FabSwingers.com forum: Flattered but not what I'm looking for?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The vast majority is gays then trans followed by occasional couples. Most contact from women is just the odd fabbed pic from them. I never usually message just because of a fab though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok message received, reverse psychology, I'll text you now OP

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a very nice bottom OP XXX

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have a very nice bottom OP XXX"

Why thank you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You probably get looked at by more ladies than you know, most of them view in

mode.

No idea why you get so many messages off guys, I wouldn't pm ya as you are straight.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue? "

There was a topic on this a couple of days ago on the Scottish forum

We all get the same thing. Treat it as a little bit of insight into what the ladies and couples have to endure and be thankful you don't get as many messages from people outside your stated preferences as they do.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The vast majority is gays then trans followed by occasional couples. Most contact from women is just the odd fabbed pic from them. I never usually message just because of a fab though."

It's seems as though I get alot of straight blokes and not even part of a MF couple..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

There was a topic on this a couple of days ago on the Scottish forum

Very true..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"The vast majority is gays then trans followed by occasional couples. Most contact from women is just the odd fabbed pic from them. I never usually message just because of a fab though.

It's seems as though I get alot of straight blokes and not even part of a MF couple..

you can set your filters to say you're not looking for men. then they won't be able to look at you.

Cal

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You probably get looked at by more ladies than you know, most of them view in

mode.

No idea why you get so many messages off guys, I wouldn't pm ya as you are straight. "

I didn't know you could view in

mode..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

There was a topic on this a couple of days ago on the Scottish forum

Except that's men bothering people who are straight and could potentially fancy them. A lot of the gay guys message straight guys that they have zero chance with

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

You can always change your preferences to block mails from guys.

Definitely cute ass btw

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can always change your preferences to block mails from guys.

Definitely cute ass btw

Thank you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"The vast majority is gays then trans followed by occasional couples. Most contact from women is just the odd fabbed pic from them. I never usually message just because of a fab though.

It's seems as though I get alot of straight blokes and not even part of a MF couple..

I was puzzled by that too, until I found out that many women and couples on here wouldn't like to play with bi guys. Don't ask me why: I haven't figured that out yet.

The result is that many bi men masquerade as straight. I presume they are hopeful that you might be masquerading too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I'd definitely adjust my filters

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Gorgeous eyes OP... And fun profile too (Mrs) xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'd definitely adjust my filters "

That's what I did in the end. Which is a shame because it gets in the way of friendly conversation with other blokes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd definitely adjust my filters

That's what I did in the end. Which is a shame because it gets in the way of friendly conversation with other blokes."

I've changed my filters before.. changed them back again now.. but agreed I don't mind friendly conversation etc. Just wondered if it was something about my profile or if everyone had similar experiences.. but any suggestions to improve it would be appreciated

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd definitely adjust my filters

That's what I did in the end. Which is a shame because it gets in the way of friendly conversation with other blokes."

That's why I never changed them. Some have been nice and good to talk to.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gorgeous eyes OP... And fun profile too (Mrs) xxx "

Thank you.. you have some right gorgeous eyes too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atandasmileMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'd definitely adjust my filters

That's what I did in the end. Which is a shame because it gets in the way of friendly conversation with other blokes.

That's why I never changed them. Some have been nice and good to talk to."

I've been thinking of changing mine back. It wasn't *that* many messages.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'd definitely adjust my filters

That's what I did in the end. Which is a shame because it gets in the way of friendly conversation with other blokes.

That's why I never changed them. Some have been nice and good to talk to."

If you message them first, they can message you back. Although I don't have any filters on, I have had many conversations with straight guys, usually lighthearted banter about a forum topic or something similar

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue? "

If the amount of attention I received from a particular group that I wasn't interested in became an issue for me I'd block them... My filters are down the amount I receive it's not an issue to me

Use the tools the site provides if it is. I've not looked at your bottom Op I'm sure it us nice though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP how will a woman know what she's after until they have seen your profile and read it?

Same with the bi/gay gents on here.. they wont know your sexuality until they click your profile to have a read

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes find myself looking at lush ladies and looking at their veris to see of I might have a chance or not : (

Same build/characteristics etc.

Does that make sense?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd definitely adjust my filters

That's what I did in the end. Which is a shame because it gets in the way of friendly conversation with other blokes.

That's why I never changed them. Some have been nice and good to talk to.

One guy recently spoke to me about fitness and that was fun. Don't mind it at all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I sometimes find myself looking at lush ladies and looking at their veris to see of I might have a chance or not : (

Same build/characteristics etc.

Does that make sense?"

Ditto. I'm completely straight and not looking for any involvement with guys, but it doesn't hurt to suss out the competition (depressing as that can be!), or see what type of guy a particular woman seems to go for. Looking at guys' profiles can also provide pointers for improving your own. Then of course there is the fact that there are vastly more blokes than ladies on here, so by the law of averages a good percentage of views will be from males, who may not be as straight as they make out.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I appreciate all the comments and feedback..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace the ghey

You might like it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind being viewed have some banter and then move on!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see why men would message you Op your kinda hot

and some guys want it all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Views are nice though , because I'm bi : I don't fancy every woman that looks at me and she won't fancy me, same with men. Maybe a guy looking at you is looking at you on behalf of his FB or partner. Take it in a positive light.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eneRoissyMan
over a year ago

Nailsworth

You could find they are straight, and are interested in and are checking out the verifications of women you have met.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue? "

Because women look in stealth mode

They do look it just don't show so all you see is a line of men

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Lots of ladies look in incognito..

Well that's what I like to think

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can see why men would message you Op your kinda hot

and some guys want it all

Your making me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

Because women look in stealth mode

They do look it just don't show so all you see is a line of men "

I didn't realise there was a stealth mode

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

Because women look in stealth mode

They do look it just don't show so all you see is a line of men

I didn't realise there was a stealth mode

Shhh!

Don;t tell everyone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I didn't know you could view in

mode.. "

It's very useful

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue? "

*ahem

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"I can see why men would message you Op your kinda hot

and some guys want it all

Your making me

Dont lie. . You like the odd bit of male attention.

lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I can see why men would message you Op your kinda hot

and some guys want it all

Your making me

Dont lie. . You like the odd bit of male attention.

lol"

It's what you make of it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Tbh, I love "straight" men - especially the one on line two who's particularly good at hitting my buttons despite having professed to have almost no experience in these matters

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Tbh, I love "straight" men - especially the one on line two who's particularly good at hitting my buttons despite having professed to have almost no experience in these matters

Well i bet you have alot of attention from all sorts my friend.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Tbh, I love "straight" men - especially the one on line two who's particularly good at hitting my buttons despite having professed to have almost no experience in these matters

Well i bet you have alot of attention from all sorts my friend.

He's told me I've aroused him more than his wife ever did

straight men

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Tbh, I love "straight" men - especially the one on line two who's particularly good at hitting my buttons despite having professed to have almost no experience in these matters

Well i bet you have alot of attention from all sorts my friend.

He's told me I've aroused him more than his wife ever did

straight men"

Here comes another one... but he's not so fit

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue? "

Yum!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue? "

No because am not interested in men so i block them simple

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

No because am not interested in men so i block them simple

That's too sensible.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

No because am not interested in men so i block them simple

Don;t know what you're missing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

No because am not interested in men so i block them simple

Don;t know what you're missing

If you say so but i am definitely not interested

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

No because am not interested in men so i block them simple

Don;t know what you're missing

If you say so but i am definitely not interested

so that's a no from you?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

No because am not interested in men so i block them simple

Don;t know what you're missing

If you say so but i am definitely not interested

so that's a no from you?

*sighs*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

No because am not interested in men so i block them simple

Don;t know what you're missing

If you say so but i am definitely not interested

so that's a no from you?

*sighs*

*hiccups*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

No because am not interested in men so i block them simple

Don;t know what you're missing

If you say so but i am definitely not interested

Yes he is interestehe has sexy man dreams i bet.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

*ahem

I've noticed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

Yum!"

Straight back at ya

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Just curious as to why I only ever get viewed and messaged from blokes? It's flattering don't get me wrong

but not what I'm looking for. Is it something to do with my profile? Or do other guys have the same issue?

There was a topic on this a couple of days ago on the Scottish forum

Except that's men bothering people who are straight and could potentially fancy them. A lot of the gay guys message straight guys that they have zero chance with

A lot of men message women who they have a zero chance with

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"The vast majority is gays then trans followed by occasional couples. Most contact from women is just the odd fabbed pic from them. I never usually message just because of a fab though.

It's seems as though I get alot of straight blokes and not even part of a MF couple..

you can set your filters to say you're not looking for men. then they won't be able to look at you.

Cal"

You mean they won't be able to message him, anyone unless blocked can look.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"Gorgeous eyes OP... And fun profile too (Mrs) xxx

Thank you.. you have some right gorgeous eyes too

xx"

Agh but my eyes aren't on show... Are you referring to my puppy's lol x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gorgeous eyes OP... And fun profile too (Mrs) xxx

Thank you.. you have some right gorgeous eyes too

Agh but my eyes aren't on show... Are you referring to my puppy's lol x"

I am indeed referring to your puppy's but I'm sure you got gorgeous eyes all the same

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread