FabSwingers.com forum: BBW whats size would you class a BBW ?

By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

So when it comes to BBW what sizes would you class someone as a BBW ? I'm between a dress size 16/18 and a 40DD chest

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do you see yourself as a bbw

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Actually you do didnt see your name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it depend on height?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could class yourself as that easily.

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

I do yeah but I guess what's BBW to one person isn't to another just interested on peoples opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when it comes to BBW what sizes would you class someone as a BBW ? I'm between a dress size 16/18 and a 40DD chest

Why label?

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I'd say 16

What's the uk dress size average?

I do love a bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation "

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say 16

What's the uk dress size average?

I do love a bbw

What of 5'9" tall woman who is a 16?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I'm only a 36B and between a 16-18 dress size and I know people with big busts who take smaller dress sizes. It's all relative but I'd say a D cup or bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well she'd need to be beautiful for a start.

I hate expressions like milf and bbw anyway. Especially when women refer to themselves as one.

Being overweight doesn't get you into the bbw club.

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

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"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average size in the uk is 16. I would say a bbw is from 18 to 20+.

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"Well she'd need to be beautiful for a start.

I hate expressions like milf and bbw anyway. Especially when women refer to themselves as one.

Being overweight doesn't get you into the bbw club. "

I'm with you on that not a big fan of labels either

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I would never refer to myself as a BBW.

I have a lardy arse but I don't like the term. I don't feel like I need a label. Each to their own and all that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it depend on height?

Yep!

A women of 5ft10 & one of 5ft2 both size 16, will not look the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when it comes to BBW what sizes would you class someone as a BBW ? I'm between a dress size 16/18 and a 40DD chest

Why label?

For easier searches on sites like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure as I have heard two types Big Breasted Women,Big Beautiful Women so which one I have no idea on dress sizes etc.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"The average size in the uk is 16. I would say a bbw is from 18 to 20+."
average doesnt mean medium. Medium is a 10/12.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends how tall you are. I know a lot of people say anything over size 16 but if you are tall 16 is not particularly big.

In my mind I class people as "big" if, where you would traditionally expects curves to go in, they go out. It should be an overall look not a dress size.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

there didn't even used to be a SSBBW until BBW started including smaller women, all SSBBW were the original BBW.

men on here kept calling me a BBW so i thought i was one, i'm a size 12 - 14 so am a bit on the chubby side.

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

I design and make plus size fetish clothing for plus size ladies in the real world, I'm not fond of the bbw status myself but if it's any help I only create for ladies size 22 upwards only.

I see ladies smaller than this not to be in the plus size or bbw status range that's just my own opinion but I'm sure others have there own personal views on this.

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

there didn't even used to be a SSBBW until BBW started including smaller women, all SSBBW were the original BBW.

men on here kept calling me a BBW so i thought i was one, i'm a size 12 - 14 so am a bit on the chubby side."

It can get really complicated cant it lol We are all different, life would be very boring if we where all exactly the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

there didn't even used to be a SSBBW until BBW started including smaller women, all SSBBW were the original BBW.

men on here kept calling me a BBW so i thought i was one, i'm a size 12 - 14 so am a bit on the chubby side.

It can get really complicated cant it lol We are all different, life would be very boring if we where all exactly the same lol

yeah. i don't class myself as BBW at all now either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it depend on height?

Yep!

A women of 5ft10 & one of 5ft2 both size 16, will not look the same.

Exactly.

There is a woman at my work. 5'11 dress size 16 and she looks incredible. Same dress size on another female colleague and she is 5'3 and the difference is stark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

she is pretty though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

Who determines whether someone is beautiful then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well she'd need to be beautiful for a start.

I hate expressions like milf and bbw anyway. Especially when women refer to themselves as one.

Being overweight doesn't get you into the bbw club.

I'm with you on that not a big fan of labels either

Well I'm as likely to be turned on by a size 20 as I am by a size 10 if she has a certain something about them.

Sophie dahl when she was humping all that timber around. Phwoooar. There's a few on here though I wouldn't mind fucking into the middle of next week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

Is it a big beautiful book?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me personally it really is about the frame and shape of the individual lady..

id say 16-24 is BBW

24 plus is a SSBBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

Who determines whether someone is beautiful then?"

Um all of us individually.

Hence what may be beautiful to you won't be to me. Labels are irrelevant and pointless.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I design and make plus size fetish clothing for plus size ladies in the real world, I'm not fond of the bbw status myself but if it's any help I only create for ladies size 22 upwards only.

I see ladies smaller than this not to be in the plus size or bbw status range that's just my own opinion but I'm sure others have there own personal views on this. "

Where can we buy your stuff?

Can you please pm me some info, thanks

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

Who determines whether someone is beautiful then?"

The person themselves. Others may disagree but a sense of self and personal aesthetic is key.

Actually, it's a pretty valid point. Guys I have met as a larger and less large girl have all said that size is unimportant to them. It's face that visually attracts. And that is so subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

Who determines whether someone is beautiful then?"

i just came in coz i realised i am not the supreme advocator of all things beautiful so can't really say. can't delete my reply now.

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

I always thought it stood for Big Bouncy Women haha

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

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"Well she'd need to be beautiful for a start.

I hate expressions like milf and bbw anyway. Especially when women refer to themselves as one.

Being overweight doesn't get you into the bbw club.

I'm with you on that not a big fan of labels either

Well I'm as likely to be turned on by a size 20 as I am by a size 10 if she has a certain something about them.

Sophie dahl when she was humping all that timber around. Phwoooar. There's a few on here though I wouldn't mind fucking into the middle of next week.

Lmao that made me laugh out load

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

Who determines whether someone is beautiful then?

Um all of us individually.

Hence what may be beautiful to you won't be to me. Labels are irrelevant and pointless."

Exactly, which is why I questioned what that person said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as bbw at a size 16. Lumps n bumps and 42 e boobs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received a most unpleasant message here yesterday calling me fat and mutton dressed as lamb etc.

He went on and on at how I was hideous.

Won't lie, it upset me but one man's meat is another man's poison.

No need for him to be so cruel though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as a SSBBW

dress size 28

46 JJ

5ft 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't the second B (Beautiful) pivotal in this??

If you're not Beautiful then you can't be a BBW, in my book!!

Who determines whether someone is beautiful then?

The person themselves. Others may disagree but a sense of self and personal aesthetic is key.

Actually, it's a pretty valid point. Guys I have met as a larger and less large girl have all said that size is unimportant to them. It's face that visually attracts. And that is so subjective."

my point, eloquently put!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received a most unpleasant message here yesterday calling me fat and mutton dressed as lamb etc.

He went on and on at how I was hideous.

Won't lie, it upset me but one man's meat is another man's poison.

No need for him to be so cruel though! "

ignore them.

someone called me names not long back, i can't even remember what he said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The average size in the uk is 16. I would say a bbw is from 18 to 20+.average doesnt mean medium. Medium is a 10/12.

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I see. I thought medium would come over average and small under.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received a most unpleasant message here yesterday calling me fat and mutton dressed as lamb etc.

He went on and on at how I was hideous.

Won't lie, it upset me but one man's meat is another man's poison.

No need for him to be so cruel though! "

Report that. What a knob.

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"I received a most unpleasant message here yesterday calling me fat and mutton dressed as lamb etc.

He went on and on at how I was hideous.

Won't lie, it upset me but one man's meat is another man's poison.

No need for him to be so cruel though! "

You should of reported him to admin NO one has the write to judge anyone in that way he probably had a teeny weeny willy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received a most unpleasant message here yesterday calling me fat and mutton dressed as lamb etc.

He went on and on at how I was hideous.

Won't lie, it upset me but one man's meat is another man's poison.

No need for him to be so cruel though!

Report that. What a knob."

Sorry to hear about the insults. I've had my fair share of insults but after a while it really is water off of a ducks back or, even off of a big girls back (beautiful big girl of course).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received a most unpleasant message here yesterday calling me fat and mutton dressed as lamb etc.

He went on and on at how I was hideous.

Won't lie, it upset me but one man's meat is another man's poison.

No need for him to be so cruel though! "

He was just a sad muppet who couldn't deal with the fact that how ever you look, you're still likely to get laid before him.

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"I class myself as a SSBBW

dress size 28

46 JJ

5ft 3 "

46 JJ

wow make mine look like 2 fried eggs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refer to myself as bbw, although I'm not sure if I like the term, I just don't fancy putting fatty on my profile! I'm 6'1 and size 22/24, the top half is ok, it's the arse and thighs show where all the weight is

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"I refer to myself as bbw, although I'm not sure if I like the term, I just don't fancy putting fatty on my profile! I'm 6'1 and size 22/24, the top half is ok, it's the arse and thighs show where all the weight is

I have type 1 diabetes which has nothing to do with lifestyle but I always get the " So you've had too many pies quotes " I have a constant battle with my weight in my case its to do with the amount of insulin I inject every day

insulin can pile on the pounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't class anyone as BBW, including myself, as I hate the term.

If someone else wants to use that label though, good for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received a most unpleasant message here yesterday calling me fat and mutton dressed as lamb etc.

He went on and on at how I was hideous.

Won't lie, it upset me but one man's meat is another man's poison.

No need for him to be so cruel though!

He was just a sad muppet who couldn't deal with the fact that how ever you look, you're still likely to get laid before him. "

I'm grand now thanks all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as bbw

Size 22/24

5"9

40 e

Big bum,hips and thighs and happy with my lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well she'd need to be beautiful for a start.

I hate expressions like milf and bbw anyway. Especially when women refer to themselves as one.

Being overweight doesn't get you into the bbw club. "

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"So when it comes to BBW what sizes would you class someone as a BBW ? I'm between a dress size 16/18 and a 40DD chest

You'd be surprised (or maybe not) at the number of women on this site who would describe those measurements as 'curvy'!!

I'm a hater of the BBW term too. Anyone think of 3 letter abrieviation for women who are healthy, active and happy about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its bollocks.

I met a woman once who said she couldn't decide how to label me.

I said "Why do you feel the need to pigeon hole people?"

"No" she said "I'm trying to work out how to cover your fucking ugly face with these labels so I don't have to look at it when you're shagging me"

How rude

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"Does it depend on height?

It must do. If you're 4'10" and a size 14 you're going to be quite large. If you're 6ft and a size 14 you're probably quite slim looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you want to choose to label yourself as a BBW (which clearly lots of women do)& someone challenges you on either the size / beauty aspect then it just acts as another filter in the process of whether to meet or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when it comes to BBW what sizes would you class someone as a BBW ? I'm between a dress size 16/18 and a 40DD chest

You'd be surprised (or maybe not) at the number of women on this site who would describe those measurements as 'curvy'!!

I'm a hater of the BBW term too. Anyone think of 3 letter abrieviation for women who are healthy, active and happy about it?"

There are a lot of women who are a size 16/18 with DD tits whonare curvy, that is probably why

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"So when it comes to BBW what sizes would you class someone as a BBW ? I'm between a dress size 16/18 and a 40DD chest

You'd be surprised (or maybe not) at the number of women on this site who would describe those measurements as 'curvy'!!

I'm a hater of the BBW term too. Anyone think of 3 letter abrieviation for women who are healthy, active and happy about it?

There are a lot of women who are a size 16/18 with DD tits whonare curvy, that is probably why

Or they could describe themselves as 'large'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think size 16 to 20, should be classed as CBW, Curvy Beautiful Woman. Its a lovely size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I detest the BBW label infact i hate any label

we are women slim/curvy/big/etc not bluming lumps of meat that you stick a label on

and .... breathes rant over

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"I detest the BBW label infact i hate any label

we are women slim/curvy/big/etc not bluming lumps of meat that you stick a label on

and .... breathes rant over"

Amen to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

16? I'm a 16 and I wouldn't say I was a BBW. I'm certainly not skinny but I'm not a BBW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I detest the BBW label infact i hate any label

we are women slim/curvy/big/etc not bluming lumps of meat that you stick a label on

and .... breathes rant over"

Agreed, but generally it is women who label themselves as BBW and not men labling women??

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

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"I detest the BBW label infact i hate any label

we are women slim/curvy/big/etc not bluming lumps of meat that you stick a label on

and .... breathes rant over

Amen to that

PS I only used BBW in our name because I couldn't think what else to call us lol and I guess it gives people an idea of what we are like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say I am bbw because I am wobbly...I like to give warning lol... but I couldn't give a sod really !! I am alright with my body not being tight n pretty...it has been through it a bit...but I like it...others quite like it...and the ones that don't...don't have to...Would be odd if we all liked everyone right?

Although I did just think, massive orgy!

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

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"I say I am bbw because I am wobbly...I like to give warning lol... but I couldn't give a sod really !! I am alright with my body not being tight n pretty...it has been through it a bit...but I like it...others quite like it...and the ones that don't...don't have to...Would be odd if we all liked everyone right?

Although I did just think, massive orgy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received a most unpleasant message here yesterday calling me fat and mutton dressed as lamb etc.

He went on and on at how I was hideous.

Won't lie, it upset me but one man's meat is another man's poison.

No need for him to be so cruel though!

ignore them.

someone called me names not long back, i can't even remember what he said."

Do you think these people see something you said on the forums that prompted these kind of messages? I'm much bigger than both of you and I've not gotten one.

A BBW to me would have a lot of excess fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you sell your Iron OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I detest the BBW label infact i hate any label

we are women slim/curvy/big/etc not bluming lumps of meat that you stick a label on

and .... breathes rant over

Agreed, but generally it is women who label themselves as BBW and not men labling women??"

yes i agree with you it is women that label themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is having excess fat remotely beautiful?

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"Does it depend on height?

Yep!

A women of 5ft10 & one of 5ft2 both size 16, will not look the same.

Exactly, I'm a 16 and would say curvy not bbw as I'm.5"10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I detest the BBW label infact i hate any label

we are women slim/curvy/big/etc not bluming lumps of meat that you stick a label on

and .... breathes rant over

Amen to that

PS I only used BBW in our name because I couldn't think what else to call us lol and I guess it gives people an idea of what we are like lol

each to there own huni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I received a most unpleasant message here yesterday calling me fat and mutton dressed as lamb etc.

He went on and on at how I was hideous.

Won't lie, it upset me but one man's meat is another man's poison.

No need for him to be so cruel though!

ignore them.

someone called me names not long back, i can't even remember what he said.

Do you think these people see something you said on the forums that prompted these kind of messages? I'm much bigger than both of you and I've not gotten one.

A BBW to me would have a lot of excess fat. "

no, it was my prifle status.

i said i was dating myself and enjoying that and he said something about my appearence and insinuated i'd have to date myself. his profile said he was laid back as well so i said something about him not really being laid back then blocked him. idk what he said, like i said i put it out of my mind.

men just get frustrated on here about women doing what hey want and not what men want, i think it's a big shock for miogynists how this site actually is.

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over a year ago

"So when it comes to BBW what sizes would you class someone as a BBW ? I'm between a dress size 16/18 and a 40DD chest

You'd be surprised (or maybe not) at the number of women on this site who would describe those measurements as 'curvy'!!

I'm a hater of the BBW term too. Anyone think of 3 letter abrieviation for women who are healthy, active and happy about it?

There are a lot of women who are a size 16/18 with DD tits whonare curvy, that is probably why

Or they could describe themselves as 'large'"

They could, but to many 16/18 isn't particularly large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an expert

lol

It's 18+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say 16

What's the uk dress size average?

I do love a bbw

What of 5'9" tall woman who is a 16?"

I would say yummy

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By *P1964Woman
over a year ago

gillingham

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

there didn't even used to be a SSBBW until BBW started including smaller women, all SSBBW were the original BBW.

men on here kept calling me a BBW so i thought i was one, i'm a size 12 - 14 so am a bit on the chubby side."

I'm 12-14 so am with you on this one. I think this is the average size (14)?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"How is having excess fat remotely beautiful?"

Because size does not = beauty? I've been various sizes in my life. I still have the same face. The same hair. And I am the same me. I have never thought of myself as beautiful but I still look like me whatever size that may be. And those that found me beautiful before (like my mum) still do.

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"Do you sell your Iron OP? "

Sell my what ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I know that. Cheers though.

Thats not what she's saying though. She's saying to be a bbw you need to have excess fat?

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By *BWcpl49 OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"How is having excess fat remotely beautiful?

What is it they say " Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Yeah I know that. Cheers though.

Thats not what she's saying though. She's saying to be a bbw you need to have excess fat?

No, she's saying that the acronym stands for big beautiful woman. You can be a beautiful woman and not be big. But you can't be a big beautiful woman if you're not big AND beautiful. Big is but one component of the BBW definition, but you need the two B's together to be one. It doesn't mean that one automatically leads to the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

there didn't even used to be a SSBBW until BBW started including smaller women, all SSBBW were the original BBW.

men on here kept calling me a BBW so i thought i was one, i'm a size 12 - 14 so am a bit on the chubby side.

I'm 12-14 so am with you on this one. I think this is the average size (14)?"

UK average now is a size 16.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I know that. Cheers though.

Thats not what she's saying though. She's saying to be a bbw you need to have excess fat?

I thought that was the point I was trying to make but no worries.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

there didn't even used to be a SSBBW until BBW started including smaller women, all SSBBW were the original BBW.

men on here kept calling me a BBW so i thought i was one, i'm a size 12 - 14 so am a bit on the chubby side.

I'm 12-14 so am with you on this one. I think this is the average size (14)?

UK average now is a size 16."

Uk average is size 16 - not a good thing.

Be healthy active and happy. 'BBW' or simillar is irrelevant. Being overweight isn't something to aspire to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

there didn't even used to be a SSBBW until BBW started including smaller women, all SSBBW were the original BBW.

men on here kept calling me a BBW so i thought i was one, i'm a size 12 - 14 so am a bit on the chubby side.

I'm 12-14 so am with you on this one. I think this is the average size (14)?

UK average now is a size 16.

Uk average is size 16 - not a good thing.

Be healthy active and happy. 'BBW' or simillar is irrelevant. Being overweight isn't something to aspire to."

you can still be healthy and overweight.

just seen that we're, on average, a stone heavier than the americans and that did surprise me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

there didn't even used to be a SSBBW until BBW started including smaller women, all SSBBW were the original BBW.

men on here kept calling me a BBW so i thought i was one, i'm a size 12 - 14 so am a bit on the chubby side.

I'm 12-14 so am with you on this one. I think this is the average size (14)?

UK average now is a size 16.

Uk average is size 16 - not a good thing.

Be healthy active and happy. 'BBW' or simillar is irrelevant. Being overweight isn't something to aspire to."

Dress size alone does not determine someone's health. Plenty of size 16 women are active and healthy

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"I would say once you reach 18+ then you're considered bbw but all open to interpretation

for me i would only class SSBBW as BBW but things have changed over time and BBW seem to have gotten smaller.

i thought i was one when i first joined fab.

Lol exactly I guess trends change Id never even heard of SSBBW until recently Id class myself as skinny compared to some of those big ladies lol

there didn't even used to be a SSBBW until BBW started including smaller women, all SSBBW were the original BBW.

men on here kept calling me a BBW so i thought i was one, i'm a size 12 - 14 so am a bit on the chubby side.

I'm 12-14 so am with you on this one. I think this is the average size (14)?

UK average now is a size 16.

Uk average is size 16 - not a good thing.

Be healthy active and happy. 'BBW' or simillar is irrelevant. Being overweight isn't something to aspire to.

you can still be healthy and overweight.

just seen that we're, on average, a stone heavier than the americans and that did surprise me."

You can be healthy and overweight, but only technically. I'm watching the Olympics and some of athletes are probably technically overweight - the rugby team for example.

But rolls and rolls of flab - not seen so many.

There's plenty of female athletes that probably weigh as much as some of the 'BBW' types on here. The rowers for example, but how many look like they'd be wearing size 16/18?

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By *ecretsRmineWoman
over a year ago

gatwickish (yes that means near Gatwick)

why do we need to be labeled at all

i hate the term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah its bollocks.

I met a woman once who said she couldn't decide how to label me.

I said "Why do you feel the need to pigeon hole people?"

"No" she said "I'm trying to work out how to cover your fucking ugly face with these labels so I don't have to look at it when you're shagging me"

How rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The average size in the uk is 16. I would say a bbw is from 18 to 20+.average doesnt mean medium. Medium is a 10/12.

I see. I thought medium would come over average and small under."

I disagree with that sizing...

I would say a medium was a 12/14 ..

Small 10/12 and large 14/16

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"The average size in the uk is 16. I would say a bbw is from 18 to 20+.average doesnt mean medium. Medium is a 10/12.

I see. I thought medium would come over average and small under.

I disagree with that sizing...

I would say a medium was a 12/14 ..

Small 10/12 and large 14/16 "

Correct.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"There's plenty of female athletes that probably weigh as much as some of the 'BBW' types on here. The rowers for example, but how many look like they'd be wearing size 16/18? "

Given the musculature, I would expect many of the lady throwers, rugby players and swimmers wear a size 16/18. Possibly larger due to shoulder size etc.

Nita

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"There's plenty of female athletes that probably weigh as much as some of the 'BBW' types on here. The rowers for example, but how many look like they'd be wearing size 16/18?

Given the musculature, I would expect many of the lady throwers, rugby players and swimmers wear a size 16/18. Possibly larger due to shoulder size etc.

Nita"

Rolls of flab?

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over a year ago

"There's plenty of female athletes that probably weigh as much as some of the 'BBW' types on here. The rowers for example, but how many look like they'd be wearing size 16/18?

Given the musculature, I would expect many of the lady throwers, rugby players and swimmers wear a size 16/18. Possibly larger due to shoulder size etc.

Nita

Rolls of flab?"

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"There's plenty of female athletes that probably weigh as much as some of the 'BBW' types on here. The rowers for example, but how many look like they'd be wearing size 16/18?

Given the musculature, I would expect many of the lady throwers, rugby players and swimmers wear a size 16/18. Possibly larger due to shoulder size etc.

Nita

Rolls of flab?

Have you seen any swimmers or the like with rolls of flab?

Agreed- they could have that sort of musculature, that was the original point. But surely if they were on this site with those stats, they could legitiamtely select 'athletic'! I don't think any of them are glamourising obesity.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"There's plenty of female athletes that probably weigh as much as some of the 'BBW' types on here. The rowers for example, but how many look like they'd be wearing size 16/18?

Given the musculature, I would expect many of the lady throwers, rugby players and swimmers wear a size 16/18. Possibly larger due to shoulder size etc.

Nita

Rolls of flab?"

I was responding a specific quote in your post.

You appear to be of the opinion that larger = flabby but that is not the case.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"There's plenty of female athletes that probably weigh as much as some of the 'BBW' types on here. The rowers for example, but how many look like they'd be wearing size 16/18?

Given the musculature, I would expect many of the lady throwers, rugby players and swimmers wear a size 16/18. Possibly larger due to shoulder size etc.

Nita

Rolls of flab?"

Think you need to work on the bedside manner doctor

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"There's plenty of female athletes that probably weigh as much as some of the 'BBW' types on here. The rowers for example, but how many look like they'd be wearing size 16/18?

Given the musculature, I would expect many of the lady throwers, rugby players and swimmers wear a size 16/18. Possibly larger due to shoulder size etc.

Nita

Rolls of flab?

Think you need to work on the bedside manner doctor

Promote health and activity..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when it comes to BBW what sizes would you class someone as a BBW ? I'm between a dress size 16/18 and a 40DD chest

Beautiful Women come in any size.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

There isn't a set size because people's perception of themselves varies tremendously.

Some people belly ache over the use of the word beautiful in the label as if it's some great crime for women or the guys who like them to feel beautiful even though they don't confirm to societal norms of what beautiful is perceived to be.

Some quite clearly find it incomprehensible that anyone but the body beautiful can be seen as attractive let alone fuckable which is really quite tragic. Why we cannot simply accept people's differences and appreciate the fact that it is this diversity of attraction that makes society tick is beyond me.

As for the fit and healthy argument, of course some overweight people are putting themselves at risk of health problems but then some are not or at least not anymore than their slimmer counter parts. I am diabetic and 17 stone yet am easily twice as active as some of my perfect BMI scoring friends who eat chips and chocolate most days.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"The average size in the uk is 16. I would say a bbw is from 18 to 20+.average doesnt mean medium. Medium is a 10/12.

I see. I thought medium would come over average and small under.

I disagree with that sizing...

I would say a medium was a 12/14 ..

Small 10/12 and large 14/16 "
The average size have changed through the decades, since the 1950s.

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over a year ago

"The average size in the uk is 16. I would say a bbw is from 18 to 20+."

What does it matter what the average size in the UK is?

I'd say a 16 plus I'd a BBW it just means people are getting bigger not that woman at a size 16 are no longer big because a size 16 is now the national average

Saying that it does of course depend on hight, my middle daugher is 6ft tall and a size 16 and is a healthy weight

Where as I'm a size 16 and a fat bastard because I'm not as tall

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By *6and93Couple
over a year ago

Taunton

We'd say size 18+ is BBW.....just need more down our way!??

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over a year ago

"The average size in the uk is 16. I would say a bbw is from 18 to 20+.

What does it matter what the average size in the UK is?

I'd say a 16 plus I'd a BBW it just means people are getting bigger not that woman at a size 16 are no longer big because a size 16 is now the national average

Saying that it does of course depend on hight, my middle daugher is 6ft tall and a size 16 and is a healthy weight

Where as I'm a size 16 and a fat bastard because I'm not as tall

"
That is right, it doesnt matter, it was on the news few months ago.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Anyone above six stone in weight and under two foot high...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Along as your happy in your body what does it matter

different people have different preference and that's each to there own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we could have a re think to

HHA horny happy and active !

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"Well we could have a re think to

HHA horny happy and active !"

Hallelujah

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By *hattsMan
over a year ago

luton

18+is probabley bbw but what counts more is been healthy and sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined fab I put myself down as a BBW but after messages from people saying that I'm not I changed it to ample.

I am a size 16 with wobbly bits.

In the process of losing weight tho so hopefully that will change soon.

i hate labels for anyone but as I see myself as large I've put it down

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Well we could have a re think to

HHA horny happy and active !"

So I'd be a HHA BBW then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evans...the plus size clothes shop, start at size 14. 20 years ago it was unheard of to think of anyone below a size 18+ was large. Be who you are and either go without the labels (of life) or wear them for YOU!.

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