FabSwingers.com forum: Being recognised

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Had anyone been recognised by another site user, either in public or on here? And you did you deal with it?.. Yes, it's just happened to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a funny look and a wink from a guy at a petrol station last week

I'm pretty sure it was the 'fab nod' haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, a guy who's no longer on site approached us in our former local. He was respectful and polite and we chatted then and every time we saw him. It was slightly different though as we had met him briefly at an organised social.

If someone approached us outside of a swinging environment though we would just behave as if we had no idea what they were talking about and move swiftly on.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

No, not yet....we've had guys say they do only to find it was a cheesy chat up line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's a female on here who has hidden their profile, they definitely know me lol. Like everyine else on here, I like to keep my private life just that.. Private. And so this has been a bit of a shock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of times

I remember once coming home on the train from Wolverhampton and a guy sitting next to me, which I found really odd as there was nobody else on that carriage and as much as people can sit anywhere you have to admit it's not usual for somebody to sit right next to you on a empty carriage

He kept looking at me and smiling, I felt a little uncomfortable, you know when you get that feeling they want to talk to you but never quite get the words out

Anyway I got off the train and went home, next time I logged in fab he had mailed me saying it was him who had sat next to me in the train, he wanted to say hi but didn't know how I'd react

Then another time I was out in the woods walking the dogs and again when i next logged on fab I had a message asking if Id been at the place I was with with the type of dogs I had, I replied yes and again he mailed back saying he saw me as he was walking his dog too but didn't know if he should approach me or not

I'm also sure a guy I work with is on here, just things he say makes me feel like he's dropping hints, like the one time I was going to a social off here at xtasia and on the Friday of the social i was at work in the day and we was just talking and he asked if I was doing anything tonight, so I just said yeah I'm going out for a drink with friends and he replied "well have a fab time" smiled and walked off

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Just the once, I think, and it wasn't on this site. I'm usually very careful about not meeting locally but a couple of years back for my dad's 65th we went to a pub out on the moors...

And blow me down with a feather, the waiter was a student I'd knocked off a couple of times.

He couldn't look at me, kept fluffing the order and screwing up to the extent that my father complained about the "vacant" service.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes at work when I was on another profile. A customer said as she was leaving 'have a fab day miss B' with a knowing look

still to this day I have no idea who she is

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Not yet. But I don't walk around with my boobs or arse out. Maybe that's why

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, just passed each other as if we didn't know each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet. But I don't walk around with my boobs or arse out. Maybe that's why

MrsSB

I think you should

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Not yet. But I don't walk around with my boobs or arse out. Maybe that's why

MrsSB

I think you should

Getting arrested on a Sunday mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet. But I don't walk around with my boobs or arse out. Maybe that's why

MrsSB

I think you should

Getting arrested on a Sunday mmmm

I do have a police outfit and some cuffs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

I don't have public face pics, don't meet locally & I generally block men within close proximity.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Not yet. But I don't walk around with my boobs or arse out. Maybe that's why

MrsSB

I think you should

Getting arrested on a Sunday mmmm

I do have a police outfit and some cuffs?

Enough with the teasing. Get your arse here right now

Don't forget outfit,toys and wax

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet. But I don't walk around with my boobs or arse out. Maybe that's why

MrsSB

I think you should

Getting arrested on a Sunday mmmm

I do have a police outfit and some cuffs?

Enough with the teasing. Get your arse here right now

Don't forget outfit,toys and wax

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a female on here who has hidden their profile, they definitely know me lol. Like everyine else on here, I like to keep my private life just that.. Private. And so this has been a bit of a shock. "

You've got your face public. So not private is it.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes just smile and carry on with what we ate doing

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Yeah, I've been recognised and have also recognised others. My reaction was a nod or a smile and carry on as normal? I have also encountered pests too, depending on my mood I will sometimes front it out others times they just get blocked and forgotten about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've bumped into to people we know at our local club and at socials - actually seen an old boss at a social. Wasn't an issue as we're all here doing the same thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not yet. But I don't walk around with my boobs or arse out. Maybe that's why

MrsSB

I think you should

I second that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think we all assume that nobody we know will be on fab but it stands to reason that it's a possibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In town, in Morrisons yesterday.... We normally spot people before they spot us! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just waiting for the day I turn up at Chams and my mum's there with 4 black guys. Awkward.........

So long as it doesn't affect my inheritance.

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By *one_wolf.Man
over a year ago

Chatham

Yes but then again I do have my face pictures public and recognisable tattoos public, we just laughed it off and had a drink, I have also seen a few people but wouldn't directly go up to them in the street as that would be creepy but have messaged them on here and had a laugh about it

I always scratch my head when people kick off because they are recognised and they have full blown face pictures and all manor of "action" shots on their profile for the world to see...... also shock horror if you don't have your face picture in your profile pictures but have it as your display picture, it's easy on a smartphone to just click and view in another tab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of guys have said they recognise me. One guy, on kik, after I turned him down, told me he knows my sister on Facebook. None of my sisters have Facebook, for starters and did he really think I was going to suddenly change my mind and fuck him with a veiled threat? Twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have seen people we know on the site and at swingers clubs.....no problem.... everyone is here for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many times

The most embarrassing one was a few weeks in Nottingham. Was there on a girls weekend with my daughter and friends. Was walking up a flight of steps in a bar and this guy started shouting Kelly then flung his arms round me and went to kiss me. I was mortified because my daughter was behind me. I just whispered in his ear to remove his arms from around me and told him my daughter was behind me. Which he did and then went on to say I'm so sorry I thought you was my friend Kelly.

Thank god I don't use my real name on here.

But ended up being a great night as the guy and his mates joined our group and took us to the best bars in Nottingham.

And yes it felt naughty being in the company of a guy I've been naughty with and my friends and daughter not susoe ting a thing

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No and I am really glad it's not happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just at a point where I really couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a soul weekender and for meals my friend and l were put on a table with two ladies with whom we got on well.

One of the ladies said her sister would be joining us the next day for lunch. When l saw the sister l immediately recognised her from various parties and at the last party the week before she had been dealing with 3 men at one time. We merely said hi and pretended not to know each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to find someone I know on here

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By *ouple_m_and_jCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

Erm yeah at work, we had a client come in for a preliminary meeting. She was just quiet at first, then started... I wouldn't say flirting but being very forward - talking about taking people home on friday nights etc, and asking my opinion on her cleavage in 'that shirt'

I stumbled through the meeting having no clue - it's pretty out of character for our clients to be forward lol, I have a geeky job.

Anyway, the creative director left so there was lil me and a bubbly client who just smiled and said, "I've seen you and your lass on fab, look!" and showed me our profile page on her phone.

I just smiled and calmly (or as calmly as I could manage - it's an open office! Other people in the room, she was NOT being discreet) said, "Well, we can't all be boring!" and moved the convo on quickly.

I wouldn't care, you can't see our faces unless you're 'friended' so it led to a quick review of the friends list, and a quick removal of a couple of photos lol.

Lesson learned :P

Marcus

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By *one_wolf.Man
over a year ago

Chatham

"I'm just at a point where I really couldn't care less

Same haha everyone knows I'm on here even my parents

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its mostly people that see me in real life then see me on here.

Only a couple of times the other way round. One guy has been messaging me for about two years saying whenever he sees me but only a couple of weeks ago he actually approached me as he said there hadnt been an opportunity

Once i.just popped out for two minutes came back to a message but denied it was me as he must of been almost on.my doorstep to have seen me

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Only people I've met really..

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"I'm just at a point where I really couldn't care less

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ditto have been recognised twice both times whilst shopping just said hi and carried on as normal didnt make an issue of it just as when we have recognised others we dont make a fuss whats the point they are either interested or not and waving over some limp lettuce in tesco isnt gonna entice them is it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I get recognised a lot when I'm glammed up. I just tell them no autographs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had anyone been recognised by another site user, either in public or on here? And you did you deal with it?.. Yes, it's just happened to me lol"

It's easy to be recognised when you have a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a rock concert. Capacity crowd god knows how many people there. Got chatting to the lovely couple next to me. Received a message the next day from a single guy on my friends list....Enjoy the concert last night? Yep discretion at all times.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not yet but I'm sure it will happen. To be honest I couldn't care less I've nothing to be ashamed of and I've no Mrs blade hidden in a cuburd. Only thing that would piss me off is if I was with my daughter and some not right started making a fuss about it.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I was at a rock concert. Capacity crowd god knows how many people there. Got chatting to the lovely couple next to me. Received a message the next day from a single guy on my friends list....Enjoy the concert last night? Yep discretion at all times."

Ohh it you isn't it we live on the same Street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup ive seen a couple on here that Ive known in real life for years.

I haven't let on to them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and they took my pics and put them on another site,and if they are that sad and desperate let them bloody carry on i say .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup nothing was said at the time.. he sent me a message on here and i read it when i got home.

no awkwardness or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a guy I see at my local market once a month and he always tries to make eyes with me, but I am 100% not interested (he looked much nicer in his photos but in the end still not my type) and whenever I'm there I have to turn myself so I'm not looking at him, and hope he gets the message. I'm there with my family and it always makes my skin crawl a bit.

And a taxi driver at uni used to message me, I managed to convince him I had a double, and stopped using that taxi firm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been recognized on here a few times ,but I'm not going to hide myself away from anyone,nobody can tell me how to live my life and i refuse to give up something i enjoy,my life my body and who dont like it then jog on,every human on the planet has a pussy or a willy and we all got them for a reason and if what i am doing is wrong in other people's eyes,then why does it feel so good,what people on fab are doing is having fun enjoying themselves and why not youre a long time dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recognised a lady on here locally but since our profiles are not compatible so no reason to engage in conversation or message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a meet and i recognised her from her photos ...how bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my face pic up for all of 20mins a few months ago.. and a guy I new from school popped up and said hi with my full name so I new his new me.. tool me a while to know who he was though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I didn't give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me personally, but I've bumped into a few fabbers, one in my local supermarket, another was the Costa girl and randomly the female security guard in my old work building

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don't show your dial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. A guy recognised my face pic, told me he knew and went to college with my daughter and said if I didn't fuck him he would tell her I was on here.!

It upset me for a few days. But I blocked and reported the idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and I didn't give a shit. "

Hurrah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm admin on a local Facebook group and I along with others have to approve all new members. Imagine my surprise when a couple I recognise from here joined. I resisted the temptation to message "I didn't recognise you with your clothes on"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

At clubs yes and a couple of pubs. I've seen people take second looks but i don't talk swinging outside of recognised environments. My father employed someone who'd shagged me but it went ok, no issues though i was a little shocked to bump into them at work initially

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There is couple on here and the girl works in a well known local place, she obviously doesnt care as she has full nude photos with a big smile on her face. But oddly the photo she has is a really good representation of her character

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is couple on here and the girl works in a well known local place, she obviously doesnt care as she has full nude photos with a big smile on her face. But oddly the photo she has is a really good representation of her character"

Lol now I'm curious was that bitchy or friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few people recognise me.. one being a local bus driver

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Went to see the late great Prince in Leeds two year ago, i had played with the couple literally stood in front of me the week before, nothing was said from other party, we did swap mails after tho.

Also bumped into a girl i had met on a social out with her unaware hubby in a shop, but again nothing was said.

Discretion is the better part of valour, if thats the right saying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes on another site I'm on. Was messaged saying I knew you from somewhere

Not in public though thankfully

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