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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines

Hey guys, been on here for 4 months and still haven't been able to have a single conversation with any girl considering they're ignoring me every time.

Anyone wanna help me out?

Much love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are young, a lot won't meet young enough to be their child.

Your profile reads like a dating site profile, 'up for anything' tells nobody anything useful.

There are many many threads on profile advice if you use the forum search there will be tons of advice.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Your profile days you've had a meet u have a veri

Therefore someone must've replied to you lol

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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines

I find it odd that women won't go for a young guy. Kinda ruins the experience of this site, ah well will keep trying.

What would you advice I put on my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it odd that women won't go for a young guy. Kinda ruins the experience of this site, ah well will keep trying.

What would you advice I put on my profile? "

I'd advise you do a forum search. The info is already there.

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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines


"Your profile days you've had a meet u have a veri

Therefore someone must've replied to you lol "

Yeah that was only one haha, but that was a meet where I was only allowed to watch and had to contribute to the hotel room. So wasn't like we had a chat or anything haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile days you've had a meet u have a veri

Therefore someone must've replied to you lol

Yeah that was only one haha, but that was a meet where I was only allowed to watch and had to contribute to the hotel room. So wasn't like we had a chat or anything haha "

Discretion

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Yeah but you stayed this forum thing off as if no one has ever talked to you

Yet your veri states you cum on her tits!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile days you've had a meet u have a veri

Therefore someone must've replied to you lol

Yeah that was only one haha, but that was a meet where I was only allowed to watch and had to contribute to the hotel room. So wasn't like we had a chat or anything haha "

And you didn't have to contribute. You chose to.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Lol and most guys have trouble getting meets being on here a year... Id say 4 months in you've done good tbh

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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines


"Your profile days you've had a meet u have a veri

Therefore someone must've replied to you lol

Yeah that was only one haha, but that was a meet where I was only allowed to watch and had to contribute to the hotel room. So wasn't like we had a chat or anything haha

And you didn't have to contribute. You chose to. "

Me being me, I felt bad if I said no and didn't contribute lol. They were nice people.

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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines


"Lol and most guys have trouble getting meets being on here a year... Id say 4 months in you've done good tbh"

Really? Haha what makes you say that?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I find it odd that women won't go for a young guy. Kinda ruins the experience of this site, ah well will keep trying.

"

You find it odd people don't want sex with people the same age as, or younger than, their children?

Really?

People are here for what they want and what suits them, not to make your experience of this site good

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings


"Lol and most guys have trouble getting meets being on here a year... Id say 4 months in you've done good tbh

Really? Haha what makes you say that? "

I've been on here 3 years

Is called knowledge

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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines


"I find it odd that women won't go for a young guy. Kinda ruins the experience of this site, ah well will keep trying.

You find it odd people don't want sex with people the same age as, or younger than, their children?

Really?

People are here for what they want and what suits them, not to make your experience of this site good "

I mainly message the people who want people my age.

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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines


"Lol and most guys have trouble getting meets being on here a year... Id say 4 months in you've done good tbh

Really? Haha what makes you say that?

I've been on here 3 years

Is called knowledge"

Fairs

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I find it odd that women won't go for a young guy. Kinda ruins the experience of this site, ah well will keep trying.

You find it odd people don't want sex with people the same age as, or younger than, their children?

Really?

People are here for what they want and what suits them, not to make your experience of this site good I mainly message the people who want people my age. "

But you said you find it odd when women don't want men your age. Do you really?

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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines


"I find it odd that women won't go for a young guy. Kinda ruins the experience of this site, ah well will keep trying.

You find it odd people don't want sex with people the same age as, or younger than, their children?

Really?

People are here for what they want and what suits them, not to make your experience of this site good I mainly message the people who want people my age.

But you said you find it odd when women don't want men your age. Do you really?"

If my age is the age they're looking for on their profile, then yes, I find it strange. If I'm below their age limit, then I don't message them.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Going back to ur main post u said girls dont message u, yet uve had two women talking to u here, so may e think about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate domt worry im in same sitaution but im younger and shorter on here and you do get people that will say your too young or that you should be out there in clubs etc but its upt to what you want

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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines


"Going back to ur main post u said girls dont message u, yet uve had two women talking to u here, so may e think about that"

Of course I appreciate someone replying to this post, however what I meant was replying to my profile when I message them. I don't even get a simple 'no'. Ah well gotta keep trying I guess

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings


"Mate domt worry im in same sitaution but im younger and shorter on here and you do get people that will say your too young or that you should be out there in clubs etc but its upt to what you want "

You live miles away or you'd get ridden lol

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings


"Going back to ur main post u said girls dont message u, yet uve had two women talking to u here, so may e think about that

Of course I appreciate someone replying to this post, however what I meant was replying to my profile when I message them. I don't even get a simple 'no'. Ah well gotta keep trying I guess"

Yes never give up...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I find it odd that women won't go for a young guy. Kinda ruins the experience of this site, ah well will keep trying.

You find it odd people don't want sex with people the same age as, or younger than, their children?

Really?

People are here for what they want and what suits them, not to make your experience of this site good I mainly message the people who want people my age.

But you said you find it odd when women don't want men your age. Do you really?

If my age is the age they're looking for on their profile, then yes, I find it strange. If I'm below their age limit, then I don't message them. "

That's not what you said but ok, whatever.

Even so, would you want sex with absolutely any woman or couple aged 18-50 on this site?

You must realise there's more to attraction than being an acceptable age?

My age range (when my profile is not hidden) is quite broad but it doesn't mean I'll be interested in anyone and everyone within it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate domt worry im in same sitaution but im younger and shorter on here and you do get people that will say your too young or that you should be out there in clubs etc but its upt to what you want

You live miles away or you'd get ridden lol"

So if i would live closer i would have a chance lol

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We've been here for months as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea i know it takes time but like come on im sorry but im sick off getting spammed from gay or bi guys spamming me with messages like at least a girl or a couple for once a six months even but no luck so far

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings


"Mate domt worry im in same sitaution but im younger and shorter on here and you do get people that will say your too young or that you should be out there in clubs etc but its upt to what you want

You live miles away or you'd get ridden lol

So if i would live closer i would have a chance lol "

I would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else would agree with like thats quite a confidence boost thanks

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By *infullyNaughty OP   Man
over a year ago

Staines


"Yea i know it takes time but like come on im sorry but im sick off getting spammed from gay or bi guys spamming me with messages like at least a girl or a couple for once a six months even but no luck so far"

Yep, clearly states on my profile that looking for women, but keep getting guys sending dick pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye like hey im okay that theyre gay as long as they keep me out of their thing and ive blocked 11 guys in two months like wtf lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Yea i know it takes time but like come on im sorry but im sick off getting spammed from gay or bi guys spamming me with messages like at least a girl or a couple for once a six months even but no luck so far

Yep, clearly states on my profile that looking for women, but keep getting guys sending dick pics. "

So filter messages from men.

Men try it on, this is not news!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Aye like hey im okay that theyre gay as long as they keep me out of their thing and ive blocked 11 guys in two months like wtf lol"

I can block 11 guys in a couple of hours for sending crass messages and cock pics.

If only I only received so few each month!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

The site provides tools (filters)that prevent unwanted attention from whatever gender..

Op if you're not having any success change something , do something different. No one can give you a magic pill that will work. ..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"No one can give you a magic pill that will work. .. "

If one is ever invented, I want one!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Why don't you try a club or social? Much easier to meet people and get your personality across. On here there's lots of competition and ladies just don't get time to respond to everyone let alone make conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it odd that women won't go for a young guy. Kinda ruins the experience of this site, ah well will keep trying.

"

But this is a swinging site. Not a cougar dating website.

Not sure why it's off. Not every older woman wants a young guy. That's just life and personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it odd that women won't go for a young guy. Kinda ruins the experience of this site, ah well will keep trying.

But this is a swinging site. Not a cougar dating website.

Not sure why it's off. Not every older woman wants a young guy. That's just life and personal preference "

Too young for me and Im 7 yrs older.

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