Spontaneous, raunchy unplanned

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

sex... well.. that is what I like. So I put to the members of the forum how that is actually possible in the swinging scene. Now dont get me wrong, I love swinging scene, like Chams.. but the one ingredient I miss (and only really ever experienced this with one man who is full of surprises..) that ingredient is spontaneity... unplanned, unpredictable sex... Over to you guys and dolls.. put some thought in.. I need some answers, please

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

Spontaneity, by definition, is always going to be difficult to achieve in a swinging context. There's almost certainly going to have to be an element of planning in swing type meets and the simple business of arranging suggests an element of inevitability (ie we both know why we're doing this).

What's great, when it works, is that kind of meeting where you're with someone new and you're both a bit unsure how the evening (or afternoon!) will end. At some point there's that Michelangelo's Hand of God moment where the South Bank Show electricity either passes across or it doesn't. When it works it doesn't get much better than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmmm

difficult scenario really

like jim says. its often difficult in the swinging scene as we all know whats hopefully gonna happen !!!

im lucky in that the guy thats my regular fb, knows exactly what to do to make things happen

and its soooooooooo lovely.

hope to meet others that "rock my boat"

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