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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not often I make a tribute thread for a forumite, but I'm kinda taken with her elfin prettiness, her eyes twinkle and smile glows in every pic.

I felt that kind of sparkle deserved it's own thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jolly well said , a gorgeous forumite always witty and dashed gorgeous to boot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a stunner that's for sure and clever with it clearly a top girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a wee hottie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a welcome sight on a thread!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Have you told her how you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

She is a bit tasty to say the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid."

Mmmm yes look how my "tribute thread" went. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is very pretty tho. xxx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid."

Hmmmm evil thought passes through my head mwhahaha

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Toe curling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation"

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

Mmmm yes look how my "tribute thread" went. xxx"

Oh I haven't seen that one, is it recent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not often I make a tribute thread for a forumite, but I'm kinda taken with her elfin prettiness, her eyes twinkle and smile glows in every pic.

I felt that kind of sparkle deserved it's own thread "

If that's all you are going to say about her then I doubt she will be impressed at the thread you made for her...faint heart never won fair maiden....

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Toe curling. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

Mmmm yes look how my "tribute thread" went. xxx

Oh I haven't seen that one, is it recent?"

Nah was a few months ago n was thankfully removed. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim."

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

Hmmmm evil thought passes through my head mwhahaha "

Really, pray tell...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is a wee cutie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

Mmmm yes look how my "tribute thread" went. xxx

Oh I haven't seen that one, is it recent?

Nah was a few months ago n was thankfully removed. Xxx"

Ah okay

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

She's a very pretty, great smile and lovely eyes. Seems like a really nice lady too judging by her comments on here and her profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Toe curling. "

Give him a break ,haven't you ever been in love with a profile???;)

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

Hmmmm evil thought passes through my head mwhahaha

Really, pray tell... "

You've not seen it yet then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?"

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?"

A PM and a hand shandy would have been sufficient..it takes all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?"

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?"

I'm not offended but I don't get the need for a public declaration. If others don't feel the same & say so you have no control over that & she gets to read all about it.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim."

Well you know how bitchy some people are so I'm sure it's a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I'm not offended but I don't get the need for a public declaration. If others don't feel the same & say so you have no control over that & she gets to read all about it."

That's exactly what happened to me and it was horrible!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

Well you know how bitchy some people are so I'm sure it's a good idea"

*not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I'm not offended but I don't get the need for a public declaration. If others don't feel the same & say so you have no control over that & she gets to read all about it.

That's exactly what happened to me and it was horrible! "

Oh god *hugs*. Whatever happened to 'you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all,'?

That's horrible for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I'm not offended but I don't get the need for a public declaration. If others don't feel the same & say so you have no control over that & she gets to read all about it.

That's exactly what happened to me and it was horrible! "

I think you are ruining his wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I'm not offended but I don't get the need for a public declaration. If others don't feel the same & say so you have no control over that & she gets to read all about it.

That's exactly what happened to me and it was horrible!

Oh god *hugs*. Whatever happened to 'you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all,'?

That's horrible for you!"

All's good now. Made me stronger tbh. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I'm not offended but I don't get the need for a public declaration. If others don't feel the same & say so you have no control over that & she gets to read all about it.

That's exactly what happened to me and it was horrible!

I think you are ruining his wank"

xxx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Toe curling. "

^ This

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I'm sure she'll be here soon!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason"

It's confrontational if it attacks the purpose of the thread - because it leads to confrontation.

The thread was intended as a pleasant tribute to someone I like, now we're arguing on it - stay classy fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Toe curling.

^ This"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Toe curling.

^ This

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason

It's confrontational if it attacks the purpose of the thread - because it leads to confrontation.

The thread was intended as a pleasant tribute to someone I like, now we're arguing on it - stay classy fab."

It only lead to confrontation because someone dared ask a question(which was not asked in a confrontational way)

If you make a thread dedicated to your fav fabber you should be able to answer why if someone asks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason

It's confrontational if it attacks the purpose of the thread - because it leads to confrontation.

The thread was intended as a pleasant tribute to someone I like, now we're arguing on it - stay classy fab."

I bet she's soaking reading this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason

It's confrontational if it attacks the purpose of the thread - because it leads to confrontation.

The thread was intended as a pleasant tribute to someone I like, now we're arguing on it - stay classy fab.

It only lead to confrontation because someone dared ask a question(which was not asked in a confrontational way)

If you make a thread dedicated to your fav fabber you should be able to answer why if someone asks?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason

It's confrontational if it attacks the purpose of the thread - because it leads to confrontation.

The thread was intended as a pleasant tribute to someone I like, now we're arguing on it - stay classy fab.

It only lead to confrontation because someone dared ask a question(which was not asked in a confrontational way)"

And yet it's lead to a confrontation, which was completely unnecessary, as was the question - it was clearly a complimentary thread, paying a compliment, albeit publically. If you don't want to continue arguing fine, drop it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've done similar threads to this or named formites I like and to be honest like any thread I put up i couldn't give a shiny shite who likes it or not or what anyone says about it. No matter what you do some will see the good some the bad so who cares. And aside from that I'm no sheep I want follow anyone or need anyone behind me

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Toe curling.

Give him a break ,haven't you ever been in love with a profile???;)"

Oh I always support his posts, but sorry, I find it dead creepy whenever anyone does this, it's embarrassing for the recipient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason

It's confrontational if it attacks the purpose of the thread - because it leads to confrontation.

The thread was intended as a pleasant tribute to someone I like, now we're arguing on it - stay classy fab."

Classy isn't shouting from the rooftops. Classy is discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one cringing right now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure no one would but I would seriously cringe if someone wrote a thread like that about me . If you feel that way tell her not fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

You started a thread to pay tribute then when someone asked you why that was your opportunity to tell the world yet you took it the wrong way. I am baffled why you bothered starting the thread

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason

It's confrontational if it attacks the purpose of the thread - because it leads to confrontation.

The thread was intended as a pleasant tribute to someone I like, now we're arguing on it - stay classy fab.

It only lead to confrontation because someone dared ask a question(which was not asked in a confrontational way)

And yet it's lead to a confrontation, which was completely unnecessary, as was the question - it was clearly a complimentary thread, paying a compliment, albeit publically. If you don't want to continue arguing fine, drop it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Whatever"

Hate phrase but well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason

It's confrontational if it attacks the purpose of the thread - because it leads to confrontation.

The thread was intended as a pleasant tribute to someone I like, now we're arguing on it - stay classy fab.

It only lead to confrontation because someone dared ask a question(which was not asked in a confrontational way)

And yet it's lead to a confrontation, which was completely unnecessary, as was the question - it was clearly a complimentary thread, paying a compliment, albeit publically. If you don't want to continue arguing fine, drop it."

You've been here long enough to know how these can turn out regardless if I asked you the question or not as to why you posted it.

What did you hope to achieve or am I not allowed to ask that.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very pretty girl and far nicer than almost all the girls. Very unusual combo imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation

She didn't ASK for a thread, I simply posted it on a whim.

You started a thread to pay tribute then when someone asked you why that was your opportunity to tell the world yet you took it the wrong way. I am baffled why you bothered starting the thread

I know SHE didn't I'm asking why you felt the need ~ surely a PM would suffice?

I'm curious as to why people feel the need to be confrontational on these threads. Yes she knows I like them, but I like tham so much, I thought I'd say so openly - I don't see why this would cause offence?

I don't think a question is confrontational per se...you could answer why you made thread if you have got a logical reason

It's confrontational if it attacks the purpose of the thread - because it leads to confrontation.

The thread was intended as a pleasant tribute to someone I like, now we're arguing on it - stay classy fab.

It only lead to confrontation because someone dared ask a question(which was not asked in a confrontational way)

And yet it's lead to a confrontation, which was completely unnecessary, as was the question - it was clearly a complimentary thread, paying a compliment, albeit publically. If you don't want to continue arguing fine, drop it."

You could have used the opportunity to answer why she is so great and deserves her own thread...why did you bother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Whatever"

ls the wee green face for envy? Haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx"

It does tend to bring out the schoolyard mentality on here, mind though, that comes out so often, for any given reason that I'm starting to strongly think that adults and children really aren't that different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one cringing right now? "
No mate . She is probably cringing right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads are mostly about people who want to fuck the person they are talking about, that's the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done similar threads to this or named formites I like and to be honest like any thread I put up i couldn't give a shiny shite who likes it or not or what anyone says about it. No matter what you do some will see the good some the bad so who cares. And aside from that I'm no sheep I want follow anyone or need anyone behind me"

I'm all up for people standing by their convictions but don't get the arse on if people don't agree, which fwiw doesn't make me a bad person....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey all.

Let's all chill out a bit.

OP created this thread with good intentions.

Admittedly, it hasn't worked out and it's probably not the best way of going about his appreciation for a fellow fabster.

Shit happens.

Anyway, far more important things on right now, like the Olympic tennis final

Have a nice evening all x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"These threads are mostly about people who want to fuck the person they are talking about, that's the truth. "

Obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Whatever

ls the wee green face for envy? Haha."

So completely far from it you wouldn't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of jealousy it here it seems. OP didn't do much wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads are mostly about people who want to fuck the person they are talking about, that's the truth. "

People here want to fuck other people??! No way! I was just getting some knitting patterns...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all.

Let's all chill out a bit.

OP created this thread with good intentions.

Admittedly, it hasn't worked out and it's probably not the best way of going about his appreciation for a fellow fabster.

Shit happens.

Anyway, far more important things on right now, like the Olympic tennis final

Have a nice evening all x"

Good intentions or a hard on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey all.

Let's all chill out a bit.

OP created this thread with good intentions.

Admittedly, it hasn't worked out and it's probably not the best way of going about his appreciation for a fellow fabster."

Very worldly.

What do you believe was my intention, and what hasn't 'worked out'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads are mostly about people who want to fuck the person they are talking about, that's the truth.

People here want to fuck other people??! No way! I was just getting some knitting patterns..."

Ms Knitter - heard she's good for them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done similar threads to this or named formites I like and to be honest like any thread I put up i couldn't give a shiny shite who likes it or not or what anyone says about it. No matter what you do some will see the good some the bad so who cares. And aside from that I'm no sheep I want follow anyone or need anyone behind me

I'm all up for people standing by their convictions but don't get the arse on if people don't agree, which fwiw doesn't make me a bad person...."

If I made a thread saying how great someone is and someone asked why I would fill the page with why or else I wouldn't bother making a special thread.

If she reads this she will probably think he's a bit tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These threads are mostly about people who want to fuck the person they are talking about, that's the truth.

People here want to fuck other people??! No way! I was just getting some knitting patterns..."

Hey no issue with that, something cringe inducing about these kind of threads though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx

It does tend to bring out the schoolyard mentality on here, mind though, that comes out so often, for any given reason that I'm starting to strongly think that adults and children really aren't that different. "

Like suggested already next time just pm her. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx

It does tend to bring out the schoolyard mentality on here, mind though, that comes out so often, for any given reason that I'm starting to strongly think that adults and children really aren't that different. "

And posting a declaration towards someone isn't schoolboy mentality?? None of the guys i chat to would dream of such a thing. They're grown men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx

It does tend to bring out the schoolyard mentality on here, mind though, that comes out so often, for any given reason that I'm starting to strongly think that adults and children really aren't that different. "

Errrrr......isn't the school yard mentality naming who you fancy in the 1st place

Pot calling kettle me thinks....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've done similar threads to this or named formites I like and to be honest like any thread I put up i couldn't give a shiny shite who likes it or not or what anyone says about it. No matter what you do some will see the good some the bad so who cares. And aside from that I'm no sheep I want follow anyone or need anyone behind me

I'm all up for people standing by their convictions but don't get the arse on if people don't agree, which fwiw doesn't make me a bad person...."

I agree it doesn't. My point was if you do a thread like this or about someone you like stand by it and to hell with what people think. As we all know it's rare any thread go's how you think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx

It does tend to bring out the schoolyard mentality on here, mind though, that comes out so often, for any given reason that I'm starting to strongly think that adults and children really aren't that different.

Errrrr......isn't the school yard mentality naming who you fancy in the 1st place

Pot calling kettle me thinks...."

You're STILL going!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

There have been jokey threads praising individuals (e.g. Funky's bum) but when someone is singled out as having such qualities that no one else possesses that they deserve their own thread it feels creepy to me. A bit stalkerish (regardless of who posts it, this is not a dig at the OP but the genre).

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx

It does tend to bring out the schoolyard mentality on here, mind though, that comes out so often, for any given reason that I'm starting to strongly think that adults and children really aren't that different.

Errrrr......isn't the school yard mentality naming who you fancy in the 1st place

Pot calling kettle me thinks...."

It is kinda the forum equivalent of doodling sexybrain 4 sexyspecs1984 4eva in a notebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx

It does tend to bring out the schoolyard mentality on here, mind though, that comes out so often, for any given reason that I'm starting to strongly think that adults and children really aren't that different.

Errrrr......isn't the school yard mentality naming who you fancy in the 1st place

Pot calling kettle me thinks....

You're STILL going!"

Oh sorry, have I reached my quota of posts allowed per thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is actually going better than I expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf happened here?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to stock up on popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf happened here?! "

l think some of the girls got a bit jelly. Was a positive thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx

It does tend to bring out the schoolyard mentality on here, mind though, that comes out so often, for any given reason that I'm starting to strongly think that adults and children really aren't that different.

Errrrr......isn't the school yard mentality naming who you fancy in the 1st place

Pot calling kettle me thinks....

You're STILL going!

Oh sorry, have I reached my quota of posts allowed per thread...."

Bad roxi! All hail the sexy specsi whatever....like the lovely non stalkerish man says...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

"

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid."

I feel exactly the same as this ..

It's a smoke blowing exercise that the recipient may not be comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately op these type of threads never go well. Xxx

It does tend to bring out the schoolyard mentality on here, mind though, that comes out so often, for any given reason that I'm starting to strongly think that adults and children really aren't that different. Hahaha more like writing it on your arm with a biro home made tattoos

Errrrr......isn't the school yard mentality naming who you fancy in the 1st place

Pot calling kettle me thinks....

It is kinda the forum equivalent of doodling sexybrain 4 sexyspecs1984 4eva in a notebook "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf happened here?!

l think some of the girls got a bit jelly. Was a positive thread."

Er no. Completely not#!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum."

No. Because it's freaky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she hasn't posted here yet because the sight of the thread had her rushing over to pounce him instantly.

That must be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wonder people don't like posting in the forums!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone fancy a fuck

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Anyone fancy a fuck "

Me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone fancy a fuck "

Yes actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder people don't like posting in the forums!"
It's a good thing if this is what they are thinking of posting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

I feel exactly the same as this ..

It's a smoke blowing exercise that the recipient may not be comfortable with "

And if she is comfortable, the typical forum naysayers will make sure she isn't.

I suppose the thought of a woman getting the pleasant surprise of seeing how many guys fancy her was too much for some.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum."

Some may well wish there was a thread about them but I can't see why, personally.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder people don't like posting in the forums!"

That's not always a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf happened here?!

l think some of the girls got a bit jelly. Was a positive thread.

Er no. Completely not#! "

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No wonder people don't like posting in the forums!It's a good thing if this is what they are thinking of posting."

Actually I'd hope more people would post threads like this if it would eventually eject the clique from the forums.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yessss. Charges in on my white stead and scoops up his 2 damsels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum."

If you post it be prepared to deal with the consequences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

I feel exactly the same as this ..

It's a smoke blowing exercise that the recipient may not be comfortable with

And if she is comfortable, the typical forum naysayers will make sure she isn't.

I suppose the thought of a woman getting the pleasant surprise of seeing how many guys fancy her was too much for some.

"

I honestly think you live in a different reality to most people!!

If you think any negativity is borne from jealously you are more up your own arse than i imagined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum."

In all honesty have I been hostile in my postings?

Whose interest have I had in mind when commenting?

Look at what I have said, all I have done is asked a question of you along with a positive comment for SS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wonder people don't like posting in the forums!It's a good thing if this is what they are thinking of posting.

Actually I'd hope more people would post threads like this if it would eventually eject the clique from the forums."

Do you think you have ruined your chances with sexy specs now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yessss. Charges in on my white stead and scoops up his 2 damsels "

Wait, I thought you were asking me? I demand you worship me in a new forum post first however

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

I feel exactly the same as this ..

It's a smoke blowing exercise that the recipient may not be comfortable with

And if she is comfortable, the typical forum naysayers will make sure she isn't.

I suppose the thought of a woman getting the pleasant surprise of seeing how many guys fancy her was too much for some.

"

If she's happy with it then I'm sure she will let you know.

Most people I know would not post on it to say they are unhappy as that would embarrass the OP.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

No. Because it's freaky."

I have to agree with Scarlet. I once had someone post a status asking me to get in touch with them because they were outside my filters. However well intentioned, the subsequent messages I got and the attention it brought to me locally when I have deliberately removed myself from local search parameters wasn't something I enjoyed in the slightest. There is a reason statuses naming other members aren't allowed. I would therefore find a public thread about me more embarrassing and awkward than flattering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf happened here?!

l think some of the girls got a bit jelly. Was a positive thread."

I'm speaking from experience

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yessss. Charges in on my white stead and scoops up his 2 damsels "

That's gonna be one hell of a round trip for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chances of her coming on this thread are zilch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

In all honesty have I been hostile in my postings?

Whose interest have I had in mind when commenting?

Look at what I have said, all I have done is asked a question of you along with a positive comment for SS."

You started a thread saying how great someone is and it was YOU who got hostile when someone asked you why they are worthy of a thread,because you had no answer. Waste of my unlimited data even replying f f s

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"No wonder people don't like posting in the forums!It's a good thing if this is what they are thinking of posting.

Actually I'd hope more people would post threads like this if it would eventually eject the clique from the forums."

And another mythical clique would form around, I don't know... maybe the cliques of (insert username of choice) vs (other username).

There isn't some alternate conversation going on with people who disagree with you. I post independently. I'm liked by some and loathed by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chances of her coming on this thread are zilch "

Oh she will....and will think it fabulous i expect...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yessss. Charges in on my white stead and scoops up his 2 damsels

Wait, I thought you were asking me? I demand you worship me in a new forum post first however "

Hmmmm now let me think about this for a nano second. Go get fucked bullock breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yessss. Charges in on my white stead and scoops up his 2 damsels

Wait, I thought you were asking me? I demand you worship me in a new forum post first however

Hmmmm now let me think about this for a nano second. Go get fucked bullock breath "

Outrageous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chances of her coming on this thread are zilch

Oh she will....and will think it fabulous i expect..."

Look busy, she's already here. See above

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

"

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chances of her coming on this thread are zilch

Oh she will....and will think it fabulous i expect..."

If this hasn't got her soaking she is frigid

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


" "

Ehhhhh the trouble you've caused you sexy fucker you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ehhhhh the trouble you've caused you sexy fucker you "

One doesn't cause trouble... I just have less decorum sometimes. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here."

I think you had good intentions and can post damn well what you like in these public forums! High five

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here."

Just for your own reference,in future don't make threads if you don't want to discuss the thread subject matter,you were only asked why you made the thread and you went mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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exactly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ehhhhh the trouble you've caused you sexy fucker you

One doesn't cause trouble... I just have less decorum sometimes. ... "

she has nice big tits especially and I've wanked at her many times..

oops...did she hear that?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yessss. Charges in on my white stead and scoops up his 2 damsels

That's gonna be one hell of a round trip for you "

That OK my steeds not white it's a big black Honda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

Shhh...they're all arguing about how you feel. Don't ruin it for them! *passes sexyspecs the popcorn*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

In case you didn't know ... you have an admirer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

I feel exactly the same as this ..

It's a smoke blowing exercise that the recipient may not be comfortable with

And if she is comfortable, the typical forum naysayers will make sure she isn't.

I suppose the thought of a woman getting the pleasant surprise of seeing how many guys fancy her was too much for some.

I suppose you thought that by starting a thread headlined with the person you are so besotted with would give you shagging rights? Maybe it's too much for her too... haven't seen her comment yet "

Mmm babe your hottt I made a thread for you...what's your name;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here."

You are so completely disillusioned its untrue. People don't do this because it is cringey....to be on the receiving end of public adoration when it isn't reciprocated is highly highly embarrassing. That is why people don't do it....and is why people object to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh gawd.

I feel a bit damned if I do damned if I don't!

She seems like a lovely lady but why the need of a public affirmation ~ if it all goes tits up she'll have to read comments she didn't ask for.

Doesn't sit well with me I'm afraid.

I feel exactly the same as this ..

It's a smoke blowing exercise that the recipient may not be comfortable with

And if she is comfortable, the typical forum naysayers will make sure she isn't.

I suppose the thought of a woman getting the pleasant surprise of seeing how many guys fancy her was too much for some.

I suppose you thought that by starting a thread headlined with the person you are so besotted with would give you shagging rights? Maybe it's too much for her too... haven't seen her comment yet "

The reason l say the girls complaining is because of jealousy is because a male thread was started and no one complained at all. Kinda proved my point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Shhh...they're all arguing about how you feel. Don't ruin it for them! *passes sexyspecs the popcorn*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ehhhhh the trouble you've caused you sexy fucker you

One doesn't cause trouble... I just have less decorum sometimes. ...

she has nice big tits especially and I've wanked at her many times..

oops...did she hear that?"

No popcorn for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here.

I think you had good intentions and can post damn well what you like in these public forums! High five "

Yes that's fine....but the op really shouldn't be surprised when not everyone goes "aaawwwww"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"

Ehhhhh the trouble you've caused you sexy fucker you

One doesn't cause trouble... I just have less decorum sometimes. ... "

You could course me all the trouble you like

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

Ehhhhh the trouble you've caused you sexy fucker you

One doesn't cause trouble... I just have less decorum sometimes. ...

she has nice big tits especially and I've wanked at her many times..

oops...did she hear that?

No popcorn for you! "

Probably for the best. The kernels would get stuck in his falsies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here.

You are so completely disillusioned its untrue. People don't do this because it is cringey....to be on the receiving end of public adoration when it isn't reciprocated is highly highly embarrassing. That is why people don't do it....and is why people object to it. "

Sorry, at what point was there any implication that I was seeking reciprocation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not embarrassed or childish & I stand by what I have posted. Press the green arrow next to my name to see that I am a fair & consistent in my views as a forum poster.

I don't kiss arse & I say it how it is but I'm not a mean person.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"The reason l say the girls complaining is because of jealousy is because a male thread was started and no one complained at all. Kinda proved my point."

I don't think anyone is complaining about the person named. Feeling empathy for the discomfiture it may potentially cause is closer to the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Specsy and the Brain has a nice ring to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ehhhhh the trouble you've caused you sexy fucker you

One doesn't cause trouble... I just have less decorum sometimes. ...

she has nice big tits especially and I've wanked at her many times..

oops...did she hear that?

No popcorn for you!

Probably for the best. The kernels would get stuck in his falsies.

"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Specsy and the Brain has a nice ring to it.

"

fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here.

You are so completely disillusioned its untrue. People don't do this because it is cringey....to be on the receiving end of public adoration when it isn't reciprocated is highly highly embarrassing. That is why people don't do it....and is why people object to it.

Sorry, at what point was there any implication that I was seeking reciprocation?"
i didn't say you were seeking reciprocation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that escalated quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this still going on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly "

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Well that escalated quickly "

I'm tired but can't go to bed I need to see how it ends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here.

You are so completely disillusioned its untrue. People don't do this because it is cringey....to be on the receiving end of public adoration when it isn't reciprocated is highly highly embarrassing. That is why people don't do it....and is why people object to it.

Sorry, at what point was there any implication that I was seeking reciprocation?i didn't say you were seeking reciprocation."

So if I wasn't looking for reciprocation, in what way would me paying someone an affectionate compliment, not seeking one in return, be so morbidly embarrassing, either for me or them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that"

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here! "

Are you...talking to me?

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I'd be furious if this was done to me to be fair

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"The chances of her coming on this thread are zilch "

Errr what were you saying Tosh

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here.

You are so completely disillusioned its untrue. People don't do this because it is cringey....to be on the receiving end of public adoration when it isn't reciprocated is highly highly embarrassing. That is why people don't do it....and is why people object to it.

Sorry, at what point was there any implication that I was seeking reciprocation?i didn't say you were seeking reciprocation.

So if I wasn't looking for reciprocation, in what way would me paying someone an affectionate compliment, not seeking one in return, be so morbidly embarrassing, either for me or them? "

I'd be highly embarrassed if such a thread existed about me. I don't need to compliments of others to know my own worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

Are you...talking to me?"

Sticking the kettle on.

I'll be back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be furious if this was done to me to be fair "

A late contender for 'reverse psychology post of the month'???

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

Are you...talking to me?

Sticking the kettle on.

I'll be back! "

I'll take a spoonful of sugar with my tea please

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"I'd be furious if this was done to me to be fair

A late contender for 'reverse psychology post of the month'???"

Not in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

Are you...talking to me?

Sticking the kettle on.

I'll be back!

I'll take a spoonful of sugar with my tea please "

Turkish: sugar?

Brick top: no thanks, I'm sweet enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

Are you...talking to me?

Sticking the kettle on.

I'll be back!

I'll take a spoonful of sugar with my tea please "

Your hot _urvymama. Is it ok to post that in the forums? Or is that abit too forward.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

Are you...talking to me?

Sticking the kettle on.

I'll be back!

I'll take a spoonful of sugar with my tea please

Turkish: sugar?

Brick top: no thanks, I'm sweet enough"

Are they Lancashire pigs?

Who the fuck asked you boy!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

Are you...talking to me?

Sticking the kettle on.

I'll be back!

I'll take a spoonful of sugar with my tea please

Your hot _urvymama. Is it ok to post that in the forums? Or is that abit too forward..... "

Utterly cringeworthy

but what's done is done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

Are you...talking to me?

Sticking the kettle on.

I'll be back!

I'll take a spoonful of sugar with my tea please

Your hot _urvymama. Is it ok to post that in the forums? Or is that abit too forward.....

Utterly cringeworthy

but what's done is done

"

Message removed by poster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here.

You are so completely disillusioned its untrue. People don't do this because it is cringey....to be on the receiving end of public adoration when it isn't reciprocated is highly highly embarrassing. That is why people don't do it....and is why people object to it.

Sorry, at what point was there any implication that I was seeking reciprocation?i didn't say you were seeking reciprocation.

So if I wasn't looking for reciprocation, in what way would me paying someone an affectionate compliment, not seeking one in return, be so morbidly embarrassing, either for me or them? "

That's why people pm others. The whole forum doesn't need to have it shoved in their faces. Why would you even want to declare it publicly? I just find the whole public declaration thing odd regardless. What drives someone to do it? Just why?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"

Ehhhhh the trouble you've caused you sexy fucker you "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Your all just extracting the urine now. It's not big and your not hard OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know who she is...going to nosey now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your all just extracting the urine now. It's not big and your not hard OK "

Gimme a minute and it will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

Are you...talking to me?

Sticking the kettle on.

I'll be back!

I'll take a spoonful of sugar with my tea please

Your hot _urvymama. Is it ok to post that in the forums? Or is that abit too forward.....

Utterly cringeworthy

but what's done is done

Message removed by poster! "

Once the toothpaste has been squuzed out, there's no way to get it back in mate

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"

Ehhhhh the trouble you've caused you sexy fucker you

"

Yay a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your all just extracting the urine now. It's not big and your not hard OK

Gimme a minute and it will be "

Are you rubbing your forehead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know who she is...going to nosey now though "

She popped in and TBH I thought she was worth a wank but a dedicated thread? Bit ott

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chances of her coming on this thread are zilch

Errr what were you saying Tosh "
I know . I'm always fooking wrong lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Well that escalated quickly

Haha.

Was waiting for some to say that

Let's see how many more famous film quotes we can slot in here!

Are you...talking to me?

Sticking the kettle on.

I'll be back!

I'll take a spoonful of sugar with my tea please

Your hot _urvymama. Is it ok to post that in the forums? Or is that abit too forward.....

Utterly cringeworthy

but what's done is done

Message removed by poster!

Once the toothpaste has been squuzed out, there's no way to get it back in mate "

Tell that to a back door baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know who she is...going to nosey now though

She popped in and TBH I thought she was worth a wank but a dedicated thread? Bit ott "

Haha honest response

Gg x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically, if it's a female saying they don't like threads like this then they MUST be jealous. If it's a man they MUST be a white knight.

And who says they're not?

Again, there was no reason for any kind of hostility on this thread, yet it's broken down, once more, because the fabswingers forum.

You wanted a thread where people agreed with you, perhaps heaped praise on you for identifying this special gem in among the old fat blobs like me and added to the praise for your chosen one.

Don't blame it on it being Fab that it hasn't gone that way. It's a public forum and the likelihood is that it would have gone this way wherever you posted it.

You're entirely wrong. No praise was sought by me from either the forums or the person I posted for - I did it, purely on a whim, for someone I liked the look of. I could have said it in PM, but why not just do it on the forums instead - because why not?

There was nothing wrong with my intention, only in how people responded to it. This thread has indeed been extremely embarrassing, not for me, but for the shameful, childish conduct of certain posters, who judging from some of these comments, isn't something solely witnessed by myself.

I'll simply say that if people don't like the thread, ignore it. Alternatively, keep showing yourselves up for the lurkers, it's little wonder we get so few new posters in here.

You are so completely disillusioned its untrue. People don't do this because it is cringey....to be on the receiving end of public adoration when it isn't reciprocated is highly highly embarrassing. That is why people don't do it....and is why people object to it.

Sorry, at what point was there any implication that I was seeking reciprocation?i didn't say you were seeking reciprocation.

So if I wasn't looking for reciprocation, in what way would me paying someone an affectionate compliment, not seeking one in return, be so morbidly embarrassing, either for me or them?

That's why people pm others. The whole forum doesn't need to have it shoved in their faces. Why would you even want to declare it publicly? I just find the whole public declaration thing odd regardless. What drives someone to do it? Just why?"

I'm still waiting for a reason 170 posts ago but apparently I'm childish & deamed not worthy of a reply.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know the girl, she's probably lovely, but these type of forum posts are a bit cringey, generally they smack of a certain amount of desperation.

Mr

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Well that escalated quickly

I'm tired but can't go to bed I need to see how it ends "

In

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

[Removed by poster at 15/08/16 01:18:31]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not embarrassed or childish & I stand by what I have posted. Press the green arrow next to my name to see that I am a fair & consistent in my views as a forum poster.

I don't kiss arse & I say it how it is but I'm not a mean person."

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