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"Surely it's upto the individual concerned married or not if they wish to upload their face picture into public pics on a sex website. I've seen loads of threads started about people being spotted / approached / bribed & guess what they as have public face pics."
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"Me and the wife are in open relationship and have been for years, none of us have the guts to put face pic as profile pic due to family etc ( although I always say if they see it then there on here to so who can talk). We are always open to social within discretion boundaries (again due to family). As for cheats my wife always says it's there relationship to damage not ours. P.s. I do like a good game of monopoly "True way to be, it doesnt bother us if we get caught on here (they would clearly be on here for the same reason) and they would also find out were bi as neither of us are open about our sexuality either but just get on with it and do whatever make you feel happy  same thoughts on married men too, if they wanna risk there marriage thats up to them.
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? " I meet at starbucks but yes no face pick for that reason | |||
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"I do think that some people assume that everyone on this site is discreet and its like a closed shop. I often see people referring to their "little secret" as if reporters from red tops and the local busy body can't join." Very true dont get cocky and trust no one | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think. Well there are some women and couples that like the 'fuck and go' approach, but there will be queues of men for them. A man who's not willing to be flexible with what he can offer is certainly fishing in a smaller fishpond and is less likely to get a catch. l'm open to meet women first, just not a 'date like' meet. l know you made what you considered the distinction between the two but still too 'datey' for me x" I'm curious as to what you would you do on a first meet then? How or where would you meet someone if having a drink is too datey for you? | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think. Well there are some women and couples that like the 'fuck and go' approach, but there will be queues of men for them. A man who's not willing to be flexible with what he can offer is certainly fishing in a smaller fishpond and is less likely to get a catch. l'm open to meet women first, just not a 'date like' meet. l know you made what you considered the distinction between the two but still too 'datey' for me x I'm curious as to what you would you do on a first meet then? How or where would you meet someone if having a drink is too datey for you?" Not sure really. Perhaps a public place? Maybe a casual coffee and not for long. Building up the tension for hours is not my thing. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think. Well there are some women and couples that like the 'fuck and go' approach, but there will be queues of men for them. A man who's not willing to be flexible with what he can offer is certainly fishing in a smaller fishpond and is less likely to get a catch. l'm open to meet women first, just not a 'date like' meet. l know you made what you considered the distinction between the two but still too 'datey' for me x I'm curious as to what you would you do on a first meet then? How or where would you meet someone if having a drink is too datey for you? Not sure really. Perhaps a public place? Maybe a casual coffee and not for long. Building up the tension for hours is not my thing. " That's what a lot of my social meets have been like. It's easy to suss out quite quickly if I want to have sex with someone or not | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think. Well there are some women and couples that like the 'fuck and go' approach, but there will be queues of men for them. A man who's not willing to be flexible with what he can offer is certainly fishing in a smaller fishpond and is less likely to get a catch. l'm open to meet women first, just not a 'date like' meet. l know you made what you considered the distinction between the two but still too 'datey' for me x I'm curious as to what you would you do on a first meet then? How or where would you meet someone if having a drink is too datey for you? Not sure really. Perhaps a public place? Maybe a casual coffee and not for long. Building up the tension for hours is not my thing. That's what a lot of my social meets have been like. It's easy to suss out quite quickly if I want to have sex with someone or not " x | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think. Well there are some women and couples that like the 'fuck and go' approach, but there will be queues of men for them. A man who's not willing to be flexible with what he can offer is certainly fishing in a smaller fishpond and is less likely to get a catch. l'm open to meet women first, just not a 'date like' meet. l know you made what you considered the distinction between the two but still too 'datey' for me x I'm curious as to what you would you do on a first meet then? How or where would you meet someone if having a drink is too datey for you? Not sure really. Perhaps a public place? Maybe a casual coffee and not for long. Building up the tension for hours is not my thing. That's what a lot of my social meets have been like. It's easy to suss out quite quickly if I want to have sex with someone or not "Yes but the OP of this thread was implying that even going for a quick coffee was flew in the face of what NSA sex was supposed to be, and was wondering if men pretend to be married to avoid coffee before sex, which doesn't really make sense to me. Admittedly I took the conversation off on a tangent. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think. Well there are some women and couples that like the 'fuck and go' approach, but there will be queues of men for them. A man who's not willing to be flexible with what he can offer is certainly fishing in a smaller fishpond and is less likely to get a catch. l'm open to meet women first, just not a 'date like' meet. l know you made what you considered the distinction between the two but still too 'datey' for me x I'm curious as to what you would you do on a first meet then? How or where would you meet someone if having a drink is too datey for you? Not sure really. Perhaps a public place? Maybe a casual coffee and not for long. Building up the tension for hours is not my thing. That's what a lot of my social meets have been like. It's easy to suss out quite quickly if I want to have sex with someone or not
Yes but the OP of this thread was implying that even going for a quick coffee was flew in the face of what NSA sex was supposed to be, and was wondering if men pretend to be married to avoid coffee before sex, which doesn't really make sense to me. Admittedly I took the conversation off on a tangent."lt's okay. Conversations within threads are nice. | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. Social and date are two very different words. The way they are described on here are pretty synonymous. Going to the pub for a bottle of wine for example. Probably is synonymous. We've done everything. We've met men in pubs, bars, had dinner, met in clubs. The ones that become good friends get invited to our house for dinner, then my lover and I go and have some fun whilst my husband clears the kitchen before he joins in. Who care's whether it's a date or a social as long as I'm getting great sex with a variety of partners, and that its no strings are attached. And I can assure the men we play with have no complaints - they are getting uncomplicated sex after all, which is what this lifestyle is all about. As long as everyone has fun. Just not my cuppa tea, I think. Well there are some women and couples that like the 'fuck and go' approach, but there will be queues of men for them. A man who's not willing to be flexible with what he can offer is certainly fishing in a smaller fishpond and is less likely to get a catch. l'm open to meet women first, just not a 'date like' meet. l know you made what you considered the distinction between the two but still too 'datey' for me x I'm curious as to what you would you do on a first meet then? How or where would you meet someone if having a drink is too datey for you? Not sure really. Perhaps a public place? Maybe a casual coffee and not for long. Building up the tension for hours is not my thing. That's what a lot of my social meets have been like. It's easy to suss out quite quickly if I want to have sex with someone or not
Yes but the OP of this thread was implying that even going for a quick coffee was flew in the face of what NSA sex was supposed to be, and was wondering if men pretend to be married to avoid coffee before sex, which doesn't really make sense to me. Admittedly I took the conversation off on a tangent.
lt's okay. Conversations within threads are nice."Especially when no one understands the OP | |||
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"Does not bother me that people cheat but if you are open about it on your profile, why on earth would you have a face pic on your profile. Could this be marriage bluffers? Would bluffing that you are married ensure NSA and stop all this social Costa drinking meets? Why would someone being married stop anyone from wanting to be sure there's an attraction, and that they feel comfortable with someone, prior to putting theselves in a situation where they are alone together? Socials aren't usually to ensure a meet is NSA. I don't think there's any way to guarantee someone won't get attached or want more than the other person(s) is/are willing to give. I take it you're not a fan of people wanting a social to check you out before agreeing to anything. Something to hide? l don't mind meeting to show that l'm legit. l don't like the term 'social' though. lt makes it sound like a date. You would hate me then, cos that's what I insist on . My Fab dates/meets have included, not only dining out but even the opera, nerrrr
l wouldn't hate you for that lol. lt's just not what l'm after. l came to fab to try and get rid of that. lt's really easy to get a date."Not here. Most assume you just want fucking. I like the social aspect of it cos I tend to remember that better than the sex | |||
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