FabSwingers.com forum: I want man friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys. "

I can be your man friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay bars ?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys. "

Same here.

Most went off and got partners and aren't allowed female friends now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno...you just kinda pick people up for lack of a better phrase as you go through life :/

Not sure there's a special 'outlet' for em

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

I have through most of my life had more women friends than man friends,as I am happier in the company of women and not in a sexual way most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should imagine that you'll find lots of willing volunteers here on the forums at Fabswingers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

That's a bit too extreme for me.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

It's a bit drastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys. "

What would you bring to the friendship?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

That's a bit too extreme for me.

Yeah, same here. Terrifying thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

That's a bit too extreme for me.

You have to want it bad enough.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

That would be good

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys.

What would you bring to the friendship? "

friendship, bantering and going out, obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex?

I'm out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dunno...you just kinda pick people up for lack of a better phrase as you go through life :/

Not sure there's a special 'outlet' for em "

The Man Mall. That would be great.

As Dee said, most men of my age aren't allowed to play out with women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys.

What would you bring to the friendship?

friendship, bantering and going out, obviously

Special skills, something like my Darth Vader impression with an empty pint glass?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

All my straight mates have disappeared into couples and kids and the gay ones are settling down too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys.

What would you bring to the friendship? "

Good point, I dunno.

*Plan failure.*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hang out with a large group of guys, I was just 1 of the guys, nowt sexual too it, just beer, pool, music etc, as they found partners I got left out more and more as the gfs didn't like that there was a girl in the group.

Still good mates with some of them, the 1s who are single again or have more chilled out partners. Though these days most of us have sprogs so there's a lot less beer involved!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've found a nice set of man friends on here. Planning to introduce a couple of them to each other too

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I do have more female friends than male but thats just how its happened ive never chosen frienda by sex.But i am meeting up with a group of male friends i havent seen in ages to go to this big party saturday night

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I have 4 very close lifelong friends and the rest are men

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

That's a bit too extreme for me.

I miss my ex-husbands friends.....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Anytime You Need A Friend - Maria Carey

www.youtube.com/watch?v=Li6vpAMmfw0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys.

What would you bring to the friendship?

Good point, I dunno.

*Plan failure.*"

Make me laugh and put up with me being a dick and we're mates!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't have any friends so I'll take male, female or any other descriptor the person chooses.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What about this meet up app thing that people use to make friends or start going to male dominated places

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"What about this meet up app thing that people use to make friends or start going to male dominated places"

meetup.com is a good site, it's full of groups that people set up to meet like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

That's a bit too extreme for me.

I miss my ex-husbands friends....."

I miss a lot of my 'married days friends'. When you become single, you are perceived as a threat to the male half of your friends. Hey ho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about this meet up app thing that people use to make friends or start going to male dominated places

meetup.com is a good site, it's full of groups that people set up to meet like minded people

It's a polite way of pulling people!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

That's a bit too extreme for me.

I miss my ex-husbands friends....."

Marry me and become a hot wife and come home from your adventures to the most searching kisses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my closest friends are guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for fun and friendship and would like to make new friends xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're any good in goal you can hang out with me every thursday and sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're any good in goal you can hang out with me every thursday and sunday

I'm good in goal , keen group player and learn well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're any good in goal you can hang out with me every thursday and sunday

I'm good in goal , keen group player and learn well

You need to bring something different to the changing room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're any good in goal you can hang out with me every thursday and sunday

I'm good in goal , keen group player and learn well

You need to bring something different to the changing room

Can I bring toys? I got toys

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

All my friends are man friends - I find them everywhere; out dancing, on dating sites, on here - I just hang onto them as friends when they leave and get into a relationship lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys.

Same here.

Most went off and got partners and aren't allowed female friends now."

How I lost too many friends in the last year

can't be bothered to make any more now cos it will end the same way!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Scarlet how long have you known me I'm every woman's best friend even if it does piss me off at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys. "

I'll be your man friend OP. No sex though, right.

I expect there'll be nose picking, arse scratching, burping and faring. Probably a bit of exploring orifices with the little finger. You know, the stuff real friends are comfortable doing in front of each other.

And as your friend, I promise not to criticise when you do any of those things.

*shoulder punch

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Paul has lots of female friends but you're a bit too far away....sorry

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

All my friends are female. I don't have any man friends.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'll be your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly where you are coming from. I have always enjoyed the company of women, socially as well as sexually. I'd love a lady friend to hang out with and share stories with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you're any good in goal you can hang out with me every thursday and sunday

I'm good in goal , keen group player and learn well

You need to bring something different to the changing room

Can I bring toys? I got toys

If you've got a Lego millennium falcon amongst your toys, you're in!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Oooo can I have friends please? I have a great sense of humour xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

That's a bit too extreme for me.

I miss my ex-husbands friends....."

I know what you mean. Used to go out with some of them without my husband or their wives. Our house used to look like the UN at the weekends during football season. We used to go to some posh places as one of his friends brother was a premiership footballer who played for Chelsea and would invite us along.

I prefer male company. My married male friends wives don't see me as a threat and I'm friends with them too. In January I'm off for two weeks to Sardinia with three friends, two are blokes...can't wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any ladies wanna hang, message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"any ladies wanna hang, message me"

Why, have you got a noose?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Scarlet how long have you known me I'm every woman's best friend even if it does piss me off at times

You're a sweetheart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"any ladies wanna hang, message me

Why, have you got a noose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"any ladies wanna hang, message me

Why, have you got a noose?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

That's a bit too extreme for me.

I miss my ex-husbands friends.....

I think I'd be offended if they didn't see me as a threat.

Meh who am I kidding. I know they definitely wouldn't see me as a threat.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys. "

I'll be your friend.. and I'm not looking for a shag..well if one was on offer.. it would be bad manners to turn it down i guess.. i may want to raid your wardrobe though.. what size shoe are you..?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to the men that have mailed me. So many forum lurkers..!

I do actually appreciate your mails, thank you. I'm all mushy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to hang out with a large group of guys, I was just 1 of the guys, nowt sexual too it, just beer, pool, music etc, as they found partners I got left out more and more as the gfs didn't like that there was a girl in the group.

Still good mates with some of them, the 1s who are single again or have more chilled out partners. Though these days most of us have sprogs so there's a lot less beer involved!

This is me exactly. Large group of male friends, some I have known 20 yrs plus. Much rather hang out with guys. Less drama. I've found having gorgeous female friends gets you friend zoned pretty quickly. I'm not complaining cos my friendships have lasted alot longer than the 'cooorr I fancy your mate' moment...

Game of pool or darts anyone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had more male friends than female at one point in my life and much prefer them.....they tell you straight and yeah the banter is so much better.....don't have that now for different reasons but I miss them terribly x

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

A morgue is a good place. The liveliest ones are there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still good mates with some of them, the 1s who are single again or have more chilled out partners. Though these days most of us have sprogs so there's a lot less beer involved!

Game of pool or darts anyone??"

Pool and a pint? You're on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on well with men, my best male friend after Mr G, has a partner who knows we've been friends forever and she and Mr G have no issue with us going out together sometimes.

The ways I can think of are mostly sporty, road cycling clubs, tri club and golf are ways my female friends and I have met new male friends. Also via mutual friends. And just chance, I made a great one via a random Faceache moment. Or work as I work in a male dominated industry.

Hope you find some Scarlet.

Sarah

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Get married...then you can hang out with all your husband's friends. Simple enough, right?

That's a bit too extreme for me.

I miss my ex-husbands friends.....

I think I'd be offended if they didn't see me as a threat.

Meh who am I kidding. I know they definitely wouldn't see me as a threat.

women don't see me as a threat and men don't see me as predatory. I like that!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Scarlet how long have you known me I'm every woman's best friend even if it does piss me off at times

You're a sweetheart.

So let's go do something then. Could use a shoulder myself right now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent the OP a friend request which hasn't been accepted.

Bloody timewasting attention seeker.

Pffffffffft.

Love you really OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dunno...you just kinda pick people up for lack of a better phrase as you go through life :/

Not sure there's a special 'outlet' for em

The Man Mall. That would be great.

As Dee said, most men of my age aren't allowed to play out with women.

I am. I'll be your burger buddy

(Luckily I caught the predictive text, 'bugger buddy' before I hit the post button

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

If you want single male friends to hangout with I have the perfect place, it's full of single non sexual men.....

Drum Roll.....

The Games Workshop or any Warhammer club/comic store....

Disclaimer,there maybe a slight whiff of BO...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys. "

Hiyaaaaaa... ready to be your pal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always preferred hanging out with men but when I hit a certain age they all seemed to disappear. Where do I find new man friends??!

Proper man friends I can banter with and go out with. Not men that pretend to like me because they just want a shag.

Gay guys straight guys bi guys any guys. "

Just ask x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you want single male friends to hangout with I have the perfect place, it's full of single non sexual men.....

Drum Roll.....

The Games Workshop or any Warhammer club/comic store....

Disclaimer,there maybe a slight whiff of BO...

Single non sexual men at game shops....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've sent the OP a friend request which hasn't been accepted.

Bloody timewasting attention seeker.

Pffffffffft.

Love you really OP.

I didn't see it on my Nokia 3310. Waiting for my modem to reconnect then I'll accept it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone that fancies a MMMMMMMMMMMMMF social.. mail me.

I have hair the colour of fish batter, a filthy mind and I'm short enough that I won't get in your way of perving other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone that fancies a MMMMMMMMMMMMMF social.. mail me.

I have hair the colour of fish batter, a filthy mind and I'm short enough that I won't get in your way of perving other women.

You had me at fish batter....

I'm in!!!!!!!

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