FabSwingers.com forum: friends list

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how many do you roughly have on yours?

are they people you class as friends? people you regularly talk to on here? people you've met? or people you intend to meet??

Ive got 3 on mine lol.. not met any of them, no intentions too either, but they cheer me up

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Got hundreds in mine lol not met all of them haha

I don't see it as friends friends just people that like my profile etc

Every now and then I have a cull of people who haven't logged on for ages but other than that I don't think about who is or isn't on my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*checks* 11, some of whom I've known for years and haven't met, from other sites etc. Some I have met and some I doubt I ever will meet.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Ive got 3 on mine lol.. not met any of them, no intentions too either, but they cheer me up "

yes... noticed you'd had a cull! (well, he noticed, not me, I have to confess!)

We've got just over 50 - I'll cull that in a mo to about 40. Met just over half of them, I guess (some just socially) Some are people I intend to meet, a couple are forumites and some are just people who make me laugh in chatrooms.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

20 and a mix of people I know thro social events or chatting in the forums/chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had about 300 lol started culling them all but got bored with deleting

lol I only accept local people now

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have 24 friends. But you made me curious as to who they are so I had a little look...

11 are men - I've had sex with five of them!

10 are women - I've had sex with three of them!

3 are couples - I've had sex with all three!

I don't add people for the sake of it. Some are forum people, some are real life friends and some are ones I'd like to have sex with!

My friends list is hidden though!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

9 on mine

mostly social , three ive had sex with, one ive never met but is a forumite

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

No one, my name is Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, this isn't facebook and I don't measure my ego, status or popularity by the length of my friends list

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"None, this isn't facebook and I don't measure my ego, status or popularity by the length of my friends list"
just as well hey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one, my name is Billy

And there I was thinking I was the only one called Billy

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"No one, my name is Billy

And there I was thinking I was the only one called Billy

Blimey, Soapy has a rival for his suds !!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

ok heres my say ive over 100 on my list some them very good friends have met and played with 50 on that list some of them more than once

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"No one, my name is Billy

Are you touting for friends?!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"No one, my name is Billy

Are you touting for friends?!

aww we got 3 requests straight away, I wonder if they read the forums and thought lets give the sad gits some mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got 11 on mine...6 fellas . 3 ive had sex with.

2 cpls ..i social and ones mates.

1 tv/ts...social

2 women...mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i might have to trim my friends list as its getting unmanagable now that it's reached 14

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got 11 on mine...6 fellas . 3 ive had sex with.

2 cpls ..i social and ones mates.

1 tv/ts...social

2 women...mates

i'd ask if you want another but i prefer to have the sex first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive no idea whose on my friends list. Chris tends to be a bit click happy with friends, I only add those im interested in and I will go and have a clear out at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one, my name is Billy

And there I was thinking I was the only one called Billy

Blimey, Soapy has a rival for his suds !!"

Sneaked in and pinched them when he wasn't looking, they looked really nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i remove people regularly.

i give them a while to make themselves available to meet and if they dont i delete them.

also those who have no pics but want to _iew mine do not get accepted any more.

too many liars and timewasters, so if my attitude seems a little hard but you got to be up front with people or you will be forever waiting.

i meet people.simple as that.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

19 baying harridans and Soapy.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"19 baying harridans and Soapy."

Whsts a harridan when its at home? Working out whether to be offended or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 so far..and hoping to meet all 3 lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"19 baying harridans and Soapy."

Thank fuck I never let you on my list

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"19 baying harridans and Soapy.

Thank fuck I never let you on my list

You're on my 'Worship list' it's a Platinum member thing

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"19 baying harridans and Soapy.

Whsts a harridan when its at home? Working out whether to be offended or not

No Eves they are nice xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol @ worship list

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

15 ladies, 10 couples and a hobbit; a mix of 'I have', 'I wish', 'no chance bi-boy' and Forumites (who may or may not be 'I wish' as well).

It would be indiscreet of me to say how many I may or indeed may not have enjoyed some form of sexual congress with....

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"19 baying harridans and Soapy.

Thank fuck I never let you on my list

You're on my 'Worship list' it's a Platinum member thing

I like it that you worship me... does it mean I get gifts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"15 ladies, 10 couples and a hobbit; a mix of 'I have', 'I wish', 'no chance bi-boy' and Forumites (who may or may not be 'I wish' as well).

It would be indiscreet of me to say how many I may or indeed may not have enjoyed some form of sexual congress with....

well thats the first time ive been described as a lady hehe

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"15 ladies, 10 couples and a hobbit; a mix of 'I have', 'I wish', 'no chance bi-boy' and Forumites (who may or may not be 'I wish' as well).

It would be indiscreet of me to say how many I may or indeed may not have enjoyed some form of sexual congress with....

well thats the first time ive been described as a lady hehe"

...your assuming of course I wasn't calling you the hobbit...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"15 ladies, 10 couples and a hobbit; a mix of 'I have', 'I wish', 'no chance bi-boy' and Forumites (who may or may not be 'I wish' as well).

It would be indiscreet of me to say how many I may or indeed may not have enjoyed some form of sexual congress with....

well thats the first time ive been described as a lady hehe

...your assuming of course I wasn't calling you the hobbit...

think we all know who the hobbit is.. haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"15 ladies, 10 couples and a hobbit; a mix of 'I have', 'I wish', 'no chance bi-boy' and Forumites (who may or may not be 'I wish' as well).

It would be indiscreet of me to say how many I may or indeed may not have enjoyed some form of sexual congress with....

Only the one

still she's a good un. I look at it as WIP

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"19 baying harridans and Soapy.

Thank fuck I never let you on my list

You're on my 'Worship list' it's a Platinum member thing

I like it that you worship me... does it mean I get gifts?"

My gift is my song babe, this one's for youuuuuu xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Rarely use my friends list, ive just checked ive got 30 on it and have met 25 of them

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"19 baying harridans and Soapy.

Thank fuck I never let you on my list

You're on my 'Worship list' it's a Platinum member thing

I like it that you worship me... does it mean I get gifts?

My gift is my song babe, this one's for youuuuuu xxx"

I hope ya don't mind

That I put down in words....

How wonderful your bum is, when you've wiped it clean of turds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought I would go check my current list.. 21 single guys I have played with, 15 not played with and only 1 cpl yet to meet. Often do a cull if not heard from them in over a month and you only get to be my friend once we have chatted on the phone.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"My gift is my song babe, this one's for youuuuuu xxx

I hope ya don't mind

That I put down in words....

How wonderful your bum is, when you've wiped it clean of turds."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

120......and I'm not saying how many I've had sex with. I've just shocked myself!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"120......and I'm not saying how many I've had sex with. I've just shocked myself!

not a bloody nuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"120......and I'm not saying how many I've had sex with. I've just shocked myself!

high 5 laine!! who cares as long as you've had fun

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"120......and I'm not saying how many I've had sex with. I've just shocked myself!

You friend hog!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"120......and I'm not saying how many I've had sex with. I've just shocked myself!

not a bloody nuff.

Haven't told you about my to-do list though have I?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ahhh the 'to do' list..

thats a whole different thread. If distance wasn't an issue id have 2 on mine

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"120......and I'm not saying how many I've had sex with. I've just shocked myself!

not a bloody nuff.

Haven't told you about my to-do list though have I?

where they on your hot list

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

My friends list is people Ive met and keep in touch with - socially or otherwise. My hotlist is my 'stalker/to do' list....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"My friends list is people Ive met and keep in touch with - socially or otherwise. My hotlist is my 'stalker/to do' list...."

i'm not on your friends list - i'm gonna cry

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"120......and I'm not saying how many I've had sex with. I've just shocked myself!

not a bloody nuff.

Haven't told you about my to-do list though have I?

i'm giving it the big puppy dog eyes .

is the tongue hanging out a bit much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

mr saucy is a bit of alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mr saucy is a bit of alright

So is Mrs Saucy.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Ive no idea whose on my friends list. Chris tends to be a bit click happy with friends, I only add those im interested in and I will go and have a clear out at times."

mr a is same, then i come along and trim list every so often

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Ive no idea whose on my friends list. Chris tends to be a bit click happy with friends, I only add those im interested in and I will go and have a clear out at times."

Yes been on your friends list a few times so i can vouch for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ahhh the 'to do' list..

thats a whole different thread. If distance wasn't an issue id have 2 on mine

Maybe need another thread for the been done list too..........

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Do people have the same people they had on their list when they first joined.. or do they change over time ??

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Do people have the same people they had on their list when they first joined.. or do they change over time ??

some peeps will stay with you some wont but for me im not one to go around upsetting peeps so i keep alot of friends

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Do people have the same people they had on their list when they first joined.. or do they change over time ??

some peeps will stay with you some wont but for me im not one to go around upsetting peeps so i keep alot of friends

well done.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think some change over time and thats not a bad thing at all.. not necessary fall outs...

people move on, are attracted to different people, circles/tastes change.

mine have.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Mine too, it hasn't got anything to do with upsetting anyone on my friends list....it just evolves naturally.

New ones join.....others depart.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

about 30 on ours, of which ...

many we have become good friends with thru Chat and gone on to meet at socials ...

a few we've had the pleasure to play with...

and a few we are hoping a meet can be arranged with (those added in this last criteria often get rotated) lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Do people have the same people they had on their list when they first joined.. or do they change over time ??

Mine seems to operate a sort of natural selection - people leave the site for some reason

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By *ocksoff3Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Our friends are either guys we have met or would like to meet

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I think some change over time and thats not a bad thing at all.. not necessary fall outs...

people move on, are attracted to different people, circles/tastes change.

mine have."

yes and some friends open doors for you but others will close them and some are just there for a free ride and its always better to have an open mind

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I think some change over time and thats not a bad thing at all.. not necessary fall outs...

people move on, are attracted to different people, circles/tastes change.

mine have.

yes and some friends open doors for you but others will close them and some are just there for a free ride and its always better to have an open mind

yup.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

since rejoining again

i have decided that if i dont fancy them i wont add them

if i dont want to meet i wont add them

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"since rejoining again

i have decided that if i dont fancy them i wont add them

if i dont want to meet i wont add them

Everybody does things differently with there friends list thats human nature but there are some peeps on my list who i may never meet there others maybe if there travel through or i one day you never no

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"since rejoining again

i have decided that if i dont fancy them i wont add them

if i dont want to meet i wont add them

Ditto

but I dont add people who just sent an invite without ever chatting to me

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"since rejoining again

i have decided that if i dont fancy them i wont add them

if i dont want to meet i wont add them

Ditto

but I dont add people who just sent an invite without ever chatting to me "

How many times a week i get that just to look at your pics off cpls thats one thing i never do

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'd need a 3year tour of Great Britain to do eveyone on my wish list!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'd need a 3year tour of Great Britain to do eveyone on my wish list!

is that your hotlist

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"mr saucy is a bit of alright

So is Mrs Saucy.

i'm getting the big bed ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just checked...and its 11...all are long term friends...some I chat with on here and in real life...2 women who I adore and have become friends that are now part of my vanilla life..and my partner...we met on here 18 months ago...yes..I like...and often love the peeps on my friends list

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By *ockfairyCouple
over a year ago

preston

only got a few people, but they are people who we have already met, hardly get any requests anyway, i think its coz G is a munter coz it cant be me obviously lol

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By *ockfairyCouple
over a year ago

preston

"only got a few people, but they are people who we have already met, hardly get any requests anyway, i think its coz G is a munter coz it cant be me obviously lol"

ok scratch that, just realised its me in the public photos, and not G....so its me thats the munter lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Not sure how many ,most are people we have met,a few guys i chat to on here and really want to meet.

If i don't know who someone is they dont get a friends request accepted,if i do,then i accept.The fact they arent realy friends doesnt bother me,my real friends know who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

We have 35 on our list

26 of those we have met either socially or sexually

4 of those are forum friends from around the country

4 are potential meets

1 is getting it later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 17 on my list.

2 women, friends.

Of the 15 guys, 9 I have met, the other 6 are on my to do list.

I do generally remove people from my friends list once we have met and move them to my hotlist.

If we keep in contact and the meets are repeats I will add back to my friends.

If its an one off meet, I dont see the need to be on my friends list.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"mr saucy is a bit of alright

oi hands off my father in law!!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I have 17 on my list.

2 women, friends.

Of the 15 guys, 9 I have met, the other 6 are on my to do list.

I do generally remove people from my friends list once we have met and move them to my hotlist.

If we keep in contact and the meets are repeats I will add back to my friends.

If its an one off meet, I dont see the need to be on my friends list."

i agree with that last point,if i put everyone id fucked in a club my friends list might just need its own server!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i get loads of friends requests everyday, used to think its cos im such a nice person..

turns out guys just wanna jack off to my private pics

lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"We have 35 on our list

26 of those we have met either socially or sexually

4 of those are forum friends from around the country

4 are potential meets

1 is getting it later

cough cough,emm.....errr is there anybody on two of those lists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i get loads of friends requests everyday, used to think its cos im such a nice person..

turns out guys just wanna jack off to my private pics

lol"

i have less than 10 on my list, but they're friends I chat to and have met with the exception of 1 but theres still hope there

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