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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Virtual hugs to you pretty

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I know hoe you feel big hugs coming your way and I'll even bake for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*big hugs*

It's not an easy job despite what some people tell you.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Sending virtual hugs, time to unwind soon hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

I feel your pain I have 3 little ones and they push as far as they can haha

Huge cuddles , snuggles and pampering sent your way

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Hugs, tea and choco cake whenever you need

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

Sorry to hear that hugs a plenty coming you way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up buttercup X I'll be having a conga party when mine go back to School!!

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

It's the most difficult, scary, frustrating, exhausting job ever especially if your a single parent (but also the most rewarding)

*Sends Hugs* x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the most difficult, scary, frustrating, exhausting job ever especially if your a single parent (but also the most rewarding)

*Sends Hugs* x"

I would not just say for single parents, bringing up a child for anyone is hard work. If you're alone yes its obviously harder but doesnt make it easy for a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

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I agree message if you need to speak to somebody I'll do what I can to help

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Consider yourself hugged xxx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Tell me about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

Hope everything's ok cute.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

Tell is about it!! Seriously considering digging a couple of holes in the field out back!!

"Go to sleep you little fxxxxxs!"

Sending spare hugs your way!!

S&H

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

So with you hardest job in the world...........have a bath, read a book and nice deep breaths

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all for the hugs and love

She's not a pain or being difficult.. she is just growing up and realizing the sad truth about people she loves..

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Thanks all for the hugs and love

She's not a pain or being difficult.. she is just growing up and realizing the sad truth about people she loves..

You are the best, most amazing person in her life. Never doubt that xxx

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Thanks all for the hugs and love

She's not a pain or being difficult.. she is just growing up and realizing the sad truth about people she loves..

Oh it is hard when they see us as people with all of our inevitable flaws and we all do, no one is perfect, the fact that you are trying is more than enough.......all you can be is a 'good enough parent' a great guy once said Didicott I think

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"It's the most difficult, scary, frustrating, exhausting job ever especially if your a single parent (but also the most rewarding)

*Sends Hugs* x"
see i dont get this. Parenting is bloody hard work full stop. I dont think it would have been any less hard work if i hadnt been a single parent

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

Massive hugs from us....we did our time

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Kids certainly know how to push us. Different ages, different issues. At least as they get older you can reason with them a little more.

((((Hugs))))

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"It's the most difficult, scary, frustrating, exhausting job ever especially if your a single parent (but also the most rewarding)

*Sends Hugs* xsee i dont get this. Parenting is bloody hard work full stop. I dont think it would have been any less hard work if i hadnt been a single parent"

It's harder work when the other parent virtually disappears from their lives and your child thinks it's something they have done wrong. I've spent 2 years reassuring my little girl that she hadn't done anything to make her dad go away. It's very hard seeing that pain your child is going through and not being able to take it away was what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many hugs sweetheart. Parenting is heartbreaking sometimes but worth every frustrated tear xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(((((hugs)))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially during the summer hols..exhausting!!!

Xox

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

Yes, and so rewarding too, hope you get things sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

You would have a group hug if all these guys an girls were closer lol

Big hugs for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having gone through difficult times with my ex being an absent parent I realised that I couldn't make my ex have the relationship with our child that I believed our child deserved. I did everything I could to facilitate and support their relationship whilst ensuring that I was the 'constant' - always there, steady, reliable, security etc

It really isn't easy when your cHild is asking if their Dad is dead because they just disappeared

Or the child is facing up to how unreliable the other parent is - lying etc

I always answered the questions and I think that and lots of love, reassurance and normality got us through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have one but I'm hanging onto what little hugs i have at the moment. I need them too.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can have one but I'm hanging onto what little hugs i have at the moment. I need them too.x"

will share the love.. everyone needs it xxx

Hope your life events ease up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh forgot to leave you a big hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never needed hugs so much in my damn life, but imma keep it on the down low.

Tomorrow is a new day sweetie, rest up and *huuuuuuuggg* from me - I give the beat hugs, proven fact! Haha Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Having gone through difficult times with my ex being an absent parent I realised that I couldn't make my ex have the relationship with our child that I believed our child deserved. I did everything I could to facilitate and support their relationship whilst ensuring that I was the 'constant' - always there, steady, reliable, security etc

It really isn't easy when your cHild is asking if their Dad is dead because they just disappeared

Or the child is facing up to how unreliable the other parent is - lying etc

I always answered the questions and I think that and lots of love, reassurance and normality got us through

feel a bit crap and frustrated.. ive always wanted them to have some kind of bond...

she adores the idea of a dad and worships the toy dog he won for her once at the arcade. She named it after him and goes to bed every night with it..

and now she picks up that he really doesnt have the time of day for her and she is the one hurting..

i feel guilty for trying to force a relationship when he clearly never gave a toss,, so indirectly she's suffering because i never gave up on their bond as quick as he did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knitter kisses and a squeezy hug. Just remember that you're amazing, she is amazing and as such you're both doing.an amazing job

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Oh OP!

'Hugs on way!'

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

group hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't easy when your cHild is asking if their Dad is dead because they just disappeared

Or the child is facing up to how unreliable the other parent is - lying etc

I always answered the questions and I think that and lots of love, reassurance and normality got us through

feel a bit crap and frustrated.. ive always wanted them to have some kind of bond...

she adores the idea of a dad and worships the toy dog he won for her once at the arcade. She named it after him and goes to bed every night with it..

and now she picks up that he really doesnt have the time of day for her and she is the one hurting..

i feel guilty for trying to force a relationship when he clearly never gave a toss,, so indirectly she's suffering because i never gave up on their bond as quick as he did

You were doing what you thought was right at the time. Don't beat yourself up about it and concentrate on moving forward x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.

Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?

I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!

Big hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*squeezes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.

Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?

I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!

Big hugs

So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.

Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?

I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!

Big hugs

So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....

Oh gawd yeah, don't get me started on them!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could do with them..

Parenting is sooooo hard at times.

Green arrow me for my cuddle thread. It has been resurrected and free hugs and cuddles for all. Mr L.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.

Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?

I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!

Big hugs

So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....

Oh no, have the itchy scratchy monsters come to visit

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.

Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?

I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!

Big hugs

So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....

Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....

Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long

My daughters hair is almost at her bum.. but yes its a constant battle..

boils my piss no end when some parents just dont give a shit

Nitty Gritty comb is a god send :D

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.

Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?

I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!

Big hugs

So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....

Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long

We talked about last resort of shaving long hair off when nits struck us......thankfully just averted it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.

Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?

I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!

Big hugs

So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....

Oh no, have the itchy scratchy monsters come to visit

Yep....luckily only for my eldest...the rest of us passed the comb test....

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.

Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?

I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!

Big hugs

So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....

Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long

We talked about last resort of shaving long hair off when nits struck us......thankfully just averted it!!"

I was alway's threatened her with it

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

So are nits!! Eurgh! Little critters....

Absolute pain when one of your daughters hair is very long

My daughters hair is almost at her bum.. but yes its a constant battle..

boils my piss no end when some parents just dont give a shit

Nitty Gritty comb is a god send :D "

It's hard to keep at bay as girl's are so huggy with each other,nit's are a bloody nuisance

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By *xx1Man
over a year ago

Huge hugs n' positive vibes

#staywinnig x

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By *kissors1971Man
over a year ago

GREAT YARMOUTH

Sends hugs x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Parenting is really, really hard at times, it's one of the few things we learn 'on the job' so to speak.

Remember the hard times don't last too long, think back to what was hard previously, somehow it worked itself out & you moved on, do you see what I'm getting at?

I have had challenge after challenge with my son, teenage hormones are really something!!

Big hugs

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not to long. From the age of two to 26 so far for me, getting them through childhood then teenage years, then a young adult, getting them back on the rails if they fall off. Supporting them through relationship break ups. Sometimes just being by their side is challenging enough

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