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In peoples opinion how many real swingers are there on fab just a rough percentage

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By *ovfan OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

I would say about 35%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea

All the ones I've met are real that's all I care about

What people I don't meet do bothers me not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the one's I've met are real.

Everyone has their own reasons for being on fab.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

define 'swinger' from your perception...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting so don't count me.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Define real swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't count me. Turns out I'm as far away from being a real swinger as you can be. No interest in group sex, voyeurism, exhibitionism, swapping or socialising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define real swinger?"

If you turn me down your not a real swingers

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I thought the answer to everything was 42.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No idea

All the ones I've met are real that's all I care about

What people I don't meet do bothers me not "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 so far, although 1 of them I am not so sure about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting, I wasn't a swinger.

I was a women that enjoyed sexual encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a 'real swinger' just a deviant who likes being a photo tart & sex with hot men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't count me in I'm a fake

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By *ustfortonightMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I'm not a 'real swinger' just a deviant who likes being a photo tart & sex with hot men "

No complaints from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon about 65 to 70 %.

I am when I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"define 'swinger' from your perception..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was meeting, I wasn't a swinger.

I was a women that enjoyed sexual encounters."

That's how I feel

I'm not a swingers I'm just a woman who meets guys for sex

It works for me

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By *ovfan OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Interesting replys I notice there's a couple of "define swingers" which was pretty much what I was asking what's people's definition of swinging

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By *ovfan OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Sounds good to me you know exactly what you want

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

It's my alter ego that does the swinging xxxxxx Suzi

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Are single people swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are single people swingers? "

In my opinion no

But I suppose it depends on how they feel

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Are single people swingers?

In my opinion no

But I suppose it depends on how they feel "

That's my opinion as well I certainly don't say I'm a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not meeting so don't count me. "

Me Too.

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By *ovfan OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Are single people swingers? "
apparently we are swingles...amongst other things...

as for my definition of swinger...its pretty inclusive..its a single or couple that enjoys sexual encounters with others for fun.

other definitions i have come across...its only for couples, that play with other couples.

some say singles arent swingers, unless they if they got into a relationship, would continue playing on the scene.

and others say lots of other stuff.i cant be bothered to type out

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them "

Spot on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how you are defining swinger but if you mean how many of them are actually on the level about meets, what they say and what they do:

Probably about 99% of the males.

Around 70% of the couples and less than 5% of the single females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how you are defining swinger but if you mean how many of them are actually on the level about meets, what they say and what they do:

Probably about 99% of the males.

Around 70% of the couples and less than 5% of the single females. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them "

Depends who you ask

Some singles will defend they are swingers till the death, they wear their badge with pride

For me, so long as I get what I'm looking for I don't much care for what you call it or labels

Or what site/club/real life I get it from

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've met people so they are real. I am a bit suspicious of the guys in the top fabbed who have extraordinarily large cocks though.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Are single people swingers? apparently we are swingles...amongst other things...

as for my definition of swinger...its pretty inclusive..its a single or couple that enjoys sexual encounters with others for fun.

other definitions i have come across...its only for couples, that play with other couples.

some say singles arent swingers, unless they if they got into a relationship, would continue playing on the scene.

and others say lots of other stuff.i cant be bothered to type out "

^ What she said

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I don't know how you are defining swinger but if you mean how many of them are actually on the level about meets, what they say and what they do:

Probably about 99% of the males.

Around 70% of the couples and less than 5% of the single females. "

Less than 5% of the single women,gosh that's not much is it,they need to pull their weight more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the answer to everything was 42."

Well of course, except in this case it is 0.000042%

but as 0's are nothing and .'s aren't numbers it is 42

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. "
dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i know why im here. Its because its where i know i can get what i want with people of the same mindset

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Well i know why im here. Its because its where i know i can get what i want with people of the same mindset"

You can do that in Tescos too - everyone is there to buy stuff.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Do verifications count OP?

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By *ovfan OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking.."

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By *ovfan OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see the definition of a swinger as someone who enjoys NSA sexual encounters with like minded people that they fancy .

So based on that we would say that about 30% of the site are swingers .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Good point "
thanks - the same principle applies to Sainsburys too.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Good point thanks - the same principle applies to Sainsburys too. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good point

thanks - the same principle applies to Sainsburys too. "

Only you get a better class of swingers at Sainsbury

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We have met genuine swingers here on Fab & rarely if any get time wasters, John also on his solo profile as always again met genuine people so it might be certain areas that are worse than others.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

How do you qualify real?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking.."
where does none exclusive relationships connect to poly

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"How do you qualify real?"

Yes thats a good question x, we meet people who's sexual antics vary from soft to extreme but all of them swap & have sex so they are all swingers.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to poly"
poly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No idea

All the ones I've met are real that's all I care about

What people I don't meet do bothers me not "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship..."
well by that definition ive been poly all my life

Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxes

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship...well by that definition ive been poly all my life

Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxes"
i dont define the boxes..i just fit into some shapes and not others..to communicate effectively with new people, to get across what you do and dont do, its helpful to use common terminology...we do it all the time..and while i am just a being, if it helps people understand something or someone else better, thats what words were invented for, imo...to communicate ideas or concepts...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship...well by that definition ive been poly all my life

Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxesi dont define the boxes..i just fit into some shapes and not others..to communicate effectively with new people, to get across what you do and dont do, its helpful to use common terminology...we do it all the time..and while i am just a being, if it helps people understand something or someone else better, thats what words were invented for, imo...to communicate ideas or concepts..."
i dont think i fit into any shape. Im just karen shape. If i communicate with people they know what im about. I wouldnt even know where to begin anyway

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship...well by that definition ive been poly all my life

Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxesi dont define the boxes..i just fit into some shapes and not others..to communicate effectively with new people, to get across what you do and dont do, its helpful to use common terminology...we do it all the time..and while i am just a being, if it helps people understand something or someone else better, thats what words were invented for, imo...to communicate ideas or concepts...i dont think i fit into any shape. Im just karen shape. If i communicate with people they know what im about. I wouldnt even know where to begin anyway"
i just meet people at where they meet me..however im getting used to fab and fet terminology...it helps me define to others what i like..if you cant beat em, join em..its stops me from getting frustrated with my expression xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..where does none exclusive relationships connect to polypoly is meaningful relationships with more than one partner ( doesnt mean you have to live or be married to them)..therefore its like having multiple friends with benefits..more than NSA sex, but not a relationship...well by that definition ive been poly all my life

Why do people have to label themselves all the while whats wrong with just getting on with it. It just amuses me that people have to keep sticking themselves in boxesi dont define the boxes..i just fit into some shapes and not others..to communicate effectively with new people, to get across what you do and dont do, its helpful to use common terminology...we do it all the time..and while i am just a being, if it helps people understand something or someone else better, thats what words were invented for, imo...to communicate ideas or concepts...i dont think i fit into any shape. Im just karen shape. If i communicate with people they know what im about. I wouldnt even know where to begin anyway i just meet people at where they meet me..however im getting used to fab and fet terminology...it helps me define to others what i like..if you cant beat em, join em..its stops me from getting frustrated with my expression xx"
guess thats why ive never really given it much thought as it doesnt cause me frustration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking.."

Have to agree with you. So us singletons aren't real swingers we just fuck about? Hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know how you are defining swinger but if you mean how many of them are actually on the level about meets, what they say and what they do:

Probably about 99% of the males.

Around 70% of the couples and less than 5% of the single females.

Less than 5% of the single women,gosh that's not much is it,they need to pull their weight more "

Dunno if pulling their weight is the right way to put it, but ceasing some of their dickishness would be so appreciated :D

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I wouldn't class myself as being a swinger, I just don't see the difference between having sex with a lady I meet thru here or at a swingers club/party and a one night stand I'd meet in the "real world"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Of the people we've met 95%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%

I thinking Swinging encompasses many different variations. Everyone on here is a Swinger.

Even me.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm not even sure what a swinger is. I just know I'm not one.

But to answer your question OP...at a guess...18.4%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say about 35%"

About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one.

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By *ovfan OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"I would say about 35%

About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one. "
couldn't agree more

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..

Have to agree with you. So us singletons aren't real swingers we just fuck about? Hmmmmm "
thats how some see it..i dont, but some do yes, if you are single you are just 'into casual sex' apparently...

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By *ovfan OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"So it would seem singles are more of a nsa kinda group which works for them

Spot on there. dont agree actually..there are alot of us who have non exclsive relationships on here..more poly, however we also share when we are out together..'swinger'.. not all singles are into just fucking..

Have to agree with you. So us singletons aren't real swingers we just fuck about? Hmmmmm thats how some see it..i dont, but some do yes, if you are single you are just 'into casual sex' apparently..."
casual sex for singles is all about harmless fun and providing both party's are happy with that I don't see it as a problem

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

All the folk I've met at Socials seem to be swingers. Can't speak for the ones who I've not met, but I'm not fussed about the ones I've not met as I'm mostly sticking with my regular playmates now. Too many weekender profiles & fantasists convinced me to keep the circle of my friends tight.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings


"No idea

All the ones I've met are real that's all I care about

What people I don't meet do bothers me not "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As being quite new to the swinging scene this is one thing I've been quite nervous about to begin with I'd hope it was quite high but there's always some that ruin the fun

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I would say about 35%

About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one. "

A lot of them do have one and don't even tell them they're "swinging"

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Bearing in mind everyone has different views on what swinging is, I would say taking everyone's views into consideration, it would be about 100%.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"100%

I thinking Swinging encompasses many different variations. Everyone on here is a Swinger.

Even me. "

I'm not!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100%

I thinking Swinging encompasses many different variations. Everyone on here is a Swinger.

Even me.

I'm not! "

Looking at your new avatar, you will be if you bend over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 20% as in couples, swinging is wife swapping, singles just shag around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger..

I'm here cos I enjoy sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear another label to stick onto people...

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"define 'swinger' from your perception..."

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I don't meet but I do cam and chat and have been a paying gold member for over 2 years and I love to fab but I don't waste anyone's time so I cant see why anyone should have a problem with that I know admin won't ££££

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

I don't have a partner to share or explore sexual fantasies but if I get into another long term relationship and she is up for meeting then I'd say I'm a swinger. Currently I'm a single guy who enjoys meeting couples to explore their fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We see the definition of a swinger as someone who enjoys NSA sexual encounters with like minded people that they fancy .

So based on that we would say that about 30% of the site are swingers ."

0.0001% of the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14.35%. Do I get the prize?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say about 35%

About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one. "

This confused me... made me think of really short guys.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I would say about 35%

About 15% imho. Simply because the number of single men dwarfs every other group and most of them wouldn't share their partner if they had one.

This confused me... made me think of really short guys. "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

80% of active longer term users at a guess.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

None of us in the forum swing or have sex, so we're not experts

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"None of us in the forum swing or have sex, so we're not experts"
textperts not sexperts?

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