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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry me again..

Guys would you or why would you..

Start sending messages to a women you are hoping to meet.. telling her all about meets that you have had or have planned?

And even when on a meet message them telling them what you are doing etc.

Really big turn off and bit of a pain in the ass to be fair as though finally a meet but seams I'm not sure now x

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By *iverpoolad2000Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Sorry me again..

Guys would you or why would you..

Start sending messages to a women you are hoping to meet.. telling her all about meets that you have had or have planned?

And even when on a meet message them telling them what you are doing etc. I totally agree it's a massive turn off for me to ,nothing worse

Really big turn off and bit of a pain in the ass to be fair as though finally a meet but seams I'm not sure now x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry me again..

Guys would you or why would you..

Start sending messages to a women you are hoping to meet.. telling her all about meets that you have had or have planned?

And even when on a meet message them telling them what you are doing etc.

Really big turn off and bit of a pain in the ass to be fair as though finally a meet but seams I'm not sure now x "

Yes I would x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It seems odd, indiscreet and a bit creepy.

If you're not sure about someone simply don't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You would what ? Tell them about meets etc.

I can understand maybe meets that was in the passed..

Bit when you plan on meeting them in say a weeks time but they go on and on about 2 meets that they have planned befor meeting you kinds makes ya feel what the point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems odd, indiscreet and a bit creepy.

If you're not sure about someone simply don't meet them.

"

That's what I was thinking would only be a social first any way.. but just don't see why they feel the need to.. I don't want to know to be honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be really pissed off if I was with someone & they started messaging others.

Is that what you mean? If so, bang out of order imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never talk about future meets just not nice at all how does it make that person feel.

Bad I guess also any message I get I will reply to and will meet any women as you can't tell by looking at pics if you get on they could look like eliza dushku but have a bad personality and that would be me done.

Personally over looks I hate the expression your not my type yet state in profile I dont go for looks errmm really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is this person not familiar with the definition of discretion?

I'd knock it on the head, tbh as if he's doing that with you, you can be sure he will be talking about meeting you to other people too...

its not on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he's trying to make himself look desirable by telling you about the meets he has planned, probably full of shit anyway.

I don't even like seeing pictures of them with past conquests so if they tried telling me of future meets I'd say I don't wanna know.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

I would most definetly be sure.

Be sure they where someone i wouldnt want to meet.

One of my things is judging people how they speak/have acted with previous meets. If they have no respect for them i can be sure they would have no respect for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fefinitely wouldnt tell.

I would hope i would appeal to the woman by virtue of who i am and not what i did. Besides isnt this a breach of confidence?

Its best to start off discreet and remain discreet as this builds trust. It maybe also reassuring yo my potential meet that i can use my oral skills on her rather than use them to spread details about her.

In short telling others is a definite no no for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all.. glad I'm not the only one that though this..

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all.. glad I'm not the only one that though this..

Xx"

Omg I'd go mental lol

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Crawley Down

Unless the person you intend to eventually meet up with likes to hear you during a meet (like some couples do, when meeting without their partners), why on earth would you even think that is ok.

People will have been heading for the delete button long before my post.

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