FabSwingers.com forum: Maybe a post where the clicky forum users dont hijack it?

By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

Well that OP is like a red rag to a bull

I predict a popcorn comment in less than 20 posts......

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Seems to be working well so far

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that OP is like a red rag to a bull

I predict a popcorn comment in less than 20 posts......"

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Enjoy your popcorn read!

Just seen some people be rude to other forum users is all. . Very judgemental clicky forum people sadly.

Sad to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a fuck? Or maybe a nice cup of tea will help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that OP is like a red rag to a bull

I predict a popcorn comment in less than 20 posts......"

It's morning, let's ditch the popcorn.

Mimosa, Roxi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cant get too upset about people being judgemental its human nature if you put something out into a public forum your going to get peoples opinions

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

It's an opinion, not a fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think I'm a normal forum poster. Well more normal than some. Some are just out there crazy, they're cool cats none the less.

Op...I hope your day gets better, maybe sport a sandwich board offering free hugs? I hear hugging strangers is good for the soul, your mood and general well being. Failing that...hit the Ben and Jerrys, pull up your girly pants, sit back and watch made in Manhattan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

There will always be banter between people that know each other.

I like how the forums are currently. Feels clique-less and lots of new people.

Great thread OP.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Just do your thing in the way you what to and ignore the threads that are taken over.

Being indifferent to it all is the best way.

Welcome and good luck

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.

Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.

Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs"

Oh and get ignored a lot but it doesn't bother me I still post random crap regardless

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Joys of a forum people can post what ever they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs"

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

I know that's why I like it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.

Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.

Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol

I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs"

I don't think it's a set clique as such. More lots of little cliquey groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum users are rude to other forum users regardless of a clique, length of time on site, whatever. You don't have to be special to be on the receiving end of a cup of rude

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Just do your thing in the way you what to and ignore the threads that are taken over.

Being indifferent to it all is the best way.

Welcome and good luck

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

So did I. Ah well, I guess I'll never know who the cool kids are and can carry on blithely in my own oblivious way.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

You said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forum users are rude to other forum users regardless of a clique, length of time on site, whatever. You don't have to be special to be on the receiving end of a cup of rude

Agreed. Clique or not, keyboard warriors will always be that. I read the posts and respond on the ones I am interested in. No bother sweating the rest. If a thread is hijacked I simply back up and read another one. There isn't much point getting my nose out of joint. Life is too short to be mithered by something so trivial after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spurs will definitely win the premiership this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

So did I. Ah well, I guess I'll never know who the cool kids are and can carry on blithely in my own oblivious way."

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.

Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.

Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol

I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP?

No i havent been attacked or anything. . Just twice in last week i was reading some posts and saw on 2 occasions this happen.

What annoyed me was that the clicky people thought they were so cool demeaning someone.

I just hate to see horrible people enjoying themselves at other peoples expense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

I don't think it's a set clique as such. More lots of little cliquey groups.

Oh I see. Meh

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Nice condescending attitude

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

hahaha it's simple, they have no lives so the only thing they can control (so they think) is fab forum. Quite sad really so if I were you I wouldn't let it concern you pal. Some people live for fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's in the clique?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.

Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.

Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol

Of course, it is not rude to suggest that people you do not know are "losers with loser jobs?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

So did I. Ah well, I guess I'll never know who the cool kids are and can carry on blithely in my own oblivious way."

it was a very brief mention by a newer poster 1/2 way down a thread a few months back, he spent the next 1/2 apologising....

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.

Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.

Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol

Of course, it is not rude to suggest that people you do not know are "losers with loser jobs?""

Not if they have been rude and demeaning to someone for no reason other than to look tough.

Also if the shoe fits . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I predict long silences followed by sarcasm!.. *le silence*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.

Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.

Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol

I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP?

No i havent been attacked or anything. . Just twice in last week i was reading some posts and saw on 2 occasions this happen.

What annoyed me was that the clicky people thought they were so cool demeaning someone.

I just hate to see horrible people enjoying themselves at other peoples expense.

Go back and read your posts on this thread.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

You said it

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Nice condescending attitude

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say they are clicky OP

They are regulars who post in the forums and all get on and have fun

Nothing wrong with that

If you dont like the posts or the threads just dont post easy as that

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Nice condescending attitude

It very true op. I'm sure you think I'm 1 of your offender's but does it matter what you think of me or me you its a forum it's supposed to be fun and on the whole that's all I use it for. Just join in have a laugh it's what it's all about...

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

What is this clique you speak of ????

I thought you were referring to skippy and his fellow kangaroos

xxxxx Suzi

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

I could save money cancelling sky and get my entertainment on here for free: oh the intrigues and dramas.

(Usually) single blokes trying to circumvent the filters so hijack threads to flirt. Egos get massaged. Other females get jealous so join in, at times you feel like a voyeur and want to tell them to get a room!

All fun and games!

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

When I miss the high school attitude about cliche and nonsense like that. I always can find a thread about it. It keeps me young.

Btw,in high school, I was in the basketball team. What cliche is that?

MrsSB

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

We understand what your saying' some times a person will make a post then the forum police jump in for his spelling etc' and bully him' a few on here are so far up each otheres arses on the forums its unreal' yet when looking at there profiles its lol i can see why you all post about cake hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to think I'm a normal forum poster. Well more normal than some. Some are just out there crazy, they're cool cats none the less.

Oh, I love that film! You know what, regardless of what the OP wrote to instigate that suggestion, I'm taking it on board.

Easy pants? Check!

Tub of icecream? Check!

Comfy sofa? Check!

Feelgood romcom? Check!

All set! Cheers Merry m'dear!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs"

I'm happy to confirm I'm in the boob appreciation clique, I started a thread a while ago encouraging folk to join.. only requirement is to like boobs ..

ladies for a full appreciation please send pictures to my inbox.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Cake...popcorn...tin hat...comfy chair...haribos...tiresome!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

Oh I missed that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is a lot of people on here are sarcastic and it doesn't come across when you type, I think sometimes this can cause an issue on the forums as one persons sarcasm is another persons insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliques are nothing new with Internet forums, and it's going to be even worse with swinging. I try not to let it bother me and not fall into the trap of being bitter towards them in return.

Although, I do find it particularly frustrating when advice threads are hijacked by those wanting to display their acid wit with facetious/sarcastic remarks.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Whoop! Whoop! Only another year to go!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Hey .. cliquedy cliquedy ... look at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spurs will definitely win the premiership this year

It's the disillusioned people that amuse me the most.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Or not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be in the clique but got thrown out for not being cliquey enough

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

It's an opinion, not a fact. "

A factual opinion maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To paraphrase a genius..

I don't want to be a part of any clique that wants me as a member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cliques are nothing new with Internet forums, and it's going to be even worse with swinging. I try not to let it bother me and not fall into the trap of being bitter towards them in return.

Although, I do find it particularly frustrating when advice threads are hijacked by those wanting to display their acid wit with facetious/sarcastic remarks. "
I think I've only seen that happen on the single men wanting profile advice thread. But there's always at least 1 post advising them to forum search. Folk just get bored of writing out the same thing over and over. Especially as it's often ignored anyway.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Whoop! Whoop! Only another year to go!

Patience woman! I've got 7 years yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years. "

Most of your clique have left or stopped using the forums. Do you miss them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In seriousness though there are a number of people on here that have been active in the forums for a long time and obviously do know each other, so they're bound to have little private jokes and references, and you'll see them commenting very frequently on posts.

There are also some sarcastic folk who can make comments as jokes and they can come across wrong to people who don't know them.

There are also, inevitably, some people who are just arseholes.

All part and parcel of the great wide wonder web

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've got a whoopee cushion in my handbag and I insist this thread is taken in another direction. I may not be the best hijacker in the world, but I'm probably the only one who does it in leopard print

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years.

Most of your clique have left or stopped using the forums. Do you miss them?

Haha

They are trying to make new friends no doubt but saying rhings like 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Condescending attitude considering not one part of my post was about lack of replies.

Its just a way to make them feel better about how 'cool' they obviously are.

Lol

#Fabswingersshityoucouldntmakeup

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!"

Again you are missing the point.

Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout.

It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing.

I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years.

Most of your clique have left or stopped using the forums. Do you miss them?

Haha

They are trying to make new friends no doubt but saying rhings like 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Condescending attitude considering not one part of my post was about lack of replies.

Its just a way to make them feel better about how 'cool' they obviously are.

Lol

#Fabswingersshityoucouldntmakeup"

Still, on the plus side OP, you have a lovely pecker

#notbeingcondescendingi'mjustsaying

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

Me too but I know I wouldn't have been on it, despite being a forum poster for about 5 years.

Most of your clique have left or stopped using the forums. Do you miss them?

Haha

They are trying to make new friends no doubt but saying rhings like 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Condescending attitude considering not one part of my post was about lack of replies.

Its just a way to make them feel better about how 'cool' they obviously are.

Lol

#Fabswingersshityoucouldntmakeup

Still, on the plus side OP, you have a lovely pecker

#notbeingcondescendingi'mjustsaying"

I tip my hat in your general direction my lady

Thanks!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!

Again you are missing the point.

Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout.

It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing.

I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices."

You're right I am missing your point please accept my apologies. What was your point again?! I'm poorly in bed so my concentration isn't as it should be. Do you really think though that the 'cool' people are in the least bit interested in whether you notice whatever it is you're going on about rather than having their own private conversation?!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

in defence of the OP i actually do get what they are saying....

sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality...

and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking....

sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness....

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!

Again you are missing the point.

Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout.

It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing.

I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices.

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"in defence of the OP i actually do get what they are saying....

sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality...

and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking....

sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness.... "

A wise few sentiments sir.

I thank thee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!

Again you are missing the point.

Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout.

It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing.

I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices.

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

So you are just trolling ?

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I'd love to see people who say about thesending cliques name them. It's not something I've noticed

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Sound advice,it's much better to have that attitude rather than having a moan and still be using the forums,now that doesn't make sense to me!

Again you are missing the point.

Its not a moan as i have been giggling througout.

It was merely to say. . I see you guys and see what your doing.

I sometimes think the 'cool' people.as they see it assume no one notices.

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

Ok now you're being a dick,I feel too ill to be getting pissy which I can assure you I'm not. Mine was all in jest...

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

"in defence of the OP i actually do get what they are saying....

sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality...

and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking....

sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness.... "

I think you may have a point. I'm an outrageous forum flirt.... But I wouldn't say it's like pissing up a lamppost to mark a territory...I just enjoy flirting. However to an observer I can imagine that is exactly how it could come across .

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

So you are just trolling ?"

Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.

Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.

I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

So you are just trolling ?

Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.

Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.

I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.

No one was being condescending. You are just rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in defence of the OP i actually do get what they are saying....

sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality...

and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking....

sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness....

A wise few sentiments sir.

I thank thee."

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

A little while a go someone did name who they thought was in the 'clique', interesting responses to say the very least

I missed that

Damn it so did I

So did I. Ah well, I guess I'll never know who the cool kids are and can carry on blithely in my own oblivious way.

it was a very brief mention by a newer poster 1/2 way down a thread a few months back, he spent the next 1/2 apologising....

That'll be why we didn't see it, been on here less time than the OP.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Normal?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

So you are just trolling ?

Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.

Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.

I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.

To be fair OP you've deleted your original post so if someone asks what the original point was I hardly think that's them being condescending or being on a high horse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still curious as to who is in the "clique" nobody ever answers me.

I don't take much notice tho tbh I just respond to the thread/post of it interests me irrespective of who wrote it.

Mrs

Oh and get ignored a lot but it doesn't bother me I still post random crap regardless

Best way to be that casper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cliques are percived by people on the outside wanting to get in. Once inside they relise there wasn't a clique at all. Just a lot of folk who get on well with each other.

xxx

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

So you are just trolling ?

Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.

Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.

I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.

No one was being condescending. You are just rude.

Maybe at times. . In response to condesending remarks that had nothing to do with any points made.

Maybe you shud read posts instead of scanning them quickly like most do.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

So you are just trolling ?

Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.

Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.

I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.

To be fair OP you've deleted your original post so if someone asks what the original point was I hardly think that's them being condescending or being on a high horse

It had typos, thats all.

Theres no conspiracy about the deleted post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

So you are just trolling ?

Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.

Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.

I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.

It looks to me me like you searched for a victim then picked on them for your amusement.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You really don't need to private message me to tell me I was being pissy which I will repeat I wasn't and I would very much appreciate not being told how to be and re-act in the forums and yes I am NOW being pissy as you so pathetically put it!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

So you are just trolling ?

Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.

Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.

I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.

It looks to me me like you searched for a victim then picked on them for your amusement. "

Thankyou,this is exactly how it is!

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.

Lol sensible posts?

Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.

Embarrassing.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.

A clique fastrack?

Is that like dhl versus yodel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure they are all too busy Camping/starting a cult group,or going to clubs in the midlands to see this post ...although i have spotted at least one of the little fuckers....pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, quite glad the original post had been deleted. OP, seriously, you're being flipping rude.

I've been on the forum, what? Three weeks maybe? I haven't seen any evidence of high school style cliques. I've seen people who've known each other years having a laugh and a giggle and, where I understand, I've giggled along. Otherwise, I've just been getting involved.

We're like the new guys at work. We're not going to understand the in jokes and dynamics between the older members of staff. We weren't there. We haven't developed the relationships yet.

Does that mean you sit in the breakroom, rolling your eyes and complaining loudly and semi-ironically to the other new peeps about how 'lame' the older members of staff are with their jokes no one else understands, their anecdotes you don't get and their light flirting?

Naaaw...you go sit down with 'em, have a laugh and at some point you'll be there. You'll be part of the joke. Unless you're a bit of a tool

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.

Lol sensible posts?

Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.

Embarrassing."

Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore.

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.

Lol sensible posts?

Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.

Embarrassing.

Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore. "

Haha me too!

I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said.

. . Its only a forum with opinions.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"We understand what your saying' some times a person will make a post then the forum police jump in for his spelling etc' and bully him' a few on here are so far up each otheres arses on the forums its unreal' yet when looking at there profiles its lol i can see why you all post about cake hehe"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cliques are percived by people on the outside wanting to get in. Once inside they relise there wasn't a clique at all. Just a lot of folk who get on well with each other.

xxx"

Not necessarily get on well but have the same outlook on life and post on the same threads a lot. I have seen people make snipey,sarcastic comments to people they haven't met,yet treat the people they have met with nothing but sweetness and light;even though the two people said very similar things. I'd hate for someone to feel they couldn't put me in my place just because we have met,or are online "friends".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat people?

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Cliques are percived by people on the outside wanting to get in. Once inside they relise there wasn't a clique at all. Just a lot of folk who get on well with each other.

xxx

Exactly what i have seen.

A random says something and gets shot down. . Then someone from self obsessed 'cool' group agrees woth the random. . .suddenly all the sheep in 'cool' group stary also agreeing.

Its embarrassing tknwat h

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Bloody typos on phone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh my work here is done.

You are now pissed off cos ive called you out on not reading posts correctly and giving condesending replies.

. . .and now your getting pissy.

Boom!

A good sunday morning.

So you are just trolling ?

Trolling would be annoying someone that doesnt deserve it.

Winding someone up that gives purposefully condesending 'look at me im so popular and special' comments especially when they dont read the posts and reply to something that hasnt been said.

I think its fine to knock them off their high horse.

No one was being condescending. You are just rude.

Maybe at times. . In response to condesending remarks that had nothing to do with any points made.

Maybe you shud read posts instead of scanning them quickly like most do."
ahhh so it must be that I've read it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.

Lol sensible posts?

Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.

Embarrassing.

Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore.

Haha me too!

I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said.

. . Its only a forum with opinions.

Yet you're taking offence at what the 'cool' people say..... enough to start a whole thread about it? Well now I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That made me spit out my salad ....

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.

Lol sensible posts?

Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.

Embarrassing.

Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore.

Haha me too!

I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said.

. . Its only a forum with opinions.

Yet you're taking offence at what the 'cool' people say..... enough to start a whole thread about it? Well now I'm confused

Its a forum, im allowed to have a point of _iew on something and start a thread.

Doesnt mean we all get pissy about it. Im still in a Good mood.

Are you not?

Why do people assume because someone points out other peoples moodyness or rudeness . they they are also being moody?

Hahah

Funny as hell really.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.

Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.

Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol

I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP?

No i havent been attacked or anything. . Just twice in last week i was reading some posts and saw on 2 occasions this happen.

What annoyed me was that the clicky people thought they were so cool demeaning someone.

I just hate to see horrible people enjoying themselves at other peoples expense.

Some people just clash - it's human nature. Like office politics (yes I have an office job!!). I wouldn't intentionally be rude to someone but the written word can sometimes be misconstrued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair it is always the same people who respond to every forum I ever look at. Maybe you should all start a whatsapp group chat...laugh a minute then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only just discovered the Forums and I've been enjoying the chat and banter. I've only had a few sarcastic comments which I don't take personally; we all have the right to an opinion.

I think a simple solution if you are not enjoying the fun, and sometimes whacky topics.... Avoid it, don't post and don't comment

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"To be fair it is always the same people who respond to every forum I ever look at. Maybe you should all start a whatsapp group chat...laugh a minute then! "

that's too easy, and does not gain them the attention they so desperately want and need!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.

Lol sensible posts?

Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.

Embarrassing.

Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore.

Haha me too!

I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said.

. . Its only a forum with opinions.

Yet you're taking offence at what the 'cool' people say..... enough to start a whole thread about it? Well now I'm confused

Its a forum, im allowed to have a point of _iew on something and start a thread.

Doesnt mean we all get pissy about it. Im still in a Good mood.

Are you not?

Why do people assume because someone points out other peoples moodyness or rudeness . they they are also being moody?

Hahah

Funny as hell really.

No need to be pissy about it,why are you getting pissy. Is this all we can expect from you pissy remarks. Pissing hell some people are sooooo pissy around here,pisses me right off it does...Right I'm off to have a piss...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

OP, i hear you.i would just like to make a few points about the forum, that ive noticed since ive been around...

there are several types of threads but ill concentrate on the difference between a hosted thread and a posting thread..

a posting thread is where someone posts an original post, lets people run with it..like a kiss fuck avoid or a fab. occasionally that person may post in the thread again, but not necessary.

then there are the hosting threads, the morning thread, for example where the op, does there very best while present to answer each and every comment made by everyone.

having for many months been a co host of the nocturnal roll call thread ( i cannot do this any more for various reasons) the thread has the purpose of bringing a group of people together, being inclusive, welcoming new and old alike and getting better acquainted through whatever commonality the posters have.

to me the second type of post, the hosted, fosters community if done in a conscientious way. it has led to socials and friendships forming beyond the thread.

sometimes these threads can seem like a clique to the forum new people, really its only down to the op whether they are the first type of thread or the second though.

depends n the agenda, if its an inclusive one, everyone will be answered, included and made to feel welcome..if they are just after some banter with their buddies they can ignore anyone they wish, and so can anyone else...this is what gives the inside outside vibe.

i have withdrawn from hosting threads mainly because i dont have the time for hosting them properly ( to me that means answering and including everyone who posts) i miss the times when i could put in that much effort and see the community/ friendships and connections between people grow. its fun. but guaranteed if i was to start one, with this form of hosting, it would be popular because people like to communicate with others, now to someone who doesnt know me or my intention with the thread, that could look as if it was a clique..but its not..its a friendship group and new people get so well integrated quickly within it, that anyone from the outside, would say they are 'part of' it. it doesnt look as if there are any new people at all posting..although the regular people would know that there are..

the forums can be a mine field but thay are also full of dynamic personal histories all interwoven with a commonality that we all want to interrelate with each other..each individual has the power to decide how to do that..so heres to more happy inclusive times on the forums and may your experience continue to improve and bring you joy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha I've only been actively using the forums for a few weeks. Just post, have a giggle and don't worry about whether your post is getting replies or if others have gone into a tangent!

Red xx

Keep posting sensible/logical posts like that and you'll be fastracked to the clique, pronto! You'll be done for then, talked about no end.

Lol sensible posts?

Being condesending and saying 'dont worry if your post doesnt get replies'

Haha thats wasnt even mentioned as an issue. Merely inserted by user to make them sound good against the person they are replying to.

Embarrassing.

Waay too serious OP, this is an hilarious thread, belly laughs galore.

Haha me too!

I dont know why anyone would take offence or take seriously what ive said.

. . Its only a forum with opinions.

Yet you're taking offence at what the 'cool' people say..... enough to start a whole thread about it? Well now I'm confused

Its a forum, im allowed to have a point of _iew on something and start a thread.

Doesnt mean we all get pissy about it. Im still in a Good mood.

Are you not?

Why do people assume because someone points out other peoples moodyness or rudeness . they they are also being moody?

Hahah

Funny as hell really.

Yeah I'm in a great mood, thanks, laughing my titties off at this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP, i hear you.i would just like to make a few points about the forum, that ive noticed since ive been around...

there are several types of threads but ill concentrate on the difference between a hosted thread and a posting thread..

a posting thread is where someone posts an original post, lets people run with it..like a kiss fuck avoid or a fab. occasionally that person may post in the thread again, but not necessary.

then there are the hosting threads, the morning thread, for example where the op, does there very best while present to answer each and every comment made by everyone.

to me the second type of post, the hosted, fosters community if done in a conscientious way. it has led to socials and friendships forming beyond the thread.

sometimes these threads can seem like a clique to the forum new people, really its only down to the op whether they are the first type of thread or the second though.

I always love reading your posts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Yes what is it with cake ? I didn't get that. It was/is it a secret code?

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"(Usually) single blokes trying to circumvent the filters so hijack threads to flirt. Egos get massaged. Other females get jealous so join in, at times you feel like a voyeur and want to tell them to get a room!

All fun and games!

sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality...

and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking....

sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness.... "

Both good points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread OP and can see your point to be honest x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

There are those on the site that use it to fuck, those that use it to find people to talk to & fuck & those that just talk due to various reasons some out of their control.

Just decide where you want to play, If in the forums grow another layer of skin & get on with it..

We did & find it great fun & tbh a Much better way of getting what you want rather than endless messages to someone you just know will go nowhere..(Oh shit guys, did I just give away the forums secret? Ooops)..

Just have fun with them, who the FCK cares it's the bloody internet for gawds sake! Yes sometimes it appears a thread gets ambushed but instead of bleating about it peeps should put it back on the straight & narrow it's not hard to do.

If you see the forum as a group of mates sitting in a pub how often do you just get one subject running? Never! They'll be bods talking across each other, talking louder to the guy at the otherside of the table etc. I see the forums as no different tbh.

Just remind yourself how important it is by listening to the theme song from 3rd rock to the sun!!

With love from fellow newbies

S&H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cliques are percived by people on the outside wanting to get in. Once inside they relise there wasn't a clique at all. Just a lot of folk who get on well with each other.

xxx

I treat every post as an individual post because someone my simply be having a bad day doesn't mean they are always snipy although there are a few who seam to enjoy causing trouble. Xxx

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Yes what is it with cake ? I didn't get that. It was/is it a secret code? "
we used to mess about with cake on the nocturnal thread..no code more of a havent got anything else to say to find a commonality..what kind of cake do you like?..it was a common simple thing that anyone could go..i like this or i like that...although it gets on peoples nerves, cake is a very inclusive thing, even if some people went no i want bacon...

..just a bit of banter xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Nice condescending attitude

I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

There will always be indignation from people and cliques shouted out.

Usually from people who have created threads ranting about the behaviours of others. When their own is pointed out or they can use the site tools to improve their experience, that is deemed clique behaviour.

Or they go huffy and say they won't post again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

corking thread...well done OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, quite glad the original post had been deleted. OP, seriously, you're being flipping rude.

We're like the new guys at work. We're not going to understand the in jokes and dynamics between the older members of staff. We weren't there. We haven't developed the relationships yet.

Naaaw...you go sit down with 'em, have a laugh and at some point you'll be there. You'll be part of the joke. Unless you're a bit of a tool

Well that depends. To run with your workplace analogy, I've been the new guy a lot recently due to fixed term/temp jobs. So yeah, you do have to put the effort. But when people are outright obstructive/rude/condescending to newbies no matter what, it's hard work. I could go a lot further with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very interesting read this thread, I've learnt that negativity attracts negativity, we are all human after all, the forum is a public place, if you're gunna have a pop at anything then prepare for a bombardment of comments both agreeing and disagreeing with you, the worst thing you can do is take any comment personally, I've been attacked many times over the years in the forums, I've learnt to ignore it these days though as some people who choose to personally attack you get some sort of pleasure from it.

Don't react to them, easier said I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Nice condescending attitude

I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!

Totally agree. Oh no, I think we've just formed our own clique!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Nice condescending attitude

I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!

Wft I was joking. Fuck some people just don't get me,I've been here two year's for god sake and met one person from the forums. Well he has a life time ban from the forums actually which we're not allowed to talk about so we won't

. Fucking hell I'll shut my mouth...my I have such a potty mouth nowadays,can some big hunk 'cum' and discipline me please

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Ok, quite glad the original post had been deleted. OP, seriously, you're being flipping rude.

We're like the new guys at work. We're not going to understand the in jokes and dynamics between the older members of staff. We weren't there. We haven't developed the relationships yet.

Naaaw...you go sit down with 'em, have a laugh and at some point you'll be there. You'll be part of the joke. Unless you're a bit of a tool

Have you examples of people being outright obstructive/rude/condescending to newbies ?

I'm in the forums most days as I enjoy the banter and would be the first to stick up for a newbie if saw bullying and I haven't

Plenty of banter and the odd knob that posts to get a reaction but nothing purely aimed at newbies

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"There will always be indignation from people and cliques shouted out.

Or they go huffy and say they won't post again"

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

"in defence of the OP i actually do get what they are saying....

sometimes the "in jokes get too bad where a new person doesn't always get them... and it can look like a small group mentality...

and sometimes the flirting, whoever is the new flavor of the month is, get so bad it does make me cringe and i think "that should be taken to pm"... its almost territory marking....

sometimes i think it would just take a couple of seconds just to understand what you are writing, people don't need to change it drastically.... but it is just an awareness.... "

I'm still relatively new , I read a lot and post a bit , but like Fabio I can see what the OP is saying not sure it's a clique but there are a few who will answer a post with what I consider a downright rude comment that they would probably never say in real life then have that backed up a few posts later by a friend and will giggle about it together a bit further down , which can be a bit off putting for a new poster to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We must be in the clique.. Every morning when we get up out of bed our knee's click and backs click. hips click fingers click just about everything makes a clicky noise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Yes what is it with cake ? I didn't get that. It was/is it a secret code? "

I don't know, you'll have to ask one of the clique....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah you shouldn't have removed it or maybe re write it in a slightly different way & re post it.

I've said on numerous occasions I think the forums can be clicky & the bloody cake reference thing that was banded around a while ago used to make me want to....aaarrggggh!!!

I think it comes & go, at the moment with regular posters away it feels different & it's nice to see some new people that otherwise would possibly go un noticed

Its not essentially the clickyness. . Thats bound to happen.

Its the being rude to people and having their crony mate team up on someone. . Both of them are losers with loser jobs. No doubt why they attempt to look 'tough' on a forum.

Feel sorry for them really. . .this is all they have lol

I don't agree with the pack of baying wolves mentality that's wrong but so is using a forum thread to ger back at someone, is that what this is about OP?

No i havent been attacked or anything. . Just twice in last week i was reading some posts and saw on 2 occasions this happen.

What annoyed me was that the clicky people thought they were so cool demeaning someone.

I just hate to see horrible people enjoying themselves at other peoples expense.

I totally agree with you on all counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I do hope so! Will would be ecstatic!!!

Sorry, what was this thread about?? Lol

Sara

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Nice condescending attitude

I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!

. Fucking hell I'll shut my mouth...my I have such a potty mouth nowadays,can some big hunk 'cum' and discipline me please

You rang

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"corking thread...well done OP

Its been a riverting read and too many comments to even think about replying to them all.

I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.

Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.

Sad to see really.

Next time ill post a more uplifting subject. .

Like . .

'who wants to slap me with a wet fish?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never do a such thing !

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Nice condescending attitude

I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!

. Fucking hell I'll shut my mouth...my I have such a potty mouth nowadays,can some big hunk 'cum' and discipline me please

You rang

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love know if we're considered in the clique, I post fairly regularly but it's usually nothing of any seriousness.

Every forum has cliques and I think anyone who thinks they don't is in denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im going have to a good read back of this thread when ive got a spare few minutes...great post OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While we are having a general whinge, can I just deal with something that grates for me:

An exclusive group is a 'clique', the adjective of which is 'cliquey' or 'cliquy'.

Clicky is the sound high heels make on a hard floor.

Sorry we all have our pet peeves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"While we are having a general whinge, can I just deal with something that grates for me:

An exclusive group is a 'clique', the adjective of which is 'cliquey' or 'cliquy'.

Clicky is the sound high heels make on a hard floor.

Sorry we all have our pet peeves."

High5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice penis op.

I wonder if I'm considered to be one of the clique, I'm not the most liked person on here and argue a lot so I doubt it.

Going back to school I was like a superhero, I was hard so no one ever gave me shit, I was funny so I made people laugh and if someone was getting bullied or made fun of I was the one to to sort it out. So I was above bullies and was in the cool crowd and was known throughout other schools as the one who will have a scrap with you after a netball game or hockey game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"While we are having a general whinge, can I just deal with something that grates for me:

An exclusive group is a 'clique', the adjective of which is 'cliquey' or 'cliquy'.

Clicky is the sound high heels make on a hard floor.

Sorry we all have our pet peeves."

Are you in the clique?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair it is always the same people who respond to every forum I ever look at. Maybe you should all start a whatsapp group chat...laugh a minute then! "

But then the outsiders wouldn't see it and be jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"corking thread...well done OP

Its been a riverting read and too many comments to even think about replying to them all.

I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.

Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.

Sad to see really.

Next time ill post a more uplifting subject. .

Like . .

'who wants to slap me with a wet fish?'

Form an orderly queue.....

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.

Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.

Sad to see really.

If that's true then people need to grow a pair...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"corking thread...well done OP

Its been a riverting read and too many comments to even think about replying to them all.

I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.

Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.

Sad to see really.

Next time ill post a more uplifting subject. .

Like . .

'who wants to slap me with a wet fish?'

yes I read all of it and found some posts more interesting than others...but I have my own reasons for that..

very insightful indeed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"While we are having a general whinge, can I just deal with something that grates for me:

An exclusive group is a 'clique', the adjective of which is 'cliquey' or 'cliquy'.

Clicky is the sound high heels make on a hard floor.

Sorry we all have our pet peeves."

You need to sign off with High Lord of the spelling clique

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Anyone noticed how they do that?

Private jokes thrown around, ignore what other people say and just flood thread with their private conversations lol

Like the group that thinks their cool in the playground at school that all end up working at tescos on the night shift

Hahah (no doubt sarky comments will ensue)

If any normal forum users want to get something off their chest about the forums on here please go ahead !

Apart from that, im loving fab and meeting loads of awesome people.

#FabRulez

You're brave

Its not brave to state the truth.

You do realise when you've been on for 9 years rather than 9 weeks you will be part of the in jokes,just be patient you'll get there

Nice condescending attitude

I thought the exact same, so in other words tough shit suck it up your not valid unless you've been here as long as US guys!!! Wtf!!

. Fucking hell I'll shut my mouth...my I have such a potty mouth nowadays,can some big hunk 'cum' and discipline me please

You rang

How would you discipline me? I don't like to much pain

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Nice penis op.

I wonder if I'm considered to be one of the clique, I'm not the most liked person on here and argue a lot so I doubt it.

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.

Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.

Sad to see really.

If that's true then people need to grow a pair..."

Like you blocking me? Haha is that growing a pair?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.

Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.

Sad to see really.

If that's true then people need to grow a pair..."

I'll debate with anyone,even if I would love to fuck them (doubtful though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know, we should a have clique amnesty where everyone names one person/s they think are in it.....

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I know, we should a have clique amnesty where everyone names one person/s they think are in it.....

God no, can you imagine the butthurt where people are/aren't mentioned?!

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By *xploringThisWorld OP Man
over a year ago

collier row

"Nice penis op.

Coming from someone with a great set of norks. . I thank you

*takes bow*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know, we should a have clique amnesty where everyone names one person/s they think are in it.....

God no, can you imagine the butthurt where people are/aren't mentioned?!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.

Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.

Sad to see really.

If that's true then people need to grow a pair...

Like you blocking me? Haha is that growing a pair?"

No it's simply me blocking you. There's nothing in my profile that you would be remotely interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know, we should a have clique amnesty where everyone names one person/s they think are in it.....

God no, can you imagine the butthurt where people are/aren't mentioned?!

I'm imagining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.

Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.

Sad to see really.

If that's true then people need to grow a pair...

Like you blocking me? Haha is that growing a pair?"

Maybe she didn't want to correspond with someone who was sending her abusing messages.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I understand most people on here are cool as this thread and the god knows amount of people pming me saying they agree.

Why they havent posted a reply here probably proves the point that they dont want to argue with 'regulars'.

Sad to see really.

If that's true then people need to grow a pair...

I'll debate with anyone,even if I would love to fuck them (doubtful though)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair it is always the same people who respond to every forum I ever look at. Maybe you should all start a whatsapp group chat...laugh a minute then! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first started posting in here several years ago it was pretty grim with a few strong personalitites dominating and so many threads derailed. ThE forum is so much better these days

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