FabSwingers.com forum: IS IT ME.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or is everyone on here shallow..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Define shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you require a face pic prior to even chatting to anyone then I'm shallow too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't speak for everyone else, but I'm not particularly shallow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh my god..

I have been here sometime but holy shit balls..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very deep lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and blocked for some reason lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't speak for everyone else, but I'm not particularly shallow."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Define shallow?"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Depends how deep you won't to get

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I think you need to give us more details

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Want or won't? ?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Want or won't? ?"

Ohhhh you didn't just go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wonder if these threads are just deliberately baiting the forum folk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there has to be an initial attraction but the most important thing for me is the ability to hold conversation and have a laugh

There are allot of shallow people about though we live in a shallow world if you let that bother you life will be miserable

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I'm deeply shallow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sometimes wonder if these threads are just deliberately baiting the forum folk...

Move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course there has to be an initial attraction but the most important thing for me is the ability to hold conversation and have a laugh

There are allot of shallow people about though we live in a shallow world if you let that bother you life will be miserable "

Just gets on my boobies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm deeply shallow"

Belting that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got a great body love! If I can put a bag over that face then I'll happily meet you"

If that's shallow then GUILTY!!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

""You got a great body love! If I can put a bag over that face then I'll happily meet you"

If that's shallow then GUILTY!!!!

Shallow isn't exactly the word I'd use for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure we can find a bag small enough for your willy..

Happy to meet you

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Yes I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope no shallowness here I'm as deep as the ocean

In all seriousness in what way do you mean shallow ? Pretentious ? Narcisstic? Vain? Sarcastic? Etc

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Each to there own

He must be very very shallow if he wants to see your body pics over a face pic... but just because we are on here doesn't mean we have to fancy everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""You got a great body love! If I can put a bag over that face then I'll happily meet you"

If that's shallow then GUILTY!!!!

That's more crass than shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's realistic for someone to ask for body pics if you don't display any! So why not display some pics to resolve the issue, simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not about how we look..

That's why i don't display any body pictures

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's not about how we look..

That's why i don't display any body pictures

It might not be for you but most people don't want sex with people they don't find visually attractive.

A relationship is different but for sex, looks are a vital part for most people.

That's not shallow, it's merely the nature of sexual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are all sorts here. From the sublime to the ridiculous, weird and wonderful. Aren't we all shallow to some degree? So shallow is fine but fuck me deep I say.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Want or won't? ?

Ohhhh you didn't just go there

Uh oh. Spelling police tried to ticket bladey...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's about the whole package and that includes looks, personality, attitude......

Frankly "curvy" on fabswingers can mean anything from a curvy size 8 to a size 22! Thus it is reasonable for someone to ask for body pics on a profile that states "curvy" eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are all sorts here. From the sublime to the ridiculous, weird and wonderful. Aren't we all shallow to some degree? So shallow is fine but fuck me deep I say.

Sarah

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"For us it's about the whole package and that includes looks, personality, attitude......

Frankly "curvy" on fabswingers can mean anything from a curvy size 8 to a size 22! Thus it is reasonable for someone to ask for body pics on a profile that states "curvy" eh?

I'm on as curvy...its my bum!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For us it's about the whole package and that includes looks, personality, attitude......

Frankly "curvy" on fabswingers can mean anything from a curvy size 8 to a size 22! Thus it is reasonable for someone to ask for body pics on a profile that states "curvy" eh?

It's all about the base

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us it's about the whole package and that includes looks, personality, attitude......

Frankly "curvy" on fabswingers can mean anything from a curvy size 8 to a size 22! Thus it is reasonable for someone to ask for body pics on a profile that states "curvy" eh?

I'm on as curvy...its my bum!"

Noted

Exactly our point....

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

For general chit chat it doesn't matter what someone looks like,if you want me to do rudies with you then unfortunately you need to strip and let me see what I'm getting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not about how we look..

That's why i don't display any body pictures

For me on here it's all about the look, initially anyway. If I'm not attracted to the profile picture I click no further.

Your profile is your shop window, makes life a lot easier if your goods are on display & in date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's meeting strangers off the Internet for casual sex sometimes in groups...how deep is it meant to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah so you're one of those people who doesn't have a solid argument. So they resort to retorts of stupid eye-rolling emoji's

How mature

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah so you're one of those people who doesn't have a solid argument. So they resort to retorts of stupid eye-rolling emoji's

How mature "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile also states that's ou must supply a face photo or you will delete the message

Not sure if that's just irony or shallow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your profile also states that's ou must supply a face photo or you will delete the message

Not sure if that's just irony or shallow. "

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

"It's not about how we look..

That's why i don't display any body pictures

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. So just to check what it is you are actually saying, are you saying that you wouldn't need to see pics when it's just chat? Are you only here for the chat? In which case it's your prerogative, but if you are saying that you wouldn't want or need to see pics before a meet and that you are looking to chat in the hope of a meet, then I am sorry but i don't believe you!!!!! I can't see how you could possibly chat for however long in the hope of a meet without so much as even knowing what that person looks like

Mrs blue eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile also states that's ou must supply a face photo or you will delete the message

Not sure if that's just irony or shallow. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us it's about the whole package and that includes looks, personality, attitude......

Frankly "curvy" on fabswingers can mean anything from a curvy size 8 to a size 22! Thus it is reasonable for someone to ask for body pics on a profile that states "curvy" eh?

Which is why good, clear body pictures are essential if you don't want to have messages asking to see more...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Your profile also states that's ou must supply a face photo or you will delete the message

Not sure if that's just irony or shallow.

Now that's just shallow

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm shallow and make no apology for it when it comes to a site like this. We're meeting people we hardly know and while their personality interests me to a certain extent I like them to be easy on the eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile also states that's ou must supply a face photo or you will delete the message

Not sure if that's just irony or shallow. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile also states that's ou must supply a face photo or you will delete the message

Not sure if that's just irony or shallow. "

Errrr, hmmmm....let me think ~ it's a case of not liking being asked to provide the same / similar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm just saying

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Your profile also states that's ou must supply a face photo or you will delete the message

Not sure if that's just irony or shallow. "

We ask for face pictures with messages and will delete if none are attached. So i guess we are shallow. We've had messages minus the pics from couples, who when you read their profile, expect face pics sent to them. Double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a difference to being shallow and knowing what I find attractive :')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think it's you, it's probably you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you think it's you, it's probably you!

It might be you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you think it's you, it's probably you!

It might be you..

This is not a lottery winning thread is it?

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

I think its reasonable to want to have some idea how big the lady is.

You might think its unfair, but no one wants to meet me as I'm not a 7 foot muscle bound squady with tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just saying

Okay, you're shallow & so is everyone else by your definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh me! Me! I'm shallow.....I have a fear of deep water!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The body is the host,

to all that is magnificent regarding pleasure.

the mind steers the body to attain mind blowing fun.

it provides us with heavenly orgasms.

ALL HAIL THE BODY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is everyone on here shallow..

I thought it said swallow, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm short and shallow ... Help me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am tall fat and not that shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am shallow. I worship my body

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'm not shallow, I have hidden depths... they've not been found yet as they are so well hidden but I can assure you that they're there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i can't be shallow on a site where you can get nsa sex then where can i be?....I'm so shallow i won't talk to someone without knowing what they look like. There's shallow for you and i give not a fuck what anyone thinks about that

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If your post has disappeared it is because you quoting a post that was against rules

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...yes I am shallow on a site that we use to meet for NSA sex.

I ( Mrs ) has to fancy a person before I would want a meet with them, so I would have to see what they looked like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is everyone on here shallow..

Most people on here are.

Shallow and close minded

But everyone is inititled a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, for me attraction always starts with the face...no likey= no action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks don't matter a huge amount to me but I still want to see who I'm talking to. I want to check that I will be attracted to them in conjunction with their personality. I certainly don't get annoyed by someone asking me, and I have a few stock photos that I hold back as private for those moments, which I hand out depending on the situation. It's not shallow, it's good sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think to some degree we are all shallow.

I mean let's face it would be have sex with someone we didn't find attractive to our own taste?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The question is a little shallow

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Or is everyone on here shallow..

Isn't it just a case of if your turn down by them after a face picture they must be shallow but if you get the green light after a face picture they have good taste .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happily shallow. I don't want to meet anyone who I don't find attractive in both body and personality. What would be the point as it would make for a very unhappy and uncomfortable meet. Xxx

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

Isn't this as much about fantasy fulfilling as it is about sex in general?

If its shallow to want to sleep with people you like (physical or personality) then yes everybody is shallow and not just on fab.

Would you sleep with somebody missing all their teeth except 1 front lower 1? No thought not so then looking for people that match your specific desires isn't shallow its normal.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am shallow and I don't justify it

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I'm happily shallow. I don't want to meet anyone who I don't find attractive in both body and personality. What would be the point as it would make for a very unhappy and uncomfortable meet. Xxx"

This

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By *ust a TeaseMan
over a year ago

Earth

Some people confuse being shallow with having standards. It does get to a few people but its just the way it is.

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By *attooedbikerMan
over a year ago

dukinfeild

I sometimes feel that people don't give each other a chance on here. People on here might not be the best looking on but might have amazing sex skills, it is a sex site after all but I also agree there must be a physical attraction. I don't believe that's shallow that's human nature. I think being shallow is when you think you better then anybody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah so you're one of those people who doesn't have a solid argument. So they resort to retorts of stupid eye-rolling emoji's

How mature "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is everyone on here shallow..

Hope so , my penis is tiny.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

On here I'm as deep as a puddle.

IRL I have a bit more substance.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I guess from reading some the posts on here I could be a little shallow. Sorry but I'm not going to shag someone I'm not attracted to. If you saw some of the messages I get you would understand why!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess from reading some the posts on here I could be a little shallow. Sorry but I'm not going to shag someone I'm not attracted to. If you saw some of the messages I get you would understand why!!!!

I agree there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you mean some men won't fuck fat women,no.

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By *attooedbikerMan
over a year ago

dukinfeild

There's no such think as fatty waman. Just curvy. It's the thigh gap thing that makes a woman self-conscious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us it's about the whole package and that includes looks, personality, attitude......

Frankly "curvy" on fabswingers can mean anything from a curvy size 8 to a size 22! Thus it is reasonable for someone to ask for body pics on a profile that states "curvy" eh?

I'm on as curvy...its my bum!"

And a wonderful bum it is too. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As people keep pointing out on many of these threads, yes, this is a sex (or swinger) site. But that does not mean we have to sleep with everyone who asks. Even if I found their personality a joy, I would still have to find them physically attractive. In the world outside this, I wouldn't sleep with someone I considered unattractive even if they had a nice personality, so why should I not bring those standards here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on here i'm shallow, not much point in being anything else.

irl i'm deep.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"There's no such think as fatty waman. Just curvy. It's the thigh gap thing that makes a woman self-conscious"

My thigh gap doesn't bother me, I hadn't actually thought about it. It's my belly area that is my big issue

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"To the OP...yes I am shallow on a site that we use to meet for NSA sex.

I ( Mrs ) has to fancy a person before I would want a meet with them, so I would have to see what they looked like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like this is a thread to evoke a reaction .

We are shallow , yes .

It's all about the sex , with people we find attractive , and that's all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you mean some men won't fuck fat women,no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I take it somebody didn't like my answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone call....

Very shallow when its comes to this place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am shallow and I don't justify it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I judge by looks this may make me shallow however I'm only after fun. You can't shag a personality! Apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is everyone on here shallow..

On here I'm 100% shallow. Personally I think it's the only way to be. In everyday life, no I care about people in my life.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

You can wade in my deepest thoughts without getting your ankles wet

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"You can wade in my deepest thoughts without getting your ankles wet

Breath on a window pane would drown my intellect.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"You can wade in my deepest thoughts without getting your ankles wet

Breath on a window pane would drown my intellect."

If I were capable of appreciating a beautiful metaphor I would appreciate that.

But I'm too shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen deeper puddles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow

another intelligent riposte!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is everyone on here shallow..

You look fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not about how we look..

Well maybe it is a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like the new program on 4 naked attraction

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By *an.in.the.mirrorMan
over a year ago

Congleton

It's all a matter of perspective...

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I never considered myself shallow just complicated...

But then we are all shallow to a degree, whether it is looks or personality that drives us the persue a person for that ultimate goal... A chat and a cuppa rosy.

Or a Fuck.

Ultimately, that initial desire defines us all as shallow, just in varying degrees..

Therefore in response to the OP, yes we are all shallow; some much more than others... Mr paperbag man, yep hold your head in shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is everyone on here shallow..

Very much so

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Or is everyone on here shallow..

Dunno about anyone else but when it comes to deciding meets I am unashamedly shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's you!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow

another intelligent riposte!"

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give my shallow side an outing on here. I am of course, in reality, unfathomable. I suspect the same applies for most here.

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