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Are you tolerant with others sexuality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you say your tolerant of others sexuality ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. None of my business what others get up to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yep but really its more that I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other's sexuality has no bearing on my life, so i couldn't care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I'm indifferent. The only sexuality which I take notice of is mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tolerant would mean I put up with it. I'm indifferent to peoples' sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they aren't a peadophile or into bestiality then knock yourself out.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

How do you mean?

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

as long as they get the message when I say no to their first advance. I am rather less tolerant if I have to repeat myself!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah, although i'm always a bit sort of interested in a yokel type of way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they aren't a peadophile or into bestiality then knock yourself out. "

That's a good point, everyone has a limit to tolerance. For most people, tolerance just means accepting what legal, which 60 years ago would have meant being intolerant of gays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, if they respect my preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes, if they respect my preferences "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say your tolerant of others sexuality ?

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Tolerance is the wrong choice of word in my opinion.

Am I right in thinking you disapprove of other people's sexual preferences?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

I couldn't care less how other people choose to express themselves sexually (so long as it's consensual and legal) ... it's none of my business and doesn't affect me.

Ms G

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Unless im actually wanting to have sex with that person i dont really have an interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe sexuality is a spectrum with most people being neither fully gay or fully straight.

Since men identifying as bisexual as a tiny minority then I assume most people are lying / in denial about their true sexuality. I'm not fussed about changing them though, I just think "yeah right" when they say gay or straight.

Not sure if that counts as intolerance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you say your tolerant of others sexuality ?

Tolerance is the wrong choice of word in my opinion.

Am I right in thinking you disapprove of other people's sexual preferences?

Yes your right it was a wrong choice of word in hindsight

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby


"if they aren't a peadophile or into bestiality then knock yourself out. "

Yeah agree...I mean paedos need to be stapled to death over many weeks..

Not sure I care about bestiality unless it's cruel to the animal.

I mean fucking a duck is heinious but like fucking a horse..would it even notice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe sexuality is a spectrum with most people being neither fully gay or fully straight.

Since men identifying as bisexual as a tiny minority then I assume most people are lying / in denial about their true sexuality. I'm not fussed about changing them though, I just think "yeah right" when they say gay or straight.

Not sure if that counts as intolerance? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say your tolerant of others sexuality ?

Tolerance is the wrong choice of word in my opinion.

Am I right in thinking you disapprove of other people's sexual preferences?

Yes your right it was a wrong choice of word in hindsight

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after all that, it was the wrong word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tolerant would mean I put up with it. I'm indifferent to peoples' sexuality."

Really well put...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered about anyone else's preferences. ..

If it's not for me I don't go there ..

Just no tolerance for preferences for anyone that has a need to do something to anyone that wasn't wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex. "

Would be so much easoer wouldn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if that counts as intolerance? "

Yes it does, I am straight, not sure I want to be staight, it's a bit restrictive to eliminate 50% of potential partners in one word. But that's the way it goes.

Like others have said unless I want to have sex with you I don't care what you are into as long as it's consentual. But if I say not interested, I am not interested so don't try to convert me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if that counts as intolerance?

Yes it does, I am straight, not sure I want to be staight, it's a bit restrictive to eliminate 50% of potential partners in one word. But that's the way it goes.

Like others have said unless I want to have sex with you I don't care what you are into as long as it's consentual. But if I say not interested, I am not interested so don't try to convert me. "

Try quoting the full context where I say "I'm not fussed about changing them though" and "most people are neither gay nor straight" (i.e. Doesn't say all)

That way you won't invent an arguement that wasn't there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say your tolerant of others sexuality ?

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Why wouldn't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex. "

Except yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they aren't a peadophile or into bestiality then knock yourself out.

Yeah agree...I mean paedos need to be stapled to death over many weeks..

Not sure I care about bestiality unless it's cruel to the animal.

I mean fucking a duck is heinious but like fucking a horse..would it even notice?

Why do pedoes need to be mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course,,its none of my business, strange question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex. "

Hi love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex.

Except yourself... "

Eh? I'd love to be bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex.

Except yourself...

Eh? I'd love to be bi"

Oh I had a quick perve of your profile (nice pics ) and you're down as Straight that's all.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

What ever the sexuality of a person is nothing to do with me, I am however concerned about how they treat me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Would you say your tolerant of others sexuality ?

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Could care less unless they bore me with it!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

If course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say your tolerant of others sexuality ?

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The wording of this post suggests you're either concerned about other people not being "tolerant" of your sexuality, or you may not be sure if you're "tolerant" of others choice of sexuality.

I think this due to the use of the word "tolerant" This means it's asking do we put up with others choice of sexuality (even though we may not agree with it)?

I'm tolerant of a screaming baby at a wedding even though it's causing me to not hear the bride / groom and I'm half hoping the Mum will step out so I and others can hear. I'm tolerant because it's a baby and thus doesn't know to hush at a wedding. I have to put up with it and I've no choice in the matter.

I wouldn't describe myself as having to be tolerant of others sexuality because I need not "tolerate" it.. it's not something I have to grit my teeth and put up with as I don't accept it as possibly being wrong / annoying / taboo in the first place. Instead, I accept / respect someone based on their level of decency; my choice of accepting someone is regardless of their sexuality and not despite it.

It's like asking "would you say you're tolerant of people who's favourite colour is red?"... I couldn't give a fuck and needing to tolerate that choice doesn't enter into my thinking.

Maybe I've read too much into the wording of the original post! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if that counts as intolerance?

Yes it does, I am straight, not sure I want to be staight, it's a bit restrictive to eliminate 50% of potential partners in one word. But that's the way it goes.

Like others have said unless I want to have sex with you I don't care what you are into as long as it's consentual. But if I say not interested, I am not interested so don't try to convert me.

Try quoting the full context where I say "I'm not fussed about changing them though" and "most people are neither gay nor straight" (i.e. Doesn't say all)

That way you won't invent an arguement that wasn't there. "

Your post was there in full for all to read, I quoted the little bit to link the reply to your post.

Not inventing an argument, or even having an argument, just saying that your presumption that most people are bi, is just as wrong as the view that most are not bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other's sexuality has no bearing on my life, so i couldn't care less."

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Other peoples sexual preference is not influential on my life. So no. I dont quite understand why it would be

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Would you say your tolerant of others sexuality ?

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To be honest... "being tolerant" suggests that I have some right to judge how others live their life.

In my personal view, as long as people are not hurting others, I couldn't care less about their sexuality. Everyone should have the chance to be happy.

Cal

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Tolerant? Who am I to be tolerant, I've no right to be able to put on to others whether I tolerate their sexuality or not. Couldn't care less about peoples sexuality it won't change my interactions with them, would see myself as a pretty poor person if I were to.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex.

Except yourself...

Eh? I'd love to be bi

Oh I had a quick perve of your profile (nice pics ) and you're down as Straight that's all."

That's because I am. Doesn't mean I don't get off on watching bi sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not say tolerant more accepting of others sexuality and don't mind peeps of the same sex holding hands ect but do take exception when they snog each other's face off in public that's taking things a bit far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tolerant? Who am I to be tolerant, I've no right to be able to put on to others whether I tolerate their sexuality or not. Couldn't care less about peoples sexuality it won't change my interactions with them, would see myself as a pretty poor person if I were to.

Him "

What do you think of the guy who went on Jerry Springer claiming he was married to a horse and admitted to having sexual relations with the aforementioned beast?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hello Kev the O.P.

If 'tolerant' means I accept sexualities other than my own exist and I give them equal sexual rights to myself - even though I do not welcome their advances in any way shape or form then ...... yes I am tolerant.

If you mean would I have sex with people from all orientations or those who practise certain activities the answer is no..... I would be INTOLERANT of their sexuality in that i'd say ...not with me thanks.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex.

Except yourself...

Eh? I'd love to be bi

Oh I had a quick perve of your profile (nice pics ) and you're down as Straight that's all.

That's because I am. Doesn't mean I don't get off on watching bi sex. "

I'll second that. I am not a gay male but I enjoy (some ) gay porn .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex. "

If a bi man has sex with a bi woman isn't that just straight sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better to tolerate something you don't approve of than stir up trouble.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Tolerant would mean I put up with it. I'm indifferent to peoples' sexuality.

Really well put... "

Really ? Indifference is indefensible. I'd prefer someone was tolerant or intolerant.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I wish everyone was bi. I love watching bi sex.

Except yourself...

Eh? I'd love to be bi

Oh I had a quick perve of your profile (nice pics ) and you're down as Straight that's all.

That's because I am. Doesn't mean I don't get off on watching bi sex.

I'll second that. I am not a gay male but I enjoy (some ) gay porn ....."

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

What other people do is none of my business unless they want to do it with me; then I'll think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not 'tolerant', tolerance implies that you may not necessarily agree with their "lifestyle", I honestly just couldn't give a F what sexuality people are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not 'tolerant', tolerance implies that you may not necessarily agree with their "lifestyle", I honestly just couldn't give a F what sexuality people are."

This.

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