FabSwingers.com forum: Long term profile ... No verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same? "

I seem to get guys messaging at night with those sorts of profiles.

I think most just masturbate at their pc over pics etc

When 2am+ hits i get swamped in lame messages from guys with no pics and no veris hah !

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same? "

No, it's not just you.

I'm very dubious when someone with a profile over a year old with no veris contacts me for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?

No, it's not just you.

I'm very dubious when someone with a profile over a year old with no veris contacts me for a meet."

Me too and all the ones I have chatted to have backed out of meeting, just fantasy and dreams for them. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent posted veries for a while, some people dont believe them and enjoy having a go so now i dont bother to even ask

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I havent posted veries for a while, some people dont believe them and enjoy having a go so now i dont bother to even ask"

You don't have no veris at all though, so you're not in the group this thread is about.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

I am dubious about the motives of anyone that messages me until they prove themselves.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Some guys hide their veri and veri status

There a guy here I've merry twice

His profile looks like he hasn't met anyone

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Some guys hide their veri and veri status

There a guy here I've merry twice

His profile looks like he hasn't met anyone"

You can't hide the green tick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys hide their veri and veri status

There a guy here I've merry twice

His profile looks like he hasn't met anyone"

Even if they hide their veris and summary , they would still have the green tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same? "

Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always true. I have met two people that were not verified. After meeting them I didn't verify them and they didn't ask me to.

However, I am wary of these people. Can't be dealing with anymore pic collectors right now.

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?

Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!

Have fun!

Why would you want to meet anyone that is so nervous to veri themselves on a sex site?

I wouldnt reccomend meeting anyone that cant be bothered to upload pics or have himself verified.

Theres thousands of people on FabSwingers. . Why waste your time with dreamers and time wasters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not always true. I have met two people that were not verified. After meeting them I didn't verify them and they didn't ask me to.

However, I am wary of these people. Can't be dealing with anymore pic collectors right now. "

I think i would meet people who were unverified ... We all had to start that way ... But i usually check to see how long they have been on and unverified ... If its anymore than about 6 months i wont even waste my time replying or chatting now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?

Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!

Have fun!

Ah rape alarms and mace ... Just the things i want to be thinking about before a meet to get me in the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not always true. I have met two people that were not verified. After meeting them I didn't verify them and they didn't ask me to.

However, I am wary of these people. Can't be dealing with anymore pic collectors right now.

I only agree to have socials so if it's over 6 months it won't bother me because It's just a drink. If they don't turn up I won't cry about it. Can make a decent beverage at home; saved me paying for one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?

Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!

Have fun!

Ah rape alarms and mace ... Just the things i want to be thinking about before a meet to get me in the mood

My rape alarm goes everywhere with me and yes they work. Found that out when I got mine caught and accidentally let it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*shrugs*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often wonder if this site is for adults..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably one of those, been here a while but no successful verifications although I'm photo verified. Give people a chance but I agree your always going to put your safety first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Often wonder if this site is for adults.."

How so?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm probably one of those, been here a while but no successful verifications although I'm photo verified. Give people a chance but I agree your always going to put your safety first. "

3 months isnt long ... Im not daft im aware that it can take guys a while to get a meet and get started on here

I just think when it gets longer than about 6 months its probably something more than someone not taking a chance on you

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?

Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!

Have fun!

Advising people to carry an offensive weapon in public isn't clever.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm probably one of those, been here a while but no successful verifications although I'm photo verified. Give people a chance but I agree your always going to put your safety first. "

3 months unverified is not a problem. An account over a year old and unverified is more of an issue, to me.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm wary of most guys I meet initially but even more so if they are unverified. I do like to give people the benefit of the doubt sometimes you know they've been too busy with real life stuff or haven't met anyone suitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there also a problem with those with a huge list of verifications?? Puts us off sometimes when we see 30+ verifications in a matter of a few months x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm wary of most guys I meet initially but even more so if they are unverified. I do like to give people the benefit of the doubt sometimes you know they've been too busy with real life stuff or haven't met anyone suitable

For more than a year?

That, to me, shows a lack of interest in meeting.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Is there also a problem with those with a huge list of verifications?? Puts us off sometimes when we see 30+ verifications in a matter of a few months x"

I find the concept of people meeting too much on a site like this absolutely hilarious as well as unjustly judgemental.

Being promiscuous is fine, as long as you're not too promiscuous?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And this is why I pay no heed to verifications.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"And this is why I pay no heed to verifications.

Ah but we're talking about a lack of verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit I better get on it then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd think twice about contacting or replying to some one on here with no verifications after a year.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same?

Keep your wits about sure, but give 'em a chance. Social public meet first off. DO NOT park in a secluded spot. Take a rape alarm and a can of mace and get to it!!

Have fun!

Why would you want to meet anyone that is so nervous to veri themselves on a sex site?

I wouldnt reccomend meeting anyone that cant be bothered to upload pics or have himself verified.

Theres thousands of people on FabSwingers. . Why waste your time with dreamers and time wasters?

Or people who make assumptions about others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i know its hard on here for guys to get a meet while unverified ... And without the meet no verification ... Vicious circle

However is it just me that is really wary of profile that have been here for over a year and never had even a cam veri?

I tend to think they are either fantasists, fakes or in a relationship so will never actully meet ... If i get a message from one i just delete no matter how nice i think they look

Am i being a bit presumptious or do other people feel the same? "

To be fair it can work both ways,not everyone wants to tell the world about their sexual adventures and so are more discreet about it. Also when you see a profile 2 weeks old with 30 verifications of meets, that's not reassuring to me

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over a year ago

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"And this is why I pay no heed to verifications.

Ah but we're talking about a lack of verifications

Lack of verifications/too many verifications... don't care either way. I have a mind of my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous when someone looks at my profile and they only joined an hour ago or less

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

Or perhaps still meeting with the same people that gave the initial veris. Just because they haven't met anyone new doesn't mean they haven't been meeting.

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