FabSwingers.com forum: Men who have been flashed.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, this thread is in reference to another thread about public flashing.

As you would expect there were a lot of negative experiences of being flashed from female forumees and it was almost universally viewed that a man flashing a woman was a no no.

There were also others who rightly said that there should be no gender discrimination and that flashing a stranger constituted non consensual sexual activity whatever the sex of the flasher.

Whilst I agree in principal I don't think I could bring myself to vilify any female who flashed me.

I think for many men, rightly or wrongly,being flashed by a woman is not a negative thing and could be taken in fact as a "request" for consent?

Big subject, and not one I want to fully debate on this thread if you please.

I'm really looking to find a concensus of opinion from men about their experiences of being flashed.

Guys, have you been flashed..and if so briefly what happened and how did it make you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys, have you been flashed..and if so briefly what happened and how did it make you feel?"

Flashed by a bloke when I was a kid.

Fucking pervert. Made me feel horrible.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

...but what if a woman flashed you?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"...but what if a woman flashed you?..."

I should have worded the last sentence better for the people who only read that one!

Of course it should have had on the end "by a woman"

And that is not to trivialise the experience of the person above who was flashed by another male. As traumatic as if you were a female especially if you were young.

It's just not what this thread is about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Too many words huh guys?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I suppose it depends on context, place, time and those present. It would depend whether these add up to implied consent/hi jinx in which case it could be deemed accepted.

There's a difference between a tipsy holiday maker pulling a mooney at 2am in Faliraki in front of other tipsy brits abroad and someone exposing themselves at 2pm down Hatfield high street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously as a child It would be fine if I'd been flashed by a female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been flashed a couple of times found it neither arousing or annoying.

Someone flashed an ex he jumped out a bush screaming like an animal so she punched him straight to throat. Down he went gurgling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Erm.. so..this an amended final sentence to make things clearer.

Men , As an adult have you been flashed by a woman. Could you tell us briefly what happened and how it made you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fab meet with a guy, we didn't talk, just walked around tesco whilst I flashed him a few times x he said it was pretty hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was flashed the other day by someone from the public!!

Thankful though! Sneaky police speed trap van under the bridge!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You know it is no wonder that women complain about men not reading their profiles.

Not one person has actually read and understood the thread header and actually replied accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know it is no wonder that women complain about men not reading their profiles.

Not one person has actually read and understood the thread header and actually replied accordingly.

Sorry!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know it is no wonder that women complain about men not reading their profiles.

Not one person has actually read and understood the thread header and actually replied accordingly.

Sorry!!!! "

Xxx forgiven.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"Erm.. so..this an amended final sentence to make things clearer.

Men , As an adult have you been flashed by a woman. Could you tell us briefly what happened and how it made you feel?"

Yes. Standing in a queue for a nightclub. A young lady inside walked up to the large glass windows, hitched up her skirt and pressed her arse cheeks against the glass. I found it funny. Time place and context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know it is no wonder that women complain about men not reading their profiles.

Not one person has actually read and understood the thread header and actually replied accordingly.

No, you said:

" Guys, have you been flashed..and if so briefly what happened and how did it make you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of years back me and my friend were out for a run and we could see this huge old fashioned open topped red double decker bus coming in our direction. When it got closer it had an Irish flag on the side and there were loads of guys wearing Ireland rugby tops, they'd come over for the Wales Ireland rugby game so as it passed us my friend and I both pulled out boobs out and jiggled them whilst shouting croeso y cymru (welcome to wales) there were two doors to the bus front and back and they were both open and the bus was packed but all the guys were shouting and cheering! Felt famous!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm.. so..this an amended final sentence to make things clearer.

Men , As an adult have you been flashed by a woman. Could you tell us briefly what happened and how it made you feel?

Nice one..thank you Sir! Yeah I would have found that hot too. Take your point about time place and context too...but I would guess that beyond when you were out with partner or children there might not be too many occasions when a discreet flash from a lady was a bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know it is no wonder that women complain about men not reading their profiles.

Not one person has actually read and understood the thread header and actually replied accordingly.

No, you said:

Guys, have you been flashed..and if so briefly what happened and how did it make you feel?

That was the end of a long paragraph which gave it context which you evidently didn't read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on that bus loved your tits

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yup. Too hard.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Was on a train and 2 smartly dressed young women got up to leave. As they walked past one hitched her skirt up to the top of her thigh and said to the other "My suspenders are killing me!" They both giggled and left. Thanks ladies!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Was on a train and 2 smartly dressed young women got up to leave. As they walked past one hitched her skirt up to the top of her thigh and said to the other "My suspenders are killing me!" They both giggled and left. Thanks ladies!"

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