FabSwingers.com forum: Things that can put you off a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What things about someone's profile would put you off meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their height

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Their height

Whats the minimum?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Profile with ' Can't travel due to being tagged ' is a warning sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitchy, moany, self entitled, demanding, thinks they're gods gift - type profiles

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Where to start?

No public pics

'Mmmmmmm'

Overuse of the word 'cum'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos that are years old,

no veris and been here over a year,

Photos with a toilet in,

The phrase 'will fill in later' and that's all the whole profile says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No public photos

Hight..

Or turning a nice conversation straight into "I'm going to fuck you so hard" " you got any more naughty photos of videos I can see"..

Bit of a turn off I no its a sex site so to speak but no harm in a little conversation now and then x

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"No public photos

Hight..

Or turning a nice conversation straight into "I'm going to fuck you so hard" " you got any more naughty photos of videos I can see"..

Bit of a turn off I no its a sex site so to speak but no harm in a little conversation now and then x"

Message that simply say in broken english. .

"Meet now, fuck hard?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bitchy, moany, self entitled, demanding, thinks they're gods gift - type profiles "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics on the toilet.

I have manners so always reply to all messages or similar drival written in the profile.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Flange blisters

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

Profiles that say 'just ask' and nothing else.

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By *imply DifferentCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Their lower age limit usually does it for us.

A profile that says "straight" when they ain't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics of the kids..dog..ex..dirty dishes and a bedroom that looks like a landmines exploded

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

Massive tattooing, bingo penned on brows, being owned or such complicated dynamics and zero banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flange blisters"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height.

Did I mention height?

Cannot accommodate. Cannot travel. Won't meet smokers. 5ft2... messages me though

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

They're a bloke.

They use the phrase, "cleanly shaven, expect the same from you".

They ask me to put a certain word in my reply to prove I've read their profile. How about these words...Piss off!

Humourless-demanding-self-entitled-hoop-jumping-aggressive-verging-on-misandrist nonsense. Massive turn-off.

No pics.

The list is endless...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A list of do's and dont's .

Entitled attitude .

The phrase quality over quantity .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gosh, sooooo many things but it all starts with the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many to list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use of the word fun. Fun fun fun fun fun fun. Turns me off.....unless they're super hot in which case they can say what the hell they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No public photos

Hight..

Or turning a nice conversation straight into "I'm going to fuck you so hard" " you got any more naughty photos of videos I can see"..

Bit of a turn off I no its a sex site so to speak but no harm in a little conversation now and then x

Message that simply say in broken english. .

"Meet now, fuck hard?"

Pretty much... big no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many veris by the same person in a short period of time ~ okay we get the picture!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles written in upper case!

Graphic photos

And

Out of my age range...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height......well that's me fucked then! In the non-literal sense that is!

It's not all bad though, I'm the last one to get wet when it rains!!!

May as well joke about it - it's better than getting depressed over it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WRITING IN CAPS LOCK.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pictures, not even a profile picture.

Very little bio.

Been on for over a year and zero verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile pic yet saying saying if you message me send a pic I want to see what you look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have veri's that sound a bit lovey dovey gushy.

If the people they've met have profile pics that wouldn't look amiss on Jeremy Kyle.

A ropey looking cock that looks like it's seen better days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In order.

1. User name (vulgar or narcissistic)

1a dynamic (single male, TV/TS/CD)

2. profile picture (anything looking like it belongs on a butchers counter)

3. Location (is it realistic)

4. Status update, (negative, moany, vulgar, crass)

5. Public pictures(same as 2, less than 2/3, no figure shots, and only pictures of her if it's a couple profile)

6. Verifications/meets(less than 2/3, none displayed) also comparative to length of membership I.e 1 meet in 12 months...

7. Looking for (not looking for couples, won't meet smokers - it's amazing how many people have this, but day they will meet, Mr is a smoker, albeit a considerate one, and if you don't clarify this in your profile text it will still be a no from us as he doesn't want to spend the meet feeling conscious about it)

8. Interests (if we don't have the same interests, or have interests listed we don't like)

9. Profile text (moany, negative, demanding, narcissistic, self interested, reads like they're more interested in meeting single female than couples- it's amazing how many profiles come across as this is the main goal, and meeting couples is something to settle for, less than one line, less than 2 paragraphs, terrible English - but doesn't need to be perfect, crass or vulgar.)

Those are the main things anyway

Are we fussy buggers?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Shouty rants

The term jog on

Will fill in later,from profiles a year old.

Constant whingy updates.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the messager assumes I'll fuck anyone that asks, not even nicely.

When the profile or messages have any indication of violence towards women.

And assumptions.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Needy simpering childlike shite

Snuggles and cuddles and hugs pish like crap

Get a fucking cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In order.

1. User name (vulgar or narcissistic)

1a dynamic (single male, TV/TS/CD)

2. profile picture (anything looking like it belongs on a butchers counter)

3. Location (is it realistic)

4. Status update, (negative, moany, vulgar, crass)

5. Public pictures(same as 2, less than 2/3, no figure shots, and only pictures of her if it's a couple profile)

6. Verifications/meets(less than 2/3, none displayed) also comparative to length of membership I.e 1 meet in 12 months...

8. Interests (if we don't have the same interests, or have interests listed we don't like)

Those are the main things anyway

Are we fussy buggers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I/we don't bite, unless asked"

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Lots that have already been mentioned, but one that hasn't is "married/in a relationship and other half doesn't know I'm here".

Another that will generally get a thumbs down is " Fab Straight" guys that have messaged stating they're Bi but have Straight on their profile.

Both fall into the category of, if you're lying about that, what else are you lying about?

Mr G

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

How about when it says mmmmmm,knew that would have you all cringing.

Miss

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Adults saying he he he

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Them ranting from the get-go

Looking for 'exceptional' etc, its not MENSA

Overly graphic or smoochy veris

Insert 'magic' word and do the hokey y before you can message us

No male pics on couples profiles

"Honest" cheats

Sydney University disclaimer takes up most of the profile

No photos

Will meet 18-99 year olds

"Won't bite unless asked

" You're not edgy, darling

Here for fun, aren't we all?

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"Lots that have already been mentioned, but one that hasn't is "married/in a relationship and other half doesn't know I'm here".

Another that will generally get a thumbs down is " Fab Straight" guys that have messaged stating they're Bi but have Straight on their profile.

Both fall into the category of, if you're lying about that, what else are you lying about?

Mr G"

I have a thread about this right now going.

So many straight guys messagjng me askinng for 'action' haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here's another. Crossdressers listing their gender as female to get more messages

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

'We're all here for the same thing' - it's ok then if i deliver you to my pals who'll shove a gimp mask on you, using you as their cellared gimp for a month or two.

Expecting to come after a day's work, without showering

Unidentified body type between unhealthy and fit for a clinical study.

My needs don't get a look in

It's all about them.

Their availability is completely unmatched to mine or would be very short duration.

Doesn't kiss and cuddle, when I'm needing cuddles.

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