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By *antonkid1955 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Man lured date to a car park before pulling an air pistol on him

http://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/man-lured-date-met-website-11722295#ICID=Android_WalesOnlineNewsApp_AppShare

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By *antonkid1955 OP   Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Posing as a bi curious guy, he lured a bi guy from Fabswingers into a car park...and threatened to shoot him...what is so wrong with people that they feel they have to do this.?,.I thought this was a fun site..at least it's given Fabswingers some airtime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, well this is the real world. There are people out there who are unashamed in turning something good for other people into something terrible. All for their own benefit, no less. It's sad the way things go and I cannot help but feel apprehensive about meeting others through this site, but there's no doubt terrible people lurking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pathetic isnt it. Did they do anything or just threat?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

That poor woman on pof who thought she was out on a first date was murdered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very worrying tbh.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I thought he was dead then when I first read your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That poor woman on pof who thought she was out on a first date was murdered"

That was awful I remember that

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"That poor woman on pof who thought she was out on a first date was murdered"

Yeah it reminds you how fragile we are at times doesn't it,could so easily be ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not Fab site's fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That poor woman on pof who thought she was out on a first date was murdered"

Omg is that true? I didn't read about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not Fab site's fault. "

Agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always risks when you meet anyone in dark secluded places, unfortunately it's the risks that turn a lot of people on! I have a house I can accommodate in and it meet in a pub or something first! I value my own life too much

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"It's not Fab site's fault. "

No it isn't,but it just makes me think a little about how I do thing's. Will I change,probably not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always risks when you meet anyone in dark secluded places, unfortunately it's the risks that turn a lot of people on! I have a house I can accommodate in and it meet in a pub or something first! I value my own life too much "

I haven't read the article and obviously can't condone offensive behaviour.

Who in their right mind would meet someone in a car park?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a social first. In a well lit place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Posing as a bi curious guy, he lured a bi guy from Fabswingers into a car park...and threatened to shoot him...what is so wrong with people that they feel they have to do this.?,.I thought this was a fun site..at least it's given Fabswingers some airtime."

it obviously wasn't 'fun' for the man who was shot just goes to show you should steer clear of those dodgy statuses who want to meet NOW in a random car park somewhere...as nobody is ever that desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not Fab site's fault.

No it isn't,but it just makes me think a little about how I do thing's. Will I change,probably not "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?"

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though."

Doesn't have to be outside of here, just someone on here that keeps the details for you/police, just in case the worst happened

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"It's not Fab site's fault.

No it isn't,but it just makes me think a little about how I do thing's. Will I change,probably not

"

I can't live my life in fear can I,I'm as safe as I feel I can be. If someone is going to murder me they will whether it's in my own home or behind the pub.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though.

Doesn't have to be outside of here, just someone on here that keeps the details for you/police, just in case the worst happened "

Yes I'm sure there is,but it won't matter will it I'll be dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though.

Doesn't have to be outside of here, just someone on here that keeps the details for you/police, just in case the worst happened

Yes I'm sure there is,but it won't matter will it I'll be dead."

Yeah but id hate to think someone could kill me and get away with it!.. the bastards!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not Fab site's fault.

No it isn't,but it just makes me think a little about how I do thing's. Will I change,probably not

I can't live my life in fear can I,I'm as safe as I feel I can be. If someone is going to murder me they will whether it's in my own home or behind the pub."

Seriously!! Or are you joking?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"It's not Fab site's fault.

No it isn't,but it just makes me think a little about how I do thing's. Will I change,probably not

I can't live my life in fear can I,I'm as safe as I feel I can be. If someone is going to murder me they will whether it's in my own home or behind the pub.

Seriously!! Or are you joking?"

I don't joke about being murdered.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though.

Doesn't have to be outside of here, just someone on here that keeps the details for you/police, just in case the worst happened

Yes I'm sure there is,but it won't matter will it I'll be dead.

Yeah but id hate to think someone could kill me and get away with it!.. the bastards!! "

Just out of interest do you give details to someone when you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though.

Doesn't have to be outside of here, just someone on here that keeps the details for you/police, just in case the worst happened

Yes I'm sure there is,but it won't matter will it I'll be dead.

Yeah but id hate to think someone could kill me and get away with it!.. the bastards!!

Just out of interest do you give details to someone when you meet?"

I've only met socially at clubs so far, it's something I'd consider

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though.

Doesn't have to be outside of here, just someone on here that keeps the details for you/police, just in case the worst happened

Yes I'm sure there is,but it won't matter will it I'll be dead.

Yeah but id hate to think someone could kill me and get away with it!.. the bastards!!

Just out of interest do you give details to someone when you meet?

I've only met socially at clubs so far, it's something I'd consider "

I just wondered if this was something a woman would do more than a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though.

Doesn't have to be outside of here, just someone on here that keeps the details for you/police, just in case the worst happened

Yes I'm sure there is,but it won't matter will it I'll be dead.

Yeah but id hate to think someone could kill me and get away with it!.. the bastards!!

Just out of interest do you give details to someone when you meet?

I've only met socially at clubs so far, it's something I'd consider

I just wondered if this was something a woman would do more than a man"

I think it's someone more women should do, but I can't see many men thinking about safety when it comes to getting his dick wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could of been worse ..could of been a sawn off shotgun or a daily mail reporter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer a social first. In a well lit place. "

Like a supermarket....

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though.

Doesn't have to be outside of here, just someone on here that keeps the details for you/police, just in case the worst happened

Yes I'm sure there is,but it won't matter will it I'll be dead.

Yeah but id hate to think someone could kill me and get away with it!.. the bastards!!

Just out of interest do you give details to someone when you meet?

I've only met socially at clubs so far, it's something I'd consider

I just wondered if this was something a woman would do more than a man

I think it's someone more women should do, but I can't see many men thinking about safety when it comes to getting his dick wet "

Interesting that you think it's something more a woman should do as this incidence is clearly about a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not outside of here no,that would be a sensible thing to do though.

Doesn't have to be outside of here, just someone on here that keeps the details for you/police, just in case the worst happened

Yes I'm sure there is,but it won't matter will it I'll be dead.

Yeah but id hate to think someone could kill me and get away with it!.. the bastards!!

Just out of interest do you give details to someone when you meet?

I've only met socially at clubs so far, it's something I'd consider

I just wondered if this was something a woman would do more than a man

I think it's someone more women should do, but I can't see many men thinking about safety when it comes to getting his dick wet

Interesting that you think it's something more a woman should do as this incidence is clearly about a man"

I think it's just the male mind, altho I'd be meeting women, this man was meeting another man! Also I've heard lots about people meeting up with people online and getting robbed, like a set up! It can happen to anyone at anytime

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"It's not Fab site's fault. "

It's not no, but a little reminder about taking care, but that applies to most things in life we do, but especially when meeting strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scary and quite sad that people are that deranged to do the unthinkable.

Things like this do happen and it maybe a small percentage. But think how easy someone with ulterior motives could infiltrate this site and others similar.

Not everyone understands this type of lifestyle and excepts

Sexual liberation.

If your on a meet and it doesn't feel quite right. Your instinct is a natural mechanism for self preservation and defense . Always go with it.

Stay safe fabbsters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not Fab site's fault.

It's not no, but a little reminder about taking care, but that applies to most things in life we do, but especially when meeting strangers."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not Fab site's fault.

No it isn't,but it just makes me think a little about how I do thing's. Will I change,probably not

I can't live my life in fear can I,I'm as safe as I feel I can be. If someone is going to murder me they will whether it's in my own home or behind the pub.

Seriously!! Or are you joking?

I don't joke about being murdered."

But you take your personal safety so flippantly. Wow

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"It's not Fab site's fault.

No it isn't,but it just makes me think a little about how I do thing's. Will I change,probably not

I can't live my life in fear can I,I'm as safe as I feel I can be. If someone is going to murder me they will whether it's in my own home or behind the pub.

Seriously!! Or are you joking?

I don't joke about being murdered.

But you take your personal safety so flippantly. Wow

"

No I don't,that's how you choice to read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not Fab site's fault.

Agree x "

agreed public place meetings for socials

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"It's not Fab site's fault.

Agree x agreed public place meetings for socials "

The woman that met a guy through pof and was murdered met in a bar first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there was a guy mudering women using match.com. this stuff happens unfortunately.

noticed the news called fab a dating site though.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"there was a guy mudering women using match.com. this stuff happens unfortunately.

noticed the news called fab a dating site though. "

Did it that's funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there was a guy mudering women using match.com. this stuff happens unfortunately.

noticed the news called fab a dating site though.

Did it that's funny "

yeah. first paragraph i think.

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By *alacious RedWoman
over a year ago

croydon

Can't say much but 4day court case in October & he's inside already for 2 other attacks ladies please be careful.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Meet and play in a club with lots of people around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always risks when you meet anyone in dark secluded places, unfortunately it's the risks that turn a lot of people on! I have a house I can accommodate in and it meet in a pub or something first! I value my own life too much

I haven't read the article and obviously can't condone offensive behaviour.

Who in their right mind would meet someone in a car park?"

Hundreds of people will , and we can testify this fact as most of our meets are held in car parks .

We don't take offensive weapons with us though , nor do we threaten anyone .

We have been doing this for over five years and never encountered anything nasty . Will we change anything ? No .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet and play in a club with lots of people around"

^ what Josie said

We're planning our first FFM threesome at our house, we've said we'd like to meet somewhere neutral first just to scope them out.

Inviting strangers directly to your home is something everyone should play with caution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safety first at all times.

Even then tragedy can strike.

I know this from personal experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?"

I do,,,and I text my friend at a pre arranged time to let her know I'm alive and well.I do the same for her too.

There are some horrible people around and we all have to take whatever measures we can to protect ourselves....a first meeting in a dark,secluded spot??? I think not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought, does anyone actually have someone that they tell where they are going when off to meet someone and possibly the profile details? Just for safety reasons?

I do,,,and I text my friend at a pre arranged time to let her know I'm alive and well.I do the same for her too.

There are some horrible people around and we all have to take whatever measures we can to protect ourselves....a first meeting in a dark,secluded spot??? I think not."

Very wise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known men being set up by a attractive woman (honey trap) to be robbed and cars stolen it's the world of today....

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

jokingly, he wouldnt have any veris...

on a serious note yes i always tell someone where im going, rough time of getting back home, and txt when i do..thats just sensible.

meeting in dark carparks, may be some peoples thing and thats cool, but its not for me

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