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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction" Usually they have a massive smile on their faces   | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction" A phone call to the police | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces "Tell us more | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces
Tell us more "Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard | |||
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Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard "I presume that to a certain extent it turns you on? | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces
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Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard "Well I'd do as said about and call the rozzers on you | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces
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Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard
I presume that to a certain extent it turns you on?"It's rather amusing and enjoyable | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces
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Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard
I presume that to a certain extent it turns you on?
It's rather amusing and enjoyable "Only ever breasts? | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces
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Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard
I presume that to a certain extent it turns you on?
It's rather amusing and enjoyable
Only ever breasts?"Nope...Check out the pic on 24th July....there was someone in the hide with us and then a couple walked in whilst I was sat like that  | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces
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Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard
I presume that to a certain extent it turns you on?
It's rather amusing and enjoyable
Only ever breasts?
Nope...Check out the pic on 24th July....there was someone in the hide with us and then a couple walked in whilst I was sat like that "And I wish I had been there. | |||
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"The reason I ask is because I was on the tube in London last summer and a girl sat opposite me. She kept glancing at me and smiling whilst looking down, when she saw me looking down she opened her legs and exposed her smooth pussy......then got off at the next station" Jealous..would love to have that happen. | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces
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Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard
I presume that to a certain extent it turns you on?
It's rather amusing and enjoyable
Only ever breasts?
Nope...Check out the pic on 24th July....there was someone in the hide with us and then a couple walked in whilst I was sat like that "So naughty | |||
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" Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard "I have fallen out of a few tops a few time, they were however unintentional, never got a complaint. A few smiles maybe but that's it. | |||
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" Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard
I have fallen out of a few tops a few time, they were however unintentional, never got a complaint. A few smiles maybe but that's it. "You probably had several guys wanking later over that | |||
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"I was dropping the kids off to J at work two weeks ago and my little one jumped up on her. In the process J dress got pulled up at the front showing off her hold ups and shocking pink knickers. I pissed myself laughing as J was mortified that the security guard got a view of her. "Bet you both loved it | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces
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Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard
I presume that to a certain extent it turns you on?
It's rather amusing and enjoyable
Only ever breasts?
Nope...Check out the pic on 24th July....there was someone in the hide with us and then a couple walked in whilst I was sat like that "I'd especially love to flash and be flashed with you!!! | |||
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"Their is a lack of women flashing truckers. For all women or couples that who would do it please feel free to do so. I am an ex firefighter now trucker that needs some excitement. It's happened once. I loved it. I want more of it lol. X" Please watch out for other road users instead of having sexual fantasies at work... | |||
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"I've been known to accidently show a bit too much "Which bits? | |||
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"I've been known to accidently show a bit too much
Which bits?"All bits | |||
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"so do any ladies like to be flashed to, or is it only allowed for ladies to do the flashing, " No I don't, it's inappropriate, intimidating and non consensual. | |||
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"Fascinating how perceptions differ depending on what gender is doing the flashing. Even being aware of the double standard here I feel exactly the same way, that the idea of a man flashing is repellent and I'd actively seek their prosecution, whereas the idea of a lady flashing is awesome as fuck. We're strange creatures, we humans. " Personally I find both equally reprehensible unless pre arranged. Women can't ask to be treated equally under certain circumstances only and non consensual sexual activity is never ok...is it? | |||
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"Just wondering if anyone has ever deliberately flashed at strangers and if so what was the reaction Usually they have a massive smile on their faces
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Quite often I will wear something that my breasts "accidentally" fall out of...I think the fact that I'm acting naturally catches them off guard
I presume that to a certain extent it turns you on?
It's rather amusing and enjoyable
Only ever breasts?
Nope...Check out the pic on 24th July....there was someone in the hide with us and then a couple walked in whilst I was sat like that
So naughty"I know....couldn't help myself | |||
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"Fascinating how perceptions differ depending on what gender is doing the flashing. Even being aware of the double standard here I feel exactly the same way, that the idea of a man flashing is repellent and I'd actively seek their prosecution, whereas the idea of a lady flashing is awesome as fuck. We're strange creatures, we humans. " And a lot of men would be upset and embarrassed to have breasts flashed at them. Grow up you lot, don't inflict your sexual behaviour on the general public. That's One of the things gives swingers a bad name. | |||
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"Fascinating how perceptions differ depending on what gender is doing the flashing. Even being aware of the double standard here I feel exactly the same way, that the idea of a man flashing is repellent and I'd actively seek their prosecution, whereas the idea of a lady flashing is awesome as fuck. We're strange creatures, we humans. And a lot of men would be upset and embarrassed to have breasts flashed at them. Grow up you lot, don't inflict your sexual behaviour on the general public. That's One of the things gives swingers a bad name. " A woman flashed her pussy at Mr N in a cafe once and when he moved so he didn't have to look she repositioned herself so he could still see her. The arrogance of assuming that anyone wants to see you is breathtaking. | |||
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I've been flashed at before & it wasn't a pleasant experience! | |||
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"Fascinating how perceptions differ depending on what gender is doing the flashing. Even being aware of the double standard here I feel exactly the same way, that the idea of a man flashing is repellent and I'd actively seek their prosecution, whereas the idea of a lady flashing is awesome as fuck. We're strange creatures, we humans. " | |||
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"Fascinating how perceptions differ depending on what gender is doing the flashing. Even being aware of the double standard here I feel exactly the same way, that the idea of a man flashing is repellent and I'd actively seek their prosecution, whereas the idea of a lady flashing is awesome as fuck. We're strange creatures, we humans. And a lot of men would be upset and embarrassed to have breasts flashed at them. Grow up you lot, don't inflict your sexual behaviour on the general public. That's One of the things gives swingers a bad name. " Whilst I find your and nice couple's post on here kinda refreshing in its gender unbiased nature I have to disagree with the assumption that men are really as distressed as you say at being flashed. If a man flashes a woman then I can see that she could feel scared, intimidated, disgusted and any number of negative emotions. Now as a man, being flashed by a woman, even by one who I don't find attractive would not anger or disgust me in any way. Any emotions I felt would probably be positive. So I think in this case the gender stereotypes ring true. Unless other guys disagree? | |||
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"Fascinating how perceptions differ depending on what gender is doing the flashing. Even being aware of the double standard here I feel exactly the same way, that the idea of a man flashing is repellent and I'd actively seek their prosecution, whereas the idea of a lady flashing is awesome as fuck. We're strange creatures, we humans. And a lot of men would be upset and embarrassed to have breasts flashed at them. Grow up you lot, don't inflict your sexual behaviour on the general public. That's One of the things gives swingers a bad name. Whilst I find your and nice couple's post on here kinda refreshing in its gender unbiased nature I have to disagree with the assumption that men are really as distressed as you say at being flashed. If a man flashes a woman then I can see that she could feel scared, intimidated, disgusted and any number of negative emotions. Now as a man, being flashed by a woman, even by one who I don't find attractive would not anger or disgust me in any way. Any emotions I felt would probably be positive. So I think in this case the gender stereotypes ring true. Unless other guys disagree?" My main point is that in my opinion non consensual sexual activity can never be acceptable regardless of gender, maybe you disagree and feel that there are degrees of non consent. | |||
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"Fascinating how perceptions differ depending on what gender is doing the flashing. Even being aware of the double standard here I feel exactly the same way, that the idea of a man flashing is repellent and I'd actively seek their prosecution, whereas the idea of a lady flashing is awesome as fuck. We're strange creatures, we humans. And a lot of men would be upset and embarrassed to have breasts flashed at them. Grow up you lot, don't inflict your sexual behaviour on the general public. That's One of the things gives swingers a bad name. Whilst I find your and nice couple's post on here kinda refreshing in its gender unbiased nature I have to disagree with the assumption that men are really as distressed as you say at being flashed. If a man flashes a woman then I can see that she could feel scared, intimidated, disgusted and any number of negative emotions. Now as a man, being flashed by a woman, even by one who I don't find attractive would not anger or disgust me in any way. Any emotions I felt would probably be positive. So I think in this case the gender stereotypes ring true. Unless other guys disagree? My main point is that in my opinion non consensual sexual activity can never be acceptable regardless of gender, maybe you disagree and feel that there are degrees of non consent. " I agree. Consent is paramount in any and all sexual activity. | |||
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"I think you're rather twisting the point here, you seem to WANT to be outraged. I'm merely making a point about how differently we perceive the same actions based on the gender of the protagonist. And, frankly, I don't believe for one minute that you genuinely think that, say, a girl flashing her tits at a passing motorist is as bad as a man exposing his cock to a woman in a park. It should be, sure. We shouldn't treat men and women differently like that. But the fact is, and the point I'm trying to make is, WE DO." I don't perceive them as different, so speak for yourself with the WE DO. I don't think boobs are the same as a cock but I certainly think that a woman flashing her fanny is as bad as a man flashing his cock. | |||
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"Yeah, Nice Couple..I do agree in principal with what you and Dee say. It should be one rule for everyone and of course I agree strongly that men should not be exposing their bits and pieces especially in a state of arousal to girls and women. It's abhorrent behaviour. But i genuinely wouldn't feel the same way if I...or a male friend...or even my son (who by the way is of age) were flashed by a woman. It may or may not be a turn on but in any case I wouldn't be threatened by it. Which is perhaps the key thing I guess? " The key thing with any sexual activity is to ensure consent first in my opinion, once we go down the road of "my friends and I find it acceptable and non threatening so everyone else should" I think we set a dangerous precedent. I absolutely understand what you're saying though and I know it's how most people think I just don't agree with it. | |||
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"I do speak for myself, but I'm also confident that I speak for 99% of the heterosexual male population. And probably a sizeable handful of the female population too, as supported by the anecdotal evidence of the stories related by ladies on this very thread. Again, I'm not talking about rights and wrongs, and we absolutely can't talk in absolutes here. A point you've conceded yourself, by admitting there's a distinction between breasts and penises" You really need to use the reply+quote | |||
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"once we go down the path of accepting that none consensual exposure is ok because he is a 'lad' and not threatened then we are on a slippery slope.. if its not acceptable to have your nan, daughter, aunty or mum the victim of some wrong un then its got to be the same for your son, grand dad etc.." My thoughts exactly. I'd be horrified if some woman flashed her tits / pussy at my son to get a cheap thrill because she's 'non threatening'..... | |||
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"I do speak for myself, but I'm also confident that I speak for 99% of the heterosexual male population. And probably a sizeable handful of the female population too, as supported by the anecdotal evidence of the stories related by ladies on this very thread. Again, I'm not talking about rights and wrongs, and we absolutely can't talk in absolutes here. A point you've conceded yourself, by admitting there's a distinction between breasts and penises You really need to use the reply+quote "I should probably just give up on the whole sordid affair, and go back to looking at tits instead. My slow thumbs aren't equipped for the fast paced modern world of Web forums. Even ones with tits in. | |||
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"once we go down the path of accepting that none consensual exposure is ok because he is a 'lad' and not threatened then we are on a slippery slope.. if its not acceptable to have your nan, daughter, aunty or mum the victim of some wrong un then its got to be the same for your son, grand dad etc.. My thoughts exactly. I'd be horrified if some woman flashed her tits / pussy at my son to get a cheap thrill because she's 'non threatening'....." whilst it's not been said (yet) it seems to be on par with the he's a bit of a lad because he shags around and she is a **** because she does the same.. | |||
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"once we go down the path of accepting that none consensual exposure is ok because he is a 'lad' and not threatened then we are on a slippery slope.. if its not acceptable to have your nan, daughter, aunty or mum the victim of some wrong un then its got to be the same for your son, grand dad etc.. My thoughts exactly. I'd be horrified if some woman flashed her tits / pussy at my son to get a cheap thrill because she's 'non threatening'..... whilst it's not been said (yet) it seems to be on par with the he's a bit of a lad because he shags around and she is a **** because she does the same.. " This is pretty much what I'm getting at, but everybody is getting all angry with me about the semantics.  | |||
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"once we go down the path of accepting that none consensual exposure is ok because he is a 'lad' and not threatened then we are on a slippery slope.. if its not acceptable to have your nan, daughter, aunty or mum the victim of some wrong un then its got to be the same for your son, grand dad etc.." | |||
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"I do speak for myself, but I'm also confident that I speak for 99% of the heterosexual male population. And probably a sizeable handful of the female population too, as supported by the anecdotal evidence of the stories related by ladies on this very thread. Again, I'm not talking about rights and wrongs, and we absolutely can't talk in absolutes here. A point you've conceded yourself, by admitting there's a distinction between breasts and penises" No, I haven't conceded anything. Breasts are not comparable to cocks. Fannies are comparable to cocks as they're both sexual organs. Breasts are comparable to men's chests. They're only made sexual organs by men. They're actually for feeding children, primarily, believe it or not! People trying to make out that breasts are like cocks are one of the reasons women breastfeeding in public have such a hard time. Flashing breasts for a sexual thrill isn't right but it's not the same as flashing fannies or cocks. | |||
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"I do speak for myself, but I'm also confident that I speak for 99% of the heterosexual male population. And probably a sizeable handful of the female population too, as supported by the anecdotal evidence of the stories related by ladies on this very thread. Again, I'm not talking about rights and wrongs, and we absolutely can't talk in absolutes here. A point you've conceded yourself, by admitting there's a distinction between breasts and penises You really need to use the reply+quote
I should probably just give up on the whole sordid affair, and go back to looking at tits instead. My slow thumbs aren't equipped for the fast paced modern world of Web forums. Even ones with tits in." stick around, debate is good. | |||
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"I listened to an interesting program on radio 4 the or her day apparently women who are subject to sexual assault by other women aren't reporting it because they think they won't be taken seriously I think this thread bears their fears out. " Yeah good point, not something I've thought about. | |||
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"I listened to an interesting program on radio 4 the or her day apparently women who are subject to sexual assault by other women aren't reporting it because they think they won't be taken seriously I think this thread bears their fears out. " This happened to me when I was a lot younger, she would touch & make inappropriate comments to me. Was done in such a brazen upfront way, "a bit of banter / fun " that it messed with my head, I doubted myself at times that she was actually doing it..... | |||
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"I listened to an interesting program on radio 4 the or her day apparently women who are subject to sexual assault by other women aren't reporting it because they think they won't be taken seriously I think this thread bears their fears out. This happened to me when I was a lot younger, she would touch & make inappropriate comments to me. Was done in such a brazen upfront way, "a bit of banter / fun " that it messed with my head, I doubted myself at times that she was actually doing it..... " that's awful | |||
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