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"Am I being too touchy or taking it too personally if people do not reply? I'm not a touchy person but I can't help thinking a simple no thanks does not take much effort? I know women get inundated here and haven't got the time to reply but many ladies will expect a well written informative and personal email and then just to ignore the effort? No Thank You- 3 words really take that much time?" How long do you think it takes to write it 50 or 100 times? And then read and deal with the follow up whhhhhy messages and abuse? If that were you, and you had limited time as we all do, would you rather use that time chatting to those who interest you or messaging those that don't? Do you send messages to people you aren't interested in? Why expect anyone else to? Choosing to spend your time sending a message does not entitle you to dictate the use of someone else's time. You don't see the reason but your circumstances are different. Just realise there is a reason and accept no reply is probably a no thank you. | |||
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"Good insights. I would never reply to a no thanks response- hve at least that much dignity " There's also the fact that replying means my mail filters will no longer apply to that person. If I block mail from men, everyone I've said no thank you to can still message me. You can see why I might not want to give a load of men I'm not interested in immunity from my mail filters (unless I blocked every single one individually. And then they'd moan about being blocked "for no reason")? | |||
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"I didn't realise a reply could lead to abuse or why messages back! That is sad " thats because your a decent guy. I think the only way you could understand is by having a womans mailbox for a few days. When you message someone try and forget about and if you get a reply its a bonus | |||
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