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"Just wondering what it's like to be someone who is married and playing away from home without their partners knowledge/consent - do you "talk" to friend's about what you're doing? How often do you think about the person or persons that you're "playing" with? - just a little curious...." Are ya writing an article? | |||
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"From what I have seen on the forums and browsing . If a woman does it , it is seen as ok , but if a man does it.....he is Hitler .I'm not saying there is hypocrocy going on ,but.... "well come to the double standers of Fab..  | |||
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"Maybe you could start by asking these questions of your husband?" Err? Hello? the op is single'  | |||
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"Just wondering what it's like to be someone who is married and playing away from home without their partners knowledge/consent - do you "talk" to friend's about what you're doing? How often do you think about the person or persons that you're "playing" with? - just a little curious.... Are ya writing an article? " Is it an exclusive and how much does the Sun pay? | |||
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"Just wondering what it's like to be someone who is married and playing away from home without their partners knowledge/consent - do you "talk" to friend's about what you're doing? How often do you think about the person or persons that you're "playing" with? - just a little curious.... Are ya writing an article? " Could be from Sydney University lol | |||
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"Maybe you could start by asking these questions of your husband? Err? Hello? the op is single' "is that single single or fab single? | |||
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"Maybe you could start by asking these questions of your husband? Err? Hello? the op is single'
is that single single or fab single?"That's a good one'... | |||
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"Maybe you could start by asking these questions of your husband? Err? Hello? the op is single'
is that single single or fab single?"Couldn't have put it better myself. | |||
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"Maybe you could start by asking these questions of your husband?" I'm not married! Or in a relationship! | |||
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"Just wondering what it's like to be someone who is married and playing away from home without their partners knowledge/consent - do you "talk" to friend's about what you're doing? How often do you think about the person or persons that you're "playing" with? - just a little curious.... Are ya writing an article? " No, lol - just a little curious - never been in that position | |||
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"Maybe you could start by asking these questions of your husband? Err? Hello? the op is single'
is that single single or fab single?
Couldn't have put it better myself. "Single single | |||
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"Just wondering what it's like to be someone who is married and playing away from home without their partners knowledge/consent - do you "talk" to friend's about what you're doing? How often do you think about the person or persons that you're "playing" with? - just a little curious.... Are ya writing an article? No, lol - just a little curious - never been in that position " I've never had tuna. Not curious. | |||
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"Just wondering what it's like to be someone who is married and playing away from home without their partners knowledge/consent - do you "talk" to friend's about what you're doing? How often do you think about the person or persons that you're "playing" with? - just a little curious...." Is this Carrie Bradshaw?. | |||
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"No situation is the same. Well said "It's true. My relationship with my ex husband isn't going to be the same as anyone else's so why treat everyone the same? Bloody barmy  | |||
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"I guess I'm one of the threads target audience. I've always been a stray. He's always known but would never 'consent'. No guilt on my part. He definitely sees his arse over it but chooses to stick around and never questions me when I sashay out of the house with a flimsy excuse at 11pm at night. Not every story is the same. I have as much right to be here as the single singles, the couple couples and the married to other people couples. Who says you get to judge?" 
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"I guess I'm one of the threads target audience. I've always been a stray. He's always known but would never 'consent'. No guilt on my part. He definitely sees his arse over it but chooses to stick around and never questions me when I sashay out of the house with a flimsy excuse at 11pm at night. Not every story is the same. I have as much right to be here as the single singles, the couple couples and the married to other people couples. Who says you get to judge?" I'm not here to judge anyone and my thread is not aimed at anyone in particular - I'm just trying to understand that's all or maybe understand is the wrong terminology  - I've been chatting to a guy who is married and I'm possibly over thinking the situation as i normally do - but I'm just trying to i don't know understand his situation etc...
What people do with their lives is up to them....basically I'm just a nosey cow lol | |||
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"I'm sorry if I've offended anyone with this thread but that wasn't my intention at all...." I seriously wouldn't worry about it. There's been loads of similar married/cheating threads. Some people get aggro over it. Some couldn't care less. I wouldn't say your tone or questions were accusatory. | |||
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"I guess I'm one of the threads target audience. I've always been a stray. He's always known but would never 'consent'. No guilt on my part. He definitely sees his arse over it but chooses to stick around and never questions me when I sashay out of the house with a flimsy excuse at 11pm at night. Not every story is the same. I have as much right to be here as the single singles, the couple couples and the married to other people couples. Who says you get to judge?
No two relationships are the same x"If a guy admitted to that kind of cheating he'd be shredded by the women here. | |||
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"From what I have seen on the forums and browsing . If a woman does it , it is seen as ok , but if a man does it.....he is Hitler .I'm not saying there is hypocrocy going on ,but.... "actually what you are more likely to see this is the one subject where the response tends to be the same... it just that women don't tend to be as brazen, and don't grumble or make an excuse of it as much as men do on here.... | |||
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"Just wondering what it's like to be someone who is married and playing away from home without their partners knowledge/consent - do you "talk" to friend's about what you're doing? How often do you think about the person or persons that you're "playing" with? - just a little curious.... Are ya writing an article? " | |||
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"I guess I'm one of the threads target audience. I've always been a stray. He's always known but would never 'consent'. No guilt on my part. He definitely sees his arse over it but chooses to stick around and never questions me when I sashay out of the house with a flimsy excuse at 11pm at night. Not every story is the same. I have as much right to be here as the single singles, the couple couples and the married to other people couples. Who says you get to judge?
No two relationships are the same x
If a guy admitted to that kind of cheating he'd be shredded by the women here."Put in the words above, I don't think he would. What gets people riled is when excuses are made - she's not interested in sex, I want her to swing etc. It's not my husbands fault. He isn't unaware. He asked me to change my name on here recently. I misunderstood and thought he was asking me to leave Fab. He wasn't. Different circumstances. It's not men v women. | |||
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"I guess I'm one of the threads target audience. I've always been a stray. He's always known but would never 'consent'. No guilt on my part. He definitely sees his arse over it but chooses to stick around and never questions me when I sashay out of the house with a flimsy excuse at 11pm at night. Not every story is the same. I have as much right to be here as the single singles, the couple couples and the married to other people couples. Who says you get to judge? I'm not here to judge anyone and my thread is not aimed at anyone in particular - I'm just trying to understand that's all or maybe understand is the wrong terminology - I've been chatting to a guy who is married and I'm possibly over thinking the situation as i normally do - but I'm just trying to i don't know understand his situation etc...
What people do with their lives is up to them....basically I'm just a nosey cow lol"Well if your trying to understand his situation then your better off asking him!!! People stray from their relationships for all kinds of reasons and the only person who can tell you that is him. The thread sounds a little inflammatory to me, it's very much a hot topic on here and tends to cause lots of nastiness. As far as I'm concerned it's no ones else's business. If they tell you that they are attached then it's your choice wether or not to meet them. I'm positive there are a lot of people on here who don't say they are attached. In fact I've met a couple of them who I have later found out that they're in a relationship, not much you can do about it!! | |||
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"I guess I'm one of the threads target audience. I've always been a stray. He's always known but would never 'consent'. No guilt on my part. He definitely sees his arse over it but chooses to stick around and never questions me when I sashay out of the house with a flimsy excuse at 11pm at night. Not every story is the same. I have as much right to be here as the single singles, the couple couples and the married to other people couples. Who says you get to judge?
No two relationships are the same x
If a guy admitted to that kind of cheating he'd be shredded by the women here.
Put in the words above, I don't think he would. What gets people riled is when excuses are made - she's not interested in sex, I want her to swing etc. It's not my husbands fault. He isn't unaware. He asked me to change my name on here recently. I misunderstood and thought he was asking me to leave Fab. He wasn't. Different circumstances. It's not men v women. "Women don't make excuses? I've been here long enough to notice that women do get away with things that men simply wouldn't. Women don't seem to empathise with men as well as with other women and automatically put themselves in the role of the betrayed woman. Nastiness can ensue. | |||
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"You read more into that. I only mention gender as a response to the 'guy' in your comment. Your words don't fit in my mouth. My point is my comment didn't make excuses. Other posts that get ripped apart do. It isn't women v men. You can't generalise across a whole gender. " Exactly this ^^
Women don't tend to start threads about cheating they just get on with it.
I've seen both genders ripped apart over the subject. I've also seen both genders who set out to be delibrately derogatory about married cheaters on Fabs in their OP get ripped into to.
What's good for one gender in my books is good for another. If women are favoured then more fool the people for allowing them to be. | |||
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"From what I have seen on the forums and browsing . If a woman does it , it is seen as ok , but if a man does it.....he is Hitler .I'm not saying there is hypocrocy going on ,but.... " | |||
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"You read more into that. I only mention gender as a response to the 'guy' in your comment. Your words don't fit in my mouth. My point is my comment didn't make excuses. Other posts that get ripped apart do. It isn't women v men. You can't generalise across a whole gender. " I am talking across the board and not about you in particular. Just what l see. | |||
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"You read more into that. I only mention gender as a response to the 'guy' in your comment. Your words don't fit in my mouth. My point is my comment didn't make excuses. Other posts that get ripped apart do. It isn't women v men. You can't generalise across a whole gender. Exactly this ^^
Women don't tend to start threads about cheating they just get on with it.
I've seen both genders ripped apart over the subject. I've also seen both genders who set out to be delibrately derogatory about married cheaters on Fabs in their OP get ripped into to.
What's good for one gender in my books is good for another. If women are favoured then more fool the people for allowing them to be."A woman started this thread. I'm just stating what l see. It's not just me that sees it. Sycophancy prevents it from being said aloud. | |||
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"You read more into that. I only mention gender as a response to the 'guy' in your comment. Your words don't fit in my mouth. My point is my comment didn't make excuses. Other posts that get ripped apart do. It isn't women v men. You can't generalise across a whole gender. Exactly this ^^
Women don't tend to start threads about cheating they just get on with it.
I've seen both genders ripped apart over the subject. I've also seen both genders who set out to be delibrately derogatory about married cheaters on Fabs in their OP get ripped into to.
What's good for one gender in my books is good for another. If women are favoured then more fool the people for allowing them to be.
A woman started this thread.
I'm just stating what l see. It's not just me that sees it. Sycophancy prevents it from being said aloud.
"She's asking the question about others though, not herself. Her comments have been pleasant & people have interacted pretty well ~ no need for it to get all pissy. And I agree, at times, the sycophancy level displayed on here (by one & all) can be at 'pass the sick bucket level'... | |||
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"I guess I'm one of the threads target audience. I've always been a stray. He's always known but would never 'consent'. No guilt on my part. He definitely sees his arse over it but chooses to stick around and never questions me when I sashay out of the house with a flimsy excuse at 11pm at night. Not every story is the same. I have as much right to be here as the single singles, the couple couples and the married to other people couples. Who says you get to judge? I'm not here to judge anyone and my thread is not aimed at anyone in particular - I'm just trying to understand that's all or maybe understand is the wrong terminology - I've been chatting to a guy who is married and I'm possibly over thinking the situation as i normally do - but I'm just trying to i don't know understand his situation etc...
What people do with their lives is up to them....basically I'm just a nosey cow lol
Well if your trying to understand his situation then your better off asking him!!!
People stray from their relationships for all kinds of reasons and the only person who can tell you that is him.
The thread sounds a little inflammatory to me, it's very much a hot topic on here and tends to cause lots of nastiness. As far as I'm concerned it's no ones else's business.
If they tell you that they are attached then it's your choice wether or not to meet them.
I'm positive there are a lot of people on here who don't say they are attached. In fact I've met a couple of them who I have later found out that they're in a relationship, not much you can do about it!! "I in no way intended for this thread to cause any harm to anyone and i apologize if i have | |||
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