FabSwingers.com forum: Immediate Turn offs?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's everyone's immediate turn off? Mine is when people expect me to act a certain way because I'm bisexual

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Telling me what I would like

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Bad breath.

Bad teeth

Arrogance

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By *lice_in_BlunderlandWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Pictures with dirty fingernails

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

People being pushy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it isn't possible to list them there are far too many

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By *hagulikeMan
over a year ago

Essex

Bad scruffy wallpaper . If it looks untidy they the person may also be untidy

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

"Bad scruffy wallpaper . If it looks untidy they the person may also be untidy "

Maybe theyre just bad at decorating

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Bad hygeine. Nuff said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it isn't possible to list them there are far too many

lol,,yea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The professionally offended

Mrs x

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Telling me what my preferences are or how to run my profile

Racism

Homophobia

Entitlement

Offering money

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"The professionally offended

Mrs x"

Oh dear God yes. So much this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The professionally offended

Mrs x"

Only when people are saying something completely idiotic

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Also, the words/phrases; "end of" "jog on" and of course, fucking "simples."

GET. FUCKED.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steering the conversation towards sex very, very quickly puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also, the words/phrases; "end of" "jog on" and of course, fucking "simples."

GET. FUCKED. "

Sooo, anything said in every sentence in an episode of Jeremy Kyle

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By *kpartystartersCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We hate it when they have the bottom half of a horse. That's right, we don't like centaurs.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Also, the words/phrases; "end of" "jog on" and of course, fucking "simples."

GET. FUCKED.

Sooo, anything said in every sentence in an episode of Jeremy Kyle

I'll have to take your word for that. But they definitely appear, always at least two and usually all three, on the profiles of a very particular demographic of lady swinger...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also, the words/phrases; "end of" "jog on" and of course, fucking "simples."

GET. FUCKED.

Sooo, anything said in every sentence in an episode of Jeremy Kyle

I'll have to take your word for that. But they definitely appear, always at least two and usually all three, on the profiles of a very particular demographic of lady swinger..."

The demanding sort?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Asking me what I'm wearing now.

If I've arranged to meet what I'm going to wear.

Asking if I squirt

Manky finger/toe nails

Sex talk early on in a convo

Lots of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling mistakes in the profile name. If you cannot even get this right......shakes head

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"What's everyone's immediate turn off? Mine is when people expect me to act a certain way because I'm bisexual"

That's not an instant turn-off for me. I'll happily set the record straight and, if necessary, turn the tables

But I know what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman on here and all her medication was beside the bed.

Wasnt a good first impression tbh but still shagged her tho hahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit car

Shit clothes

Shit small talk

Shit house

Shit attitude

Shit Shit and Tripple Shit

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Barely coherent messages.

I had one recently that read ";"

Just

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's everyone's immediate turn off? Mine is when people expect me to act a certain way because I'm bisexual

That's not an instant turn-off for me. I'll happily set the record straight and, if necessary, turn the tables

But I know what you mean."

I apparantly act like I am straight

. No idea what that means. I am a fabulous and relentless Queen

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

talking about previous partners

asking advice about current partners whilst in my bed

possessiveness

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Bad attitude,cockiness and only talking to one of us.Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics sat on the toilet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shit car

Shit clothes

Shit small talk

Shit house

Shit attitude

Shit Shit and Tripple Shit

Holy shit that's a lot of shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shit car

Shit clothes

Shit small talk

Shit house

Shit attitude

Shit Shit and Tripple Shit

Holy shit that's a lot of shit

She left out shit language

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

I earn more money than you, so I am superior

I went to public school, so I am superior

I talk like Prince Charles, so I am superior

Hair Gel

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Barely coherent messages.

I had one recently that read ";"

Just

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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Barely coherent messages.

I had one recently that read ";"

Just

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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad

Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gynaecologically explicit pictures, I love a little bit of erotic mystery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Barely coherent messages.

I had one recently that read ";"

Just

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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad

Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally"

Oh, you should see me when I'm d*unk, I do it beautifully...

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By *ust MonicaWoman
over a year ago

CAMBRIDGESHIRE

"Bad scruffy wallpaper . If it looks untidy they the person may also be untidy "

Bad decor

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Gynaecologically explicit pictures, I love a little bit of erotic mystery. "

Bugger (runs off to hide her butt plug shot even though it's all sparkly)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Barely coherent messages.

I had one recently that read ";"

Just

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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad

Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally

Oh, you should see me when I'm d*unk, I do it beautifully...

You strike me as the sort who could pull with one stern look in all honesty :')

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Barely coherent messages.

I had one recently that read ";"

Just

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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad

Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally

Oh, you should see me when I'm d*unk, I do it beautifully...

I can't do it without looking like I have something in my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gynaecologically explicit pictures, I love a little bit of erotic mystery.

Bugger (runs off to hide her butt plug shot even though it's all sparkly)"

No, that's beautifully erotic

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Pictures with dirty fingernails

This, this, this X 1 million. Made worse only by people who approach you in Clubs displaying fingernail talons that could catch fish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to make the entire forum cringe with one letter....

Mmmmmmmm

*drops mic and walks off*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Barely coherent messages.

I had one recently that read ";"

Just

;

Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad

Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally

Oh, you should see me when I'm d*unk, I do it beautifully...

You strike me as the sort who could pull with one stern look in all honesty :')"

I better learn how to do a stern look then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How to make the entire forum cringe with one letter....

Mmmmmmmm

*drops mic and walks off*

Or one word.

Moist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who likes Donald Trump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who likes Donald Trump"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How to make the entire forum cringe with one letter....

Mmmmmmmm

*drops mic and walks off*

Or one word.

Moist"

Mmmmmm moister than an oyster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spinach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Book cover judges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one word worse that moist.....

'Discharge'

Pass the bucket.

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..

Crudeness & bad ass personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None - I can fap over anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going on about how much they squirt/gush.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Barely coherent messages.

I had one recently that read ";"

Just

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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad

Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally"

Yes, terribly offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None - I can fap over anything."

Ever had a tug to blue waffle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None - I can fap over anything.

Ever had a tug to blue waffle

What do you think I'm doing right now?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Barely coherent messages.

I had one recently that read ";"

Just

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Only half a wink? Thats pretty bad

Even a full wink would be bad. Then again, I've never actually seen someone wink sexally"

Oh, that might explain it. Half a wink.

Thanks

That's been bothering me.

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

"Gynaecologically explicit pictures, I love a little bit of erotic mystery.

Bugger (runs off to hide her butt plug shot even though it's all sparkly)"

Had to go find that one, it is indeed all sparkly!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Men with high pitched voices.

Cockney accents.

Gym/tennis/golf wear on men over 40 worn as leisure wear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To sum it all up, bad taste and no sense of humour.

Also people expecting reasons for why they aren't the type im looking for. Then when i reveal why they aren't for me, even if i do so in the most delicate of manners they take such a massive huff.

But hey their problem not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a misanthrope, pretty much everything. It's a rare man who gets through my firewalls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ignorant, those who can't write a proper sentence and those who swear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad manners"

They were a great band.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using "discrete" instead of "discreet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Americanisms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using "discrete" instead of "discreet""

Maybe they are unique?

Badaboom, tish!

I'll get my coat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using "discrete" instead of "discreet"

Maybe they are unique?

Badaboom, tish!

I'll get my coat... "

Pmsl, sadly, they're all over the place!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Self entitlement. Drives me fucking barmy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standby button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using "discrete" instead of "discreet"

Maybe they are unique?

Badaboom, tish!

I'll get my coat...

Pmsl, sadly, they're all over the place!"

I've got to admit, including me at one point. Never again though, promise

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Beards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just about to get down to it and told "I've got an STD but it will be ok" that's a bit if a turn off where's my coat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone calling my partner a slut. Just asking for a punch in the mouth.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Spelling mistakes in profiles or in a sent message ...Please check first

Not bringing condoms!!!

Asking if ive got kik or skype

Asking for my number or sending me theirs .

Asking what I will be wearing

Do I squirt .

..... NEXT !!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beards "

I'll get my coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Using "discrete" instead of "discreet"

Maybe they are unique?

Badaboom, tish!

I'll get my coat...

Pmsl, sadly, they're all over the place!

I've got to admit, including me at one point. Never again though, promise

Spellcheck did it to me, I thought it looked odd, gone now!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Ignorance

Being chatty then disappearing

Lack of imagination

Calling me hun

"Fancy a fuck" messages- fancy a throatpunch?

Sleeziness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking me what I'm wearing now.

If I've arranged to meet what I'm going to wear.

Asking if I squirt

Manky finger/toe nails

Sex talk early on in a convo

Lots of things

yeah the asking if i squirt puts me off too because you know if you meet them your going to have to endure constant finger blasting

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Lack of IQ

Lack of manners

Lack of imagination

Unable to read simple instructions

Persistant nagging

making assumptions

"GAWD UR HOT, WANNA FUK" - Learn to bloody spell!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Asking me what I'm wearing now.

If I've arranged to meet what I'm going to wear.

Asking if I squirt

Manky finger/toe nails

Sex talk early on in a convo

Lots of things

yeah the asking if i squirt puts me off too because you know if you meet them your going to have to endure constant finger blasting "

To make them feel like a hero

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

inability to hold a decent convirsation,

the mere mention of rimming, watersports or bukkake,

talking or showing pictures of sexy clothing, great does abso nothing for me.

assuming that because I am a single male, that at the nearest and most oppotune moment I will want to have sex with you and can't understand when I turn them down. Seriusly who do youthink I am easy or something. secondly i do have a life away from swinging.

that said I belive through reflection that possibly that instability, inability to understand the suposed 'signs'. Inability to accommodate and a certain cynicism apparently might be a turn off for women.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Extreme group scenes in pics

One word messages

Bad grammer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me people who think every should be a literacy genius. I've always been rubbish at spelling but it doesn't make me a shitty fuck.

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By *ittle Miss MuckyWoman
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

An unclean toilet

There's just no excuse!

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Self entitlement. Drives me fucking barmy. "

wherehas this self entitlment came from they recently did a study and found that from a cohort of 300 males found that overwelmingly tgey were entitled to women. this had led the government to perform there own reserch with a much wider cohort.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Self entitlement. Drives me fucking barmy.

sorry i forgot to mention the cohort was on teenagers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Self entitlement. Drives me fucking barmy.

sorry i forgot to mention the cohort was on teenagers."

Over-indulgence by parents combined with easy access to porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mobile phones. Gets on my nerves people who incessantly check their phone. Grrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile names...

Some are horrendous

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"The professionally offended

Mrs x

Oh dear God yes. So much this.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Graphic usernames and unnecessary bitchy nasty posts on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bitchy status updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight guys who message us and when we ask them to read our profile...BOOOOM....they are suddenly bi

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By *pal2Man
over a year ago

cumbria

"Bad scruffy wallpaper . If it looks untidy they the person may also be untidy "

Flocked by name flocked by nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you start having a conversation with someone and then with in minutes it's, have you got any naughty pics and video you can send me Etc. then it's all about sex and no talking..

really drives me mad and then that's it the talk stops and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you start having a conversation with someone and then with in minutes it's, have you got any naughty pics and video you can send me Etc. then it's all about sex and no talking..

really drives me mad and then that's it the talk stops and move on

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One gay guy asked me "how's that handsome cock of yours"

Instant delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypocrisy, prejudice and making assumptions. No sense of humour. Lack of manners. Little grasp of the English language. Disdain for those they see as 'beneath' them somehow. Abusive or questioning mails when I haven't got back to them within five minutes. Clinginess. Bad hygiene. Jealousy. Chip on the shoulder.

Good god. I'm actually quite picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laziness and selfishness

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Action" pics involving a guy.

Mention of (male) FB watching or joining in.

Long lists of demands or rules.

Generalisations ("Nobody ever reads profiles so...")

Women who not only express a preference for or against something (very useful), but then act like no other lady in the world would ever want the opposite. Usually one profile warning against the dire consequences of sending a cock pic with "no wonder guys aren't successful on here", or "have a bit of self respect" - then the very next profile saying messages without one will be deleted!

Male cum in pictures.

Huge lists of meet verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mobile phones. Gets on my nerves people who incessantly check their phone. Grrr!"

Oh, I'm one of those. I'm usually checking Fab!

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"When you start having a conversation with someone and then with in minutes it's, have you got any naughty pics and video you can send me Etc. then it's all about sex and no talking..

really drives me mad and then that's it the talk stops and move on

I understand that pov entirely, but it can be very difficult for guys to judge without knowing the other person. I'm more than happy to have "getting-to-know-someone" chat(s) before any mention of sex, but there are plenty of women as well as blokes of the "it's a sex site, tell me you what you want to do to me" mindset. Too clean and we're "boring", too explicit too early and we're "crude"! The best that we can hope for is a hint of the best approach on their profile... It's a game and a half this Fab lark!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Bitchy status updates"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mobile phones. Gets on my nerves people who incessantly check their phone. Grrr!

Oh, I'm one of those. I'm usually checking Fab!"

Hehe and us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checking fab whilst sitting next you and showing you there next conquests....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Checking fab whilst sitting next you and showing you there next conquests....

We had a guy once whilst during a meet was always on his phone (fuck we must be boring) when we jokingly asked if he was texting his wife he replied no he was on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you start having a conversation with someone and then with in minutes it's, have you got any naughty pics and video you can send me Etc. then it's all about sex and no talking..

really drives me mad and then that's it the talk stops and move on

That's true and understanding that.. it with in the first 2 messages have you got pics and video just a bit to forward and comes across a collector rather then anything else.. I get changing face pics etc but naughty ones and video just a bit to much to fast in my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Checking fab whilst sitting next you and showing you there next conquests....

We had a guy once whilst during a meet was always on his phone (fuck we must be boring) when we jokingly asked if he was texting his wife he replied no he was on fab

The addiction is real lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its 'lack of charactor'

Had a meet once & was bored out my mind within 1st 10mins, I had to put in all the effort to make conversation & everything & when I'm came to it, let's just say sticking my dick in a cold pie wld have been more exciting

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Beard hate! I don't just mean not liking beards, of course that's absolutely fine. It takes all sorts to make a liquorice. I mean the unnecessarily venomous beard hate, those that can't just put "No beards" without following it up with a downright offensive ranting attack. "No beards yuk horrible disgusting smelly things why would you want to look like a dirty smelly tramp it makes me sick" that sort of thing.

A: My beard gets brushed twice a day and cleaned more often than your gash, you judgemental mongol.

And B: Don't launch such a scathing attack on people you don't know for no reason, you psycho. Imagine that same rant on a bloke's profile, but replace "beards" with "fat girls." You'd be furious at the nasty, misogynistic piece of shit, and rightly so.

(NB: I most certainly do not feel that way about "fat" girls. I absolutely adore a bigger body. Don't just read the last bit and get angry...)

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Those who try to fake being something there not .

Those who demand respect but show nun back.

Those who think their entitled and take more than they give .because of this belief .

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

A lack of empathy !

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Beard hate! I don't just mean not liking beards, of course that's absolutely fine. It takes all sorts to make a liquorice. I mean the unnecessarily venomous beard hate, those that can't just put "No beards" without following it up with a downright offensive ranting attack. "No beards yuk horrible disgusting smelly things why would you want to look like a dirty smelly tramp it makes me sick" that sort of thing.

A: My beard gets brushed twice a day and cleaned more often than your gash, you judgemental mongol.

(NB: I most certainly do not feel that way about "fat" girls. I absolutely adore a bigger body. Don't just read the last bit and get angry...)"

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ignorant, those who can't write a proper sentence and those who swear! "

I'm really bad for swearing

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A prescribed play list that ignores my needs and desires - plus all the hygiene ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A: My beard gets brushed twice a day and cleaned more often than your gash, you judgemental mongol.

(NB: I most certainly do not feel that way about "fat" girls. I absolutely adore a bigger body. Don't just read the last bit and get angry...)

Wow

If you only realised how frequently one comes across this kind of shite...

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

Smelly pussys, bad attitudes the general stuff.

If a woman jumps from 1st meet to we're now a couple.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

A: My beard gets brushed twice a day and cleaned more often than your gash, you judgemental mongol.

(NB: I most certainly do not feel that way about "fat" girls. I absolutely adore a bigger body. Don't just read the last bit and get angry...)

Wow

If you only realised how frequently one comes across this kind of shite..."

Your post and choice of language makes it quite clear, hence the expression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any sniff of discrimination

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Pictures with 1980s wallpaper or bedding in view.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I've been here longer than you, therefore I'm never wrong" people

Pessimists in every fun thread

Biphobia

Liars

Pic collectors

Timewasters

Bodyshaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's everyone's immediate turn off? Mine is when people expect me to act a certain way because I'm bisexual"
bad breath (gags) bad hygiene and bad attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ignorant, those who can't write a proper sentence and those who swear!

I'm really bad for swearing

"
f*** that! It's normal to f****** swear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad hygeine. Nuff said..."
this

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Graphic usernames and unnecessary bitchy nasty posts on the forums"

The Irony is that I like graphic usernames its a turn on. It alias the mind to wonder what could possibly be and what z profile like or are good at.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Hypocrisy, prejudice and making assumptions. No sense of humour. Lack of manners. Little grasp of the English language. Disdain for those they see as 'beneath' them somehow. Abusive or questioning mails when I haven't got back to them within five minutes. Clinginess. Bad hygiene. Jealousy. Chip on the shoulder.

Good god. I'm actually quite picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ignorant, those who can't write a proper sentence and those who swear!

I'm really bad for swearing

f*** that! It's normal to f****** swear lol

I hate people who swear in every day conversation

I guess we all swear at some point, when we are angry etc

My ex swears every other word, he can't string a sentence together without half a dozen swear words in there, I know a few others like that too, to me it just shows lack of intelligence, to thick to think of the correct word so just strings a loads of sweat words together and pass it off as conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ignorant, those who can't write a proper sentence and those who swear!

I'm really bad for swearing

f*** that! It's normal to f****** swear lol

I hate people who swear in every day conversation

I guess we all swear at some point, when we are angry etc

"
too* thick...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad hygeine. Nuff said..."

Agree with this and also arrogant people

...must also add ppl who start getting rude because you said "no"

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

"The ignorant, those who can't write a proper sentence and those who swear!

I'm really bad for swearing

f*** that! It's normal to f****** swear lol

I hate people who swear in every day conversation

I guess we all swear at some point, when we are angry etc

To paraphrase Steven fry, foul language is a good thing and the more intelligent people in this world tend to use it more often than most. Its not an inability to find the correct word as there are no correct words when you are forming a sentence, only a colourful use of the language as we know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smelly people

Smelly people with bad teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men in socks especially white ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand magazines like OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Crudeness & bad ass personality!"

I like crude....on a fuckin Tuesday

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Crudeness & bad ass personality!

I like crude....on a fuckin Tuesday

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit Shoes

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

Lots of things (F)

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By *ilvercharmCouple
over a year ago

Our gate

Feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spit makes me cringe

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Even as a single feller, I've had the odd "Hi, how r u?" message from single ladies.

Fuck that. I usually reply to most messages, but they go straight in the bin. Instant turn off.

If you are going to message me, please, at least be able to communicate in sentences. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even as a single feller, I've had the odd "Hi, how r u?" message from single ladies.

Fuck that. I usually reply to most messages, but they go straight in the bin. Instant turn off.

If you are going to message me, please, at least be able to communicate in sentences. Thank you. "

Hi, how are you?

Nice profile pictures btw #justsaying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"The professionally offended

Mrs x"

I reserve the right to be pre-offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height. Really have to be at least the same height as me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of explicited parts of the human body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive

Arragant

Cocky

Shallow

Vain

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Pictures of explicited parts of the human body "

Hmmmm

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Ignorance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vulgarity

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By *hemonkeyheadMan
over a year ago

Reading

people who message saying they'd like to meet a BBC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mobile phones. Gets on my nerves people who incessantly check their phone. Grrr!"

Esp when its fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it has to be those people, that we all know, that challenge what you said, until they are blue in the face, on the dumbest, and dullest subject, that briefly made an appearance in conversation.

For example;

Me: "I cooked a roast yesterday. I've found that roasting potatoes in olive oil, after seasoning and sprinkling a bit of garlic and rosemary, works for me"

Arsehole:

"No" [now this is the bit that grinds me] "What you want to do is......" [5 minutes later........]

Me (in my head, after submitting and changing the subject, because I don't care, but am too polite to say so):

"Shut up, you absolute twat!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diabolical dress sense!! No thanks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Steering the conversation towards sex very, very quickly puts me off."

Most don't want general chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Steering the conversation towards sex very, very quickly puts me off.

Most don't want general chat"

Possibly true but I find it quite boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Abusive

Arragant

Cocky

Shallow

Vain"

Have we met??

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Steering the conversation towards sex very, very quickly puts me off.

Most don't want general chat"

I thought most didn't.

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