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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site? "Naming other sites is not allowed, and plenty meet on this one. | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site? "Fabs not a bad site, it's free unless you go premium but that said other sites charge and you're still not guaranteed a meet x | |||
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"Think you need to look at yourself, plenty do meet on here. You get out what you put in there are no quick fucks on here if you want them open your wallet and pay an escort." Yes I thought that yet I mention a fetish site and I get banned for 48hrs | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site? "Virtually no one? Really? So all the meeting verifications on profiles are fictitious? We never knew. | |||
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"Quick observation. We aren't allowed to talk about other sites etc but I've seen threads about POF? ...double standards? "I'm pretty sure other swinging sites have beenn mentioned as well, you certainly couldn't post links etc. Google is your friend Op...shot I've mentioned another.. ignore that Op use a popular search engine like jeeves..  | |||
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"Shame you're not asking for profile advice
He didn't do a thread asking for profile advice. "I know. Agreeing with Angel that it's a shame didn't | |||
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"Quick observation. We aren't allowed to talk about other sites etc but I've seen threads about POF? ...double standards?
I'm pretty sure other swinging sites have beenn mentioned as well, you certainly couldn't post links etc.
Google is your friend Op...shot I've mentioned another.. ignore that Op use a popular search engine like jeeves.."I got a 48 hr ban for mentioning a Fetish site and I didn't even fully mention it I abbreviated it. Seems a bit unfair | |||
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"Omg..... why do so many moan when they have only been on a few weeks. What do you people think ????? Oooooooo I know , I'll join fab and get instant shag ..... Ermmmmm no, no, no..... messages have to be sent, trust has to be built. It's not Instafuck xxxxx Suzi "Count to 10 x | |||
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"Just because your on a site, it doesn't entitle you to a meet. You have to realise your not always going to be everyone's cup of tea!" Yes, this attitude of entitlement beggars belief | |||
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"Shame you're not asking for profile advice
He didn't do a thread asking for profile advice.
I know. Agreeing with Angel that it's a shame didn't "I know it's not the best, but bashing him about his profile when he has asked about other sites is uncalled for. | |||
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"Ok i'll be honest i'm a decent guy but I have Aspergers so I struggle to make any friends and never know what to say on profiles. I'm told i'm way too sweet by girls which is nice but I find it very hard to know how to act or what to say. I've been on here ages and haven't met one person. I know a lot of men on here can be assholes and a lot of women can be shallow but it makes me think that there's something wrong with me, maybe i'm far too ugly for any girl to meet, lol" Ahh see that's better already, as you've just been yourself. Your not ugly just tweek your profile and be patient x | |||
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"Omg..... why do so many moan when they have only been on a few weeks. What do you people think ????? Oooooooo I know , I'll join fab and get instant shag ..... Ermmmmm no, no, no..... messages have to be sent, trust has to be built. It's not Instafuck xxxxx Suzi "Instafuck | |||
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"Ok i'll be honest i'm a decent guy but I have Aspergers so I struggle to make any friends and never know what to say on profiles. I'm told i'm way too sweet by girls which is nice but I find it very hard to know how to act or what to say. I've been on here ages and haven't met one person. I know a lot of men on here can be assholes and a lot of women can be shallow but it makes me think that there's something wrong with me, maybe i'm far too ugly for any girl to meet, lol" Just be yourself, don't change because some strangers tell you too. | |||
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"Ok i'll be honest i'm a decent guy but I have Aspergers so I struggle to make any friends and never know what to say on profiles. I'm told i'm way too sweet by girls which is nice but I find it very hard to know how to act or what to say. I've been on here ages and haven't met one person. I know a lot of men on here can be assholes and a lot of women can be shallow but it makes me think that there's something wrong with me, maybe i'm far too ugly for any girl to meet, lol Just be yourself, don't change because some strangers tell you too." Thanks angel bless ya But I wanna change to someone people actually like. | |||
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"Shame you're not asking for profile advice
He didn't do a thread asking for profile advice.
I know. Agreeing with Angel that it's a shame didn't
I know it's not the best, but bashing him about his profile when he has asked about other sites is uncalled for. "I'm not bashing  | |||
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"I don't demand people meet me honestly, i'm very misunderstood because of my Autism. I have too much empathy and sympathy and find it very hard to know what to say. I don't expect anyone to meet me, i've never cheated and always treated girls amazing but it makes me feel there's something wrong with me why no-one ever replies." Put stuff like this in your profile rather than the viagra stuff. Us woman love honesty x | |||
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"OP you've been here 3 weeks that's not ages on average it takes up to six months for guys to secure their first meet Unfortunately a lot join and expect a queue of Fanny lining up to meet them it doesn't work that way " I was on here for months and got 3 replies to messages and all 3 people said they'd meet and let me down. | |||
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"OP you've been here 3 weeks that's not ages on average it takes up to six months for guys to secure their first meet Unfortunately a lot join and expect a queue of Fanny lining up to meet them it doesn't work that way I was on here for months and got 3 replies to messages and all 3 people said they'd meet and let me down." 3 more replies than I've had mate | |||
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"I don't demand people meet me honestly, i'm very misunderstood because of my Autism. I have too much empathy and sympathy and find it very hard to know what to say. I don't expect anyone to meet me, i've never cheated and always treated girls amazing but it makes me feel there's something wrong with me why no-one ever replies. Put stuff like this in your profile rather than the viagra stuff. Us woman love honesty x" I am honest, I have ADHD so without viagra I can't get a stiffy but with it I can be hard for hours. I'm honest about having Autism too and how i've never cheated on a girlfriend. | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site? "I've met a few people on my single profile in the past but we haven't met anyone yet as a couple. Too fussy and nervous i guess, female is nervous | |||
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"OP you've been here 3 weeks that's not ages on average it takes up to six months for guys to secure their first meet Unfortunately a lot join and expect a queue of Fanny lining up to meet them it doesn't work that way I was on here for months and got 3 replies to messages and all 3 people said they'd meet and let me down." Well that does happen a lot but after a while you get used to picking up on the signs that someone's going to waste your time, though I appreciate learning that will be a much longer process for someone with Aspergers as they generally struggle socially anyway. | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site? ""Virtually no-one" is that some kinda joke?!?! | |||
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" I've met a few people on my single profile in the past but we haven't met anyone yet as a couple. Too fussy and nervous i guess, female is nervous " I judt don't think i'm even remotely good enough looking to meet, it doesn't make me feel down or anything you just have to accept it but I do try to meet and make friends. | |||
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"Quick observation. We aren't allowed to talk about other sites etc but I've seen threads about POF? ...double standards? "Maybe it's because that's a dating site,I don't know | |||
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"OP you've been here 3 weeks that's not ages on average it takes up to six months for guys to secure their first meet Unfortunately a lot join and expect a queue of Fanny lining up to meet them it doesn't work that way I was on here for months and got 3 replies to messages and all 3 people said they'd meet and let me down. Well that does happen a lot but after a while you get used to picking up on the signs that someone's going to waste your time, though I appreciate learning that will be a much longer process for someone with Aspergers as they generally struggle socially anyway." Yeah I do struggle in fact my Aspergers is so bad that I don't actually have any real life friends and never have done. Now that's being so honest it makes me feel uncomfortable. | |||
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" I've met a few people on my single profile in the past but we haven't met anyone yet as a couple. Too fussy and nervous i guess, female is nervous I judt don't think i'm even remotely good enough looking to meet, it doesn't make me feel down or anything you just have to accept it but I do try to meet and make friends. " Exactly, keep on being positive and keep on trucking. Someone who likes you for what you are will come along soon. | |||
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"Ok i'll be honest i'm a decent guy but I have Aspergers so I struggle to make any friends and never know what to say on profiles. I'm told i'm way too sweet by girls which is nice but I find it very hard to know how to act or what to say. I've been on here ages and haven't met one person. I know a lot of men on here can be assholes and a lot of women can be shallow but it makes me think that there's something wrong with me, maybe i'm far too ugly for any girl to meet, lol Just be yourself, don't change because some strangers tell you too. Thanks angel bless ya But I wanna change to someone people actually like."Well that would be making a big mistake. Good luck | |||
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"Ok i'll be honest i'm a decent guy but I have Aspergers so I struggle to make any friends and never know what to say on profiles. I'm told i'm way too sweet by girls which is nice but I find it very hard to know how to act or what to say. I've been on here ages and haven't met one person. I know a lot of men on here can be assholes and a lot of women can be shallow but it makes me think that there's something wrong with me, maybe i'm far too ugly for any girl to meet, lol Just be yourself, don't change because some strangers tell you too. Thanks angel bless ya But I wanna change to someone people actually like.
Well that would be making a big mistake. Good luck"People tell me i'm too nice, girls i've met off sites (not sex sites) have told me i'm far too nice and that I should be careful people don't use that against me. I can't read body language either which makes knowing whether someone likes me impossible. | |||
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"You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't say on the thread. However, if you'd like some let me know. 3 weeks isn't a long time on here. Messages not answered means 'no thanks' no matter how friendly / well constructed they are. Are you looking for NSA sex / swinging experience or a girlfriend to date?" I've been on here months but I deleted my old profile, then decided to try again with this one. Ideally i'm looking for friends to meet whether it's for sex or not, i'd love a girlfriend to be with the rest of my life but i've been single for 14 years so...lol | |||
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"OP you've been here 3 weeks that's not ages on average it takes up to six months for guys to secure their first meet Unfortunately a lot join and expect a queue of Fanny lining up to meet them it doesn't work that way I was on here for months and got 3 replies to messages and all 3 people said they'd meet and let me down. Well that does happen a lot but after a while you get used to picking up on the signs that someone's going to waste your time, though I appreciate learning that will be a much longer process for someone with Aspergers as they generally struggle socially anyway. Yeah I do struggle in fact my Aspergers is so bad that I don't actually have any real life friends and never have done. Now that's being so honest it makes me feel uncomfortable." That makes sad reading 
Can you have any help for your Aspergers, where you can interact with other people? | |||
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"OP you've been here 3 weeks that's not ages on average it takes up to six months for guys to secure their first meet Unfortunately a lot join and expect a queue of Fanny lining up to meet them it doesn't work that way I was on here for months and got 3 replies to messages and all 3 people said they'd meet and let me down. 3 more replies than I've had mate "Einstein said to do the same thing over and over again and expect a different result was a definition of insanity.. If it ain't working change something see what does work. there's no one size fits all whatever you do, be the best at being you and you'll find someone who likes that. | |||
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" I've met a few people on my single profile in the past but we haven't met anyone yet as a couple. Too fussy and nervous i guess, female is nervous I judt don't think i'm even remotely good enough looking to meet, it doesn't make me feel down or anything you just have to accept it but I do try to meet and make friends. " I didn't think I was attractive enough either as a woman but I was surprised to find that men did want to meet me. I had a couple of long term regular men I met too, so I wouldn't give up hope | |||
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" That makes sad reading
Can you have any help for your Aspergers, where you can interact with other people?"It's ok i'm used to being ignored and people using me and not wanting to even be my friend. I grew up with no friends at school too, it makes you very solcially isolated and content with being alone. | |||
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There may be other sites, but the bottom line is still the same. Figure out your target market and write a pitch to attract them. | |||
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"I meet, and the people I meet meet... And as far as I know they don't take viagra to enhance their performance either "The thing is a girl friend of mine meets guys and she says they don't take viagra, she meets a LOT of men and says most of them last about 5 minutes before cumming. I take viagra because my ADHD causes ED. With viagra I can stay hard for hours, except I have no girls meeting me to have fun with, lol. | |||
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"I don't demand people meet me honestly, i'm very misunderstood because of my Autism. I have too much empathy and sympathy and find it very hard to know what to say. I don't expect anyone to meet me, i've never cheated and always treated girls amazing but it makes me feel there's something wrong with me why no-one ever replies." Lots of guy's are in the same boat as you I'm afraid,for one reason or another they just don't seem to get anywhere. It's probably just the sheer amount on men on here and nothing else. I'm so glad I'm not a man I don't think I could hack it  | |||
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"I can appreciate your issues but I will be brutally honest - I wouldn't answer based on your profile. Your pic is fine - it denotes a sense of humour which is something I look for in a meet. But the profile itself...'pumping a woman's fanny'? No, just no. I'm not bashing, I'm just explaining why I wouldn't even open the best crafted mail from you after stealth ninja-ing your profile. I meet, and pretty much everyone I know on here meets buuuut...it takes time for single males. And they have to have a kick ass profile. And they have to have decent pics. And getting that first veri is a ballache! Once that all slots into play, you should be good to go - like everything, you get out what you put in. If it helps, my other half is stuck with his profile too. You don't want to sound arrogant, or conversely like you have esteem issues. You want to sound funny, but not sleazy. You want to tell people what you're looking for but not set out a prescriptive list...I go slightly OCD on mine every few days and tweak, but then I'm a weirdo that likes to talk a lot.
There may be other sites, but the bottom line is still the same. Figure out your target market and write a pitch to attract them. "I changed my profile, is that better? | |||
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"I meet, and the people I meet meet... And as far as I know they don't take viagra to enhance their performance either
The thing is a girl friend of mine meets guys and she says they don't take viagra, she meets a LOT of men and says most of them last about 5 minutes before cumming. I take viagra because my ADHD causes ED. With viagra I can stay hard for hours, except I have no girls meeting me to have fun with, lol."Lol well she must be meeting the wrong type of men then | |||
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"I meet, and the people I meet meet... And as far as I know they don't take viagra to enhance their performance either
The thing is a girl friend of mine meets guys and she says they don't take viagra, she meets a LOT of men and says most of them last about 5 minutes before cumming. I take viagra because my ADHD causes ED. With viagra I can stay hard for hours, except I have no girls meeting me to have fun with, lol.
Lol well she must be meeting the wrong type of men then "I think a lot of women probably are because she's met a hell of a lot and none of them could last longer than 5 minutes after they penetrated her so... | |||
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Can you have any help for your Aspergers, where you can interact with other people?
It's ok i'm used to being ignored and people using me and not wanting to even be my friend. I grew up with no friends at school too, it makes you very solcially isolated and content with being alone."Ok we have experience of Aspergers as our son was diagnosed with it when he was young. Yes it can make you socially awkward and unsympathetic but what we noticed was that as our son got older he understood more about what was expected of him and whilst he openly admits it doesn't make sense to him he has learnt to act the part to get by. He must be doing something right as he has a good job and friends who know about his condition and accept it when he occasionally gets it wrong. | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site? "We meet, as do loads of people in this neck of the woods, I think you should look closer to home for the reason why you aren't getting any luck. Have you tried the organised socials? We are just preparing to set out to our hotel, (some shopping on the way, oh joy lol!) and then on to the social where over 100 swingers will mingle, flirt, and make friends. Later, hopefully we will be dragging back a few party animals and having some fun. | |||
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"Ok we have experience of Aspergers as our son was diagnosed with it when he was young. Yes it can make you socially awkward and unsympathetic but what we noticed was that as our son got older he understood more about what was expected of him and whilst he openly admits it doesn't make sense to him he has learnt to act the part to get by. He must be doing something right as he has a good job and friends who know about his condition and accept it when he occasionally gets it wrong." With me I have too much sympathy, seeing other people suffer gets me down, seeing homeless people makes me feel down, seeing people in the news having been killed makes me feel like I wish I could of saved them. People with Aspergers can appear to be cold but deep down we care too much but we can appear cold because we simply can't cope with our powerful emotions. It's like when I saw the Alton Towers Crash on the news I couldn't sleep for two days because I felt depressed, I had to hold back the tears because I just wish I could of saved all those people. No-one understands me in an emotional way. | |||
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"I can appreciate your issues but I will be brutally honest - I wouldn't answer based on your profile. Your pic is fine - it denotes a sense of humour which is something I look for in a meet. But the profile itself...'pumping a woman's fanny'? No, just no. I'm not bashing, I'm just explaining why I wouldn't even open the best crafted mail from you after stealth ninja-ing your profile. I meet, and pretty much everyone I know on here meets buuuut...it takes time for single males. And they have to have a kick ass profile. And they have to have decent pics. And getting that first veri is a ballache! Once that all slots into play, you should be good to go - like everything, you get out what you put in. If it helps, my other half is stuck with his profile too. You don't want to sound arrogant, or conversely like you have esteem issues. You want to sound funny, but not sleazy. You want to tell people what you're looking for but not set out a prescriptive list...I go slightly OCD on mine every few days and tweak, but then I'm a weirdo that likes to talk a lot.
There may be other sites, but the bottom line is still the same. Figure out your target market and write a pitch to attract them.
I changed my profile, is that better?"You have shown in this thread that you are quite able to express yourself. Use that skill to put together an interesting and descriptive profile. | |||
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Can you have any help for your Aspergers, where you can interact with other people?
It's ok i'm used to being ignored and people using me and not wanting to even be my friend. I grew up with no friends at school too, it makes you very solcially isolated and content with being alone.""Pumping a woman's fanny"????? Like.....seriously??? Let's start with this..... First pic?? Cum covered cock?? Nope!!! 2: Lose the pic with the shades. 3: Expand the profile 4: Your broadcasting you need viagra!????? 5: Said women do not feel the need to have their "fanny pumped"??? Actually engage in a conversation and you may realise that women, unlike most men, have other stimulation points.....like their brain. Harsh?? Yep. Honest? Most definitely. x | |||
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"OP, you sound like a decent guy. I'd have met you for a drink but you're too far away." Thanks bless ya that means a lot to me it honestly does angel | |||
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" That makes sad reading
Can you have any help for your Aspergers, where you can interact with other people?
It's ok i'm used to being ignored and people using me and not wanting to even be my friend. I grew up with no friends at school too, it makes you very solcially isolated and content with being alone.
"Pumping a woman's fanny"?????
Like.....seriously???
Let's start with this..... First pic?? Cum covered cock?? Nope!!!
2: Lose the pic with the shades.
3: Expand the profile
4: Your broadcasting you need viagra!?????
5: Said women do not feel the need to have their "fanny pumped"???
Actually engage in a conversation and you may realise that women, unlike most men, have other stimulation points.....like their brain.
Harsh?? Yep. Honest? Most definitely. x"It's hard though because ive lost count how many times on various sites i've said hello to women and asked how they are, a friendly message and i've been ignored. Some women in the past have replied calling me a perv or weirdo when all I did was say hello. | |||
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"I got a 48 hr ban for mentioning a Fetish site and I didn't even fully mention it I abbreviated it. Seems a bit unfair " You might get another spell on the step for mentioning that  | |||
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"You have an Immature name, and you need viagra... We have had meets from here...maybe it's not us.... Maybe it's you?" I can't help that I need viagra, that's my ADHD that cuases me to need it but with it I can last ages. My name is just a mess about name. | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site? "Hi. Lots of people meet on this site. In order to attract attention and sell yourself you need a detailed well written profile with lots of interesting points in order to market yourself . We all know that it is a sex site , so it is probably the non sexual part of a profile that is important . Some women will find the reference to Viagra off putting. They prefer to do the work , not a pill. Many ladies also prefer quality over quantity so lasting for a long time may not be a bonus . | |||
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"OP, check your inbox "Thank you for your help I really apreciate it, it does make me feel quite emotional when someone is nice to me because i'm just not used to someone caring. | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site? Hi. Lots of people meet on this site. In order to attract attention and sell yourself you need a detailed well written profile with lots of interesting points in order to market yourself .
We all know that it is a sex site , so it is probably the non sexual part of a profile that is important .
Some women will find the reference to Viagra off putting. They prefer to do the work , not a pill. Many ladies also prefer quality over quantity so lasting for a long time may not be a bonus . "I've changed my profile. | |||
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He didn't do a thread asking for profile advice.
I know. Agreeing with Angel that it's a shame didn't
I know it's not the best, but bashing him about his profile when he has asked about other sites is uncalled for. "Nobody bashed his profile. They suggested it could be better - which it could - and that they could offer more help if he asked for profile advice! That's trying to be helpful, not bashing. | |||
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" That makes sad reading
Can you have any help for your Aspergers, where you can interact with other people?
It's ok i'm used to being ignored and people using me and not wanting to even be my friend. I grew up with no friends at school too, it makes you very solcially isolated and content with being alone.
"Pumping a woman's fanny"?????
Like.....seriously???
Let's start with this..... First pic?? Cum covered cock?? Nope!!!
2: Lose the pic with the shades.
3: Expand the profile
4: Your broadcasting you need viagra!?????
5: Said women do not feel the need to have their "fanny pumped"???
Actually engage in a conversation and you may realise that women, unlike most men, have other stimulation points.....like their brain.
Harsh?? Yep. Honest? Most definitely. x
It's hard though because ive lost count how many times on various sites i've said hello to women and asked how they are, a friendly message and i've been ignored. Some women in the past have replied calling me a perv or weirdo when all I did was say hello. "Your a single male, with pics of his cock covered in cum, broadcasting you need (use) viagra with a profile that states he wants to "pump a woman's fanny"??? Just the fact your a single male is the biggest hurdle and then you go and make things even harder for yourself by adding all of the above??? Tip! Lose the cock pics, get a couple of yourself hard and proud and get them in your friends only, or private pics. Get a couple of full bodyshots, nice t-shirt, well presented. Maybe lose the top and go half naked. Get them in your public pics. For God's sake get the desire to pump a fanny off the profile, not a good quality and drop the need to advertise your viagra addiction. A good profile should read like a short story, an opening (your hello) a middle (what you can offer and what you would like others to offer you) and an end (a summary and a sign off) make it interesting but not an epic novel and keep it clean, no "need a fanny to pump" anecdotes and the like. And finally. Be patient, the more you try the more desperate you come across. | |||
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To be fair that's perfectly normal behaviour for a business like this. I mentioned that I'd seen some toilet paper cheaper in Asda whilst shopping in Tesco the other day and was quickly escorted out of the store and told not to come back for 48 hours. Completely understandable. Likewise I was in my local BMW dealership last weekend having my indicators removed, when a guy came in asking if there were any other car manufactures from Germany, well no sooner had i uttered the word "Audi" when i was swiftly ejected! And told not to come back for 24 hours! But to make sure that I did come back and continued to slip them a few quid every quarter... seemed reasonable. " | |||
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Thank you for your help I really apreciate it, it does make me feel quite emotional when someone is nice to me because i'm just not used to someone caring."You are very welcome mate
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" That makes sad reading
Can you have any help for your Aspergers, where you can interact with other people?
It's ok i'm used to being ignored and people using me and not wanting to even be my friend. I grew up with no friends at school too, it makes you very solcially isolated and content with being alone.
"Pumping a woman's fanny"?????
Like.....seriously???
Let's start with this..... First pic?? Cum covered cock?? Nope!!!
2: Lose the pic with the shades.
3: Expand the profile
4: Your broadcasting you need viagra!?????
5: Said women do not feel the need to have their "fanny pumped"???
Actually engage in a conversation and you may realise that women, unlike most men, have other stimulation points.....like their brain.
Harsh?? Yep. Honest? Most definitely. x"It's against forum rules to critique peoples profiles without them asking. | |||
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" I've met a few people on my single profile in the past but we haven't met anyone yet as a couple. Too fussy and nervous i guess, female is nervous I judt don't think i'm even remotely good enough looking to meet, it doesn't make me feel down or anything you just have to accept it but I do try to meet and make friends. " This comes across as fishing for sympathy and hoping people will shag you because they feel sorry for you. It doesn't look good and is unlikely to work. Being physically gorgeous (although what that means is subjective) helps but is not the be all and end all when it comes to getting meets. People do meet on here but there are a *lot* - a huge number - of men looking for sex compared to the number of women and couples. It is unlikely to fall in your lap. It takes effort and patience. Asking for advice is a good start. However, blaming your lack of success on everyone else, (because obviously we don't meet, rather than we're just not meeting you), is not helpful. If this site doesn't work, and we were able to suggest somewhere which does, we'd all be there, not here, wouldn't we? | |||
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"I've changed my profile text now, isn't it showing up as changed?" Better than its was, maybe add to it a bit. Drop your interest for "sex meets" comes across a bit one track minded. Go for a little more expenditure, like "social get togethers" or "Regular fun with like-minded people" You will be amazed at how people perceive you with a few well placed words. Say a bit more about yourself too. People like to know about you before they want to know whats under your pants. x | |||
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"Shame you're not asking for profile advice
He didn't do a thread asking for profile advice.
I know. Agreeing with Angel that it's a shame didn't
I know it's not the best, but bashing him about his profile when he has asked about other sites is uncalled for.
Nobody bashed his profile.
They suggested it could be better - which it could - and that they could offer more help if he asked for profile advice!
That's trying to be helpful, not bashing."I don't go around 'bashing' people or their profiles, as said above I was merely suggesting that rather than asking about other sites, he may have wished to revise his profile, but couldn't give him direct advise as he wasn't asking for it.
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"Shame you're not asking for profile advice
He didn't do a thread asking for profile advice.
I know. Agreeing with Angel that it's a shame didn't
I know it's not the best, but bashing him about his profile when he has asked about other sites is uncalled for.
Nobody bashed his profile.
They suggested it could be better - which it could - and that they could offer more help if he asked for profile advice!
That's trying to be helpful, not bashing.
I don't go around 'bashing' people or their profiles, as said above I was merely suggesting that rather than asking about other sites, he may have wished to revise his profile, but couldn't give him direct advise as he wasn't asking for it. "That's what I said. I hope the wasn't aimed at me. | |||
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"Lol your replies sums up why you can't get meets At least he has taken on board what positive advice has been suggested and has actually acted upon it "Exactly, he's been honest, friendly, and has taken advice on board. I really don't understand the negative comments by some on here | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site? "There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it. | |||
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There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it."Out of interest, have you read the forum rules? It is against the rules to name other sites. Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help? | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?"Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.  | |||
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" That makes sad reading
Can you have any help for your Aspergers, where you can interact with other people?
It's ok i'm used to being ignored and people using me and not wanting to even be my friend. I grew up with no friends at school too, it makes you very solcially isolated and content with being alone.
"Pumping a woman's fanny"?????
Like.....seriously???
Let's start with this..... First pic?? Cum covered cock?? Nope!!!
2: Lose the pic with the shades.
3: Expand the profile
4: Your broadcasting you need viagra!?????
5: Said women do not feel the need to have their "fanny pumped"???
Actually engage in a conversation and you may realise that women, unlike most men, have other stimulation points.....like their brain.
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Exactly, he's been honest, friendly, and has taken advice on board.
I really don't understand the negative comments by some on here "No, I agree! I think his answers have shown him to be open and honest and well able to communicate if a little too eager with the self disclosure and put downs. OP I would take ALL the profile advice given, change your username, and hang around the forums so people can get to know you. You sound a bit complicated but you are far from ugly and I think you will make some friends if you just chat on threads. Good luck! | |||
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"Lol your replies sums up why you can't get meets At least he has taken on board what positive advice has been suggested and has actually acted upon it
Exactly, he's been honest, friendly, and has taken advice on board.
I really don't understand the negative comments by some on here
No, I agree! I think his answers have shown him to be open and honest and well able to communicate if a little too eager with the self disclosure and put downs.
OP I would take ALL the profile advice given, change your username, and hang around the forums so people can get to know you. You sound a bit complicated but you are far from ugly and I think you will make some friends if you just chat on threads. Good luck!"This well said | |||
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"Shame you're not asking for profile advice
He didn't do a thread asking for profile advice.
I know. Agreeing with Angel that it's a shame didn't
I know it's not the best, but bashing him about his profile when he has asked about other sites is uncalled for.
Nobody bashed his profile.
They suggested it could be better - which it could - and that they could offer more help if he asked for profile advice!
That's trying to be helpful, not bashing.
I don't go around 'bashing' people or their profiles, as said above I was merely suggesting that rather than asking about other sites, he may have wished to revise his profile, but couldn't give him direct advise as he wasn't asking for it.
That's what I said.
I hope the wasn't aimed at me."Oh gosh no, no reason to aim it at you | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
You know what Dee over the last ten years or so I have read the forum rules many times, but thanks for your feedback.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?" | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens. "If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported. | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported."Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported."You expect me to dredge through you previous posts to find a reason to report you? I know I get bored sometimes but seriously, I do have a life!
You're not that important to me, sorry.
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported.
Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites "Presumably because nobody did bother to report it | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported.
Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites "I didn't promote anything. | |||
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" I've met a few people on my single profile in the past but we haven't met anyone yet as a couple. Too fussy and nervous i guess, female is nervous I judt don't think i'm even remotely good enough looking to meet, it doesn't make me feel down or anything you just have to accept it but I do try to meet and make friends. " It's good to be honest so I applaud you for that. I'll be honest too - all your comments in this thread are poor me, I have all these things wrong with me and I'm not good looking. Do you think that mindset is attractive to a lady who wants to find a meet on here? Will she want to meet someone who talks all about their problems or someone else they can have a laugh and fun with? Sorry if it sounds harsh but it's meant with compassion, you need to work on your self esteem first and foremost x | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported.
Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites
I didn't promote anything."But you've just admitted you did name one. | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported.
Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites
I didn't promote anything.
But you've just admitted you did name one."oh for goodness sake..just chill out...no one cares... | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported.
Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites
I didn't promote anything.
But you've just admitted you did name one.oh for goodness sake..just chill out...no one cares..."Nobody cares what the forum rules are? Tell that to the mods
Seriously though, this started because he said as far as he knows it's ok to name other sites.
I commented because it can earn people a ban, and I'm sure people would rather avoid that.
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported.
Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites
I didn't promote anything.
But you've just admitted you did name one.oh for goodness sake..just chill out...no one cares...
Nobody cares what the forum rules are? Tell that to the mods
Seriously though, this started because he said as far as he knows it's ok to name other sites.
I commented because it can earn people a ban, and I'm sure people would rather avoid that.
The slightly petulant comments that he's done it before were irrelevant."ye but youve asaid it three times or more..its ok..he and everyone else got the message..rellllax..its ok...people make mistakes x | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported.
Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites
I didn't promote anything."The site deems naming it as promotion | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported.
Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites
I didn't promote anything.
But you've just admitted you did name one."Yes and I know the difference between naming and promoting. | |||
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"I'm a single guy, kind and caring ok i['m not gorgeous but I can last quite a while due to taking viagra hee hee. I'm looking for a site where people actually meet, on here virtually no-one meets, does anyone know a site?
There are lots of other sites, just Google. I haven't actually seen a rule saying you can't name another swinging site, I mean even Tesco acknowledge that Lidl exists but some members get a bit tetchy about it.
Out of interest, have you read the forum rules?
It is against the rules to name other sites.
Following your comment on the thread where someone named another member on their status, you seem unsure of some of the rules. Perhaps having a look to refresh your memory would help?
Alternatively, go for the active approach and name another site. See what happens.
If I was to name another site it wouldn't be the first time. Seeing you are so trawl through my posts. I guess now I will be reported.
Maybe you were just lucky and didn't get caught by a mod breaching the site rules of naming/promoting other swinging sites
I didn't promote anything.
But you've just admitted you did name one.oh for goodness sake..just chill out...no one cares...
Nobody cares what the forum rules are? Tell that to the mods
Seriously though, this started because he said as far as he knows it's ok to name other sites.
I commented because it can earn people a ban, and I'm sure people would rather avoid that.
The slightly petulant comments that he's done it before were irrelevant."Petulant? I thought forums were about opinions and discussion not name calling but I am a grown up and can stand anything that is aimed at me from this site without taking offence. | |||
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