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"Yes before you all start I'm aware that I get hung up on people and they linger in my mind. Saw the bloody gym guy again earlier didn't I this time at the bar where my friend works and he was with 2 other blokes having a pint outside, I was taking her keys back to her cos I'd just walked her dogs and my daughter was in the car across the road otherwise I would have stayed. He made a point of saying hello as I walked past but that's just polite isn't it. Like I saw him almost everyday for 10 weeks February to April but since I've gone to another building I've seen him twice once in asda by the self serve and he said hello then, the other time was a few weeks back when he was at the next petrol pump and he made a point of asking if I still worked in the gym, said I was in the other site and that was that. I swear the next time I see him I'm gonna say I really fancy you, or is that too creepy? What if he's attached, is it offensive to say to someone that you fancy them? Is there a better way of telling someone you fancy them? Tell me!!! He's so bloody cute, he's got more grey hairs by his ears I've noticed. I don't even know what size his penis is and I don't really care cos he gives me butterflies when I see him, which is good right me not caring about what's in his pants. " I would imagine that the size of his penis is not the issue. It rarely is. If you fancy him (as you clearly do), make an effort to talk to him. He has made an effort with you. | |||
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"I don't think there is anything wrong with telling someone you fancy them. If he is attached he will be flattered and just tell you he is attached,I'd imagine. I'm a little surprised it took you this long to tell him. I think lots of us could tell you liked him ages ago..." I haven't told him yet! Next time I see him I'm just gonna say it, it will probably be in asda or somewhere or I could try and get a shift in the gym he goes to, it is closer to my house after all so would be easier for me anyway. Ahh I want to shag him! | |||
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"He's a bloody gym guy, he'll be dtf, don't worry! " What's dtf? | |||
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"He's a bloody gym guy, he'll be dtf, don't worry! What's dtf?" Down to fuck | |||
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"It's not creepy to tell someone you fancy them, it's flattering for them whether they're attached or not, interested or not - if you do it to make them feel good and clearly with no expectations that they have to do anything. "Hi, I just wanted to say that you're gorgeous, I get butterflies when I see you and whatever your circumstances - I'm expecting no response, I wanted to tell you and thank you -- it's a lovely feeling having a crush on someone. Have a wonderful day." " Oh Jesus I've had a crush on the now manager of my local McDonalds since he was a normal worker there back in 2001 I'll probably harbour this one for another 15 years! | |||
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"Yes before you all start I'm aware that I get hung up on people and they linger in my mind. Saw the bloody gym guy again earlier didn't I this time at the bar where my friend works and he was with 2 other blokes having a pint outside, I was taking her keys back to her cos I'd just walked her dogs and my daughter was in the car across the road otherwise I would have stayed. He made a point of saying hello as I walked past but that's just polite isn't it. Like I saw him almost everyday for 10 weeks February to April but since I've gone to another building I've seen him twice once in asda by the self serve and he said hello then, the other time was a few weeks back when he was at the next petrol pump and he made a point of asking if I still worked in the gym, said I was in the other site and that was that. I swear the next time I see him I'm gonna say I really fancy you, or is that too creepy? What if he's attached, is it offensive to say to someone that you fancy them? Is there a better way of telling someone you fancy them? Tell me!!! He's so bloody cute, he's got more grey hairs by his ears I've noticed. I don't even know what size his penis is and I don't really care cos he gives me butterflies when I see him, which is good right me not caring about what's in his pants. " Yay! Your last sentence is the best thing you've ever written about any man. It's only creepy if you then go on to stalk him if he says he isn't interested. Go for it. Just say something ordinary like 'Fancy bumping into you here' and take it from there. | |||
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"It's not creepy to tell someone you fancy them, it's flattering for them whether they're attached or not, interested or not - if you do it to make them feel good and clearly with no expectations that they have to do anything. "Hi, I just wanted to say that you're gorgeous, I get butterflies when I see you and whatever your circumstances - I'm expecting no response, I wanted to tell you and thank you -- it's a lovely feeling having a crush on someone. Have a wonderful day." Oh Jesus I've had a crush on the now manager of my local McDonalds since he was a normal worker there back in 2001 I'll probably harbour this one for another 15 years!" You're so cute!!!! What's the feeling that's holding you back? | |||
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"Yes before you all start I'm aware that I get hung up on people and they linger in my mind. Saw the bloody gym guy again earlier didn't I this time at the bar where my friend works and he was with 2 other blokes having a pint outside, I was taking her keys back to her cos I'd just walked her dogs and my daughter was in the car across the road otherwise I would have stayed. He made a point of saying hello as I walked past but that's just polite isn't it. Like I saw him almost everyday for 10 weeks February to April but since I've gone to another building I've seen him twice once in asda by the self serve and he said hello then, the other time was a few weeks back when he was at the next petrol pump and he made a point of asking if I still worked in the gym, said I was in the other site and that was that. I swear the next time I see him I'm gonna say I really fancy you, or is that too creepy? What if he's attached, is it offensive to say to someone that you fancy them? Is there a better way of telling someone you fancy them? Tell me!!! He's so bloody cute, he's got more grey hairs by his ears I've noticed. I don't even know what size his penis is and I don't really care cos he gives me butterflies when I see him, which is good right me not caring about what's in his pants. " I told once you meet someone you really like you won't care about his or is size. I'd get talking to him abit more next time and find out if he attached, if not give him your number. | |||
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"Yes before you all start I'm aware that I get hung up on people and they linger in my mind. Saw the bloody gym guy again earlier didn't I this time at the bar where my friend works and he was with 2 other blokes having a pint outside, I was taking her keys back to her cos I'd just walked her dogs and my daughter was in the car across the road otherwise I would have stayed. He made a point of saying hello as I walked past but that's just polite isn't it. Like I saw him almost everyday for 10 weeks February to April but since I've gone to another building I've seen him twice once in asda by the self serve and he said hello then, the other time was a few weeks back when he was at the next petrol pump and he made a point of asking if I still worked in the gym, said I was in the other site and that was that. I swear the next time I see him I'm gonna say I really fancy you, or is that too creepy? What if he's attached, is it offensive to say to someone that you fancy them? Is there a better way of telling someone you fancy them? Tell me!!! He's so bloody cute, he's got more grey hairs by his ears I've noticed. I don't even know what size his penis is and I don't really care cos he gives me butterflies when I see him, which is good right me not caring about what's in his pants. " I told 2 guy's i fancied them this week both responded nicely - life's too short hun....go 4 it x | |||
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"Tell him be brave,I'm just thinking if he's seen you a lot in the past and he's interested in you then he would have spoken to you properly already. He may be thinking the same as you though so good luck!" Right let's look at the evidence and work this out. When I was on reception in the gym he goes to there was always two of us on and even if my colleagues queue was shorter he'd be in mine for me to swipe his card. Whilst he was in the gym which I could see from reception I'd be facing my colleague (which is the direction of the glass in the gym) and I'd be yapping away but if I sneaked a look at him I'd catch his eye. Couldn't really talk to him other than say Ta-ra as he left cos he's shout thanks and so long as he left. Seen him twice in asda self serve and he said hello but I was with my kid both times then one time my cousin Dan come up to me and flung his arms round me like he does and the dude was looking. 3rd time I saw him at the petrol pump a few weeks back and he sort of waved his hand almost in front of my face cos I was looking at the price trying not to go over a tenner whilst trying to talk to him as well cos he asked if I still worked in the gym cos he hadn't seen me. Now today and he said alright, as I was walking past him and I said hi, I'm just giving my friends keys to her (why I said that I don't bloody know) then he waved and smiled as I walked back out. I know he looked at my nipples that were poking through my t shirt thanks to the breeze coming off the sea and the fact I never wear a bra! Can you imagine if I did tell him and he did say yeah let's fuck, I wonder if he'd like having his arse hole licked or if he'd pee in my mouth. | |||
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"Tell him be brave,I'm just thinking if he's seen you a lot in the past and he's interested in you then he would have spoken to you properly already. He may be thinking the same as you though so good luck! Right let's look at the evidence and work this out. When I was on reception in the gym he goes to there was always two of us on and even if my colleagues queue was shorter he'd be in mine for me to swipe his card. Whilst he was in the gym which I could see from reception I'd be facing my colleague (which is the direction of the glass in the gym) and I'd be yapping away but if I sneaked a look at him I'd catch his eye. Couldn't really talk to him other than say Ta-ra as he left cos he's shout thanks and so long as he left. Seen him twice in asda self serve and he said hello but I was with my kid both times then one time my cousin Dan come up to me and flung his arms round me like he does and the dude was looking. 3rd time I saw him at the petrol pump a few weeks back and he sort of waved his hand almost in front of my face cos I was looking at the price trying not to go over a tenner whilst trying to talk to him as well cos he asked if I still worked in the gym cos he hadn't seen me. Now today and he said alright, as I was walking past him and I said hi, I'm just giving my friends keys to her (why I said that I don't bloody know) then he waved and smiled as I walked back out. I know he looked at my nipples that were poking through my t shirt thanks to the breeze coming off the sea and the fact I never wear a bra! Can you imagine if I did tell him and he did say yeah let's fuck, I wonder if he'd like having his arse hole licked or if he'd pee in my mouth. " Start by telling him you'd like to see him. Don't lead with the arsehole licking and peeing in the mouth. | |||
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"Tell him be brave,I'm just thinking if he's seen you a lot in the past and he's interested in you then he would have spoken to you properly already. He may be thinking the same as you though so good luck! Right let's look at the evidence and work this out. When I was on reception in the gym he goes to there was always two of us on and even if my colleagues queue was shorter he'd be in mine for me to swipe his card. Whilst he was in the gym which I could see from reception I'd be facing my colleague (which is the direction of the glass in the gym) and I'd be yapping away but if I sneaked a look at him I'd catch his eye. Couldn't really talk to him other than say Ta-ra as he left cos he's shout thanks and so long as he left. Seen him twice in asda self serve and he said hello but I was with my kid both times then one time my cousin Dan come up to me and flung his arms round me like he does and the dude was looking. 3rd time I saw him at the petrol pump a few weeks back and he sort of waved his hand almost in front of my face cos I was looking at the price trying not to go over a tenner whilst trying to talk to him as well cos he asked if I still worked in the gym cos he hadn't seen me. Now today and he said alright, as I was walking past him and I said hi, I'm just giving my friends keys to her (why I said that I don't bloody know) then he waved and smiled as I walked back out. I know he looked at my nipples that were poking through my t shirt thanks to the breeze coming off the sea and the fact I never wear a bra! Can you imagine if I did tell him and he did say yeah let's fuck, I wonder if he'd like having his arse hole licked or if he'd pee in my mouth. Start by telling him you'd like to see him. Don't lead with the arsehole licking and peeing in the mouth. " | |||
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"Tell him be brave,I'm just thinking if he's seen you a lot in the past and he's interested in you then he would have spoken to you properly already. He may be thinking the same as you though so good luck! Right let's look at the evidence and work this out. When I was on reception in the gym he goes to there was always two of us on and even if my colleagues queue was shorter he'd be in mine for me to swipe his card. Whilst he was in the gym which I could see from reception I'd be facing my colleague (which is the direction of the glass in the gym) and I'd be yapping away but if I sneaked a look at him I'd catch his eye. Couldn't really talk to him other than say Ta-ra as he left cos he's shout thanks and so long as he left. Seen him twice in asda self serve and he said hello but I was with my kid both times then one time my cousin Dan come up to me and flung his arms round me like he does and the dude was looking. 3rd time I saw him at the petrol pump a few weeks back and he sort of waved his hand almost in front of my face cos I was looking at the price trying not to go over a tenner whilst trying to talk to him as well cos he asked if I still worked in the gym cos he hadn't seen me. Now today and he said alright, as I was walking past him and I said hi, I'm just giving my friends keys to her (why I said that I don't bloody know) then he waved and smiled as I walked back out. I know he looked at my nipples that were poking through my t shirt thanks to the breeze coming off the sea and the fact I never wear a bra! Can you imagine if I did tell him and he did say yeah let's fuck, I wonder if he'd like having his arse hole licked or if he'd pee in my mouth. " Do you want a relationship with him or just a fuck? | |||
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"Yes before you all start I'm aware that I get hung up on people and they linger in my mind. Saw the bloody gym guy again earlier didn't I this time at the bar where my friend works and he was with 2 other blokes having a pint outside, I was taking her keys back to her cos I'd just walked her dogs and my daughter was in the car across the road otherwise I would have stayed. He made a point of saying hello as I walked past but that's just polite isn't it. Like I saw him almost everyday for 10 weeks February to April but since I've gone to another building I've seen him twice once in asda by the self serve and he said hello then, the other time was a few weeks back when he was at the next petrol pump and he made a point of asking if I still worked in the gym, said I was in the other site and that was that. I swear the next time I see him I'm gonna say I really fancy you, or is that too creepy? What if he's attached, is it offensive to say to someone that you fancy them? Is there a better way of telling someone you fancy them? Tell me!!! He's so bloody cute, he's got more grey hairs by his ears I've noticed. I don't even know what size his penis is and I don't really care cos he gives me butterflies when I see him, which is good right me not caring about what's in his pants. " Just ask him if he fancies going for a drink sometime and give him your number when he says yes. It's really not that hard x | |||
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" Do you want a relationship with him or just a fuck? " I know nothing of his personality other than he's always smiley and looks happy and is polite. It's purely fancying him so the feeling I have is that I want to have sex with him, but I suppose I am looking for a permanent person. | |||
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" Do you want a relationship with him or just a fuck? I know nothing of his personality other than he's always smiley and looks happy and is polite. It's purely fancying him so the feeling I have is that I want to have sex with him, but I suppose I am looking for a permanent person. " Yes that's what I thought too as I'm sure you have said you would like a relationship. Good luck with what you decide. | |||
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"If it was me, the next time I saw him I'd say something like "You don't have to keep following me you know, we can go for a coffee if you like." with plenty of this and this " | |||
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"If it was me, the next time I saw him I'd say something like "You don't have to keep following me you know, we can go for a coffee if you like." with plenty of this and this " Ahh it just seems cheesy though and I'd be so embarrassed if he looked uncomfortable. I can say to him that I think he's gorgeous then he can do whatever he wants with that information! Next time I see him I will. | |||
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"If it was me, the next time I saw him I'd say something like "You don't have to keep following me you know, we can go for a coffee if you like." with plenty of this and this Ahh it just seems cheesy though and I'd be so embarrassed if he looked uncomfortable. I can say to him that I think he's gorgeous then he can do whatever he wants with that information! Next time I see him I will. " It's not cheesy it's harmless and funny and breaks the ice. | |||
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"if anbody came up to me and was full on i think youre gorgeous etc . i would feel way more uncomfortable than a hint at a coffee and a chat " Exactly saying your gorgeous is cheesy. | |||
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"if anbody came up to me and was full on i think youre gorgeous etc . i would feel way more uncomfortable than a hint at a coffee and a chat " I don't think I would be full on in your face I fancy the pants off etc, just strike up a conversation using their past history and ask him for a coffee | |||
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"if anbody came up to me and was full on i think youre gorgeous etc . i would feel way more uncomfortable than a hint at a coffee and a chat Exactly saying your gorgeous is cheesy. " Ok well keep an eye out if this thread pops up again in the future. I'll post any progress updates! | |||
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"if anbody came up to me and was full on i think youre gorgeous etc . i would feel way more uncomfortable than a hint at a coffee and a chat Exactly saying your gorgeous is cheesy. Ok well keep an eye out if this thread pops up again in the future. I'll post any progress updates! " you will do what sits best at the time | |||
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"Tell him be brave,I'm just thinking if he's seen you a lot in the past and he's interested in you then he would have spoken to you properly already. He may be thinking the same as you though so good luck! Right let's look at the evidence and work this out. When I was on reception in the gym he goes to there was always two of us on and even if my colleagues queue was shorter he'd be in mine for me to swipe his card. Whilst he was in the gym which I could see from reception I'd be facing my colleague (which is the direction of the glass in the gym) and I'd be yapping away but if I sneaked a look at him I'd catch his eye. Couldn't really talk to him other than say Ta-ra as he left cos he's shout thanks and so long as he left. Seen him twice in asda self serve and he said hello but I was with my kid both times then one time my cousin Dan come up to me and flung his arms round me like he does and the dude was looking. 3rd time I saw him at the petrol pump a few weeks back and he sort of waved his hand almost in front of my face cos I was looking at the price trying not to go over a tenner whilst trying to talk to him as well cos he asked if I still worked in the gym cos he hadn't seen me. Now today and he said alright, as I was walking past him and I said hi, I'm just giving my friends keys to her (why I said that I don't bloody know) then he waved and smiled as I walked back out. I know he looked at my nipples that were poking through my t shirt thanks to the breeze coming off the sea and the fact I never wear a bra! Can you imagine if I did tell him and he did say yeah let's fuck, I wonder if he'd like having his arse hole licked or if he'd pee in my mouth. Start by telling him you'd like to see him. Don't lead with the arsehole licking and peeing in the mouth. " | |||
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"If it was me, the next time I saw him I'd say something like "You don't have to keep following me you know, we can go for a coffee if you like." with plenty of this and this " This. I like this, I might try it.. | |||
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"Jot your name and number down on a piece of paper and keep it in your pocket for the next time you bump into him lol!! Then you don't have to say too much - just 'I'd love to go for a drink some time if you're free, here's my number'. Job done! " Best idea yet. I did this with a guy at asda once yeah nothing happened but I was glad I did. Defo do something teabags or it will drive you insain thinking what if.......xxx | |||
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