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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Assuming you aren't one of course

I want to start by saying this thread isn't a shallow 'looks are everything' statement, I very much value and believe that a person needs to be beautiful on the inside too, it's simply that I find this particular question of beauty and why we value it fascinating, especially as pertaining to sex.

Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be someone who many would say, is 9/10 or more when it comes to being blessed with physical attractiveness?

Someone who is simply one of life's' beautiful people, the opposite sex has always paid you attention, when you were a kid lots of other boys/girls fancied you, perhaps as a teen you had your own little fan club at school (it happens!), maybe your name came up on the 'most fanciable in year 9' ballots the cool girls used to do, the other recognised hot people wanted to hang out with you, all that stuff most of us are probably familiar with, we simply witnessed it from the outside, quietly wishing we were held in such high regard.

I just wonder what that must be like, to just naturally be able to win people over like that? When such a woman goes about her daily life, how does she feel? Does she known how many heads turn and watch her? Does she feel comfortable? Is she even aware of the attention? How do people respond to her when she does ordinary things, like take her shopping to the counter and says hi?

And those people, pretty much always women, who find themselves right at the top of the most fabbed...do they ever consider and appreciate just how unusually blessed they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Grabs the popcorn and sits back to watch the show]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a close friend like this and it was as much a curse as a blessing because of the envy and jealousy it creates.

It is a testament to her personality that she remains humble to this day, and hasn't let the negative energy make her cynical or bitter.

To be beautiful both inside and out really is a gift x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm interesting one op. I dont honestly wonder no. The reason being im the ugly duckling in my family ive always been the ugly or fat friend. But tbh my skin was always crawling by the behaviour of some people towards those i was with. I dont think its somethig people do conciously but id rather blend into the background.

At the end of the day inagine if they did rely on their beauty that some may do...well it wont always be there. Also what if they hate it what if they would like less attention? Its probably not greener on that side.

Do you know what it reminds me of? Finding a meet on here i get on with and have chemistry with. It sometimes feels like some men will say anything because i have a vagina. It may be nsa but thats just not for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming you aren't one of course

I want to start by saying this thread isn't a shallow 'looks are everything' statement, I very much value and believe that a person needs to be beautiful on the inside too, it's simply that I find this particular question of beauty and why we value it fascinating, especially as pertaining to sex.

Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be someone who many would say, is 9/10 or more when it comes to being blessed with physical attractiveness?

Someone who is simply one of life's' beautiful people, the opposite sex has always paid you attention, when you were a kid lots of other boys/girls fancied you, perhaps as a teen you had your own little fan club at school (it happens!), maybe your name came up on the 'most fanciable in year 9' ballots the cool girls used to do, the other recognised hot people wanted to hang out with you, all that stuff most of us are probably familiar with, we simply witnessed it from the outside, quietly wishing we were held in such high regard.

I just wonder what that must be like, to just naturally be able to win people over like that? When such a woman goes about her daily life, how does she feel? Does she known how many heads turn and watch her? Does she feel comfortable? Is she even aware of the attention? How do people respond to her when she does ordinary things, like take her shopping to the counter and says hi?

And those people, pretty much always women, who find themselves right at the top of the most fabbed...do they ever consider and appreciate just how unusually blessed they are?"

I was an ugly duckling but turned into a beautiful swan

Being attractive has as many drawbacks as positives. Attention isnt always welcome. Men can be intimidated. Especially if you have brains too

I would be an 8/10 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is hard for me being gorgeous

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I woud think being super goodlooking would of only enhanced my life if i had wanted to be in the fashion industry, model or such like which i havent.

Oh unless these good looks can stop you suffering pain and suffering in life like everyone goes through.

I have one friend such as you described op, shes just finished her last course of radiotherapy having had breast cancer. Theres a damn sight more to life than being physically beautiful

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think most people assume that their normal is everyone's normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I woud think being super goodlooking would of only enhanced my life if i had wanted to be in the fashion industry, model or such like which i havent.

Oh unless these good looks can stop you suffering pain and suffering in life like everyone goes through.

I have one friend such as you described op, shes just finished her last course of radiotherapy having had breast cancer. Theres a damn sight more to life than being physically beautiful"

l think aging would be harder and the fall from grace would be too hard too take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its no good being a good looking nothing....as my mum used to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find it offending at times tbh.

As often people do not search to understand the man behind the look.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I woud think being super goodlooking would of only enhanced my life if i had wanted to be in the fashion industry, model or such like which i havent.

Oh unless these good looks can stop you suffering pain and suffering in life like everyone goes through.

I have one friend such as you described op, shes just finished her last course of radiotherapy having had breast cancer. Theres a damn sight more to life than being physically beautiful

l think aging would be harder and the fall from grace would be too hard too take."

I don't agree, you're equating beauty with youth and plenty of physically beautiful people remain beautiful into old age. I don't understand why you think of aging as a fall from grace either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're are always someones 9/10 it's just finding those someones...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Grabs the popcorn and sits back to watch the show]"

Don't you have anything better to do?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

My monkey is on page 3 at the moment,I'm blessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming you aren't one of course

I want to start by saying this thread isn't a shallow 'looks are everything' statement, I very much value and believe that a person needs to be beautiful on the inside too, it's simply that I find this particular question of beauty and why we value it fascinating, especially as pertaining to sex.

Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be someone who many would say, is 9/10 or more when it comes to being blessed with physical attractiveness?

Someone who is simply one of life's' beautiful people, the opposite sex has always paid you attention, when you were a kid lots of other boys/girls fancied you, perhaps as a teen you had your own little fan club at school (it happens!), maybe your name came up on the 'most fanciable in year 9' ballots the cool girls used to do, the other recognised hot people wanted to hang out with you, all that stuff most of us are probably familiar with, we simply witnessed it from the outside, quietly wishing we were held in such high regard.

I just wonder what that must be like, to just naturally be able to win people over like that? When such a woman goes about her daily life, how does she feel? Does she known how many heads turn and watch her? Does she feel comfortable? Is she even aware of the attention? How do people respond to her when she does ordinary things, like take her shopping to the counter and says hi?

And those people, pretty much always women, who find themselves right at the top of the most fabbed...do they ever consider and appreciate just how unusually blessed they are?"

I don't personally consider the women at the top of the most fabbed to be particularly beautiful and I don't think that's why they're up there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the super good looking girls I know from school are no longer beautiful on the outside and they never were beautiful on the inside either

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody can choose how they look but sometimes it seems that beauty is resented by people as if somehow beautiful people must be nasty in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Grabs the popcorn and sits back to watch the show]

Don't you have anything better to do? "

Now that you mention it, I can think of a couple of things actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew someone in high school like this. But she was completely down to earth and didn't realize she was everyone's 10. So for the most part, she was normal becaue that's how she saw herself.

I personally don't wonder what its like to be like that. And I'm happy as me.

Interesting topic, as usual, though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming you aren't one of course

I want to start by saying this thread isn't a shallow 'looks are everything' statement, I very much value and believe that a person needs to be beautiful on the inside too, it's simply that I find this particular question of beauty and why we value it fascinating, especially as pertaining to sex.

Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be someone who many would say, is 9/10 or more when it comes to being blessed with physical attractiveness?

Someone who is simply one of life's' beautiful people, the opposite sex has always paid you attention, when you were a kid lots of other boys/girls fancied you, perhaps as a teen you had your own little fan club at school (it happens!), maybe your name came up on the 'most fanciable in year 9' ballots the cool girls used to do, the other recognised hot people wanted to hang out with you, all that stuff most of us are probably familiar with, we simply witnessed it from the outside, quietly wishing we were held in such high regard.

I just wonder what that must be like, to just naturally be able to win people over like that? When such a woman goes about her daily life, how does she feel? Does she known how many heads turn and watch her? Does she feel comfortable? Is she even aware of the attention? How do people respond to her when she does ordinary things, like take her shopping to the counter and says hi?

And those people, pretty much always women, who find themselves right at the top of the most fabbed...do they ever consider and appreciate just how unusually blessed they are?

I don't personally consider the women at the top of the most fabbed to be particularly beautiful and I don't think that's why they're up there. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming you aren't one of course

I want to start by saying this thread isn't a shallow 'looks are everything' statement, I very much value and believe that a person needs to be beautiful on the inside too, it's simply that I find this particular question of beauty and why we value it fascinating, especially as pertaining to sex.

Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be someone who many would say, is 9/10 or more when it comes to being blessed with physical attractiveness?

Someone who is simply one of life's' beautiful people, the opposite sex has always paid you attention, when you were a kid lots of other boys/girls fancied you, perhaps as a teen you had your own little fan club at school (it happens!), maybe your name came up on the 'most fanciable in year 9' ballots the cool girls used to do, the other recognised hot people wanted to hang out with you, all that stuff most of us are probably familiar with, we simply witnessed it from the outside, quietly wishing we were held in such high regard.

I just wonder what that must be like, to just naturally be able to win people over like that? When such a woman goes about her daily life, how does she feel? Does she known how many heads turn and watch her? Does she feel comfortable? Is she even aware of the attention? How do people respond to her when she does ordinary things, like take her shopping to the counter and says hi?

And those people, pretty much always women, who find themselves right at the top of the most fabbed...do they ever consider and appreciate just how unusually blessed they are?"

Being beautiful does not make one blessed. Not always.

How shallow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I woud think being super goodlooking would of only enhanced my life if i had wanted to be in the fashion industry, model or such like which i havent.

Oh unless these good looks can stop you suffering pain and suffering in life like everyone goes through.

I have one friend such as you described op, shes just finished her last course of radiotherapy having had breast cancer. Theres a damn sight more to life than being physically beautiful

l think aging would be harder and the fall from grace would be too hard too take.

I don't agree, you're equating beauty with youth and plenty of physically beautiful people remain beautiful into old age. I don't understand why you think of aging as a fall from grace either.

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l don't think it is. But many beautiful people seem too in this culture that puts a lot of value on youth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I'm glad I'm n9t that great looking.

Sounds silly but it's true.

At least if someone likes me, it'll be because of who I really am, rather than going for looks.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Most of the super good looking girls I know from school are no longer beautiful on the outside and they never were beautiful on the inside either "

This is so true! And the coolest bloke is now a minus 10! X

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham

I knew a guy who was 6ft 3 and ridiculously handsome it was great to go out with him as we all acted as plover birds for him

I often wondered what it felt like to be him

A girl thumped him once because he didn't want to kiss her

I also know an impossibly good looking girl who gets plenty of stares plenty of comments but remarkably few chat to her - she also encounters savage jealousy

I'm just glad I get to perve on her whilst remaining a gentleman of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen a couple of people mention these beautiful people being the target of jealousy - how does this manifest though?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I woud think being super goodlooking would of only enhanced my life if i had wanted to be in the fashion industry, model or such like which i havent.

Oh unless these good looks can stop you suffering pain and suffering in life like everyone goes through.

I have one friend such as you described op, shes just finished her last course of radiotherapy having had breast cancer. Theres a damn sight more to life than being physically beautiful

l think aging would be harder and the fall from grace would be too hard too take.

I don't agree, you're equating beauty with youth and plenty of physically beautiful people remain beautiful into old age. I don't understand why you think of aging as a fall from grace either.

l don't think it is. But many beautiful people seem too in this culture that puts a lot of value on youth."
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I see, I agree our culture puts a lot of value on youth.

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham


"I've seen a couple of people mention these beautiful people being the target of jealousy - how does this manifest though?"

The gorgeous girl I know will have open insults with girls saying who does she think she is etc

And wobetide if their boyfriends so much look at her - which is hard work because you cannot help but look at her haha

We had a nasty incident in a kebab house where it was thought I could only be a lottery winner or comments as if she eats kebabs

She still enjoys coming round for dinner and big fat desserts

I'm happy she does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a couple of people mention these beautiful people being the target of jealousy - how does this manifest though?"

really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a couple of people mention these beautiful people being the target of jealousy - how does this manifest though?"

no idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen a couple of people mention these beautiful people being the target of jealousy - how does this manifest though?

The gorgeous girl I know will have open insults with girls saying who does she think she is etc

And wobetide if their boyfriends so much look at her - which is hard work because you cannot help but look at her haha

We had a nasty incident in a kebab house where it was thought I could only be a lottery winner or comments as if she eats kebabs

She still enjoys coming round for dinner and big fat desserts

I'm happy she does"

It's fascinating though isn't it, how someone can generate such strong emotions in people, simply based on the appeal of their features. Then again, perhaps the women in question are oblivious to it, it's simply how things have always been to them (assuming in this case they were always considered beautiful, rather than late bloomers).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sexybrain

are you a plant?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sexybrain

are you a plant? "

How do you mean, like a market researcher?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sexybrain

are you a plant?

How do you mean, like a market researcher?"

or a failed comedian/journalist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eight years ago I. Used to go out and be able to get numbers all night I was 13 Stone now I am 17 stone was 19 stone 13 in Jan people laugh as i walk past.

The same women I fucked before now pass me in the street and laugh now but when I was less weight we fucked often.

The more a man weighs the more they are judged sadly. Before anyone says that's just some women challenge straight male couple or women meet me in a pub and watch as I get a drink multiple people just laugh.

Now that can't be just certain people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen personally, and pretty close up, one of the so called 'beautiful people', walking up Oxford Road in Manchester with her boyfriend, a number of years ago...

I was with my mum and we were going to see a performance of the billy fury story at the Palace Theatre, and we had just got off the tram at St Peters Square and were walking down Oxford Road towards the theatre..

As we got closer I thought I recognised the boyfriend but her face was partially covered by one of those cowl necked jumpers which she had deliberately pulled up, but it didn't stop me seeing the acne pock marks on her cheeks..but all that was really visible was her long blonde hair and blue eyes...and I also noticed how short she was with trainers on...

As we all got closer, he smiled at me so I smiled back and then we all passed each other ..I then turned round, just in time to hear him say to her 'wow, what lovely tall lady' and she agreed with him...

At that point my mum, bless her, made rather a loud comment about his unusually white teeth and I had to drag her away....

he looked familiar, she said..who was it? David Copperfield and his then girlfriend Claudia Schiffer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see, I agree our culture puts a lot of value on youth."

For the record, you are beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen personally, and pretty close up, one of the so called 'beautiful people', walking up Oxford Road in Manchester with her boyfriend, a number of years ago...

I was with my mum and we were going to see a performance of the billy fury story at the Palace Theatre, and we had just got off the tram at St Peters Square and were walking down Oxford Road towards the theatre..

As we got closer I thought I recognised the boyfriend but her face was partially covered by one of those cowl necked jumpers which she had deliberately pulled up, but it didn't stop me seeing the acne pock marks on her cheeks..but all that was really visible was her long blonde hair and blue eyes...and I also noticed how short she was with trainers on...

As we all got closer, he smiled at me so I smiled back and then we all passed each other ..I then turned round, just in time to hear him say to her 'wow, what lovely tall lady' and she agreed with him...

At that point my mum, bless her, made rather a loud comment about his unusually white teeth and I had to drag her away....

he looked familiar, she said..who was it? David Copperfield and his then girlfriend Claudia Schiffer "

wowee

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's tough at the top - the only way is down. And most people who want you are of a different world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose another interesting question would be, even if such a person was fully aware of their desirability, would they really care for or value the output of desire from so many around them?

If they've known that kind of unsolicited kindness and affection all their lives, what would they deem particularly special about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so looking forward to this post then I read "assuming you're ain't one of course"

Being gorgeous I'm discriminated from the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose another interesting question would be, even if such a person was fully aware of their desirability, would they really care for or value the output of desire from so many around them?

If they've known that kind of unsolicited kindness and affection all their lives, what would they deem particularly special about it?"

I would think that only the beautiful people could answer your question OP, and as there are none on here....you might be waiting a while for your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was so looking forward to this post then I read "assuming you're ain't one of course"

Being gorgeous I'm discriminated from the start "

never assume, innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're are always someones 9/10 it's just finding those someones..."

I like this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was so looking forward to this post then I read "assuming you're ain't one of course"

Being gorgeous I'm discriminated from the start "

Lucas your pics look rather good so for a moment I assumed you might just fit the bill, then I noticed you've been here 6 months and not yet had a meet - the sort of guy I'm thinking of would surely be beset by offers from particularly lovely women and couples (I notice sometimes a circle of BBC guys who do the rounds on some profiles).


"I suppose another interesting question would be, even if such a person was fully aware of their desirability, would they really care for or value the output of desire from so many around them?

If they've known that kind of unsolicited kindness and affection all their lives, what would they deem particularly special about it?

I would think that only the beautiful people could answer your question OP, and as there are none on here....you might be waiting a while for your answer "

When you say none on here, is that your own honest opinion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're are always someones 9/10 it's just finding those someones...

I like this. "

Just out of curiosity Specs, what am I, honestly?

You don't have to try and impress me...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I suppose another interesting question would be, even if such a person was fully aware of their desirability, would they really care for or value the output of desire from so many around them?

If they've known that kind of unsolicited kindness and affection all their lives, what would they deem particularly special about it?"
why are you associating kindness and affection with beauty. You was on about being attractive and people helping you in shops ect.

If your talking about attracting kindness and affection then i will give myself a big fat 9/10 as ive attracted some amazing people in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was so looking forward to this post then I read "assuming you're ain't one of course"

Being gorgeous I'm discriminated from the start

Lucas your pics look rather good so for a moment I assumed you might just fit the bill, then I noticed you've been here 6 months and not yet had a meet - the sort of guy I'm thinking of would surely be beset by offers from particularly lovely women and couples (I notice sometimes a circle of BBC guys who do the rounds on some profiles).

I suppose another interesting question would be, even if such a person was fully aware of their desirability, would they really care for or value the output of desire from so many around them?

If they've known that kind of unsolicited kindness and affection all their lives, what would they deem particularly special about it?

I would think that only the beautiful people could answer your question OP, and as there are none on here....you might be waiting a while for your answer

When you say none on here, is that your own honest opinion?"

no OP, I was being facetious hence the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go and ask Liam, he could probably tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was so looking forward to this post then I read "assuming you're ain't one of course"

Being gorgeous I'm discriminated from the start

Lucas your pics look rather good so for a moment I assumed you might just fit the bill, then I noticed you've been here 6 months and not yet had a meet - the sort of guy I'm thinking of would surely be beset by offers from particularly lovely women and couples (I notice sometimes a circle of BBC guys who do the rounds on some profiles)."

Who said I'm not inundated with offers?

I definitely cannot complain about the amount of interest I am getting, especially from couples. I turn down vast majority of the people as I either do not meet their 'type' according to their profile or they do not meet mine (I don't meet couples).

And yes I do sometimes message the single females who wink messages me that I'm not what they're looking for, it would be rather stupid for me to just meet them for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're are always someones 9/10 it's just finding those someones...

I like this.

Just out of curiosity Specs, what am I, honestly?

You don't have to try and impress me..."

Well honestly. ..from chatting with you i think your certainly an honest and decent man. I'm not going to give you a number out of 10 but I certainly enjoy the chats we've had and your a very handsome chap too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was so looking forward to this post then I read "assuming you're ain't one of course"

Being gorgeous I'm discriminated from the start

Lucas your pics look rather good so for a moment I assumed you might just fit the bill, then I noticed you've been here 6 months and not yet had a meet - the sort of guy I'm thinking of would surely be beset by offers from particularly lovely women and couples (I notice sometimes a circle of BBC guys who do the rounds on some profiles).

Who said I'm not inundated with offers?

I definitely cannot complain about the amount of interest I am getting, especially from couples. I turn down vast majority of the people as I either do not meet their 'type' according to their profile or they do not meet mine (I don't meet couples).

And yes I do sometimes message the single females who wink messages me that I'm not what they're looking for, it would be rather stupid for me to just meet them for the sake of it."

But my original post was a joke, I do not think of myself as one of the people you described, I do still think I'm gorgeous though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am that guy.

Open for questions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're are always someones 9/10 it's just finding those someones...

I like this.

Just out of curiosity Specs, what am I, honestly?

You don't have to try and impress me...

Well honestly. ..from chatting with you i think your certainly an honest and decent man. I'm not going to give you a number out of 10 but I certainly enjoy the chats we've had and your a very handsome chap too. "

Aww thankyou!

'An honest and decent man' lol, one of the most oddly endearing compliments anyone's ever paid me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am that guy.

Open for questions "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyone else

all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am that guy.

Open for questions "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP, but I'm getting the impression you think you're one of these beautiful people or you're hoping someone is going to say you're one of the beautiful people.

That's how it comes across to me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been trying to work out what to say on this thread & for the 1st time in ages I'm lost for words.

However, I will say being gorgeous is subjective & doesn't always mean you are the most popular person in the room.

I don't want to put people down who are regulars on hot pics but when does getting your intimate parts out on a sex site equate to being gorgeous ~ I don't understand your logic. Sexy, maybe, gorgeous, hmmmm...jury's out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry OP, but I'm getting the impression you think you're one of these beautiful people or you're hoping someone is going to say you're one of the beautiful people.

That's how it comes across to me anyway.

"

l never got that vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry OP, but I'm getting the impression you think you're one of these beautiful people or you're hoping someone is going to say you're one of the beautiful people.

That's how it comes across to me anyway.

l never got that vibe."

That's good, it was just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been trying to work out what to say on this thread & for the 1st time in ages I'm lost for words.

However, I will say being gorgeous is subjective & doesn't always mean you are the most popular person in the room.

I don't want to put people down who are regulars on hot pics but when does getting your intimate parts out on a sex site equate to being gorgeous ~ I don't understand your logic. Sexy, maybe, gorgeous, hmmmm...jury's out."

lt changes through time too. You see those old pics of 'beauties' from when the camera was first invented and they are not what l'd consider beauty queens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry OP, but I'm getting the impression you think you're one of these beautiful people or you're hoping someone is going to say you're one of the beautiful people.

That's how it comes across to me anyway.

l never got that vibe.

That's good, it was just my opinion "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with the make up that is out there now, and ways of applying it, anyone can be 'beautiful'.

you can definitely get away with a lot more if people find you attractive though, because people will overlook certain things that in others they would not, just to have the pleasure of knowing you. i have exploited this at times. and i'm not even that good looking really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been trying to work out what to say on this thread & for the 1st time in ages I'm lost for words.

However, I will say being gorgeous is subjective & doesn't always mean you are the most popular person in the room.

I don't want to put people down who are regulars on hot pics but when does getting your intimate parts out on a sex site equate to being gorgeous ~ I don't understand your logic. Sexy, maybe, gorgeous, hmmmm...jury's out.

lt changes through time too. You see those old pics of 'beauties' from when the camera was first invented and they are not what l'd consider beauty queens."

which just goes to show that beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me, being facially beautiful its hard because I am waiting for the rest of my body to catch up...

In all seriousness though, we probably all look different through the eyes of someone else. There'll always be someone more / less beautiful than ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some stunning people to look at but as soon as they show there inner soul they become ugly due to the way they act.

True beauty is hard thing to describe as we all know that one person who isn't classed as stunning by trend but they have that way and Pureness that makes them attractive.

Me myself I was blessed with a amazing personality and mind stunning looks but the down side to that is I get hourds of women trying to ride my mind blowing body like a hire bike when all I want to do is talk about feelings and stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol, perhaps I'd just have to do some sort of Louis Theroux documentary on the worlds most beautiful people and the lives they lead (I'd imagine it would probably look a bit Game of Thrones-ish )

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Lol, perhaps I'd just have to do some sort of Louis Theroux documentary on the worlds most beautiful people and the lives they lead (I'd imagine it would probably look a bit Game of Thrones-ish )"
how would you do that though. Would you base that on percieved beauty or natural beauty. What if the most naturally beautiful women lived in a third world country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, perhaps I'd just have to do some sort of Louis Theroux documentary on the worlds most beautiful people and the lives they lead (I'd imagine it would probably look a bit Game of Thrones-ish )"

you've a lot of thinking to do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been trying to work out what to say on this thread & for the 1st time in ages I'm lost for words.

However, I will say being gorgeous is subjective & doesn't always mean you are the most popular person in the room.

I don't want to put people down who are regulars on hot pics but when does getting your intimate parts out on a sex site equate to being gorgeous ~ I don't understand your logic. Sexy, maybe, gorgeous, hmmmm...jury's out.

lt changes through time too. You see those old pics of 'beauties' from when the camera was first invented and they are not what l'd consider beauty queens.

which just goes to show that beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder..."

Or in the eye if the society of the time ellipsis ellipsis ellipsis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol, perhaps I'd just have to do some sort of Louis Theroux documentary on the worlds most beautiful people and the lives they lead (I'd imagine it would probably look a bit Game of Thrones-ish )how would you do that though. Would you base that on percieved beauty or natural beauty. What if the most naturally beautiful women lived in a third world country"

Now that would make for an absolutely incredible documentary when you think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt like anything you have described; I've never envied anyone for being in the "popular" group. I used to talk to anyone and everyone at school.

I've never given it a thought about who,or how many people thought I was attractive. I was oblivious, and even when someone made a remark about my attractiveness it didn't matter to me.

As for most fabbed pics,they are just ordinary women,from what I can see,who have a big following on a website. Not forgetting,good with filters, photoshop and make up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been the ugly one so I cannot relate.

I do however, know a few like this. Majority were the bitches you would run a mile from because they make your life a misery just because you are not skinny or beautiful like they are. From what I know they haven't got far in life though.

One however was as nice on the inside as she was pretty on the outside. Went on to modelling but has maintained the person that she is.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Assuming you aren't one of course

I want to start by saying this thread isn't a shallow 'looks are everything' statement, I very much value and believe that a person needs to be beautiful on the inside too, it's simply that I find this particular question of beauty and why we value it fascinating, especially as pertaining to sex.

Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be someone who many would say, is 9/10 or more when it comes to being blessed with physical attractiveness?

Someone who is simply one of life's' beautiful people, the opposite sex has always paid you attention, when you were a kid lots of other boys/girls fancied you, perhaps as a teen you had your own little fan club at school (it happens!), maybe your name came up on the 'most fanciable in year 9' ballots the cool girls used to do, the other recognised hot people wanted to hang out with you, all that stuff most of us are probably familiar with, we simply witnessed it from the outside, quietly wishing we were held in such high regard.

I just wonder what that must be like, to just naturally be able to win people over like that? When such a woman goes about her daily life, how does she feel? Does she known how many heads turn and watch her? Does she feel comfortable? Is she even aware of the attention? How do people respond to her when she does ordinary things, like take her shopping to the counter and says hi?

And those people, pretty much always women, who find themselves right at the top of the most fabbed...do they ever consider and appreciate just how unusually blessed they are?"

Have you ever had a one night stand,based solely on the criteria of how beautiful that person is on the inside,

hmmmmmmm,I'm having some doubts here.

For some the only indication they have of their own attractiveness,

is the jealousy they receive,

even from their closest friends.

That said,it's still fucking brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always amazes me how my wife can win a person over in seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming you aren't one of course

I want to start by saying this thread isn't a shallow 'looks are everything' statement, I very much value and believe that a person needs to be beautiful on the inside too, it's simply that I find this particular question of beauty and why we value it fascinating, especially as pertaining to sex.

FairPlay 2 the cpl above.

Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be someone who many would say, is 9/10 or more when it comes to being blessed with physical attractiveness?

Someone who is simply one of life's' beautiful people, the opposite sex has always paid you attention, when you were a kid lots of other boys/girls fancied you, perhaps as a teen you had your own little fan club at school (it happens!), maybe your name came up on the 'most fanciable in year 9' ballots the cool girls used to do, the other recognised hot people wanted to hang out with you, all that stuff most of us are probably familiar with, we simply witnessed it from the outside, quietly wishing we were held in such high regard.

I just wonder what that must be like, to just naturally be able to win people over like that? When such a woman goes about her daily life, how does she feel? Does she known how many heads turn and watch her? Does she feel comfortable? Is she even aware of the attention? How do people respond to her when she does ordinary things, like take her shopping to the counter and says hi?

And those people, pretty much always women, who find themselves right at the top of the most fabbed...do they ever consider and appreciate just how unusually blessed they are?

Have you ever had a one night stand,based solely on the criteria of how beautiful that person is on the inside,

hmmmmmmm,I'm having some doubts here.

For some the only indication they have of their own attractiveness,

is the jealousy they receive,

even from their closest friends.

That said,it's still fucking brilliant.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had this problem lol, as a 'grey man' I simply blend in to the normal background of life. Maybe I should make more of an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who are most beautiful : those who don't know how attractive they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assuming you aren't one of course

I want to start by saying this thread isn't a shallow 'looks are everything' statement, I very much value and believe that a person needs to be beautiful on the inside too, it's simply that I find this particular question of beauty and why we value it fascinating, especially as pertaining to sex.

Do you ever wonder what it would be like to be someone who many would say, is 9/10 or more when it comes to being blessed with physical attractiveness?

Someone who is simply one of life's' beautiful people, the opposite sex has always paid you attention, when you were a kid lots of other boys/girls fancied you, perhaps as a teen you had your own little fan club at school (it happens!), maybe your name came up on the 'most fanciable in year 9' ballots the cool girls used to do, the other recognised hot people wanted to hang out with you, all that stuff most of us are probably familiar with, we simply witnessed it from the outside, quietly wishing we were held in such high regard.

I just wonder what that must be like, to just naturally be able to win people over like that? When such a woman goes about her daily life, how does she feel? Does she known how many heads turn and watch her? Does she feel comfortable? Is she even aware of the attention? How do people respond to her when she does ordinary things, like take her shopping to the counter and says hi?

And those people, pretty much always women, who find themselves right at the top of the most fabbed...do they ever consider and appreciate just how unusually blessed they are?"

To be honest I'm happy with my life the way it is

I have everything I want in it and being one of life gorgeous people wouldn't improve it in any way

I worked hard for everything I have it wasn't handed to me in a plate because of my looks and I'm proud of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter is gorgeous on the inside and on the outside and shes oblivious to it all

People just adore her and im blessed that im her mam

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm detecting a bit of an air of hostility toward the kind of people I'm describing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard at times but I cope

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I'm detecting a bit of an air of hostility toward the kind of people I'm describing?"

Everybody would rather be ugly on the outside,and gorgeous on the inside.

Aye right.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I have mixed feelings about it, usually depending on how I'm feeling myself at the time.

As a teen I wasn't beautiful but I was attractive, slim and busty. I got more attention than I wanted and, as I was quite shy, it made me feel very uncomfortable.

I don't know what life would be like if it was the same now. It's a moot point.

I do have something of a mental block about losing weight though and I'm prone to self-sabotage. In a way staying fat is a form of protection against the attention I found so uncomfortable.

Of course, I find being fat uncomfortable too, in different ways.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

90% of the time i've found naturally stunning females, the females that simply dont have to try to have the more appealing personalities. They're used to being stunning so have grown up with it.

In my experience the not so appealing personalities are usually from synthetic beauty and connected ills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm detecting a bit of an air of hostility toward the kind of people I'm describing?"

Lets face it you can detect almost anything you want in these threads.. but only if you go looking for it....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm detecting a bit of an air of hostility toward the kind of people I'm describing?"

Beautiful people?

No, I don't feel hostile, unless they're vile people with it. I don't feel jealous, though occasionally I'm a little envious.

It's not as though I'm not blessed in different ways and I try to remember that.

Of course, a lot of guys can't see past my belly to my brain but plenty can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life certainly might be like that in high school and early adult life but when a bit of life experience kicks in it all changes and looks become less important

True there has to be an initial attraction but i cant be the only one who talks to people and as their personality comes through i find them less or more attractive depending on what theyre like as a person

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has there been any non-tongue in cheek response from a gorgeous person yet?

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

My niece is beautiful as in drop dead stunning she's modelled since she was 5. The amount of hostility and nastiness she gets from other girls and has done since she was at school is awful which is a shame as she's one of the sweetest people I know. People often presume that because she looks the way she does she's a bitch or shallow when it couldn't be further from the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend who still pole dances at 50.

She's absolutely beautiful because

she's one of the sweetest, kindest, most patient people I've ever met.

Others I've known who are perceived to be beautiful don't appear so to me, they are too concerned only for their own needs being met, no time for others.

This I do believe would have been the case if they weren't beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very beautiful on the inside

looks fade with age

inner beauty just growns stronger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has there been any non-tongue in cheek response from a gorgeous person yet?"

I'm of the opinion that such an individual would be so inundated on here they probably wouldn't have time for the forums, ok sure they may appreciate the social aspect, but I'd image if such a person wanted to socialise, there'd be no shortage of venues gladly willing to have them in attendance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has there been any non-tongue in cheek response from a gorgeous person yet?

I'm of the opinion that such an individual would be so inundated on here they probably wouldn't have time for the forums, ok sure they may appreciate the social aspect, but I'd image if such a person wanted to socialise, there'd be no shortage of venues gladly willing to have them in attendance. "

utter twaddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has there been any non-tongue in cheek response from a gorgeous person yet?"

Can I help you?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Has there been any non-tongue in cheek response from a gorgeous person yet?

I'm of the opinion that such an individual would be so inundated on here they probably wouldn't have time for the forums, ok sure they may appreciate the social aspect, but I'd image if such a person wanted to socialise, there'd be no shortage of venues gladly willing to have them in attendance. "
lol

You do have some strange ideas.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"Has there been any non-tongue in cheek response from a gorgeous person yet?

I'm of the opinion that such an individual would be so inundated on here they probably wouldn't have time for the forums, ok sure they may appreciate the social aspect, but I'd image if such a person wanted to socialise, there'd be no shortage of venues gladly willing to have them in attendance. "

Yes i imagine so.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I can't talk about looks Op and how being good looking can effect your out look on life and other people but I can talk about being popular .

As a teenager I was captain of the school rugby team for a year until I damaged my knee ligaments .I was also always put in charge on out door field trips in outdoor pursuits classes .

This meant in charge when canoeing down river with no teacher around ( different times health and safety would have a field day now )

Orienteering no teachers around I was put in charge in the cadets I was a squad leader .

Age of twenty I was the foreman in charge of older men than me .

All my life I've been deemed a natural leader at school when I started work .

All I can say is this I never asked to be put in charge but it has always been offered to me I always excepted but for a few years in my early teens when I went off the rails .

I went off the rails for a couple of reasons but one of them was to do with the pressure of expectation I rebelled against it you see I was expected to lead I was expect to act and react in a certain way hence me always being put in charge .

I just wanted to be like everyone else have no expectations on my young shoulders this lead me to making some serious mistakes for two years .

I tried to rebel against who I naturally was I think a good looking person faces similar demons around expectations placed upon them by those who view them as good looking .

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"I'm detecting a bit of an air of hostility toward the kind of people I'm describing?

Everybody would rather be ugly on the outside,and gorgeous on the inside.

Aye right.

"

Not me though, i would rather be gorgeous so i could marry someone like rod stewart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who merges into the background, I've actually wondered similar myself. I think that just for once I'd like to be that woman that walks into a room and everyone looks...to be that woman that men fall over themselves to chat to. Just once. Just so I know how it feels....then go back to my safe background.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've known plenty of people I consider gorgeous over the years. In most cases they were unaware they were gorgeous so it didn't affect then in the slightest. One of my female relatives is absolutely stunning. She has no clue she is beautiful and for years I have seen men try and butter her up and women get catty with her because they view her as a threat. So I don't think it's made her life any easier; in fact quite the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm detecting a bit of an air of hostility toward the kind of people I'm describing?"

No I don't think you are.

Some are giving examples of what gorgeous means to them, some don't understand your logic & some are posting their own thing.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Life is like a box of chocolates...

You never know what you're gonna get....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is like a box of chocolates...

You never know what you're gonna get....

"

You do if you read the menu

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Life is like a box of chocolates...

You never know what you're gonna get....

You do if you read the menu "

I think you possibly missed the point I was trying to make...

Or maybe you didn't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is like a box of chocolates...

You never know what you're gonna get....

You do if you read the menu

I think you possibly missed the point I was trying to make...

Or maybe you didn't... "

I don't miss much

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Interesting post and answers.

I've never been interested in being popular (good job really ) Same as I've never been one to get lots of attention in real life. I've always blended into the background and I'm happy with that.

One of my friends is truely beautiful, yet she doesn't realise it at all. She has always been that way, despite always getting attention when we go out. She is one of the nicest and down to earth people I know. I should really dislike her.

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