FabSwingers.com forum: Nut cases

By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I'm not airing dirty laundry but someone I was talking to who I busted for cheating now keeps calling, withholding their number and shouting abuse at me.

I've blocked and reported but do mods actually do anything about this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin will sort out any report lodged - but they get hundreds every day, so you need to give them chance to sort it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm... How do you expect admin to stop them calling you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but the police might. Not 999 but 101. Log the calls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt it if he's calling you on your phone - as presumably you gave him your number. Its off the site

Get the whistle ready for when he does it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm... How do you expect admin to stop them calling you?"

yea,,thats what I was finkin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

l had a strange one today too. A couple were interested in me, wanted my kik if l had it... then they started asking if l had a sister and what her age was and whether she'd be interested too.

l still don't get it.

lf they keep harassing, it's no longer a mod issue, OP, but a police one.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If you gave them your phone number it's probably best to go to your service provider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't you block the number if he/she is calling your mobile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hunt them down,,,,,,,,,,,,and butcher them.

may seem harsh,but it works

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I don't expect them to actually do anything in real life but this dick could go on to abuse other women here.

I'm actually frightened.

Thanks for your fucking concern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not airing dirty laundry but someone I was talking to who I busted for cheating now keeps calling, withholding their number and shouting abuse at me.

Whilst I'm certainly not condoning their behaviour, it strikes me as a little odd that you seem surprised by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site seems to be getting worse for cranks. Like others have said if he has your number admin probably can't help. Speak to your mobile service provider. Oh and be careful who you give your number out to. Good luck

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Can't you block the number if he/she is calling your mobile? "

Keeps withholding it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Can't you block the number if he/she is calling your mobile? "

Not on a witheld number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never answer withheld numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't expect them to actually do anything in real life but this dick could go on to abuse other women here.

I'm actually frightened.

Thanks for your fucking concern

Does he know where you live?

Get a whistle. If it's an unknown number comes up, blast his ear drums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't expect them to actually do anything in real life but this dick could go on to abuse other women here.

I'm actually frightened.

Thanks for your fucking concern

seriously, phone the police,i would

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I'm not airing dirty laundry but someone I was talking to who I busted for cheating now keeps calling, withholding their number and shouting abuse at me.

Whilst I'm certainly not condoning their behaviour, it strikes me as a little odd that you seem surprised by it. "

Odd? Nobody deserves this.

Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its simple phone the police and the culprit will be caught and charged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not airing dirty laundry but someone I was talking to who I busted for cheating now keeps calling, withholding their number and shouting abuse at me.

Whilst I'm certainly not condoning their behaviour, it strikes me as a little odd that you seem surprised by it.

Odd? Nobody deserves this.

Wow.

You don't deserve it but she never said you did.

Maybe your service provider can do something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not airing dirty laundry but someone I was talking to who I busted for cheating now keeps calling, withholding their number and shouting abuse at me.

Whilst I'm certainly not condoning their behaviour, it strikes me as a little odd that you seem surprised by it.

Odd? Nobody deserves this.

Wow.

Where did I imply you deserve it? Plese read the first line carefully and kindly refrain from putting words in people's mouths.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I don't expect them to actually do anything in real life but this dick could go on to abuse other women here.

I'm actually frightened.

Thanks for your fucking concern

Definitely call the police on 101. No one should make you feel like this. May be slightly embarrassing but will put a stop to it and hopefully stop him doing this to others. So sorry you are being made to feel this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ring 101. They will advice you and give you a crime ref no should it escalate

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I'm not airing dirty laundry but someone I was talking to who I busted for cheating now keeps calling, withholding their number and shouting abuse at me.

Whilst I'm certainly not condoning their behaviour, it strikes me as a little odd that you seem surprised by it.

Odd? Nobody deserves this.

Wow.

Where did I imply you deserve it? Plese read the first line carefully and kindly refrain from putting words in people's mouths. "

You find it odd that I'm surprised. Why wouldn't I be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call the police.

Don't answer witheld numbers.

Log any other calls from him.

And contact admin directly and give them the details. Maybe they can do something with his profile

...I dunno.

Stay safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not airing dirty laundry but someone I was talking to who I busted for cheating now keeps calling, withholding their number and shouting abuse at me.

Whilst I'm certainly not condoning their behaviour, it strikes me as a little odd that you seem surprised by it.

Odd? Nobody deserves this.

Wow.

Where did I imply you deserve it? Plese read the first line carefully and kindly refrain from putting words in people's mouths.

You find it odd that I'm surprised. Why wouldn't I be?

How do you generally expect someone to react to being "busted for cheating"?

Do most people sit down and start a deep period of self-critical reflection or lash out at someone?

It's not right, but it's unfortunately normal human behaviour.

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I'm not airing dirty laundry but someone I was talking to who I busted for cheating now keeps calling, withholding their number and shouting abuse at me.

Whilst I'm certainly not condoning their behaviour, it strikes me as a little odd that you seem surprised by it.

Odd? Nobody deserves this.

Wow.

Where did I imply you deserve it? Plese read the first line carefully and kindly refrain from putting words in people's mouths.

You find it odd that I'm surprised. Why wouldn't I be?

How do you generally expect someone to react to being "busted for cheating"?

Do most people sit down and start a deep period of self-critical reflection or lash out at someone?

It's not right, but it's unfortunately normal human behaviour. "

In previous experience, they shuffle off with their tail between their legs.

I'm scared, I'm upset, I'm reporting the lot.

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

And thanks for the advice folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not airing dirty laundry but someone I was talking to who I busted for cheating now keeps calling, withholding their number and shouting abuse at me.

Whilst I'm certainly not condoning their behaviour, it strikes me as a little odd that you seem surprised by it.

Odd? Nobody deserves this.

Wow.

Where did I imply you deserve it? Plese read the first line carefully and kindly refrain from putting words in people's mouths.

You find it odd that I'm surprised. Why wouldn't I be?

How do you generally expect someone to react to being "busted for cheating"?

Do most people sit down and start a deep period of self-critical reflection or lash out at someone?

It's not right, but it's unfortunately normal human behaviour.

In previous experience, they shuffle off with their tail between their legs.

I'm scared, I'm upset, I'm reporting the lot.

If it makes you feel better, people that are really dangerous rarely make threats. Ergo, people that threaten you do so with the intention to scare you rather than with the conviction to follow through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact your mobile or home phone provider tell them guessing you want to keep the same number though just say you need this number ask them to monitor and see what they my ex kept ringing me over and over.

When I was a child my mam kept getting calls from my dad on with held number then a lot of calls of abuse from my dad's then gf whom he cheated on hence why my mam finished him the operators monitored all in coming calls and would take to court but it was a batterd women's hostel as her ex used to abuse her and ny mam would not take a rescue to court.

Alternatively answer and tell him to stop yelling talk to him and record the call or meet me him have a friend close by and see what happens.

Contact police nothing will happen my ex had a bf before me came to a physical fight almost he said he would burn her house down etc. And I called him out knowing he knew the area he threatened to shoot me police said not enough evidence.

I suggest change number contact friends family tell them then.becarefull who you give it to infuture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use kik in future if you want to be certain that never happens again. I had my number given to other people in the past and i had to stop using that number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't you block the number if he/she is calling your mobile?

Not on a witheld number."

Oops sorry missed that it was witheld

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What can admin do?

Dont give your number out

Dont answer withheld numbers

Buy a whistle

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Admin do what they can though we all need to be aware that anonymous internet users can be potential trouble.

They also support authorities who may investigate issues. Don't hesitate to report hassle to the police etc who are understanding and helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of curiosity,when you found out they were cheating,what did you do?

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Out of curiosity,when you found out they were cheating,what did you do?"

I blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you manage to get it sorted and he leaves you alone. What's wrong with people, so unfair.

I never give out my mobile and only use KIK to communicate as it's not connected to mobile, whatsapp, facebook etc.

Stay safe xx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've an android mobile and I got a call blocking app, I added withheld numbers to its library it automatically blocks them and either diverts them to my answer service where genuine callers can leave me a message or if I select it hangs up, you can also add numbers with a description and it blocks thm as well, stops all ppi and other callers..

Might be worth looking into Op..depending what way you wish to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't expect them to actually do anything in real life but this dick could go on to abuse other women here.

I'm actually frightened.

Thanks for your fucking concern

You need the old bill not someone say looking at pics all day going ....oh yea baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you get it sorted OP, I remember on another thread where someone was getting hastle they phoned the police on the 101 number and they said they dealt with it as good as gold, discrete etc etc.

It is worrying but dealt with quickly it should nip it in the bud.

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I've an android mobile and I got a call blocking app, I added withheld numbers to its library it automatically blocks them and either diverts them to my answer service where genuine callers can leave me a message or if I select it hangs up, you can also add numbers with a description and it blocks thm as well, stops all ppi and other callers..

Might be worth looking into Op..depending what way you wish to go

I'll give that a whirl. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hope you get it sorted OP, I remember on another thread where someone was getting hastle they phoned the police on the 101 number and they said they dealt with it as good as gold, discrete etc etc.

It is worrying but dealt with quickly it should nip it in the bud."

This.

Hope you get it sorted OP. x

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

i have a seperate phone for contacts on here.. that way any problems i simply get a new pay as you go sim ..i know this is like no good advice for what's happened but maybe in the future..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Out of curiosity,when you found out they were cheating,what did you do?

I blocked him."

How did you bust him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say busted him?

Most phones you can block numbers automatically now unless you mean a landline.

For people in there 20s thats a phone with a wire...your welcome

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