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By *inzi L OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I am primarily, a man... you can't mistake it, I belch and fart but as you can see from my pix I have a different side. I admit it, I'm at the very least bisexual. I've only found this out after years of wondering... So, that means I like girls & boys right?

Wrong, I like girls and tgirls, trannies, crossdressers, transgender girls (with the extra bit), call us, them whatever you want but you get my drift. No ill intentions meant or insinuated.

So... Why is it that with most of my ex's, it was just a case of pump & squirt but when I meet I can fuck for Britain (on a good night) but it's quite rare for me to cum...

Why's that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to cum on meets too. For me i think it is the condoms and knowing it's not gonna be a cum fest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to cum on meets too. For me i think it is the condoms and knowing it's not gonna be a cum fest."

Condoms are such killers. I have the same issue.

To the OP there is something psychological going on there my freind.

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By *inzi L OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

That's another thing, with my ex's (by ex's, I mean genetic girlfriends) as soon as I tried to put a condom on, I was Mr Floppy but when I meet I can hit it with a hammer and it won't go away!

Is it, could it be anything to do with the fact that you expect to wear a condom rather than have to?

I've gotta stop thinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it bother you? Surely being rock hard is a good thing?

If it doesn't bother you then enjoy it. Everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea linzi, but the more you think and talk abut it the more ideas you'll get and hopefully figure it out.

i love sex, even with condoms but it's rare i'll cum (if at all). but without condoms, and in relationships, i cum really easily. oral and/or fingering would do the same thing also with randoms, even though there's no cum fest either with that usually. so idk lol.

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By *inzi L OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Does it bother you? Surely being rock hard is a good thing?

If it doesn't bother you then enjoy it. Everyone is different. "

Oh no, it doesn't bother me in the slightest and it great when the time is right. What I'm trying to get at is that to me, wearing a condom on a meet is normal procedure but when I used one with a common law wife/s, if you like...

As soon as I picked up the unopened wrapper, I was already drooping.

Weird shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it bother you? Surely being rock hard is a good thing?

If it doesn't bother you then enjoy it. Everyone is different.

Oh no, it doesn't bother me in the slightest and it great when the time is right. What I'm trying to get at is that to me, wearing a condom on a meet is normal procedure but when I used one with a common law wife/s, if you like...

As soon as I picked up the unopened wrapper, I was already drooping.

Weird shit!"

Is the condom the issue... or the person you're with? x

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By *inzi L OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Does it bother you? Surely being rock hard is a good thing?

If it doesn't bother you then enjoy it. Everyone is different.

Oh no, it doesn't bother me in the slightest and it great when the time is right. What I'm trying to get at is that to me, wearing a condom on a meet is normal procedure but when I used one with a common law wife/s, if you like...

As soon as I picked up the unopened wrapper, I was already drooping.

Weird shit!

Is the condom the issue... or the person you're with? x"

Can't be the condom cos I'm still hard when I meet, I can even take my time to make sure everything's good....

It must be them pesky girls!

That was a joke, please don't hang me.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Does it bother you? Surely being rock hard is a good thing?

If it doesn't bother you then enjoy it. Everyone is different.

Oh no, it doesn't bother me in the slightest and it great when the time is right. What I'm trying to get at is that to me, wearing a condom on a meet is normal procedure but when I used one with a common law wife/s, if you like...

As soon as I picked up the unopened wrapper, I was already drooping.

Weird shit!

Is the condom the issue... or the person you're with? x

Can't be the condom cos I'm still hard when I meet, I can even take my time to make sure everything's good....

It must be them pesky girls!

That was a joke, please don't hang me. "
maybe its just the found freedom that you can be who you are at any time now..maybe you felt pressure to be something you werent in those relationships..freedom is empowering in all sorts of ways..glad youve found what you like and are happy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're over thinking it possibly.

There's also the possibility that you've had one, maybe two occasions that for whatever reason (and it's quite natural for it to happen) you couldn't climax during sex, that then sits in your mind and festers, becoming a bigger issue when you next have sex, which sits in your mind, you worry about it and don't climax because you're spending too much time worrying about it, and it becomes a vicious cycle, putting more pressure on, and so on.

Used to happen to me and I learned it's not such a big deal, but when it first happened, I stressed about it and it made it even worse.

Don't let it worry you, relax, enjoy and it will happen.

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By *inzi L OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Does it bother you? Surely being rock hard is a good thing?

If it doesn't bother you then enjoy it. Everyone is different.

Oh no, it doesn't bother me in the slightest and it great when the time is right. What I'm trying to get at is that to me, wearing a condom on a meet is normal procedure but when I used one with a common law wife/s, if you like...

As soon as I picked up the unopened wrapper, I was already drooping.

Weird shit!

Is the condom the issue... or the person you're with? x

Can't be the condom cos I'm still hard when I meet, I can even take my time to make sure everything's good....

It must be them pesky girls!

That was a joke, please don't hang me. maybe its just the found freedom that you can be who you are at any time now..maybe you felt pressure to be something you werent in those relationships..freedom is empowering in all sorts of ways..glad youve found what you like and are happy xx"

I like that, you have a good way with words.

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By *inzi L OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"You're over thinking it possibly.

There's also the possibility that you've had one, maybe two occasions that for whatever reason (and it's quite natural for it to happen) you couldn't climax during sex, that then sits in your mind and festers, becoming a bigger issue when you next have sex, which sits in your mind, you worry about it and don't climax because you're spending too much time worrying about it, and it becomes a vicious cycle, putting more pressure on, and so on.

Used to happen to me and I learned it's not such a big deal, but when it first happened, I stressed about it and it made it even worse.

Don't let it worry you, relax, enjoy and it will happen."

Oh, I've had quite a few occasions. Trust me.

I'm not bothered about not climaxing, the longer I don't the better... for all concerned! Lol

It's not a stress thing but there is a definite switch in the way my body reacts.

It's not a good thing and it's not a bad thing either, just weird!

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