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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We could name and shame members on here!

Yet another time waster this afternoon, changes his profile to suit us, we tell him to keep it like it for a month to show genuine.... 1 hour later it's changed back again!

No point in reporting him, but just infuriating that we can't shame them on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SHame against the rules....I think the thread would be flooded with complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ok it was me !

I am sorry Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We could name and shame members on here!

Yet another time waster this afternoon, changes his profile to suit us, we tell him to keep it like it for a month to show genuine.... 1 hour later it's changed back again!

No point in reporting him, but just infuriating that we can't shame them on here! "

WOUKD asking him to change his profile to suit you and keep it like it for a month really prove he is not a time waster?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

How did he waste your time?

By not behaving as you wanted and managing his profile to suit you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would asking him to change his profile to suit you and keep it like it for a month really prove he is not a time waster?"

It may have shown he was a little more genuine possibly?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

As for reporting someone for not running their profile to suit someone else...

Talk about expecting men to jump through hoops!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How did he waste your time?

By not behaving as you wanted and managing his profile to suit you?"

Dee, in won't go into detail, but let's just say that he wasn't genuine after all.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Would asking him to change his profile to suit you and keep it like it for a month really prove he is not a time waster?

It may have shown he was a little more genuine possibly?

Or he may not be a timewaster at all, just not willing to capitulate to ridiculous demands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We could name and shame members on here!

Yet another time waster this afternoon, changes his profile to suit us, we tell him to keep it like it for a month to show genuine.... 1 hour later it's changed back again!

No point in reporting him, but just infuriating that we can't shame them on here! "

Would it not be easier just to block him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I DIDN'T report him, please read the facts before jumping into the deep end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would asking him to change his profile to suit you and keep it like it for a month really prove he is not a time waster?

It may have shown he was a little more genuine possibly?

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sadly not, some people will say or do anything just to get a fuck and also for the thrill.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"How did he waste your time?

By not behaving as you wanted and managing his profile to suit you?

Dee, in won't go into detail, but let's just say that he wasn't genuine after all. "

So you can bandy around accusations like timewaster but you can't explain how he wasted your time?

To me, a timewaster is someome who arranges a meet and doesn't show up.

Chatting to someone, even when it ends up not going anywhere for whatever reason, is not timewasting.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"And I DIDN'T report him, please read the facts before jumping into the deep end. "

No but you considered it! Unbelievable.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

There are guys who change things on their profile to get u talking then change them ir u find out they lied several have the wrong age and don't correct till at the meet or jst after...frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would asking him to change his profile to suit you and keep it like it for a month really prove he is not a time waster?

It may have shown he was a little more genuine possibly?

sadly not, some people will say or do anything just to get a fuck and also for the thrill. "

At least someone gets what I'm saying

Looks like it's gonna be another one of those sort of threads that gets taken over by certain people, and then makes us out to be the baddies! ..... sigh!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Ok ok it was me !

I am sorry Ok "

What!!! You mean you're not really French

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Don't get it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And I DIDN'T report him, please read the facts before jumping into the deep end.

No but you considered it! Unbelievable."

Where in my post does it say I considered it then? Making words up yourself there.... but never mind, obviously you want an argument, but this is my last response to you.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Ok ok it was me !

I am sorry Ok

What!!! You mean you're not really French

He has a Bolton accent so you tell me!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Would asking him to change his profile to suit you and keep it like it for a month really prove he is not a time waster?

It may have shown he was a little more genuine possibly?

sadly not, some people will say or do anything just to get a fuck and also for the thrill.

At least someone gets what I'm saying

Looks like it's gonna be another one of those sort of threads that gets taken over by certain people, and then makes us out to be the baddies! ..... sigh! "

Based on what you said, you aren't coming across exactly well.

I think the guy may have had a lucky escape.

I don't blame him not bowing down to your instructions on how he should have his profile.

Do you really think you have a right to tell other people what to put on their profile and for how long? And to accuse them of being non-genuine if they don't do what you want?

I know some people consider single men at the bottom of the food chain here but really, this is bad!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"And I DIDN'T report him, please read the facts before jumping into the deep end.

No but you considered it! Unbelievable.

Where in my post does it say I considered it then? Making words up yourself there.... but never mind, obviously you want an argument, but this is my last response to you. "

To decide it's not worth reporting, (as per your OP), you'd have to have considered it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We could name and shame members on here!

Yet another time waster this afternoon, changes his profile to suit us, we tell him to keep it like it for a month to show genuine.... 1 hour later it's changed back again!

No point in reporting him, but just infuriating that we can't shame them on here! "

I don't see why someone should change their profile to suit another member or prove they are genuine.

It's ridiculous to suggest you should be able to name and shame on here, that would be abused by anyone who messaged someone and didn't get the response they wanted.

We are talking sex here not tradesman. Try watching the police video on sexual consent. People can withdraw it at any time, even in bed. He changed his mind, move on and stop whining about it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would asking him to change his profile to suit you and keep it like it for a month really prove he is not a time waster?

It may have shown he was a little more genuine possibly?

Oh grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked someone to change their profile to suit you ???

More fool him

I'm not surprised he changed it back.

Don't make him a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would asking him to change his profile to suit you and keep it like it for a month really prove he is not a time waster?

It may have shown he was a little more genuine possibly?

sadly not, some people will say or do anything just to get a fuck and also for the thrill.

At least someone gets what I'm saying

Looks like it's gonna be another one of those sort of threads that gets taken over by certain people, and then makes us out to be the baddies! ..... sigh! "

I doubt it, but you gave very little information, which always leaves a post up to question.

I still don't understand, for example, why blocking him would not have achieved the desired result.

There may be a reason but without information, how can anyone know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a bit far fetched asking them to leave their profile as it is for a month FFS!! Why not just arrange a meet. Did you set him any other tasks to prove his worthiness?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

A timewaster is someone who makes an arrangement and then doesn't turn up.

Someone who changes their mind is just that, someone who has changed their mind. We all have the right to do that.

Naming and shaming is not allowed.

Block and move on.

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